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Hi, I have been told that I give great advice. I don't specify in one area, I know random things.I'm from Gainesville,Fl,I love basketball.I also like to cook,I love children and I love giving advice. So all questions are welcomed.....Helping people is my thing, so this won't be a problem. If you have a personal question just for me, don't be afraid to ask.If there's a topic I don't know about, I won't advise you on it.So you don't have to worry about whether I know or don't know what I'm saying.-
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This guy at my class always look at me and smile. He finally start to talk to me 2 weeks ago, and being really sweet to me. He asked me out for little thing as getting coffee, buying cds...etc., but never a real date. (since I knew him the second day)
Most importantly, we only knew each other for less than 2 weeks.
We went out today after class for coffee, when I said bye to him, he kissed my cheek for goodbye.
Is he just flirting with me? or Does he like me? what should I do? I think he's a really nice guy, but hardly even knew him..... I'm confused.
HELP!!
Clearly he likes you and those little things(coffee,buying CD's) are probably dates in his mind.Find out how he feels about you first.If you like him, you should tell him.If you don't like him, but you find out he likes you, leave him alone, you'll only be leading him on. Hope I helped ~
Hello my friend is an only child and her parents are going through a very ugly divorce and I really want to do something for her to make her feel better but I have no idea what to do can anyone help me please?
Invite her over to your house for dinner, take her to the movies. Spend as much time as you can with her so she won't dwell on the fact that her life is about to completely change.And sometimes when you're in the process of having fun with her, bring up the divorce, slowly and carefully. Find out exactly how she feels about it(let her cry,scream,etc.) and let her know that everything will be alright. Both her parents still love her and if she doesn't have anyone else, she still has you.Hope that helps,~Potential.
Does having a cold sore mean that you have an std?? or is a cold sore just a cold sore?
Yes a cold sore could mean you have a STD(such as a herpes outbreak), but it also could mean you have a cold sore. If it's been there for longer than a 3 weeks-month, I would go and let the doctor check out(better safe than sorry).~Potential.
stupid question..
how do you know you like someone..i know i'm stupid but i'm just curious how someone may tell if they like someone as like bf material.
Whenever that person comes around your heart starts beating faster and you break out into a corny smile. You can't wait to get to school,work,etc. just so you can see them. You find yourself thinking about them at the most random times.Hope I helped........Potential.
By playing sports how can you pop your cherry and would i know if i pops? How do i know if i already popped it?
Sorry, for all the questions, im just really curious:-)
You would know if it was popped if there was blood in your underwear and you weren't on your period..........
does anyone have any tips for making out? like fun places to be or maybe new positions to be in? the same old same old is getting pretty boring
It's always fun making out in snow, rain, grass,leaves......I know it sounds a bit cliche, but those are fun places.
i know nick canon and christinia milian broke up because he cheated on her. but i was watching Wild and out and she guest stars on it, and at the end shes like "Nick im Yours" so are they back together or like shes just playing?
That episode was before they broke up.....
my 15 month old son keeps bittind me and wont stop. ive tried rubbing his gums and give him meds to help with the teeth pain. but everytime i smack him when he bits and say no he just laughs at me and does it again. how can i get him to stop?
You have to bite him back, but harder....my niece kept biting me, and I bit her, until she learned. When disciplining, always do what the child does, but up a level, then for them it turns into a lesson.
how do you ask a boy out in a note please tell me
You never ask a boy out in a note. He'll know that you lack self-confidence and boys hate that.
16/female. I'm a junior in high school and my student teacher is extremely hot! He's 21 and he is totally in to me. We have sex at school, in the parking lot in his car. it's not regular sex but kinky crazy sex with toys and everything. Well he always tells me he loves me and if I ever left him he would freak out and come to my house and take me away. But I love this other guy at my school and I had sex with him...if the teacher finds out I'm screwed! He is always following me at school and making sure I don't flirt with guys. He even took me to his office once because I was "flirting" with guys and he kissed me really hard and said that he wouldn't ever share me. I need to get out of this relationship but I'm really scared for my life sometimes. The sex is getting way too crazy for me, he likes sticking things inside of me like sticks and everything. He's hot too, I don't want to hurt his feelings. Help?
Try to talk to him, but the only way I see, to get rid of him safely, is to put him in jail(AS MUCH AS I HATE TO SAY THAT).
when you are making out with a guy or even just kissing do guy like it when girls play with the hair (on the back of their head) or like massage their neck? what should girls hands do when making out with guys? thanks!
Making out/Kissing is a very intimate moment, your hands should be caressing him anywhere and everywhere.There's no limit to where your hands can go. I like to concentrate on the back area, personally. It also helps to think about where you would want his hands to be and then use that as a guide.
Ok so im a 14/f and im going out w/ a 16/m. He doesnt go to my school. Its really hard for me. He says he loves me alot that he'd do anything for me. Well he always thinks im cheating on him cause i have a lot of guy friends. but i tell him i would never do anything like that to him. He means everything to me. He doesnt like any of my guy friends and he doesnt wanna lose me to anyone. He doesnt wanna share me with anyone. What am i supppose to do??
Is he controlling me? Or is it just how much he loves me?? Advice plz!!!
He's insecure, and that situation can potentially turn into control. But it's natural for your boyfriend to be jealous of your guy friends.
okay some of my friends say that actually "starving" yourself helps lose weight. is this true? I know its extremly unhealthy & I personally wouldnt do that to myslef. Im just curious =) thanks!
Yea, it does, but you basically can't ever eat again because you gain it back like crazy.....it's a waist of time, plus you look disgusting when you lose weight like that.
What is a laugh-out-loud funny (yet approiate) broadway type song for a girl to sing?
Thank you.
"All That Jazz" from Chicago(It depends on how you perform it)
I'm going to a winter dance and it's semi formal, but I have no idea what I should wear then. Can anyone tell me what exactly I'm suppose to wear? thank u!!
Like a nice dress you would wear to church,not a gown, but a nice,casual dress,heels would be nice as well,maybe stockings.......
omg it is soo annoying. I never like people my own age. I'm 15/f, bi and the only person i like who remotely available is a junior! who will never ever go out with me. I always have crushes on older men and women, especially my teachers. Seriously, last year I had a huge crush on my history teacher. He wasn't even that hot but for some reason i was so in love. Then this year I like my soccer coach and also have the strongest, craziest feelings for my english teacher. She is so amazing, so wonderful. I put all my focus on doing well in that class just to impress her! What should I do? It's not like i'm gonna act on these feelings, i'm not stupid, but how can I like people my own age? For some reason I am so attracted to older people.
I know exactly what you mean.There's really nothing you can do.You can't help who you're attracted to,you can't make yourself be attracted to a certain kind of person. Just as long as you don't ruin anyone's reputation or get them fired, I think you're good to go.
Ok heres the thing I like this guy and well I have only had like one conversation with him but I have liked him now for around 18 months and I cant take the heartache any longer so I need a way of getting him outta my mind and please dont say ask him out as I am too shy to ask I need other suggestions.
You can either tell him how you feel or avoid seeing him.-
okay, so theres this guy and i have liked him for over a year.. but he has had a girlfriend all this time.. but now they broke up. and we talk and stuff, but i want to get closer to him and flirt with him a little more, but idk how to do that without being too obvious. so i was wondering if you had any ideas on how to get his attention or anything.. cause idk what to do.. thanks
Keep talking to him like you are, get to know him more.You'll regret it if you guys start going out and you find out you really didn't like him after all. Don't play mind games with him, guys don't like that. If you flirt, it's obvious anyway. It's okay to flirt a little, but don't go out of your way to do it.-
Whenever I'm talking to a guy and they say something...no matter what it is that I say back, it sounds mean. The tone of my voice does, not the words. With girls though, I sound normal and stuff. So, I don't get this. Gah, is there some way that I can stop sounding like that?
It sounds like you're thinking too much, or you're not comfortable talking to guys. You have to realize they're not gonna bite. Don't try to impress anybody, just act like your normal self and you'll see that your voice will go along with your mood.
The kid I like is a horny, horny boy. And who can blame him? He hit puberty. He probably just wants action.
But my idea is that if I gave him a blowjob, he'd like it. If i told him that I'd keep doing it if he asked me out, we'd be together.
What does everyone think of this plan?
-Jordan
You should never do anything you're pressured into doing.....and if he only goes out with you because you're giving him head, YOU ARE NOT HIS GIRLFRIEND. You're just the chick on the side. Your morals should be stronger. -