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hmmmm.......Well I'm Erin I have a best friend named haley and a brother whos 15. I not reallly much of a dater but i give great advice on love. I think this is because i see all points of the relation ship. I love texting, food sleep and him.. I've beeen through alot even though I'm soo young I would love to help you out and i consider no question stupid. k thnxx bye =] You can IM me anytime at :XOERINICOLEXO

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kay i am freaking out because i am about to go kiss the guy that i like and i was wondering if anyone new anything that might help callm me doown. i have tried breathin but its not working very well. My Hands ARE SHAKING!!!1PLEEZE HELP!

cheww gum so u dont worry about bad breath and just relaxx . it'll work out =]

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okay so i was wiv my boyf the other day and we had just finished watchin a film and we were in his bed and we started making out and i hadnt ever given him one before but i wanted to gie him a handjob..and so we were makng out and I just didnt know how to start it off...I put my hand down there..but like on top of his pants...cause I didnt really know what I was doing ad was really nervous and lol i could feel that he was hard...but i didnt really know what to do..i tried taking his hand and putting it on top of mine in attemp to have him show me what to do but he just put his arm back around me...i dont know what to do!!I know the basics of lke how to give him a handjob but i just dont know how to build up the courage to actually do it!!I mean i was rubbing him down there and i knew he was hard but it was all on top of his trackie pants!!help!!

just casually slip your hand down there a few times before you actually give him one.. that will loosen up your fearss

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ok, this isn't really advice, but i'm just a little confused. so this guy i like invited me to come to his house tomorrow with his other friend gabe, and he told me to invite a friend too. so there will be four of us. then he said that we were going to bike to target to get some things and he said "i only have 3 bikes, but i can just peg you on mine". what does that mean??

pegs are just part of the pike on the wheel yous can stand on its sary but fun!

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Ok im a senior and i have had these friends since freshmen year and our shopmore year me got in a huge fight and i stopped talkin to them all and now since its our senior year i want to get back to the way things once were so im just forgetting everything that had happened and moving on...do you think it will work out? and also do you think im dumb for tring to get my friends back?

i think its awesome you are being the bigger person ! jsut tell them you are sorry aannd you realize that the fight wasnt worth losing their freindship!
hope it helps and goodluck

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I used to be friends with everybody. & Everyone. No one hated me nothing. But then I had this party really big one, where people couldnt get in, and I hooked up with a guy. There were tons of people there 227 to be exact. Then all of a sudden after that no one has wanted to talk to me. I dont know what to do? I went from having to say sorry I've made plans already to...Hey do you wanan hang out? & I know that sounds conceited and bad. But I dont know what happenned. & I'm not very happy about it, I've gone into a deep depression and everyday I think about killing myself.

I have been in your situation before and suicide is NOT the answer. your just goign through a rough time in your life and you will get through it .. my advice instead of having a bunch of "close" freinds find one best friend who will be there to help you through this because i have found that one great freind is better thten a million ok freinds and rember to give everyone a chance and not to act like you are better then them... just rember to stay positive and to try not to seem desperate

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Ok well this weekend we went to this church camp thing we do every year. And this year a few of my friends and I decided to pull a prank on the guys, so we got up at 3am and toliet papered their cabins, and put shaving cream on the mirrows...well of course they decided to get us back by doing the same thing but A LOT WORST. So of course next year we have to get them back REAL good. soo can anyone think of any pretty good pranks to do. Not hard or diffacult but pretty good.
THANK IN ADVANCE

one time when we were at camp we took a dead fish and hid it under a loose floor board the cabin reaked! but no one could figure out where it was coming from it waqs great finally the girls told about their pranks and toook the fish out but i still remeber the look on their faces !

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does anyone know any frienhip quote about the friend is moving to somewhere else? shes not my bestfriend but good close friend so i need a quote about her moving thank you =]

NO MATTER
WHERE WE LiVE
WE'lL ALWAYS BE
FRiENDS

TRUE FRIENDS ARE TOGETHER AT HEART
NO MATTER THE MILES THEY MAY BE APART

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I'm a 14 year old female. I am 5 foot 2, and I weigh a little over 130 pounds. I'm very concerned about my weight lately, because I'm not the thinnest person, and people deffinately notice. This summer, I'm really working on my image and toning up. Every night, I drink 2 tablespoons of apple cider vinegar, I do push-ups which I increase by 2 everyday [I'm on 14 right now.] I also do sit-ups[which I do depending on what I feel like.] I'm noticing a few results, and my health freak of a sister said that I looked thinner today. What else can I do? I want the quickest way to lose my weight, and tone up. I want to be at least down to 110 by the time school starts back up. I also want to lose my chest but I have no idea how to. I've tried squats, but I'm not sure how to do them right. I am also going to try step-ups. I really can't walk or run because I don't live in the safest kind of neighborhood, and my mother is a saftey nut. What can I do in the privacy of my room?

One way to get a great amount of excersise is jump roping ! you can do it in your own house also try leg lifts to help tone your legs . you lay on your side then raise your leg they help trim ure tummy and tone your thys

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ok, i'm having a hard time understanding the whole "friends with benefits" thing. i mean, if you're attracted to someone, and that close to them, why wouldn't you want to just be boyfriend/girlfriend? and i know this sounds sexist, but... i can understand why a guy would like this arrangement ("woo-hoo, i can mess around with any girl i want!"), but as for the girls... don't you feel used and cheap? or are there really that many girls who just want sex and nothing else? i'm really not trying be judgemental, i just want to understand it!

ok sometimes with freinds with benefits its complicated for example a girl may be attracted to more then one guy but she doesnt want to hurt either of them so she has freiends with benefits .. basically you are single but always have a partenr just incase u want action.. i dont know if that helped much or not

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