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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and the other day on the phone, randomly he goes, i wish i could see you, and hug you every second of the day.
is that sweet or just plain weird?

THANKSOMUCH! (link)
I think it's sweet. That's just me though. That just mean that he still loves you as much as he did in the beginning.


basically, me and my dad don't get along.
i know you'd all say something like "try talking to him" or "tell him how you feel".
...no.
he's not the kind of person that i can just go up to and tell what i'm feeling. if me and my dad do ever communicate without it being bad, it's very short and to the point. but that rarely happens. not as often as our fights at least. i don't know what to do anymore. he get's so aggravated with me that i feel like killing myself. he pisses me off more than anyone ever has or ever will. he yells at me for having clothes on my bed (3 things, mind you), he twists his stories around trying to make it seem like he's right, and he makes me feel like shit. i don't know what to do. ARGHHHHHHH
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Try writing an angry letter to him. Say whatever you want to say. draw pics, add stickers, whatever! But don't give it to him. I mean, you can if you want to but that would be like telling him how you feel. you could also try getting support from friends or other family members. Good luck!


could you please tell me who this song is by and give me the lyrics?
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=41500999 (link)
pretty sure that's Stephen Bishop


Buy U A Drank
Makes Me Wonder-Maroon 5
The Way I live
Thanks for the Memories-Fall out boy
What Ive Done- Linkin Park

I like all kinds of music. which one should i choose? and also please give me more ideas too :D (link)
I have The Way I live on my phone and I love it... but that's just me. I would suggest the way I live or buy u a drank. But it's your choice.


14/f

Today and yesterday I've been feeling like I can't breathe as deeply as I want to. It's weird.


is this asthma or what?

if it helps- i'm not out of shape. slightly overweight, but in fairly good physical condition. (link)
Ive had this problem for years now. It usually helps if you dont think about breathing. When I asked my dad about my problem he said that it was nothing to worry about. It does sound a bit like asthma because my sister has it, but I dont have asthma so there's probably nothing to worry about. hope this helped.


ill make its simple
i started talking to my old campfriend and his friends. he likes me A LOT but i dont like him. i rejected him a couple times, and he keeps asking me for more chances. i dont know what to tell him, but im pretty sure like one of his friends.

what can i say to him to make him get over me?
i would feel horrible if i did anything with his friend, but he shouldnt "own me"

help is appreciated (link)
well try hooking your friend up with another girl that you think he would be good with. Don't just pick someone off the streets but find someone that he'll actually enjoy spending time with. Hope this helps!


Contact a celebrity ?
Keira Knightley to be exact.
Any way I can possibley do it.
I have googled this thousands of times
but i cant find the right results. (link)
Try this address:


Endeavor Talent Agency
9601 Wilshire Boulevard Floor 3
Beverly Hills, California 90210
USA


Hope I helped! Good luck!


Ohkay, so theres this guy that I really started liking. We met once on his best friends drive way and but we really didn't talk much and I almost doubt he remembers me, thank god though because I looked disgusting that night. Now I have a huge crush on him and hes single. Were going to the movies this friday, but theres going to be alot of other people there from his school. I dont go to his school though but I have alot of girlfriends and stuff there. Obviously he doesnt like them because hes had only one girlfriend the whole year. I was wondering what I could do that would really impress him at the movies? What are some things I should do to get attention. Ways to talk & flirt.

Things im already doing.
Curling my Hair
Wearing Foundation =)
Wearing a somewhat belly shirt (not slutty) its long sleves and last time I wore it, a guy told me I lookd hot =)
Wearing soffees and possibly a thong.

13/F

help. what else like things I can do at the movies (link)
-Sit by him(of course)
-lean over to him and make a funny remark about the movie (don't do this too much or he won't even get to see the movie)
-make sure you walk out of the theater with him (just in case ;)!)
-smile a lot and be yourself. If you have to lie about who you are to get him to like you, then he's not for you.
I hope you have fun and I hope this helps!


im in seventh grade and a girl. well theres this boy i like a lot and ive liked him almost the whole school year. we used to talk and laugh all the time in the beginning of the year when we sat across from eachother in science but since then we barely talk. im still in lovve with him tho. its the end of the school year and im woondering if i should tell him how i feel? im afraid that if he doesnt like me back, things will be awkward then. should i tell him? (link)
Ok, it's the end of the school year. Take a chance. C'mon, if he used to talk and laugh with you that means he liked you. He probably still does, just the nervous type of love. And if it turns out differently than you'd expected, than he just doesnt see the real, awesome you. Besides it's the end of the school year. you and him will probably forget anyway. The summer is meant for having fun and a totally awesome bf adds 10x more fun! I hope I helped!


My best friend's parents are best friends with mine. We've known each other forever. So it's basically like her house is my second home, & her parents take care of me a lot, etc. She has a pool, so we're there a ton in the summer. It's not really a big deal, but lately her sister's been like, "why are you always here? why can't you go to her house sometimes?" But this is mostly when her boyfriend is over. He can't stand me I guess, cause whenever it's me & my best friend together & he's there they yell at us & leave sometimes. It's really annoying because we like, ask them to go swimming with us or something & they snap. I try to be nice & like offer to pay for them if they take us to taco bell or something but they're so crabby whenever I'm there. Normally I'd just have her come over here, but it's so boring because we have like no movies, no pool, no one to drive us anywhere.. so in the summer we like to go to her house.

My nature is just, to be funny & loud & obnoxious. I know this, but I can't help it. I'm 15 but I can be really immature with my best friend.. we just like having a lot of fun.

What should I do to get her sister & boyfriend to stop being so mean to us & not even giving us a chance.. because it's only when her boyfriend is there. & I don't know what else to do. (link)
Ok I'm guessing the sister is older than you and your bestfriend. You know how sisters are. I have 2 little sisters and I don't like them to be around me and my friends either. She's probably just showing off. Just try talking to her or to your bestfriend (not when the bf is around of course) but maybe tell her that you're not meaning to bug her and that you're sorry for whatever you did to annoy her. In situations like this, it's always better to be the bigger man... er woman.


I am going over this guys house that I like. We are going to watch movies and stuff like that. What do I do. Should i kiss him? What do I wear how do i do my hair and make up. I want to catch his eye.

Please help! (link)
Just wear what you would normally wear. You want it to be comfortable(it IS a movie night). Chances are he isn't going to answer the door in a suit and tie. As for the kiss, don't force it. Kisses are 10x better when they happen naturally.


i did tye dye tshirts on my deck yesterday. and i had a lot of newspapers down underneath so the dye wouldnt go through. but it did anyway. so now i have a small spot of blue tie dye on my deck. anyone know how to get rid of it quickly? (link)
You might try getting a power washer and trying to powerwash it off. Or (depending on the type) try to paint over it. Hope I helped!


I am a 24 year old student finishing my masters. I have been dating this guy for a year now, who is almost the perfect guy except he doesn't pay for anything, I mean nothing. I pay for $700.00 rent, power, cable, lots of dinners. Furthermore, he is an engineer and making o.k money; I feel that he is the perfect guy I just want to know why he wont help out. I dont want to lose him though. How can I make him see, that he is using me? (link)
Talk to him. Tell him how you feel and ask him why he won't pay for anything. Maybe he's saving his moey up for something special. Just make sure that when you talk to him, You both have plenty of time to work things out. Also, make sure he knows how you feel about this. Don't try to insult him. Remember, this is not supposed to be a fight. Just stay cool and don't yell.




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