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i just found out i'm pregnant.
i'm very nervous that my water will break out in public, is it alot of fluid or is it not that much.
also i'm nervous about peeing my pants in public.
if i do, like would i pee alot, or would i be able to catch myself and only pee a little.
please answer these, thanks. (link)
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it depends on the woman. sometimes it's a large gush. sometimes it leaks slowly. theres no way to determine how it will go. but dont worry, womens waters break all the time in public. and you can't control it.
well i don't think anyone can answer the second question. only you will know that.
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15/m
like how do you do phone sex? i know you're supposed to talk dirty but what else do you do? just wondering because my girlfriend and i are thinking about trying it
thanks (link)
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well no pressure but youre probably going to have 2 take the lead this time. the first time i did it, i was extremely nervous but bf took the lead and i got pretty comfortable with it. so b nice and let her relax a bit this time. girls tend to b a bit more nervous
ok with that said, now for tips. like the last poster said, masturbate, talk dirty. a good tip is telling her when you get close to orgasm so both of you can hopefully reach it at the same time. usually just making plain old noises will do the trick tho. personally those help much more than just talking dirty. and everything doesnt have 2 b dirty. tell her how much you love her, what you would do for her, about your future 2gether.
my bf and i like to describe what we're wearing and how we take it off (but remember ya dont have to actually take stuff off, but just describe it) but it might take a few times for you both to get comfortable with that.
you may be nervous, and she will too, but once its over youll be perfectly comfortable with it (and hopefully love it.)
but remember it doesnt replace doing stuff in person
good luck!
-mel
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ok
so a girl friended me on facebook last night
and i've never met her before
but she's really cool
and a total hottie
but as i was saying
she's out of town right now
and i've been talking to her alot
and she says she'd like to go do something when she gets back in town
but i've never even met her before
so should i do it? i think it'll be fun but i'm worried that since i've never met it might be a little awkward.... (link)
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ok, "hot" isn't everything.
go do something with her. see if she's "really cool" as you say she is online
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Is it normal for discharge to come out pinkish before your period? I've never experienced this until now, and I was supposed to get it today, but I didn't get it yet. Last time I had sex was like 3 days after my period last month, and he didn't ejaculate in me.
So I'm pretty sure I'm not pregnant; and I haven't had any symptoms of pregnancy.
I've had almost all my usual symptoms of my period, breaking out, bloated, eating more. The only one I didn't get is a headache.
So yeah, is it normal?
Thank you. (link)
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I'm not sure... I've never had pink before, I just have it a bit heavier (but clear) before mine starts.
Well if you weren't using protection you could be pregnant. It doesn't matter if he officially ejaculated in you. There's still a possibility that you could be pregnant.
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can someone translate this for me: i found it on a group on facebook...
Group Info Name: los q quieren q voten a chito
Type: Just for Fun - Facebook Classics
Description: el es 1 kbron q siempre esta peleando con los demas y pendejo q lla esta suspendio asta josie te dio el demerito para q t suspendan mamauuuu y lo d jeanmi el tiene mas amigos q u a y no soy pato como eduardo lopes
thaaaaanks (link)
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this is a rough translation i did with my own spanish and help from a translator...
by the way, every q is the word "que"
things in quotes, i could not translate
Group Name: those who want to vote for chito
Description: He is 1 (kbron) that is always fighting with others and (pendejo) that she was suspended (asta) josie gave you the demerit so that more friends suspend (mamau) and that thing about (jeanmi) he has more friends than you and I am not as broke as eduardo lopes
ah sorry doesn't make much sense to me. but this might give you an idea
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ok so earlier tonight my girlfriend and i were dry humping for the first time. at one point she got really tense and started breathing really heavily, and i just wanted to know: did she orgasm?
afterwards she said it felt really good if that helps. . . (link)
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hmm well you can breathe heavily without having one... personally i never have had one with my boyfriend. it can feel good without having one! i wouldn't count on it.
she was probably just nervous anyway (thus the tenseness and heavy breathing) i was a wreck when i first did it.
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ok so me and my bf were so great. everything was perfect. we were together for 9 months. so suddently he started being mean to me. like calling me corney or just like wheneevr i asked him something he wouldnt want to tell me. like if i would ask him what are you doing? he would say "something". that would just get annoying. so i was really depressed and i asked him if he wanted a break and he sed no. and i sed i do. and he said ok. and then he put a smily face. this was all through aim. why would he put a smily?. and i asked him why he put a smily and he sed idk. i told him it was jsut a break for a while and he sed ok as long as its for a while. so my best friend has classes with him and she asked him if he wanted to get backtogether and he sed no.i was so sad. and he doesnt have his cell anymore and he barely goes online and i dont go to the same school as he does. also, my other friend was telling me about some girl he used to like. she used to cut herself for him. that made me feel worse. i dont know what to do anymore. i really miss him and cant contact him i wanted to hang out with him this saturday. what should i do? is it too soon the breakup was 2 days ago and we havent talked since. thanks. i rate! (link)
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this jerk does not deserve your time. when youre sad, think about how he treated you. you dont deserve to be treated that way.
if he wanted to apologize, he would have called you. forget about him. he doesnt deserve you.
good luck!
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ok this girl just asked my boyfriend to go to a water park with her and some other people. she knows that we've been going out all year, and i know her a little bit, but she didnt invite me. at first i thought she was just inviting him cuz shes friends with him, but my mom said that her inviting him like that, without me, means she likes him. do you think thats true? i would never invite someone else's boyfriend to do something like that, so its kind of weird to me. should i be worried? (link)
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ahhhh. if you two have been going out all year then the girl should know that you two go places together rite? i would talk to your boyfriend about it. hopefully he'll see what you mean and ask the girl if you can go aswell
good luck!
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15/m
i have trouble talking to girls and i'm having friends over friday, and i know this may be a bit odd but i have about 4 crushes right now, at least 1 of which will be at a gathering i'm having friday sooo...yea my questions are...:
1) any advice on talking to girls? i always get nervous and end up saying something stupid...
2) any advice on making a move? it is rather possible i might be able to do so...
thanks a lot dudes and dudettes
McC (link)
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well... i would pick a crush first. no girls like when there are other girls involved.
be yourself! i know its hard. breathe a bit before you begin the convo.
arm around. when you two are sitting together or standing up. dont grab her either, just lightly place ur arm around her. if she doesnt like it she'll move away
good luck!
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my boyfriend's a really bad kisser, but a wonderful guy. is there any way i can suggest for him to change his technique without completely offending him? (link)
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tell him what feels good. tell him what you like without criticizing his techniq. good luck!
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15/m
alrighty so here's the deal
my girlfriend and i will have been together for three months next saturday, which is kind of a big deal for us, and i really want to do something that she'll remember for a long time. also, she's leaving the next day to go to duke for three weeks, so i want to do something fun but nothing too expensive. .
thing is, i have no idea what that thing should be.
i'm not sure if i should get her something either. i'd already planned on writing her somewhat of a love letter type thing, but i don't know if i should get her anything else. i'm kinda low on cash, too. . .
thanks for any and all help
peace out (link)
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where you two could be alone. i would suggest going to a park and just walking around. she would like that.. and the note thing is a great idea. you dont have to add the picnic thing... shell luv it without the food, promise. and thats a lot more work for you (you prob dont now what she likes to eat anyway.) so just go and walk around... personally i would never 4get that
good luck!
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i just ended a three month relationship with my boyfriend..it was mutual. but it still hurts a lot. just the thought of me being sad makes me sad about it. and everytime i talk to one of my friends about it, they tell me something else about my relationship with him that makes it ten times worse.
what can i do to get over this quicker?
i'm sick of crying. (link)
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breakups are always hard, especially the first one. when you are sad, remember that he was your first and there will be plenty more to come. as for your friends, don't focus on the good times you had with him. focus on the bad... it really helps you remember that he was a jerk (or something equivalent!)
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hi, im a 17 year old girl, and ive been talking to this guy for a while. and im really interested in him and i think he is in me. we are going on a date today. we would have a couple weeks ago but he became very sick with mono. mono has 3 stages the first stage where you get really sick, the second where your really tired, and the third where you are recovering. so i've never had mono and i do not know how contagious it is in the second stage (which he is currently in). basically hes been telling me that hes not really contagious anymore but i think that is just so he can kiss me... so what do i do?.. do i kiss him? or if i shouldnt kiss him... what could we do instead.. remember its the first date but we have been talking for a couple weeks like everyday so nothing too promiscuous. :) (link)
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be careful... mono is very contagious, spread by things other than kissing. i would wait 2 more weeks or so until you're sure that he's better. and besides, i don't believe in first date kisses in the first place.
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