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my friend was doing fingering to her girl friend and he touch his organism and had very less amount of sperm in his finger not even a drop..nd than same finger he inserted into the vagina so will it cause pregnancy...but not inserted to depth (link)
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Sperm entering the vagina in general can cause pregnancy. Though, with the circumstances you are describing, *If I'm understanding you correctly* there may be a slim chance of conception. Remember, if you, or your friend, do not wish to have a child at the time, there are alternatives, such as using condoms, spermicide gels/vaginal suppositories, birth control pills for your female partners, and a possibly more pricey alternative, the morning after pill. With the morning after pill though,*also known as Plan B in some areas* MUST be taken within 72 hours after said sexual encounter. Also, if it's too late, there are also other alternatives, such as abortion *depending on whether you are pro choice or whatever* as well as adoption. Hope everything works out for the best for your friend.
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My parents will never leave me alone or let me do anything.I never get any privacy , for example when I go in my room my mom will just barge in without knocking and start messing with my stuff. When I go to school my dad will just go in my room and read my diary and just mess with my stuff.They also don't let me date boy even though I am very responsible and I listen to everything they say.I try talking to them but they don't listen.What do I do ? (link)
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I'm not exactly sure what you can do at this point dear. You never stated how old you were, and are you an only child? I'm assuming you are female as well. The best you can do is continue trying to talk to them, and hope that they listen. As for your diary, I would suggest hiding it somewhere where they will not find it at all. Sometime watch Death Note, the animated series, and watch how the main character *Light* hides his death note. This may be a way you can hide more private items that you do not wish for them to find such as your diary. As for dating, perhaps your parents have a good reason that they do not wish for you to date. As I stated previously, just keep trying to talk to them, and hope they listen.
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Okay,I'm a 13 year old girl and I thinks about sex..a lot. I mean I know it's normal for a teenager to think about sex but I mean it's really starting to bug me. I don't know why this happens but it does and has for a few years,like since I was 8. 8! It's crazy. And don't say have Sex because I've talked to my boyfriend about this(if you've read another question of mine he's almost 16) and we agreed not to till I'm 17 or 18. So yeah... (link)
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You are entirely correct. It is natural for young ones to be curious about intercourse. It's nothing to really be alarmed about, especially since you are still currently going through puberty and your hormones are all over the place. Since it's starting to bug you, the best advice I can give you *No I'm not going to tell you to just do it, I'm quite happy that your boyfriend is telling you he wants to wait. Don't throw your virginity away so easily* BUT, the best advice I can give you, try doing things that take your mind off of it. Reading, video games, painting.. Sports. Take up some kind of hobby and it may help you.
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Okay so I'm 13 and I cut му stomach last night(pls don't lecture ме about it I am seeing someone) I've cut му arms and му stomach before but now its really sore like more sore than normal and its really red and itchy and just feels worse please tell ме how to know if its infected like how I will know? No need to tell ме how to treat it just tell ме if it sounds infected and symptoms of infection or whatever* thanks!! (link)
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Telling it's infected - Look for redness or red streaks around the injury, swelling or a discharge of thick yellow, green or grey/white pus from the wound or cut.
Proper care if infection is present - Wash the wound daily with plain running water. Don't use hydrogen peroxide, iodine or another antiseptic without consulting a doctor. Be sure to keep an eye on it. If it does not get better within 3-5 days, I would suggest seeing your physician.
I know you said not to tell you how to clean it, but this way, you can avoid any problems with parents or w/e due to your cutting habits. I don't judge those who do what they feel they must to relieve stress, but at least this way, you care for it yourself without getting anyone else involved and them causing you any more stress. To hopefully prevent you from doing it more. Trust me, you'll regret the scars when you're older :) Good luck hun.
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When you are re-selling tickets and checking laws to see if it is legal to resell them for more than face value in a certain state... do those laws still apply through online sites such as Stub-hub?
Like if I'm in Michigan and buy tickets for a concert in California and can no longer go... do California ticket reselling laws apply to me in Michigan?
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http://seatgeek.com/blog/ticket-industry/ticket-resale-laws heres a site about ticket scalping laws by state. as for state to state i haven't a clue. as for reselling for more than what you purchased for, im pretty sure thats illegal no matter what state youre in. just read the site and educate yourself properly to avoid any prosecution
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This is awakward but yeah uh I'm 13 and when I need the bathroom then like its there but it can't come out like its really sore when I try push it to come out and stuff pls help (link)
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Try asking your parents for some stool softeners, this way it helps make passing easier, without the cramping *which most if not all laxatives do*. To also prevent future back ups, try adding more foods with fiber to your diet. Heres a site with a small list http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/12/27/fiber-foods_n_1167897.html until you are able to get either more fiber and/or stool softeners try taking a warm bath and walking around to hopefully help get things moving
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I'm used to shaving down there. I'm a boy and I do this so I can please my boyfriend. Thing is that I keep getting this awful rash a couple of days right after I do so. It burns and aches a lot!! What can I use to prevent this from keep happening?? Thanks in advance :) (link)
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Everyone's skin is different, especially when it comes to shaving. I do understand what you are talking about though, and I have found that using baby oil while shaving as well as after shaving, helps prevent rashing, itching, and the like. Also, try shaving every other day, or even every day to hopefully help prevent this and get your skin use to shaving. It's a hassle yes, but from my experience, it really helps. If you do decide to try shaving down there with baby oil, be sure it has aloe, as I've noticed that the aloe helps, as well as the oil reduces razor friction. Hope this helps
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I'm 16 and I want a job over the summer plz tell me everything u can on how I should go about doing? Who hires at sixteen? What's a good place for sixteen year olds to work? Who should I ask for an application when I go into different stores? (link)
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Department stores and fast food restaurants I know typically hire those under 16. As for how to go about it, put in applications *some require you to go online, while others require you to go to the store directly for a paper application* After you've put in your applications, remember to be persistent. Call them and see if they have recieved/reviewed your application, and if they are currently hiring. Your best bet is to try with fast food restaurants, as they have a high turn over rate *many people quit and what not*. As for if you have to fill out a paper application, at a dept. store *such as wal-mart, toys r us, etc...* go to the customer service desk and ask the person manning that station. But as I said, a majority of places require you to fill out applications online. Hope this was informative enough to give you a start, and Good Luck! :D
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basically, my heater hasn't been working, so I went in the afternoon to my landlords office to see if I could have it fixed. he wasn't there and his wife said he would drop by sometime in the evening.
later on at about 9 o clock at night, I'm laying in bed. I've been sick so I was asleep, and I sleep nude btw. Anyways I heard a knocking on the door, but the door is locked, so I decided to ignore it and keep sleeping. Next thing I know he is opening the door and letting himself in.
I was just wondering if this is allowed. I'm only 21 so I don't really know, but that seems very wrong to me. I was molested and abused my whole life growing up and because of this I have very specific boundaries. I really need to feel like I have my own safe space, all the time. I feel totally invaded and violated that he could just let himself in at night when its dark because I didn't come to the door. I read online that a landlord can let themselves in without notice if it is an 'emergency'. does my heater being down constitute an emergency? or does me asking him to fix it give him the right to come in whenever? I am genuinely upset with this and I'm honestly going to move if it turns out he has the legal right to do that. I don't care if it is legally permissible, within my own boundaries that doesn't feel okay and I'm seriously really upset by it.
oh yea, I live in Canada, if that helps. (link)
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I would suggest reading your lease and assessing the situation. I'm from the states, and landlords are not allowed to come in unless an appointment was set up for him/her to do so. I would also suggest speaking to your landlord about this, after reading your lease. Also, as for your heater being down constituting as being an emergency, I highly doubt it, unless you're elderly or with small children... But even then, I don't feel it constitutes as an emergency. I'm not sure how things are in Canada, I'm merely stating my experiences as an American ;/ Read your lease around the intrusion of privacy area I believe it would be under... and if it shows that they are not to enter without proper permission, speak with your landlord, and explain the risks and breach of contract with him/them. Also remember to be firm as you are paying for comfort, safety, and privacy.
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For the past couple days, every time I try to watch a video on websites like animeseason.com, it skips or the frames freeze while the audio continues and it won't go back to normal until I wiggle the mouse, and as soon as I let go of the mouse, it starts screwing up again.
Netflix works just fine, but it's all the websites I use to watch my anime that are screwing up. Also, it only happens when I full screen it. It's really irritating and I have no idea why this is happening. Would anyone happen to know why and how I could fix this?
Someone suggested it might be my Internet provider, which is Frontier, but I'm not sure. (link)
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Try rebooting your computer, assuming if you always have it on, this may help. If not, try cleaning your cache, or even cleaning your computer in general *running a virus scanner, a defragmentation program, and/or RegTweaker, *regtweaker cleans out unwanted files, and repairs possible broken files** Whenever I notice my videos online start to glitch out in anyway, I typically do a regtweak, and repair/clean off whatever and reboot, then I have no problem with videos. Perhaps it'll work with you as well.
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her mother is going to prison for one year for forgery related charges. I am wondering if I should take me 14 year old daughter to visit her but I am not sure if I want her to be in that kind of environment
it has nothing really to do with the mother. She made some stupid mistakes but it was out of character so I think she just got herself into a bad situation and make some poor decisions, She also never did anything bad at all before this. Also, her mother is showing regret and no defense at what she did and has admitted to being a bad influence to her daughter so that is why I am still willing to stick by her. And I am not defending her or saying she should not serve her punishment or anything either, it is really only the type of environment. I hear also it is a hassle to get in and you don't even get much time to speak. Also, if I take her to visit she might think "mom went to jail, she has no right to tell me what to do anymore" .Which would just be a stressful thing. I even heard her express a kind of joy at her mother being locked up and having to take orders from other people. While that is understandable since she did commit a crime, since her mother has shown remorse for what she did and clearly still cares for her daughter, I think eventually it needs to be put behind us. If I do decide to take her what should I say to her beforehand?
my wife is saying that if she wants to visit let her, but if she doesn't it is fine (link)
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In my opinion, it is not a problem, especially since the one incarcerated is the child's mother, but at the same time I agree with your wife, let your child also decide, after letting her see her mother. This way she can decide whether she is comfortable in that environment or not. She is 14, so I'm sure she'll be able to decide on her own if she can handle seeing her mother in that type of setting. If not, there is always writing letters, and the occasional phone calls.
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Should parents give children allowance? (link)
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I'm a parent, and I believe, that to an extent, children may deserve an allowance. I don't mean by just give them money when they want it, but they have to work for it. Such as keeping their room clean, perhaps doing a few other chores around the home. Of course things they are capable of doing. I grew up doing such things, and I am having my daughter work for money. Sure, during holidays, I'll give her whatever, and so will family, but during any other time, she will do her chores to earn her money, and is allowed to spend it on whatever she wishes, except junk food ;p Anyway, if you are a parent, yes, I believe a kid could receive an allowance, so long as they have earned it. If you are a kid, work for your allowance, speak with your parents about this, and come to an agreement.
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I'm 18, I've never had sex, but I finger myself often. I haven't had my period since Jan. 2013 and today it's March 20, 2013. I finger myself once every week. My question is, will this mess up my period? (link)
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I've never heard of masturbation disturbing a woman's menstrual cycle. A lot of things factor into menstrual cycles - as you listed. If you don't think it's any of those, consider whether you are underestimating stress in your life, whether you have been exercising more than usual, or whether you have had any major changes in your life. But regardless, you should really see your doctor about this, as it could be something more serious.
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If a girl is sad for some reason or is crying for some reason, how do i make her feel better? Im not really good with starting up conversations. please it happened once and i didnt know what to do, so if it ever happens again just in case. (link)
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Every girl reacts differently, especially when "distraught". If anything, just ask "Are you alright? Would you like to talk about it? It may make you feel better." But as I said, some girls may act opposite of what you may assume they would otherwise. Some girls are overly dramatic, and go insane if you ask if they are alright. While others may actually take consolation in your concern.
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I am leaving on Friday to go to the state science fair, and I want to text my boyfriend something sweet that he'll see when he wakes up, since I'm leaving at 4 in the morning. I don't want it to be super espouse or overly romantic. Just something that will make him smile and think of me that day. Any ideas? (link)
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My mate recently had to move 4 1/2 hours away due to a better job offer. We are still together, and we talk to each other everyday. If anything, I occasionally send him a little text that says "I love you lots and miss you just as much" He tells me it makes him smile, the same with me, even if it's short, just a sweet little text saying love u miss u is enough to make even me smile and have a great day. If anything, do that. If you two are already in the "I love you" phase, then say "I love you and I'll miss you" If not yet, then just say "I already miss you" etc. Just send what you feel ^_^
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My boyfriend and I were french kissing and I Felt his tongue get harder, is that a good or bad thing?
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That's perfectly normal. The tongue is the strongest muscle in the human body. All you were feeling was his tongue flexing. It's neither good nor bad, just normal.
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I hate that I can't come anymore unless I grind. I try to get that in my boyfriends head and he won't understand. It's not as exciting for him to watch when I just grind but that's the only times I come. He wants me to do all this and for him I do and then I fake an orgasm practically all the time. I'd love to be able to tell him but I can't. I get too nervous and talk about something else. And now every time we put on a show for each other I have to fake an orgasm and I don't know what to do. What can I say to like hint to this? I know I'm too embarrassed to come straight out with it. And if I do tell him, I know that he will say that oh I've been lying to him and how he can't trust me and he'll get all upset. I've been with him for over a year and I don't want to break up. But I just don't know what I can do anymore. (link)
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There are positions which may help. Also, have you considered using toys during intercourse? Such as *pardon my language* cock rings? They have some with vibrating ends on them for clitoral stimulation during intercourse. As for positions, why not you be on top while he is inside of you, and do a grinding motion? Or is that what you were talking about? If so, try the vibrating ring, it may help. If he asks why, just say, "I want to try new things with you." Also, there are gels/lubricants out there which also sensitize the female genitalia area, making it easier to reach climax during intercourse. It's something to look into. If you are too shy to go into a shop and look around, try looking online when you have the time. Don't worry about it showing up on your card bill as "sex toys blah blah" most if not all adult toy online shops are good with privacy, and show up on your bill as something else, as well as when they mail the package, it won't show where it really came from, so you won't have to worry about someone seeing and what not.
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I need to know how i can make my virgina feel tight? Are there any products and or anything around the house that can be useful. I have tried doing kegeles but i don't think it's working. (link)
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Like any workout, it takes time. Especially if one takes into consideration how sexually active the person is. The more sexually active one is, the less tight she may feel, and the longer it may take. Like a large person trying to lose weight. The larger they are, the longer it takes. Just give it time. As for products, or items, I have never heard of anything that actually worked, other than a surgery to reconnect the hymen. Just keep doing the keagle exercises, and give it time. It's not going to happen over night.
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I am a 36 yr old man in fairly good health. however in the last 8-10 months my health and life have been a wreck. I started loosing weight two yrs ago and had a HIV test wich came back negative but I am still loosing weight. That stress me way out,test recent said negative but I cant eat,acne,cant sleep,cant consntrate,weightloss ect..Right now I am unemployed,and going no where in life. I raised my kids,have full custody,of them both.However being a felon (over 20 yr ago i.e.-a fight) so getting jobs is almost impossible. Good enough to raise kids but not to work to afford it??? I am loosing it and my depression is getting worse.....just wanna check out... (link)
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The weight loss may more likely be caused due to stress in your life. It is not uncommon, that when you are stressed, to lose your appetite, and not wish to eat. It also affects your sleeping habits, concentration. In today's economy, it is quite difficult to find a job, especially just going to the companies themselves. Have you tried those job help agencies? I don't know where you're from, but look into job hiring agencies. I believe they are called temp agencies? But, no matter your background check, they will do their best to help you find a job, whether it's factory work, or fast food. A job is a job, especially when you have children. Just remember, no matter how hard things get, just keep moving forward. Also, to help with your stress, instead of seeing a doctor about std's, see a psychologist, as they are more capable of helping you reduce stress, and even, depending on how kind they are, point you to one of those employment agencies, plus other organizations that may be capable of helping you. Be strong, and keep moving forward. Good luck :)
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if your boyfriend fingers you does it mean your gana have his child (link)
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The only way to get pregnant is to have intercourse *sex*, that is only if you are not on any birth control, and he does not use a condom, and he climaxes *cums* inside of your vagina. Though either method is not 100% effective, it does however, greatly reduce the chances of getting pregnant. If he just fingers you, there is nothing to worry about getting pregnant.
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