about

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Hey I'm Kerry :)
Im 17 and hope to be an advice columnist or a counsellor when im older
Ive been told that im good to turn to when people need advice and im a good listener and will try to help the best i can
I love nothing more than to help people :)
I have had my fair share of relationships, not meaning ive had tonnes, i mean some good, some bad.

Things i Like :)
My Friends. Socialising. The bf :). Laughing. Random Shizzle. Chatting. Msn. Bebo. People With a good S.O.H. Hugs. Tea. Generally having a good time :)

Things I Dont like :(
Chavs. (the ones that stereotype me. Crying. When my friends are upset.When i dont feel good.Beans.Nasty People. Backstabbers.

So yeah :)

Do not hesitate to ask me things as i believe in being nice to people if they are nice to me :)

Hope to hear from you soon :)
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advice

what are some good bands that are kinda uncommon. I know alot of bands so any ones that are known to lots of people ill probably already know and i need some new music. i like rock and stuff like that
thanks :)

im into the rock kinda thing too.

i came across this band called the kidney thieves and i dont know whether they are mainstream or not.

sorry if they are hehe, but i dont think they are.

Hope this helps :)
xxx

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does anyone know any beautiful love poems with modern english, something teen couples today can understand, relate to and enjoy?

i came across this poem and thought it was nice :)

A BLUE STAR IN YOUR EYES

Author: Jo'Lene Tover

On the wings of an eagle,
My love for you flies.
Soaring higher and higher,
And touching the skies.

I reached up above,
And pulled a star from the sky.
To place it within,
Your precious minds eye.

To dwell there forever,
As my love for you.
On the wings of our love,
Enduring and true.

I honor you my darling,
With all that I am.
Please darling please,
Will you be my man?

There are so many things,
My heart wants to say.
I love you sweetheart,
There is no other way.


hope this one helped :)
xxxxx

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wellll
its almost christmas time
only 23 more shopping days left!
but the question is, how do you go shopping when you have no money!
im 15, and no one will really hire me for a job, i have to wait until im 16.
and of course i have no money!
i am trying to do odd jobs and collect momey for gifts
but i still dont have much
all my friends are asking me what i want them to get me for christmas, so i know they are all getting me something
so i have to, of course get them something too
what should i get them!?????!!!?
i mean, i dont want it to be cheap like a pair of earings or something
something they will be happy to get, but it cant be wicked expensive
ANY IDEAS?!

i guess if u need money quickly you could maybe consider selling things you dont use on ebay maybe? and ask for immediate payment. but make sure you set it up with ur parents details as you have to be 18 or over to use it.

and as for the presents thing, you could get them something small and meaningful, i mean, i would love it if a friend put a nice picture of me and them in a nice frame. it doesnt matter how much money you spend, its the thought that counts :)

hope ive helped :)
xxxx

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I'm buyin all my Christmas presents on eBay this year.
However, my account is kinda low, and I only have about 200 dollars. I'm planning on spending about 250, so I'll be going a little bit over.
Is it possible to spend over, or do they make you stop? THANKS

depending what card you have and what bank your with, alot of time what happens is they will let u pay, but then this will get sent to ur bank, and you will have to pay this as well as a charge for going over.

If you keep doing this it may get you in debt.

i wouldnt recommend it

hope this helps :)

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is it possible to get pregnant if nothing comes out of a guy, no precum, no nothing? like my bf fingered me once but i wasnt ready for it so he stopped and now my irregular period is really late, and im worried, but i dont think thats even possible. he said nothing came out of him at all
=/
thanks

aww you have nothing to worry about. in order for you to get pregnant a boy's precum has to be inside your body. basically you have to have sex without protection.

This is a coincidence. Your period can be late for several reasons. Things such as stress, weightloss/gain can trigger it.

Its just simple things that can delay it.

You have nothing to worry about.

especially since ur periods are irregular also.

It isn't possible okay :)

If its really really late like a couple of weeks you should go to ur doctor to make sure everythings okay. but it will be, it might just be something simple or may just be the stress of the situation.

hope this helps :)
xxxxxx

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Im really shy at school and around new people..i just dont know what to say...so if anyone can help me PLEASE DO! I really dont wanna stay shy.
THANKS!!:)

i used to be exactly like that. i know how it feels!

Im an extremely shy person but im better now than i was before.

What you need to do is try and be as approachable as you can.

At first, if you can't bring yourself to say hi then just give a nice smile. It'll get easier i promise!

hopefully at some point in classes you will be put into group activities, they could be a good way of meeting people.

And also maybe think about joining a club at school, because if u think about it this way, you and those in the club already have one thing in common....:)

Hope this helped :)
xxxx




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i still like my ex, when we were going out it was so awkward cuz we didnt really know eavhother but now that weve broken up weve gotten really close and i think we both still have feelings for eachother but are afraid to admit it. How do i do it first even though im the girl? And what do i say if he doesnt like me back or gets freaked out. What do i say to tell him i still like him?
HELP

this reminds of me and my current boyfriend. like you, when we went out the first time and it didnt work because we didnt know each other well enough. Again like you's, after we broke up we stayed friends and gradually got closer.

In the end it just got to the stage that we both plucked up the courage to talk about it. It started to bloom after we admited we liked each other. What we did for ages before that was that started talking about who we both liked because we were friends.i liked him and he liked me.

So for ages we were telling each other how much we liked each other but not actually telling if u catch my drift.

Finally, he told me he liked me.then i told him i liked him back soon after. we didnt go out straight away though. We then started talking and stuff and really got to know each other.

Then one day i went over to his house to hang out. When we were waiting on the bus, we talked things over. and he then couragously asked where we stood. We then started going out :)

and thats the best thing cos im now in love like i havent ever been before

so what you have to do is, i mean he's ur friend, you can obviously talk to him. You just need to talk to him and then if he rejects you then you need to let him know that you dont want it to change anything between you's and then start acting normal again.

theres no point being awkward because you wouldnt want to lose a good friend out of this :)

hope this helps :)
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What are some ways that you REALLY know your in love? From your personal point of veiw.. what are some ways you just know your in love?

hey. im in love at the moment and you kinda know your in love when just seeing them can perk you up. You will also think of them constantly and miss them when they aren't around.

Its really weird but you kinda just know. You'll know yourself when the time comes.

You should feel comfortable with this person and be able to tell them anything. Because if you do not trust them or respect them then you are not in love.

Also many people feel a spiritual connect with someone they love. you should be confident witha future with this person. Not saying you have to marry them or anything but you have to see yourself with the person.

But everyone is different.

but you will know because when it happens, its one of the most amazing feelings you can get.

I hope this helps :)
xxx

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Has anyone on here ever re-dated a guy and had a successful relationship? I want to know if a second try is always disasterous.

hey, i am currently re-dating a guy and it was the best thing i ever did. we have proof that they do work. The first time, we didnt know each other well enough and i thought he was too serious. we then stayed really good friends then got to know each other and then really connected.

We then tried again and everything changed, we are now inseperable and has been 5 months and ive never been so happy.

we went out again about a year after we broke up initally, so thats proof that it can work but it can take time.

so all n all, yeh they can work, because i am living proof. :)

Hope this helps :)
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It seems almost like my relationship with my boyfriend is all centered around lust at this point. We are very drawn to each other physically and although we do connect emotionally, I feel like we need to connect more emotionally. How do I make sure our one month relationship doesn't turn into something sexually based?

A good way to tackle this would be to make the guy wait before you get intimate for a bit.

Not forever dont worry!!

Its just to show how he copes.

If he really cares about you it shouldnt be a problem.

In the meantime, try to spend more time together doing fun things, things you's havent experienced before.

Maybe something as simple as going to the beach and taking a stroll so you's can really connect, or go for a meal and really talk to your boy and try and really get to know him.

Hope this helps :)
xxx

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recently ive been gettin pretty involved with this boy i like no only physically but also emotionally we have been a thing for a couple months now but he hasnt made it official he talks to and seems to flirt with alot of girls which worries me that im being played i talked to him about it but he said im the only one he likes and he wants to be with me but i still dont understand and im really worried im going to end up in heartache becuase we havent really made any progress please help me out what should i do? do you think im being played?

Everyone is different. Your boy may be genuine in the fact that he likes you, even if he does flirt with others. Some people flirt naturally and it may mean no harm.

There always is on the other hand.

You should talk to him and tell him whats on your mind without accusing him.

Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months and we're making slow progress because we don't want to rush things and regret it.

You should try to focus on enjoying his company more than anything.

When you do finally try and have a chat, you need to focus on his answers and his body language. If he dismisses the topic, he isnt worth your time.

And about trhe progress, he may be really shy but you also need to have a nice chat about that. you could maybe ask him what his relationship technique is, like does he like to take things slow? if he does, thats okay, you's both just need to be comfortable and respect each others wishes.

Good luck :)

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