Gender: Female
Age: 13
Member Since: March 12, 2006
Answers: 26
Last Update: April 1, 2006
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Okay I really like this boy (( let's call him Joe )) Well Joe and I became friends this summer and since then we've been best friends. I realized today that I really like Joe but, I really don't want to ask him out because I don't want to ruin our friendship and he also has a girlfriend. What should I do? (link)
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Dear 'i like my best friend.' This is a tough situation. If I were you, I'd try to keep my feelings to myself, at least until he's single again. Don't try to ruin their relationship and I definately wouldnt suggest telling him now. Doing something that will get you nowhere could seriously mess up your current relationship with Joe. If you still have these feelings after a longer amount of time, it might be worth mentioning to him. Since you don't really know if he has feelings for you or not, [because lets face it, guys are totally confusing] it might be worth a shot when he's either single or you have more time invested in him. Hope i helped you out.
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can telll it was bad. i planned so long for it, and then they didnt
wanna play any games, and like they were bein all ******* and not even listen to
me at ALL when they got here (at 6!) they watched mtv music videos (that i didnt
even like) untill 10:30
i called that i was opening gifts twice. like YELLED it. and they all ignored me
because this one girl was crying (i dont even why) and then she called her crush and so
they missed out on me opening the gifts
and they rejected all of my game ideas and i had really good prizes too and it
was so not worth my time im never doin this again. and then finally (today) 30
miuntes before they leave they ask me what i wanted to do. and its like well uhh
theres only 20 minutes left theres not much you CAN do. and so im like well OKAY
GUYS WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO and they ignore me, and its like WTF and shes im shes
like WELL THATS BECAUSE WE WERE TALKING and im like WELL ITS BECAUSE YOU KEEP CONTROLING
MY PARTY (which is true) SHES LIKE THEN MAKE THEM STOP CONTROLLING IT (talkin
about her friend) and i was like THATS WHAT IVE BEEN TRYING TO DO! and it was
all messed and yeah.
its like HELLO THIS IS MY PARTY WHY IS NO-ONE LISTENING TO ME!
my friend even made a list about all the mean things they did:
1) they got mad about the presents thing,( i called them twice that i was
opening presents i litterly yelled it but they were like ignoring me) when you
told them twice. and cia (other preson) heard, but she didn't tell them, so it
wasnt all your fault or anything.
2) people were ignoring me for the gift thing because this stupid lee thing (she
likes this guy and she was like calling him saying she loved him and crap). when
lee doesnt like her as more than a friend. and there was 8 girls at my party,
she told all but 3 of us (me and my best friends) she kept a secret from me AT
my party!!
and they were just bein ______ to me.
advicee please!!
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Hm. Well first of all, what's the question? I read the whole thing and I don't even know what to give advice on.
It sort of sounds like you invited the wrong people to your party and now you're being a brat about it.
&ROXiE;
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I have a problem ... i'm 90 pounds but i'm short and I don't eat anymore because i'm scared to become fat. But because of how short I am my stomach is kind of big. I need to get some advice ... what to eat, what not to eat, what work-out's are good etc. Thanks!
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Not eating at all is never the asnwer. It actually screws with your metabolism and decreases results. If you want to lose wait you should look to healthier foods, and deff. excercise regularly. It's best to start out with a lighter work out then increase repititions every night so you dont end up working yourself too hard. Eat enough protein, fruits, vegitables, and basically avoid junk food and skip out on desserts. Hope I helped. ROXiEX3
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Ok, I'm a 13/F and I'm happy like 24-7. I mean everyone always comes up to me and asks me how I could be so happy all the time. I mean everyone knows me as the "happy peanut" (school nickname don't ask lol) And I mean I am. And I'm always the friend people come to if they have a problem or if they need someone's shoulder to cry on or anything. But I mean lately everything in my life's been going wrong. My dad's left my family, a kid who was like my brother just died. and I mean I don't know how to talk to anyone about it because they always come to me. And like no one else. And I just want to like SCREAM!! I don't know what to do. It's like I've lost controle of my own life and can't get it back together again. I just want someone to know what's going on. The bad stuff. Because someone needs to know or I'm going to go insane. But I just don't know how to tell anyone. I rate 5's for any answer!! Good or bad, long or short. I'm really in some need for advice. Thanks a bundle if you can help =D ♥Samm (link)
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First off I'd like to tell you that I admire you completely for being at this age and having such a good outlook on life. It's really great that you can be happy so much of the time, few people are blessed with that gift. But, just because you're happy often, doesn't mean you should be pressured to be happy always. No one can smile all the time, and every once in a while the friends that you've been there for will need to be ready to be there for you. Life isn't going to be perfect, you shouldn't have to be. I hope you feel better about everything and I'm so sorry about your loses. Love Much, ROXiEX3
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Right, my best friend is usually really nice, but recently she keeps putting me down, mostly about things that arent even true. She keeps pointing out people and saying they're taller than me and teasing me about my 'frizzy' hair. Shes even started being mean about the things i like. Like my big eyes she says are weird and the other day she said "I like my tummy better than yours" and i really like my toned tummy. Even though most of it isnt true, its really getting me down. What should i do? Please do not tell me to talk to her about it because she would just tell me i'm being stressy. (link)
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Alright. From the time i was six years old, i've always had the same best friend. Not until we were 12 did we start having real fights and problems. I tried telling her the way i felt with her, which i would totally suggest for you. Depending on how sensitive your friend is, talking things out really will help. In my situation though, my friend was incredibly sensitive and deffensive. Just talking didnt work, and i guess you could say we kind of took a break from eachother. It only took about 2-3 months of not being around eachother, and to tell you the truth it really worked. We took a breather and we tried talking again, we're great friends now, just not as dependent on eachother as before. Good luck with whatever happends, i'm sure things will work out. [♥]
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In between haircuts I often cut my own split ends off. Like if I happen to see one I'll just grab a pair of scissors and cut it off. Is this bad? All my friends tell me I shouldn't do this, butI thought cutting them off was a good thing. (link)
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mm. i think thats totally fine. i personally cut my own hair all the time. i have a lot of friends who do too and its never been a problem.
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