Yaaa-my names Missy, and I'm really easy to talk to, just a good listener and that--so if ya ever have ?s or just need to talk I know my shit lol no but i know a lot about stuff goin on in life soo ask away!
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Location: Nebraska
Age: 15
Member Since: August 22, 2004
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hey Missy... you gave me the best advice so im gonna come back to you for this... the guy i was talking about is also a yr younger...and he just started high school w/ me... the friend who is helping me out is known to be VERY flirty... even though she has a serious relationship. I wanna be able to talk to this guy openly real soon but i get so nervous and i just need adice on how to approach him... FAST! lol plz help! I appreciate all your help! (link)
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I'm reallly glad I could help ya out! even though it sounds kinda silly, like seriously just think out a conversation in your head. The only bad thing about 'talking' to a guy is when it's those uncomfortable silences. so just like think about things you could say to him and what'd he'd say back and those cute lil one liners you could say right back to him. Just use stuff like how was ur weekend orr how do you like ur classes or whatever when it comes to normal conversation and if it happens to come up about him liking you and he asks questions try and get him to answer first. Then, it gives you more time to think about what to say back, plus if he answers something easy then you can too, rather then you going to a novel about how u feel and him being like ya i dig you...if that makes any sense, just play it cool and just try and be relaxed and just go for it hun!! i dono if i helped ya out again, but if ya wanna know anything else just let me know! catchya later! (BTW--my sn is missblondy19 so if ya need quick answers just catch me on there!)
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ok....my friend right now is suppose to help me hook up w/ this guy from our school...so far everything is good... he says im very attractive and he asked for my sn so i could talk to him some more and get to knw me. This always happens that when i finally get what i would like something goes wrong, like i get unsatisfied or he just says "i don't wanna gf right now" what can i do or say to make this time diffrent... anything i should do to catch his eye? (link)
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Definately talk to him yourself and don't have conversations through a friend...I'm the kinda girl who is just always herself and I kinda play a little hard to get at first. I make the guy do the calling and the asking to hang out and all that sorta thing, I think it makes him work for you, and when a guy is willing to work for you it usually shows his intrest being a lil higher if you know what I'm saying. Plus it's kinda fun! =) Just don't go overboard and make him do how to lose a guy in 10 days kinda things. Just play the mysterious kinda does she like me does she not like me kinda girl! good luck!
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hey yall i need some help (16/f/single) well i was with my bff yesterday..and we invited over her bf and his friend who i kinda like!..well my friend and her bf were makign out...and i was talking too the other guy and well he put his hand on my leg no big deal then he was rubbing it you know it was comfortable..well i told him i liked him and he said he liked me! it was great lol then he fingered me...while we were making out...then he asked me out i said ya...then i ono what came over me i took his hand and wa\lked upstairs and we had sex..greaaaat sex...i was on the pill anyways and we used a condom...but am i a slut and was that a bad thing?? im not pregnant or anything...sry that was long..please tell me! PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS IS IMPORTANT TOO ME!!! (link)
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What you do is your own decision and unless you think what you did was wrong or you see yourself as being slutty for it then you're not. If you go around telling everyone it doesn't make you a slut but well, people are gay and will say stuff, but what you did doesn't make you a slut unless it's an everyday occurance. good luck with your new boyfriend! =)
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When after having sex and if the sperm ejaculated in, what kind of pills are good to take to avoid prenancy from happening? (link)
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Plan B, or the 'morning after' pill worked for me--but just so you know, it does have side affects and you might feel really guilty and just kinda depressed I guess, buut--if you need someone to talk to even though I don't know you feel free to write on this website and I can get back to you--I know what you go thru and I can be there for ya...Good luck hun!
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School has been going for about a week and things aren't exactly going very fast!
I am usually pretty populiar but now no 1 wants anything to do with me!
I dunno what to do cause i have like 5 friends out of 600!
What can i do to make it easier on me to make friends???? (link)
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It might sound kinda silly--but just smile and say hi to people...I bet you there are a TON of other people feeling the EXACT same way! even if you aren't successful in starting a conversation with everyone, I'm sure there will be people who will be MORE then willing to start up a conversation with someone new. Just don't give up....another thing....popularity isn't everything...sometimes it's the less 'popular' people who u'll find the best friends in...
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ok i wrote this like b4 but i was wondering..
see i have a bf namd chris.. who i love with everything i can love someone with.. ive been with him for 9 months (i knew him for 3 years prior to that) and im still CRAZY about him. I want to be with him forever. I love him so much. and im 15. i would die for him and theres like 3 other ppl i can say that about. i lost my virginity to him bc i wanted to always remember him no matter where in life we went. i think about marring him and having his kids. (not now of course!) and like when i think of him ever moving away i cry! like it upsets me that much! or like if something bad would ever happen to him like say he dies.. i cry! i mean i hear ppl on here talk about love.. but i kno im in love. and with the things with my mom and how she doesnt want me to be with him cause he is black (im white) well it just makes me want to stay with him more and it makes me fall more in love with him! its like i dont care what ANYONE has to say about me and him.. i love him and i cant help it. i would do anything for him! and for me to be 15 and think like this.. well when i told my cousin about it she thought i was dumb and that i shouldnt be tied down like that. but i tried to tell her i dont want to be with no one else besides him! i want to be with him forever. and dont think im some 15 yr old girl thats talkin outta her a$$ here.. i never said this about no one and probally wont for a long long loooooong time. but im dead serious. is it ok for me to feel this way? i just want ur opinions. its not like gonna change the way i feel for him if u guys say no its not normal. but i just want to hear from you all.
thanks a bunch
Manda (link)
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heyy--my names missy, and I have a boyfriend I feel the same way about...I don't think anything is neccesarly 'normal' b/c I dono how there can be a normal when everyones so different...BUUUT! I do feel the same way so if that helps, I don't think there's anything wrong w/ you and I think it's totally ok, soo Good luck with your boyfriend and--what other people say don't matter--it's how YOU feel, what YOOU think...there's always gonna be someone who looks down on you for what you do, just let them and learn from it..everyone has different values and feels differently about everything, that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them--it just makes them who they are! =)
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