Hi Im Shandy ! Im 16 years old and my Birthday is December 1st ! I am a christian and i love the Lord with all my heart ! My parents are divorced and i have one lil brother his name is Brandon and he is 5 years old. I have a bf who is the greatest his name is Drew Plemmons and im deeply in love with him we have been dating for almost 3 months now ! If u wanna know anything else just ask away ! I hope i will be able to give all of u great advice ! Thanks for looking at my column! :)
E-mail: Shandiebaby11@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Mount Pleasant, NC
Occupation: Student Im a senior in high school and im homeschooled
Age: 16
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I met a guy almost 5 years ago who was everything I could have ever wanted. He was perfect in every way for me...then we lost touch. We were too shy to keep in touch, but for awhile after we left each other...I can't stop thinking about how perfect it was. What do I do now? (link)
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You need to get ahold of him ! Find out where heis and what he is doing ! Don't let love pass u by hun GO GET HIM ! First Loves are really never over ! good luck !
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ok my friend i will call her "D" well she thiks that i am copying her, just because she died her hair and so did i aftre her, and that she painted her nails black and so did i... well its not that i am copying her its just that its in style. it is our first year of jr. high so we can die ou rhair anycolor and so every1 has therer hair a weird color and i died min epink and so she thinks i am copyign her
and i don't like who she likes ,
please give me help on how to talk to her nad work this out; i will rate u a 5!!!!PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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So what if she thinks u are copying her..Just tell her say listen if i am copying u then i guess the whle skool is too because everyone is dressing like this ! The gurl is prolly just jealous because ur prettier than her and u look better with the pink hair and black nails than she does ! Don't let nitty picky gurls like that get to u hun ! Liv Life up !! And ask anytime!! Peace and God Bless !
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I am and have been sexually attracted to my bestfreind.We grew up together and have lived together acouple times. He moved out of town so I didn't have to face it. NOw he's back and I wont him more and more everyday. He doesn't know that I like him like that. I have a boyfriend and he has a couple girls, but i am feeling him. What am I to do? His mom and my mom been bestfriends since grade school and it will shock the whole family. Should I tell him? And will it lead to what I wont? (link)
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You should def tell him...and soon ! True love last forever u will never know what will happen until u tell him ~! Good luck ! ask me anytime !
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I'm planning a Halloween party... what should I do? We want to be able to have it be kind of like a make-out/Halloween Party. Help?
Tips n' such. Thanks! (I rate high) (link)
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Halloween parties are kool ! I would suggest.. having a hay ride...umm flash light tag (out side)...Hide and go seek in the dark..7 minutes in heaven ....spin the bottle..i dunno anything ! Im sure it will be a blast !
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I am a 21 yr old male. I dated this awesome girl for 10 months and then we broke up because we had prayed about things and she met another guy, but I still love her and she still loves me...just not in the same way that she used to love me (like the way I still love her) But I also do love her like a sister. anyway...the thing I am struggling with now is that I have to decide whether I should go to school like I have been planning (to go to Bible school) or to study interior design with her. I really have had my mind set on Bible school but she mentioned doing that design thing with her the other day and that would be really fun for both of us...and it's possible we could get back together. Do I move on with my life or try to hold on to the love? I've already put our relationship in the past as much as I could but sometimes I feel like it is coming back. I've been praying about all these things a lot but is there anything else I can do? ;P (link)
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Bandobeek ! Well i am never going to say that u and this gurl won't get back together there are alwayz a chance! But u should do what u want ! If u want bible school do that if u want interior design do that ! But don't choose because of the gurl choose for u ! :) Altho im sure the gurl would love u to study with her..actually im not sure im positive ! Hope i helped u ! God bless and i love u !
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I like someone older and n one aproves that I like him should I still like Him? (link)
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~ Age is just a number !~ All that matters is how both of u feel ~! I alwayz date older guys ! My bf now is 7 1/2 years older than me !
feel free to ask any questions anytime ! Good luck ! ;)
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oK.... so this isnt the hottest thing in the world...but my hair smells sometimes even though I wash it everyday. ne shampoos or ne thing that would help me out? thanx (link)
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Garnier Fruitese ! or Herbal Essence
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i love my bf but i dont know what to do. last year i really liked this guy, we had a lot of fun but never went out. this year we are in no classes together though. i saw him at lunch the first day of school. our eyes met and i felt really hurt. i feel such a deep connection with him, but i feel like i just like my bf as a crush. i dont want to break my bf's heart, he is wonderful. im so upset, i dont know what to do now. (link)
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Tell your bf how u feel and tell the other guy ! True love waits so if u find out the other dude isn't the one and ur bf really loves u then he will be there if not maybe u and the other guy are meant to be ! Hope i helped ! ;)
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hey this is the girl with the friend thats pregnant..u got it all wrong..we are all praying and talking to her and encouraging her to do the right thing but we cant tell her we support her in her choices shes making with her non christian boyfriend, we know a sin is a sin but we cant support what she is doing..we have to get her back on track and telling her what shes doing is ok, is not good....anyway, thanks 4 ur advice! (link)
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Oh Okay yes i totally agree that you can't agree with how she is living but u can't change the choices she makes either i suggest praying for her. God will deal with her heart and about the way she is living ! God Bless !
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I walk into the youth room @ church thinking it was just any normal youth group wendsday. I was a little late so I had missed a couple minutes of what my youth group was talking about, my pastor was there and I knew something was wrong. I whispered to my youth leader what we were talking about and she said "Christina(my friend) and Jeff (her bf)" My pastor was just talking and I heard "pregnant" and I got scared. I figured out that christina got pregnant but I didnt wanna believe it until someone actually said "Christina is pregnant" So I heard it, my youth pastor said it and I just started crying!! i love her cuz shes awesome and is in my youth group n stuff..i knew her bf was gonnabe a bad infulenece on her cuz he wasint christian and just got saved to be like "im saved christina date me" so anyway to make the long story short, they did eachother and now shes pregnant..and only 18..she moved out of her parents house and isint following God..i wanna tell her i love her (if i ever see her) but i think what shes doing is wrong..should i say it? i mean i dont want her mad at me..but it is wrong to leave your whole family and church family behind and go with a non-christian uve only known for 8 months! help!!! sorry its soo long.. (link)
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Yes i can pray for her . And i think ur youth pastor is wrong.. I mean u should ask yourself What would Jesus Do ? Jesus would not just ignore ur friend ! He would tell her that he was praying for her and if she needed anything to let him know ! Jesus knows whats best and your friend did commit a sin and mess up but who hasn't ! In Jesus's eyes sin is sin..her getting pregnant is just like us telling a lie ! Jesus would pray for ur friend so u should and talk to her don't be afraid to tell her how u feel ! And exspecially tell her to not get an abortion and tell her top stay with God and is she is going to keep the child to raise it in a good christian home ! I hope i helped u ! God Bless ! And if u need anything else don't hesitate to ask me !
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Do women find a guy with a hairy chest attractive? I'm 24, hairy, but not out of control hairy. I'm not overtly self-conscious, but I get the feeling that body hair is considered unattractive. ???
Don't hold back. I want real answers. Hopefully, from real women. Thanks. (link)
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I think Hairy Chest are soooooo Sexy ! Go U ! hope i helped !
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OK this relates to the other questions ive asked. I'm really shy around girls and its hard for me to not studder when i talk to a girl. I get all sweaty and clammy when i have to talk to a girl i like. My mind goes blank and i cant think what to say. Got any pointers on how to fix this? (link)
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Be calm ! Girls love attention so u have to get outta not talking to them ! Just be urself relax they will think ur cute even if u are shy ! Gurls love to talk so belive me all u have to say is hey whats up ? and she will prolly talk ur head off for hours ! unless u get a shy gurl ! Which i wouldn't recomend ! Hope i helped !
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hey..i wanted to know if anyone new any cool online games to play..anything at all..thanx byebye (link)
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Clue at www.games.com !
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does any1 noe what is the best prodect to get rid of acene.thanks i will rite high. (link)
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Pro active .... Alot of celebrities use it like..Jessica Simpson and Britney Spears ! Its great and it is not exspensive and it makes ur face, back and arms soo smooth ! Hope i helped !
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ok...well...i set two of mi best friends.so now they are dating.but after ive set them up its like i like him now.but i set him up with mi best friend.so now here i am waiting for this guy whos dating mi best friend who i like who says he likes me back who might break up with my other best friend now! what should i do??? (link)
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I think u should get him to talk to ur best friend and tell her that he likes u and if its okay with her that u two would like to hook up. Say that ur not trying to hurt her feelings that he thinks hes just not her type and he should try to date u for awhile and get to know u ! Hopefully all of u can stay best friends..But if its going to hurt ur best friend then i wouldn't date the guy ! Ur friends will be there when boy friends aren't there ! I hope i helped u ! Good Luck !
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i used 2 live in north carolina nd i had a great boi friend. then i moved nd we broke up because he was cheating on me.. well now i'm moving bac nd i still love him nd he loves me nd he said he never cheated on me, but wen we 1st went out he was cheating on dis otha girl w/ me. sp should i go bac out w/ him or not? plz help me
-confused (link)
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First of all u rock becuz i live in NC TOO ! and secondly u should sit down and talk to him start out as friends and see what happens ! Hope i helped !
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I'm a 15 year old girl and I think I might be an alcoholic. My family has no idea about this because I always sneak whatever I can get and my friends sometimes supply me with it. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm always anxious for anything alcoholic and it's driving my insane. I don't want to go to rehab or make my parents think I need serious help! What should I do? (link)
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Stop Drinking ! Drinking causes bad things to happen ! I mean thats why its illegal until ur 21 ya know ? Plus u have no future with alcohol !
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Okay,my friends bf told my friend that he made a "uh oh".And he went to his ex-girlfriends house last night and they had sex and like he said that he made her pregnant.And my friend is really pissed cuz he cheated on her and she is also not really believeign that he made her preg. Cuz like how long does it take to know if you got someone pregnant?Well thx for the advice.BYE (link)
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You won't know if ur pregnant until u have skipped ur period and get a test or go to the doctor and find out ! Goodluck to u and ur friend ! feel free to ask me for advice anytime !
www.advicenator.com/shandiebaby11
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im in 8th grade and ive never had a boyfriend or been kissed. im really pretty (every1 sez so atleast) and idk whats wrong with me! im always smiling and happy and im really funny and goofy..whats wrong with this picture? (link)
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If you haven't been kissed or dating anyone that doesn't mean anythings wrong with u ! It just means u haven't met the right guy yet ! So people never get a boy friend until college ! Just get out there this year at skool and meet some guys im sure u will find the right one who will think u are beautiful ! Hope i helped ! Feel free to ask me for advice anytime ! www.advicenator.com/shandiebaby11
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I've liked the same guy for 2 years. We are friends and all, but I know he'll never like me...But now I have two questions. My best friend EVER likes him now, and she always gets the guys she wants. I'm so mad!! What should I do about her? Also, how do I get over him and move on to another guy that might actually like me? I really need help so I'll have a good school year without losing a friend or being obsessed with a guy that'll never like me!!? (link)
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First of all does your best friend know you like the guy ? If so she should not even try to date him if she is a good friend ! I think u should tell her how u feel ! And about the guy ! Gurl there are soo many guys out there who would like u and ur personality better than anyone ! U just have to let him come to u !:) Good luck ! Hope i helped ! Feel free to ask me for advice anytime www.advicenator.com/shandiebaby11 !
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