my name is martyna.
or marty if the one extra syllable is too much.
im 18 and in college part time.
working full time as well.
ive been through alot in my life and im still going through it.
no friends.
too many friends.
crazy parents.
alcoholism.
drug use and abuse.
girlfriends.
boyfriends.
lack of boyfriends.
love.
moving out.
getting kicked out.
public school.
private school.
catholic school.
not going to school.
ive done it all.
so ask me, and i promise to respond to the best of my ability.
Website: myspace
Gender: Female
Location: burbank, il
Occupation: student/other
Age: 18
AIM: WhatMartynaSaid
Member Since: November 4, 2008
Answers: 36
Last Update: November 8, 2008
Visitors: 1744
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Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get the look of Ashley Greene in this picture?
http://media.photobucket.com/image/alice%20cullen/Rachizzal/Alice_Cullen__by_saraneth672.jpg?o=4
Like any makeup tips or products to use?! please =]] (link)
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get brown eye shadow.
basically put the eye shadow on your upper lid up to the creese so its not too much. then smooth it out and up so it looks shadowy above the lid.
then put a line of it under your lower eyelid.
make sure you do this before mascara though.
after you finish this put eyeliner on your bottom lids and mascara on both the upper and lower lashes.
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what can i say to my boyfriend while texting him. something cute, yet a bit naughty. i don't just want to be like... "i want you" that sounds kind of weird to me? i dont know is there anything i could say that would kind of turn him on.
thanks 17/f by the way. (link)
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this all depends on your relationship's comfort level.
like my boyfriend and i text like that all the time but its mostly like, we repeat things that we have said during sex before, and that kindof turns him on.
so it depends on how comfortable you are with him.
but "i want you" isnt weird at all.
its cute and will make him feel wanted.
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15/ f my boyfriend is my best friend and we are in love. i know that i am going to get him something like a cd that he really wants and sum other things but wanna do something special for him. any ideas?? (link)
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this is a difficult question since you are younger than me, so i can only say what i would do.
im actually having the same problem, i dont know what to get my boyfriend.
but i was thinking maybe like a card, with something really heartfelt written in it?
like write him exactly how you feel and how much you love him and whatnot.
i dont think christmas is really the holiday to go all out doing stuff for him, thats more of a birthday thing so save that for his bday.
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What exactly is under age dating? (link)
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i think its like when one of the people in the relationship is under the age of 18 and the other is above the age of 18.
this is technically illegal, since you are considered an adult at 18.
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I would really love some recommendations for books. I want a good love story. I've read Twilight, and I want something like that, I really liked it. And yes I have read Vampire Kisses, not really my style.
Any suggestions are greatly appreciated!! (link)
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Scribbler of Dreams is like the best love story book that i have ever read.
it makes me cry eveytime, i love it.
i dont know your age or maturity level, but if youre a little more mature, maybe The Thorn Birds would be something you would like?
good luck!
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13/m
ok so ive got a big belly that sticks out and i want to know how to get rid of it other than taking medication such as doing sit ups every morning or somehting like that
thanks (link)
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squats and situps are great for toning your belly.
also, running and swimming are great ways to lose those extra pounds.
i know that this is sometimes boring, so maybe look into some kind of group motivation thing, like yoga or pilates or even dance class.
or if you dont like that, maybe buy a workout dvd especially for the stomach area, and work out with that everyday.
good luck!
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I got married on very short notice. I have known him for a total of three years today in fact and been married for 17 months now. I was very young and so was he. Still are. We are both 25. We both have children from another relationship and one together. If I could write in detail everything it could take forever. lol Here is the thing. I am changing as a person and he is not. He is not trying to grow with me and he really doesn't know me at all. We never talk only through text including when we are at home. All he cares about is sex and he wont understand how I can't unless the emotional part is there. At work another man is paying alot of attention to me. He doesn't work there he is just a customer. He actually makes me feel really good about myself unlike my husband who would rather call me names. Did I mention he has cheated 6 times in three years? Not sex but it might as well been to me. Even before this other guy came into play, I wanted out. I can't take the hurt he has caused me but I am terrifed of leaveing. That is just a quick some of things. Now what I would like to know if anyone has been through this or something simular? Will you help me figure out what I should do? I still love my husband but I do not like him if that makes sense. This has nothing to do with the other guy and all I do is talk to him from time to time about everyday things. I cant do that with my husband. This other guy just makes me feel like I'm not crap. That I can do anything I want still. He makes me feel free again. Please. I really don't know what to do. (link)
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you need to get out of this relationship, fast.
you deserve so much better.
i used to be with a guy that was all about sex.
basically the only things that he wanted from me were sex and money.
and it took the helpign hand of a friend to get me out of that relationship, btu i did it, and ive never been happier, especially now that ive found the guy im dating now, which im sure is my soul mate.
if i wouldnt have left the other guy, i never would have found this amazing guy.
you need to feel like the guy you are with appreciates you and knwos who you are.
its not fair to you to stay in a relationship where you are not happy.
i understand that leaving isnt easy and its very frightening, but if thats what will help maybe you should just screw it, and go.
and perhaps when he sees that you have left, he will realize that he lost something great and change, but dont bank on it especially if he's cheated 6 times!
the way i see it is the only way you can ever be truly happy again is if you find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated and dump this guy.
good luck, and write if theres anything else i can help you with.
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I'm 13, & I'm rather short for my age.
I've had my period already, but I don't seem to be getting any taller. (link)
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so whats the question?
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Ok. I know everyone is going to say that I am to young for this. Well I am a 14/f and I had sex for the very first time. I am not on the pill and I think I might be pregnant. My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years and i thought i was ready. We used a condom but he put it on inside out. It has been 2 weeks after we had sex and i am feeling uncomfortable. I have not had my period yet and i have been feeling sick everyday. I do not know if i am pregnant and i do not know how to tell my boyfriend please help! (link)
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oh wow.
chill out.
id like to say youre being ridiculous but this is exactly how i felt after my first time.
its very unlikely that you are pregnat if you used a condom.
and your sick feeling is just your nerves, so try to relax or you will keep feeling like that.
wait until you get your period.
or at least until youre supposed to.
and if you are more than a week late, go to walgreens and get a pregnancy test.
then you will know for sure.
theres pretty much nothing else you can do.
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Okay so this is totally random I guess you could say but my elbo's are rough, and dry and scaley like. They're white and I can't stand it it's like sand paper. What do i do?
I have tried babyoil and lotion and that just makes them reder. (link)
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its spelled elbow.
and you should get some of that exfoliating apricot scrub from like walgreens or something.
basically the stuff to smooth away dry skin.
it will help.
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15/f
So Im going out with this kid, hes awesome, and I know im ready to kiss him, and I want to make out with him but im afraid I wont know how to do it, Ive never made out with anyone before, and im kinda scared, he plans on making out on Thursday which is 3 days from now and I dont know how to get over this. (link)
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umm.
if you dont what what youre doing just let him do it.
its not as bad as you think it is, really.
and i dont think 15 is too young to have your first kiss. i think its jsut about right, especially if you think youre ready.
but anyways, just let him lead.
look at what he's doing and follow his lead.
copy his movements, and youll be okay.
it takes time, youre not going to be amazing right away.
good luck.
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I am not sure if i am going to sell my ipod, and get another bigger one, or what, but i am just wondering if i do sell my ipod how much would it sell for?
It is a video ipod black. the back is scratched up alot, and the front has a few scratches. it is 30 gb. and i got it a few (maybe 3) years ago.
What do you think it is worth?
Thankss! (link)
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probably not much, since ipods are everywhere these days.
maybe 30, 35 it youre really lucky.
good luck!
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So my boyfriend and I titt* f*ck a couple of weeks ago, but I woke up the next day with all these red dots on my chest. I told my bf and he said that its the friction between the penis and my boobs that caused the red dots. Over the next couple of days, the red dots went away, but theres still a couple that are not very noticeable, but it is bothering me. I have not gone to the doctor, but I have called STD lines and they were very rude to me. So is it really just friction? or is it herpes? ps he's not a virgin, if that helps (link)
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its definitley not an std!
dont worry.
its just that the skin by the boobs is really sensative and if something like that happens, it just reacts.
so he's right.
it really is just friction.
you cant get an std by skin contact.
he would have to actually go down there.
besides, herpes only shows up in two places and thats the groin and the mouth.
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do nose piercings look trashy or slutty?
anyone with a nose piercing-- do they scar if you take them out, and do they get infected easily? (link)
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ive had my nose pierced like 3 times.
and ive never had a scar.
even if they do get infected, which mine did once, if you just take it out and wash it with disinfectant, youre good. but it shouldnt get infected if you take good care of it. like dont touch it without washing your hands first and try not to move it as much as possible.
and no i dont think it looks trashy or slutty at all.
you can either get a stud or a hoop, depending on your style.
ive had both and they look good.
good luck!
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what are some good emo/indie/punk bands.
even like punk/experimental like 30h3! (link)
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oh god i love this question.
make sure you look into these bands, because you will probably not know them.
the matches.
escape the fate.
forever the sickest kids.
vice on victory.
street to nowhere.
ludo.
paramore.
fly leaf.
the devil wears prada.
say anything.
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how would i get eyes like lauren, lo, audrina ad stephanie on the hills.
i have blue eyes alsoobut i want to make them "pop" :)))) (link)
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ok so.
you know that almay eye shadow stuff for blue or green or brown eyes?
ok, well get the one for blue eyes, and use the dark blue one or the light blue one. the brown doesnt look too good.
basically put the eye shadow on your upper lid up to the creese so its not too much.
then put a tiny line of it under your lower eyelid.
make sure you do this before mascara though.
after you finish this put eyeliner on your bottom lids and mascara on both the upper and lower lashes.
you could also do this in dark brown to make it look like that smokey eye look.
that basically what they do on the hills.
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