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Alright well I'm rather skinny..I'm 5'1" and and I weigh about 90 lbs...I'm 14 years old. Well I have like really skinny thighs and I wish they were bigger. It's so hard finding pants that are tight around the leg and it makes me so mad. I always find pants that are tight on my butt because my butt is kinda big and it doesn't fit well with my skinny legs. Does anyone know what I should do to make my legs bigger or what pants I should buy. Most likely I'd like to know about making my thighs bigger. Thanks.

skinny thighs are nice, but if yu want more muscular, work on like wall sits, squat jumps, runnning and many others. just drop one in my inbox. i have done gymnastics 4 7 years. i have a zillion billion babay!


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ok this is going to be kind of long but... okay i have liked this guy since the beginning of this year and this past week i have finally like starting talking with him and stuff. and im generally really shy around guys so this is like big for me lol. and so the problem is.. i just found out that my other friend kind of likes him too. yeah. but she doesnt know that i like him. and i have only known her since september or october. and i kind of want to tell her but mym best friends don't even know because im just not that kind of person. and so its just like now that he's finally talking to me, she likes him. also shes like really pretty and popular. and i am just okay looking and average popularity. and i really like him and this would be my first like REAL boyfriend. should i tell her? or would it ruin our friendship?

look, this whole 'i'm going to hurt my frind thing' is crazy. just go for it hunni! i mean, ur friend doesnt have the right to tell you who yu should like and if u just hold back, she will be ALL over him. and i'm serious, i've seen it happen a zillion times. just continue talking and best of luck to yu :)


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ok well las nyte me n mi friend went to rok n bowl to meet sum guys that we kno frm bowling.. we were at rok n bowl..n then wen we were leavin..mi grandfather who waz pikin us up wasnt there..he left..so we went home with the two guys n snuk in there house n spent da nyte..i swear i didnt do nething wit ne of those guys becuz i have a boifriend n i love him!...but today i wasnt home so mi mom kalled the cops n evrything..danny(mi boifriend)found out bout me spendin anyte at there house..n he doesnt believe that i didnt cheat on him...i told him i didnt ni owuld nevr cheat on him..i love him..i tried kallin him alll las nyte so i could go home w/ him but he didnt answer hiz fone..he said that i fuked our realationship up.n hes glad that im grounded becuz he doesnt want to c me cuz i hurt him..omg i wish i waz dead..i dont kno wat to do...
I DIDNT CHEAT ON HIM..I NEVR WOULD!!!

if he cant trust yu, hes not worth it.. sry. its the cold hard truth hunn :\

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Hey! I like your advice alot! Anyway, I am a singer. I've been singing ALL my life, and I'm DEFINATLY not bad. I actually have a really good voice from what ive been told. ALL i EVER wanted to do is become a famous singer, but now im 15 and havent gotten anywhere. I have been in choirs and i have been in private lessons FOREVER, but everytime i have ot do alot of songs by myself in front of BIG crowds i get really scared. I know i have a good voice, but i am soo shy wiht it because i worry that i will sUCK at it! i cant gte anywhere wiht my shyness. help me!

ok, this happened to me with acting. i kno i am good, but i freeze up in front of big crowds! and once i had to sing a solo in front of 500 ppl. but yu just have to face your fears to get over them. it takes a while to build up enough charisma to be infront of big crowds. i faced my fears for 2 years and now i have no problem getting up on the stage! yu just need 2 build up confidence, and yu can b proud and relieved when every1 claps! just do more and more things infront of big crowds. thats the onlii way yu can get over stage fright! it happens to EVERY1!


i hope i helped!
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What are ways I can get taller? I'm 14/m.

u reeli cant lovie! onlii if yu go thru the bone stretch, or drink a lot of milk i guess. I'm about ur age, and i'm 4'10". ppl dont judge hieght, and if they d0o, they r asses. yu can alwayz talk 2 ur doctor about these things :D, they kno best!


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Goodluck dear! dr0op ine in2 the inbox if yu need nething! much luvin!

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My friend has this bad problem with flirting with people and not even realizing that she's flirting with them. For example, she told my boyfriend that she thought he was cute, started giggling, and blushed. My boyfriend was rather...irritated...by this, as he can not stand my friend. Whenever I confront her about it, she swears to God she hasn't flirted. How can I get her to see that she really has a problem with this? It just irritates me to see her flirting with my boyfriend. x_x Please help?

shes overreacting. tell her that yu didnt have a hissy fit when SHE went out with HIM and YOU liked HIM FIRST! choose whoever yu thk yu have the best relationship with and which would last longer. bf/gf doesnt lasst THAT long, and friends last long. mayb if yu become b friends with him (like bff kinda thing) so yu kno that he will stay ur friend. c when she gets over him, then go. i thk yu should still just hear her opinion, because even tho she totally turned on yu, yu dont wanna b a bad friend like her. but doo as yu feel!


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1. I want to go to a tanning bed, BUT, i heard it causes skin cancer, Does it really? Alos, I want to get a tan and I know its fall/winter almost. Would it look stupid? And how much do they usually cost? And do you have to be skinny to go to one?

1) yes it does cost skin cancer

2) it doesnt look stupid

3) get tanning lotion... i recommend 'Tan Secret' but i thk yu have to special order it off tv, but itz good, it doesnt go orange

4) that lotion? 50 bucks.. but itz worth it.

5) no, yu dont have to b skinny. tans are good on ne1.


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ps.. dont go 2 a booth! itz SOOO unhealthy. get lotion, it works as well, and its safe :D


drop one in the inb0x if yu need nething else!

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HURRY how do you put more than one picture in a column??? Hurry! lol I rate High if you give me good directions! lol Love- ANdie

i tried, but it didnt work, but i THK yu can out more than one pic... ask HardRock at one point he had like 7. he should kno :D


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who is gonna win? kerry or bush? tell me ur opinions

BUSH ALL THE WAY!!!


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DOes anyone have the hilary duff CD? is it good/worth buying?
thanx!!
i'll rate

i have it, and not reeli, hilary duff isnt THAT great. if yu like her style of singing then yes :D


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do u sharpen eye liner w/ a regular prencil sharpener?
i didnt kno wanted to kno...

well yu could... but itz better 2 sharpen it with a reg. eyeliner sharpener. yu can get them at any pharmacy.. CVS, Stop n Shop, Brooks... etc. anywhere they sell make-up :D


x0x0x Loverx33 I hope i helped! :P

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Ok this may sound really weird but lately ive been having this thick white discharge. Does any1 know what that can be and why im getting it? 16/f

there's nothing to worry about! yur just gunna get ur period soon!


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My lips are pretty average size but I want to get them looking more pouty... any advice? Thanks!

look at my column, i have an answer in there about this :D, well, i'll summerize it ;D. bit yur lips to make them swell, and yu can buy stuff called lip lumper. itz like a lip gloss with these like pebbles/tiny rocks and they irritate ur lips so they swell. good stuff! in my column under the answer, i have a story of what happened to me :D, and now i have the fullest lipz in my skewl! well, it kinda hurt tho ;D


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where are some good places to get sexxy undies- like thongs and g*strings?

the best place i can thk of is Victoria's Secret. thats where i get em, or then Bap Body. they got some 2!


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What's that new song by Gwen Stefani called? I heard it on Bob 93.3 last night, for those of you who live in the Eastern North Carolina area. =/ Anyone happen to know?

it izz 'What are You Waiting For'.


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whats eminems new song called, not just lose it..but the one mocking george bush or w/e i guess...thanks

i just checked on iTunes, and i found a song named 'Mosh'. i'm pretty sure itz that cause it was about bush n stuff.


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Ok, I've been rated 35 times and my column says I was rated 20 times. What's going on?

it just takes 24 hours for yur computer to get the ratings updated. or mayb the other 15 r from last month. the ratings get deleted from memory after a month.


i hope i helped!
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ok i have an appointment to get my license in december. for the test, is it a written test and a drving test or just driving and if there is a written test do i just study the same DMV booklet that i studied before i got my permit. Thanks!
BTW i live in georgia if that info is needed...

itz got a writing n driving test. yu should study the booklet! good luck hun!


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Hey Thanks for all the answeres about the dance question!! but unfortunately it looks like i can't go becuz my mom doesn't want me to she is afraid the girls r gonna take me 2 some alley somewhere and beat me up!! so should i fight with my mother and ask me to go to the dance or should i just stay home?

dont fight about it. just skip it hun. yu dont wanna get ur mom mad, because if yu do go.. say yu sneak out.. yur mom would never trust yu again. respect her opinions. she doesnt wanna make yur life miserable, she loves yu and does onlii wats best for yu. moms get vibes when summin isnt gunna go right.. even tho she may b overreating. dont show anger, just go along with her. yu might not wanna hear this, but itz true. it has happened 2 a few of my friends.. and it wasnt good.. plz, just listen 2 yu mom hunni!


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Hey well I met this guy in a chat room and we got to talkin and it turned out that he went to my school , and when I found him in my school he turned out to be the Captian of the Football team and he seamed to like me but I already have a boyfriend...... I love my boyfriend to death but the guy I met lets just say his name is Shawn asked me out and I turned him down , was that the right thing to do???

well, yu dont wanna cheat on ur current bf. tell the boi that yu like him, but yu are currently 'unavailable' cause, uh ya. tell him that mayb someday, when u n ur boifriend dont have 'chemistry' nemore, then he will b ur #1 choice. still hang out with him. captian of the football team? yaa, keep a relationship ;)


good luckk hunni!
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