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i have recently lost my bestfriend and all of my other friends..
i really can't take it anymore, school is torture, getting up in the morning is hell, and just doing things is just miserable..
any advice on what to do?? (link)
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In my opinion you need to try to talk with you best friend and friends, see what went on that put a hold on your relationship with them and try to fix it. Also, to begin talking to other people in your school, see witch people would be good to have as new friends. This way if it does not work out with your friends, then you will have other people to hang with and socialize with, and if it does work out then you have your friends, plus new people to talk to as well. And when you approach your friends, you may want to put your self in the position of the blame and not your friends. This way you are not putting them on the defense, but showing them that you are willing to take the blame for the issues that arose in the relationship. I hope this was beneficial to you. And Good luck.
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alright so, ive been dating this guy for 2 1/2 months, and i dont love him is that normal? like.. if i dont love him by now should i brake up with him.. what would other people do? everyone around me is saying to brake up with him.. i do like him a lot i just dont love him..
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Relationships can be very confusing, sometimes you think you love someone, and you don't, and sometimes you don't think you love someone until they are gone and then you realize that you did love them. In your case your feelings are the most important part of your decision on braking up with him or not. You need to find out for sure what your feelings are before you want to jepordize your relationship with him. So you should stay with him, because sometimes you don't love someone right off the bat, sometimes it taks a while. If you like him a lot and care about him, then you may love him, you just don't know it yet. If you spend practically every waking moment either with him or communicating with him, you may be experiencing the doubtful feelings because there has been a decrease in conversation since there is hardly anything to talk about. If this is the case, try to spend a day without him, just talk on the phone once or twice, and give it a rest for a while. Once you have been away, you might be able to figure out your feelings for him. But whatever you do, you should not brake up with him if you are not for sure about your feelings because once you brake up with him, you may not be able to get him back, andyou don't want to loose him if it turns out that you do actually love him. I hope I am making sense. Basically, figure out your feelings, and if you really like him, or love him, stay. But if things turn out that you don't like him that much or in that way and you don't love him, then you should probably let him know your true feelings.
I hope this was helpful to you. and good luck in figuring things out.
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Well I like a boy and I think he likes me to but whenever his friends r around he acts like I am just some girl and when he told some of his friends that he liked me they picked on him and me and ai felt really bad for him but they stopped what do I do to find out if he likes me as much as I like him. (link)
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You might try to get him alone away from his friends and just talk him. It does not have to be about the feeling you have for him, just get to know. Ask him if he wants to go see a movie or something that will get you two alone. AFter you guys spend sometime together you will be able to see how much you really like him, and he will be able to see how much he likes you. This will get the ball rolling if you are not comfortable talking to him directly about feelings. However if you are, just get him alone and talk about it, but keep in mind guys get frightful when it comes to talking to girls they like. You can also ask him directly, if he does and he will answer, but make sure his friends are not around. They may may make him say something that is totally different then what he truly wants to say esp. if they were making fun of him. But odds are if he told them he liked you, he most likely still does, but does not want to show it in front of his friends. I hope this helps, if not feel free to come back and I will try a different method.
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Well me and my boyfreind arent talking at them moment well lets start with the basics. Im 14 this is like my 30th boyfreind I swear it just never works out me and him have been dating for 1 year. He wants to go all the way and im not ready for the responslablty of a babie if I get pregant and im jsut not ready so what should I do he said he wanted to dump me but I love him he is the only guy I ever told I loved i mean plenty of guys had said I love you but i didnt say it back.
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Well, relationships can be tricky. However, if you are not ready for that part of a relationship, then he should be willing to wait for you. After all, you do have an entire life ahead of you, and you should not risk the chance of getting pregnant. He is not the one who has to live with a baby growing in his stomach for nine months. Also what happens if you do get pregnant, is he going to stay around, and are for sure that he is not just saying that so he can get you where he wants you. In my opinion, if he truly loves you like he says he does, then he will wait for you as long as it takes. If he is not willing to wait, then let him dump you. Yeah it is going to hurt, but you will be able to get up and move on. You have your whole life ahead of you to have kids, and actually have a guy that will definitely stay around, not one that may leave you or he may not. You just never know with guys that age. My advice to you is to wait until you are ready, and if he does not want to wait, don't force yourself, just take what he has to say, and move on with your life. He is not worth it if he won't wait for you anyways, and you could do so much better than him.
Stand up for yourself, don't let him guilt trip you into having sex with him. You want your first time to be wonderful and memorable not I am doing this because he will dump me if I don't. Plus there is always that chance that he was going to dump you after you had sex with him. So wait girl, don't let him influence you into doing that.
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please help me. my friend she left her mom's house and her mom is abusive and now shes living with her dad permanetly because her parents recently divorced but now that she is living with her dad should either she or i tell her dad? she has a little brother too and he still lives with his mom sometimes but she doesnt hit him. just my friend (shes older). my mom said that the dad must know and they divorced so he probably knows about her behavior but i dont know if he does really. my friend said she things he doesnt know how serious it is so should we tell him? cause i dont want to tell him if he already knows and it be awkward but i know making sure he knows is more important and i think to myself if he knew she was abusive why would he let her stay with her mom? right?? thank you so much this is so important-thank you :) (link)
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Well the divorce is between her father and her mother. This implies that he does not know that she was abusive toward her because she simply could be taking the divorce out on her. He definitely needs to know esp. with another sibbling in the house with her. I know your friend knows how it feels to be abused by her mother, and that she does not want her little brother to be abused. Also by telling her father, he will be able to get the authorities involved and get her mother some help. The cause of the abusive behavior may be fixable if she is given the help she needs, but you nor the rest of her family can help her because she is too dangerous so don't try to get involved. And believe me telling him about the abusive behavior will help and be a good thing. I have also experienced an abusive mother, and my father did not know until I was choked by her, it was not until that day that I got the message I should have told him when my mother began to abuse me that way I would not have to live a life of fear. So your friend and you should sit her father down and let him know what is going on. This way he can protect his family from the evils of his x-wife.
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sometimes im boring wtih my friends because i cant think of anything to talk about?
like if you think about it, what is there really to talk about.
please help me be less boring and more talkative! (link)
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Making yourself interesting is hard esp. when you don't have anything to talk about. I know because I have experienced that. I started to bring up fun experiences from the past, and that would get someone else talking and I would join in the conversation. The simplest thing to do would be just to start talking about random things. They may have absolutely no relation to anything, but at least it gets the group talking.
Hope this helps.
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