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I'm very good at answering things such as,Illnesses,Friendship,Love,Fashion,Hobbies,Health,Homework help,or anything else. I will do some research on some other sites to answer every question so I have something backing me up and supporting my answer.
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ok. let me rephrase the question since i don't think anyone understood quite what i meant last time. People think i am emo and gothic. What i meant when i asked how to get people to stop thinking i am, i meant like how do i put on my makeup and dress so that i won't look goth or emo? (link)
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Wear bright colors,Always have your hair up in some kind of bun or poinytale. Wear bright colored make-up too. Avoid wearing the colors black,red,or even sometimes grey often.
Point is though,Your fashion shows who and what you are,So be you and don't worry about what other people think.
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I am belimic and nobody absolutly nobody knows but the other day i was wearing a tight shirt and my aunt goes " oh my goodness sweetheart you have lost so much weight. You are eating right?" i anwsered yes because i am. She said it when it was only memand her and my mom doesnt notice anything. And i want to get help but i have no idea how to tell anybody. Even for people to try to see when i am at my house i always lift up my shirt and rub my ribs so people might see how skinny i have gotten. So please somebody help me tell my mom and i need you to say it clear and gentle because my mom doesnt take new things well. So please my life is on the line right now. Please (link)
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This is a serious disorder. You either tell her you are belimic or you show her this question to let her see it. You could die doing this to yourself,She either needs to see this or have you tell her so she could either help you or get you help right now.
Beauty has nothing to do with the way you look or how much you weigh,Remember that.
So,You have 3 choices...
1.Tell your mom clearly "I am belimic"
2.Show your mom this question/article you wrote about being belimic.
3.Start eating right before you hurt yourself.
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I have always ALWAYS wanted to be a model, and my boyfriend is hopefully going to be a professional footballer soon/or a rapper. That part isn't idle dreaming by the way, he has sorted out auditions and trials for actual teams and if he is successful I'd love to use it to get into modeling.
The problem is, I honestly don't feel photogenic, I feel like I need to learn how to look good in photo's and what kind of clothes suit me. I'm slim, and only a size 34B in boobs, but I have a nice tight tummy and an hour glass figure. I'm pure white and not very tan so usually pale with light blonde hair that is very fine and hazel eyes. If anyone could give me any advice on style or make up and how to look good in photos as I really have no clue! (link)
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What kind of modeling do you want to get into to?
Sitemodeling-Wear a really short pair of either black or bluejean shorts,with any colored low cut shirt. Do your make-up excitingly. If you wore black,You could always do the smokey eye make-up look for any kind of modeling. Then,make sure to use black eyeliner(Or brown,or dark blue) and put some eyeshadow in the crease of your eye. Then,You go in front of a mirror,Usually for most sitemodels,Or on a bed or something,Smile,Pose,and snap the photo.
Runway Modeling- This is very tricky to answer..The key to runway modeling is like everyday events...Like...You want to keep it casual but dressy to...So i would say,A super dressy shirt,with some blue jean or black shorts,with a bright colored pair of leggins under them that match the shirt. For make-up,its based on your clothes. If your shirt is mainly blue-I would put on a light shade of blue with a shiney,bright purple on top of it. Then,Put just some average sparkles of glitter on the crease of the eye for an extra shimmery look.
Professional Modeling-You usually want to be in SUPER dressy clothes,Like expenssive brand-named dresses and stuff. Although if you start out like little runway modeling,You can get enough money in a couple of years to pay for a couple of these dresses,Point is though before this is even in question..Your gonna need tons of money. This modeling also usually requires having an agency that works with you. But yeah..If you want some fashion examples..Email me at rebekahsherwood@ymail.com and I will try my best to help you find some cheap fashions to help your career and make you comfortable and fashionable.
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She's been having nightmares for the last 3 weeks. She had dreams that she saw her best friend die. She's really scared she wakes up at night crying. She sometimes cries in the morning too. She doesn't wanna talk about them. What can I do to comfort her ? What should I say to her ? (link)
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She's not phycic,She cannot see the future.
Dreams only lasts a few seconds according to scientists with back up research. So,I suggest you take her to a therapist....People can give out and hurt others over their problem..Just so you know.
If she wants,She can email me and I will try to talk to her. Email is rebekahsherwood@ymail.com
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I've been feeling sad lately. I just feel that my whole bloodline is against me. I have cousins whom I used to be so close to and now I feel they are ignoring me. It's been depressing because this happened after I came back from a foreign country for 1 year. I did drop out of college there because of issues but I don't know if they are judging me because of that. How do I deal with this??? I can't even go to parties, go to their house because they just make me feel like a stranger rather than a family member. (link)
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Talk to them about it. Tell them that you can't hang out with them because you feel like an outcast,like they are leaving you out. They are family,so no matter what they will love and support your decissions. But,you should still be honest with them.
If you feel this way about everybody,On the otherhand,You should see a therapist and talk to them. They might be able to pin point the problem and help you get over it.
Then you said its been depressing,Are you sure you aren't feeling this way because you are suffering with depression. If you do feel this way about everyone,then go to a doctor first and tell them the situation,they can tell you if it's just your mind,if its depression,if you just need medicine,or even if you just need to go visit a therapist and get the problem handled then come back.
Your not giving as much details or else I might even be able to pinpoint the problem!
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I feel like this guy I am talking to is losing interest in me. Recently he told me he liked me a lot, a whole lot, so maybe I'm just paranoid. I really enjoy talking to him and I am afraid of screwing up or something. Last night he didn't answer my texts and I sent him a picture but he didn't reply. Then this morning he didn't respond either. And we used to talk a lot but he's been busy and I don't mind that, but something just doesn't feel right in my gut. I'm scared. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I tell myself that he's sweet and wouldn't hurt me like that but I can't convince myself. What do I do? Should I stop talking to him for a while and see if he contacts me first? (link)
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NO! Never make a guy feel like he has to do something first.
It does seem like he isn't putting a lot of effort into the relationship,and if he doesn't...Honestly why should you?
I would go somewhere,it doesn't matter where,whenever he had time and talk to him about this situation. Ask him if its just a phase,or if he's just totally not feeling the relationship or what.
He seems busy huh? I don't wanna jump conclusions,But are you sure he wouldn't be cheating...Some signs of that are..Not coming around as much,Not having as much interest,basically just not doing anything whatsoever to work on your relationship.
You seem like a great person,if hes not giving you what you deserve,Don't be afraid to totally end things until he changes. Or even forever....
If you need to talk,you can email me at rebekahsherwood@ymail.com
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