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Alright, so there was this kid named Tyler. I went back with him back in October (Oct. 8th to be precise). Alright well a month later I broke up with him because my family is too strict and woudln't let me go anywhere with him. Also, I didn't like him AS MUCH as I used to. However, on that day that I broke up with him, I told him to PROMISE ME that we would always be friends forever.
FYI: he was heartbroken over the whole thing.
Well, in January, he found a new g/f, and ever since then, they've been together.
Tyler has ceased talking to me...it seems like he even refuses to look at me. Whereas, earlier, even when we broke up, he would still say hi.
It seems like its been a couple weeks that he's stopped talking to me. (He's stopped talking to my firend as well.)
I just miss him so much..
I kinda even want him back as a b.f.
SO what should i do? =\
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well you can try maybe asking if he and his girlfriend want to go with you and a bunch of friends to the mall or see a movie or whatever. try talking to him be the one that innitiates the convo. as for missing him and wanting him back as a b.f. you might just be going through what everyone goes through which is called wanting what you cant have lol. you had him, then you let go of him. it didnt really bother you until he was no longer available like that. you broke up with him bc you didnt like him as much as you use to. so i wiould just think of the reasons why you ended it and that will keep you from wanting him like taht. but i would still try and keep the friendship. ive gone out with this one guy and we broke up cuz it just wasnt happening and now like six years later were still really close. hope i helped and good luck:)
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Can someone please tell me what exactly a handjob is? is it when a guy sucks your fingers or something? haha HELP thanks!! (link)
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no its not when a guy sucks your fingers lol. its when a girl puts her hand around the guys penis and basically masterbates for him if that makes sense.
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i get so jealous when i see skinny girls who can wear cute dresses and look amazing ... or just anyone pretty in general. i know i'd be a ton prettier if i lost weight, but how can i be patient and motivate myself to stay with my diet? any tips to not crave junk? (link)
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first you need to realize that beauty is only skin deep. you need to love yourself for who you are not by what your hair or whatever looks like. now with that said lol i would suggest like walking. like i live a mile away from walgreens and i walk there using my ipod so i have music to listen to make the walk seem faster. then when i get there i grab something healthy to eat or drink on the way back. walking burns alot more calories then running does. you can also walk to different places. i suggest getting some comfortable walking shoes too. what i did was to not crave junk food i quit cold turkey. im telling you know its gonna be really hard like your first two weeks but if you can like replace what you eat with something healthy it will get easier. like i first started out with like one healthy thing a day and built myself up. also, if you want to have something thats like junkfood or candy or whatever just walk afterwards. so you will burn the sugar and calories off. oh and when you still have a craving chew gum i always carry gum with me and whenever i crave something i just pop it into my mouth lol. hope i helped and good luck:)
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ok,so me and my bf are okay and stuff, but the thing is we have terrible phone and aim conversations, we're good when its in person but on phone/aim we're both wicked shy. and i have like nooo idea what to talk about! any idea to make things more interesting? (link)
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hmmm well its good that its not the other way around that would be worse in my opinion. um yeah you guys could maybe buy a web cam so that your online yet you still see each other lol and maybe that would get rid of the awkwardness. hope i helped:)
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what does is mean if you laugh when you make out? do any of you do it? (link)
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ummm i only laugh if something funny happened lol. you could be nervous or you just like to laugh while making out. its no big deal really. everyones got there own style of making out haha.
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ok so last night i got really scared because i thought i was going to pass out. i was on my computer when i got lightheaded and everything i looked at the shaking like crazy. like i was on AIM and the whole screen was shaking, yet i could still type & think clearly. it was sooo weird. so i shut my eyes hoping it would go away. once i opened my eyes the shaking started again within 30 seconds.
why did this happen? like it wasn't because i hadn't eaten or anything.
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hmm how long were you on aim or on the the computer for? if youre on it for long periods of time youre eyes probably needed a break from the screen. try and take small breaks like every half hour to an hour or so. hope i helped:P
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Ok, i really need a new straightener. Can you guys help me, soon if possible. Here are some of my questions: what is a decent prise for a GOOD one that will actually straighten nicly and not take too long. also what is a good brand?? conair, revlon, chi..? whateva any suggestions would be welcome! Thanks soooo much (link)
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omg get the chi. its like 150 i think but its well worth the investment. it heats up in like seconds and it really staightens your hair. it also has a long life time ive tried others and they only lasted for like six months this one ive had and its been three years now and ive had no problems. plus it also has shampoos and conditioners to keep your hair from frying out. hope i helped!
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im a 13/f and i have never kissed a boy in my life. I have never even gone out with a boy in my life. I have wavy brown hair and am about 5'4 with an athletic figure. I want to know if theres somthing wrong with me and why i cant get a bf. plz help me (link)
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your 13. don't you want to maybe wait until you reach high school?
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Ok so i brush my teeth for 2 minutes to 2:£0 every day. use mouthwash twice a day and brush about 3. I also have whitening tooth polish that i brush on before going to bed..Then why aren't my teeth going any whiter?
I've tried so many things it's kinda annoying.
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also, if your on any kind of medication that can also have an effect. im take medication and it makes my teeth yellow. so i go to bright smile and that does wonders hope this helps
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i really really want to lose weight, particularly from my face. i want to have a skinny face where you can see your cheekbones and if you don't smile you still look pretty and not fat. but giving up food is not an option. trust me, i've tried everything. i cannot give up junk food. i cannot give up pigging out or eating when i'm bored. what can i do exercise-wise to combat this? i already play tennis every day after school but that's about all the exercise i get. would walking help? please help! i really want to be able to wear a small again. right now i'm a large. (link)
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well any form of excerise will help. if you still love eating junk food then what i would do (i do this) is whatever i get i eat only half of it. also if you eat cuz your bored try to drink water with it becuase it fills you up faster. or if your bored instead of eating go for a walk i do that to. um maybe you can try taebo that really helped me lose the weight. hope this helps and good luck!
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In the movie "Never Been Kissed" with Drew Barrymore, there is a really good song that plays when she's at the prom, and she's dancing with the prom king after they were announced winners. What song was that? (link)
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The song played during the king and queen dance is "Erase/Rewind" by The Cardigans i think its track five on the original soundtrack. its a really good song lol
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mkay.well im 15.my guy is 15 as well. me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over 5 months.(actually 7 months, but we broke up over the summer)I am honestly in love with him. and he really likes me as well, we just have a great relationship, we almost never fight. and when we do, like seriously in 5 minutes one of us is calling the other in tears to aplologize. so, i guess im saying that we have a great relationship. BUT. whenever where together, ALL he wants to do is makeout, and finger me, and go up my shirt. like seriously.at my house, the movies,the mall,school.i mean everywhere. we talk on the phone ALOT. in the month of january, we talked for a totaly of 1,658 minutes. most of it late into the night, usually 12:30 or later. im epileptic, so i really need my sleep. One of my problems is that i am SO embarassed about my epilepsy, i have so many great guy friends who care SO much. and are always right by my side when i have a seizure. but, im not sure how HE feels about it. he doesnt want to talk about it usually, but its not like he just doesnt care about me, and my epilepsy. BUt anyways my bigger probelem. whenever we talk on the phone, he ALWAYS wants me to masturbate while on the phone. ive done it more and more recently, i dont mind doing it once in a while, but honestly every night just isnt my cup of tea. and i feel a little uncomfortable. he also wants me to send him pictures of me doing things to myself.im really not up for that. ive already sent him like 4 pictures, but its just never enough, and he uses stupid excuses like "if you loved me" and "the other guys got to see it"(when i was in seventh grade, i got into a really uncomfortable sexual situation with older boys, and i told him about it, and now hes holding it against me) the other things he pressures me to do, is to give him a hand job and a blow job, and i REALLY dont want to, i mean i have never done that, and i just dont know how to. Am i too young for a serious relationship like this? Im not sure if im old and mature enough for this stuff, but i dont want to loose him, and he tells me that he will wait as long as he has to for me to get ready. but i feel really pressured. i DONT want to loose him,i mean i would be devastated. i have NEVER felt like this. am i too young? should i just let it go and wait until somebody else comes along later when im more mature? should i stay with him, and keep feeling pressured?i mean he doesnt pressure me, but i still feel rushed. i just HONESTLY need help. i would talk to my friends, but im in a group of realy goody goody friends, (im one too.lol)and im the only one who has ever had a real boyfriend, and so they think that making out is gross.
PLEASE HELP.
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OH sweetie im afraid to break this to you but this is not a good guy to go out with. I just recently have gone through the same thing he wanted me to do pictures he wanted me to give him head and things of that nature i was lucky enough from prior experience to recall this as a red flag. i told him its better that were just friends its good to becuase i found out he had taken a girls virginity a week earlier and said that nothing was gonna happen after he was done with her. me and her are really tight now and we are telling every girl we know to stay away from him. But seriously he just wants the sexual pleasures of being in a relationship and if he cant talk about your epilepsy with you then thats another sign hes not really caring. i have epilepsy to and im not ashamed of it. if anyone is then its there problem not yours. i hope this helps and if you need anymore advice feel free to contact me.
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one of my best friends, who also happens to be the guy i like is going out with another . Me and his friend don't really get along, and we don't really like each other. He decided to stay with her and he just stopped talking to me. we used to talk everyday, but now we don't talk at all. is he right to chose her over me? (link)
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omg no this is not right and hes a jerk for doing that. right now he is just into whats her face. if he has stopped talking to you in the sense of anything deep but still talks to you about nothing then you still might have a chance. what you need to do is wait it out. dont try to talk to him. he is probably not going to be with her forever and this is just one of the many issues of dealing with guys who are your best friends. um also, get out and do stuff with other people keep your mind busy and if hes a total jerk then move on true friends are there for you all the time fake ones are there for just the good times. hope this helps
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I live in las vegas and my boyfriend lives in henderson which is about 30 minutes away without traffic.
i'm only 14 so i can't get a license or even a permit yet to drive.
my boyfriend is 16 but he doesn't drive or didn't get his license yet either
I'm not really busy or anything so I can see him everyday if I could.
since its 25 miles away I don't want to take the bus or walk down there.
I can't really find a ride and we always want to see eachother
to be honest I don't really know what question I'm asking i just need advice on anyway to see him but i pretty much already told you i can't find a ride but if you have anything to say even though this might be pointless then say it please
haha thanks :] (link)
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hmm maybe you should date someone who is closer to you
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ok..well..i've looked everywhere for sites like this but i can't find any. like where there are clothes that are SUPER cheap. like clearance or a going-out-of-business sale. or like any REALLY good deals. i've seen some before, but does anybody know of any? (link)
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um good will i go there all the time to get clothes cuz im to cheap to spend twenty dollars on a shirt lol. no but theres also tjmaxx and depending on where you live playdoughs closet. hope this helps
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