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my cat is about a year old. shes very tiny, and has always been on the thinner side. there was even a time when someone made a comment about how "fat" she was getting.
well, a while back, she started throwing up. a LOT. like almost 3 or 4 times a week. she'd eat waaaay too much and end up not even chewing up half of it, and then she'd turn around and throw up anywhere.
since that has been happening, she hasn't been getting much nutrients. and shes also eating less and less and losing waaaaay too much weight. she's getting so thin and bony. she still goes outside and runs around and stuff, but im concerned about her weight. if she was a person, id call this bulimia. but shes not a person...shes a kitten. and im really worried.
can someone tell me what i can do? or if you recognize what this is? (link)
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Well first off you should get her checked out by a vet because at worst she could have a intestinal worm, these guys can steal alot of nutrience from what a animal eats. Also mayeb you should try rationing her food to maybe 1/2 a scoop of kibble in the morning and half at night or soever you see fit, we have a cat who lived outside for his whole life becasue his past owners dumped him he used to eat untill he threw up because he didnt think he was ever going to be fed again. Also be carful if you kitty is outside because some people are mean and will try to hit them if she is on the road and their are many elements like hawks that can pick up a small cat adn have her for lunch.
I hope this helpes.
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I am moving in a few months to another country. I have two cats that need to go with us and I was wondering about air travel. They will go in the cabin with us, but I am sure they will scream and howl like crazy. What should I do? I have heard really bad things about sedatives and tranquilizers and that they are not reliable and can hurt the cat. They are both about 10 years old and I have heard that older cats might not wake up from tranquilizers. Is this true? Of course I don't want that to happen, but I also don't want any trouble from complaining passengers because of my cats' howling. Any advice?? Thanks! (link)
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I can see your fear for a sedative for your baby, as an owner of 6 cats travel isn't easy and i love to see thet you are taking your cats with you. Since they are older cats tehy may not make as much noise as a younger cat usually waht i do when traveling my cat to the vets i cover his cage with a cloth so he cannot see out of his cage and be as confering as possible, try to put something like their favorit blanket in the cage or a small toy this can confert them. Sedatives I belieave are not a healthy solution unless they are at the vets for a operation, the best you can try to do is make them as confey as possible in their travel carriers.
I hopo this helps, good luck.
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Basically last night my boyfriend stayed the night, and we didn't realise that my Dad was taking the day off work. So after my sister left the house we had sex, very loudly.
After we finished up my boyfriend checked my dad's room and he was 'asleep'
I don't know if he really was or not. I pretty much got dressed and ran to school way early.
How do I deal with this? What do I do if he mentions it? What do I do if he doesn't? (link)
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do not bring it up unless he says something, but it would be good to talk to your mother about going on the pill you don't have to mention that you are sexually active its gust cuz you want to be safe. >_
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How do you know if your Cherry pooped? many people say you get it form maybe horseback riding or sports or other things, but how do you know if you have? what excatly happens. (link)
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It can be popped by many diffrent way horseback is a good way to because of the motion your body take while riding the horse, but if it does pop it'll be a bit of blood nothing big to deal with you'll gust think it's your period stating if you've been doing horse riding but with sex it will only be a bit of blood as well nothing big it may seem gross but to a guy who is not a virgin he shouldn't care too much unless their are white sheets on the bed, lol.
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when your having sex for your first time, can a boy tell its the girls first time? like ive heard storys that you bleed but is that after sex like the next day or during. seems kinda gross if its during..
like other than not knowing exactally what to do..is there anyway a boy can tell the girls a virgin?
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well the easiest way for a guy to know if the girl is a virgin is if she tells him, he will also know when he see's a little bit of blood during intercourse, but then again not all girls will pop theri cherry the first time, it usually will happen during intercourse and should be a little bleeding nothing serious to worry about. and a guy will know if a girl is virgin if all she does is act like a starfish and lay their doing nothing ..
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my boyfriend and i tried having sex for the first time (both virgins)
and either he was too big or i was too tight but we couldn't get it in
any advice with that? (link)
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your first time isnt going to be perfect for the girl it may be a bit painful, try to get him to finger you a bit to losten your muscles up because if your not relaxed your gonna be tighter then all hell, this is also a easy way to get him to pop your cherry and make you bigger in some sense so it wont be as painful for your first time, try this a few time befor doing actual sex forplay is a good way to start off to finde out what you like and don't like during that special time and rember protection all the time!! i cannot stress about that the condome and pill are a great way to plan in advance because theri is nothing more stressful then thinking your pregenent even thought you've used a condome.
I hope this helps you out.
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ok when you shave your vagina. whats it look like when your done? should it look a little prickly? or completely shaved like when you shave your legs? how do i get it to be like that if it is? shave it down then shave it up? cause i tried it once and i got like bumps and id bleed a little.im asking cause im self contious. i think meand my boyfriend are coming up to that stuff. thanks so much in advance! (link)
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Honestly everyone is diffrent, some girls are pink some aren't, but i'de recommend using lostion theri after shaving and the bleeding is probably from you cutting a little to close with arazor and the bumps aree simply skin irritation that is why lotion with moisturizue and vitemens are good.
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Hey i'm 15 and i have C cup sized breasts. the only problem is one is relatively the perfect perkiness but the other sags......and i'm really worried that when my boyfriend sees he'll be grossed out by the unevenness....is there like anything i can do? (link)
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Trust me if your a C size like myself yeah they wont be perfect perkyness, but you could try bench pressing some weights in your arms work your upperbody because when the muscles are made it can help make then firmer perker and even bigger if you work out too much.
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how do you talk dirty. i know thats a dumb question but this guy keeps on telling me to and hes getting mad and calling me stupid since i said, what would you like me to say. he was like your so stupid just talk dirty
now i feel stupid. (link)
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lol well it can gust come normally, i call my Bf a bad boy alot of the time when he acts naughty or stupid ;) trying using sexy words or wispering in his ear in a sexy way "what would you like me to say?" in a mysterious way.
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As a girl, are you supposed to shave "down there". And if yes, to what extent? (as in everything or ect...) Thanks. (link)
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Well its all in you opinion as a female if you want to shave or not, but shaving i find makes it cleaner espically when on your period also if you want your guy to eat you out or other sexual activitys. their are diffrent way you could gust trim it shave some or go all the way.
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My boyfriend and i had intercourse last night. he came pretty fast. then he was like let me get another condom. and he asked me to give him head to start him off. well, he wouldn't get hard and he was really embarrassed. is that something i should be concerned about for him? If it is something i should be concerned about, what should I do about it?
And he told me, the longer you go without cumming the faster you will cum. is that true?
Thank you for the help!
I appreciate it =]
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Hay its ok, he probably embarrased that he came to fast so tell him that its ok. and he probably Pre-ejects, alot of guys do and are embarrased about it so tell him its no big deal. My Bf has the same problem but sometimes he is able to get hard again and sometimes not so you gust gotta work at it and make him feel confterbul.
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ok i am a 14/f. everyday at least twice i am thinking about sex. i want to have it but im scared i watch people on redtube.com have sex and i like it. i do not know how to stop this and i need help my parents or sister do not know about this. my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years does not know this and i want to tell him but i dont no how any advice?? (link)
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Don't sweat it i know 14 is a young age at 14 i felt the same way i wanted it and was kinda obsessed about it, talking to no one. best thing to ease this is to have a lil' "fun time" by yourself explor your body what you like and don't like. Also I'de wait a while befor you actually have sex, it can be addictive, use protection like a condome and go on the pill as well. The best thing to do for your Bf is don't tell him that you want sex. Because like a guy he'll want it if you want it. Gust tell him your having a hard time with new feelings and you don't know what to do, and if he dose mention "having sex" gust tell him your not ready untill your older and that your not moving on that.
Hope this helps ;)
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15/F
I've never kissed a guy but over half the kids I know have already lost their virginity or gotten way close to losing it. And they're all like "YOUVE never kissed a guy? youre gonna end up like the 40 year old virgin, oh i know this guy for you" or whatever
And I 'pleasure' myself and stuff but just doing that, I feel SOOO guilty like I cant leave my room after.
And theres this guy that wants to do stuff with me and I really like him, and I talked to my mom about how I dont think hes that good of a person to hang around and she told me how my sister lost her virginity to a guy when she was my age.. which didnt really help.
But I reallly wanna do SOMETHING with a guy to know how it feels.. but at the same time I dont because I like being special, and feeling proud, and seeing peoples reactions when I tell them.
I just don't know what to do :[
this is highschool and its hard (link)
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Hay don't worry bout it i went throught Highschool with the same outlook and i finished high school a complete virgin never having a Bf untill i was 17 (now) don't worry and dont try to push things on yourself. You have to be ready for this type of stuff and your virginity is something special that you should wait to lose untill your 17-18 or even older. You should wait till you feel that your in love with someone or the time is right.
My advice gust ignor those other girls at school, because every one is diffrent and diffrent things happen to diffrent people.
If you need anymore advice sweetheart gust drop a line.
Hope this helped
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When you get fingered does the guy put his finger in the same hole aswhen you have sex?
This is really confusing me. :(
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Yes a guy does but whatever the girl likes he could also do the same for anal, and he can stimulate the girl gust by ribbing the outside of the Va-j-j as well. Some guys prefer that a girl has a toy that can stimulate them faster.
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hiii you answered my question about after having sex. i know that if you haven't popped your cherry, it will bleed. but how much does it bleed? and wouldn't that be embarassing! also will it hurt more if my cherry hasn't already been popped. i am still a virgin! (link)
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Well for me it didnt bleed that much it was kinda gust a lil bit of blood that i noticed aftorwords on the sheets and my Bf understood it wasnt that embarrasing, you gust gota let you Bf know your still a virgin, but gust rember ever girl is diffrent it could be diffrent for you. and as for the pain what helps is if your Bf fingers you this can also pop your cherry but it will stretch you so that it wont hurt as much for the first time. I know its probably really nervrecking it was for me and i didnt lost it all that long ago either.
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How old do you have to be to buy condoms in shops? (link)
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Pharmacies should sell them to you no matter how old you are because they are risking you getting pregnant or your partner pregnant. Also at school try going to the guidance councler or the school nurse and ask for a lil advice and the'll probably be happy that you went.
Hope this helps;)
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17/f
what are you suppose to do after sex? i know it might sound weird asking but i just dont know. so you have sex and when your done what do you do? just get dressed? and just be like okay well it's done...? i know it's different for many people but i was just wondering what people do after they're done having sex with their boy!! also is it going to hurt AFTER having sex, and if so how long will that pain last? thanks!! (link)
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Well their is a tone of things you can do. You can cuddle, get dressed, ect.. Personally what i like is starting by watching a movie and do it while the movie is going then once its over continue watching the movie and cuddle.
Also Yes it can hurt you if your a virgin, a hint get your Bf to finger you a bit stretching you this is what my Bf did and i had no pain the first time but it did kinda hurt when he started to stretch me but i was too into it to really feel it, their may also be some blood so dont freak that gust means you've poped your cherry its natural. The pain can vary gust don't try to ride a bike for a few weeks after words lol.
Hope this helps you ;)
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Alright....
I've never seen porn before and I don't know I guess I'm just curious... Is it legal? and if it is, how do you find it?
18/f (link)
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Well its ok to be curious, I mean when i started learning new things i wanted to know what it was so yeah i looked it up. If you don't want to go to a adult store try www.redtube.com and you can finde stuff like Squirting, or probably bondage on their.
Here's anothers idea of you have a Bf you two could even watch it together, make it kinda a group effort ;)
Hope this helps you out
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I hav eonly had sex once and it was 2 years ago...well me and my boyfriend plan on having sex now and I am scared its gonna be like the first time any suggestions? (link)
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Well the second time shouldn't hurt as much as the first but you could try to get him to finger you for a bit befor you do anything, this will re-stretch you and make it hurt less.
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16/f
ive never given one before but i think im going to give my boyfriend one because i wanna make him REALLY happy and enjoy it.
can some girls give me tips on how to?
and can some guys tell me what they like and stuff?
k thaaanks :] (link)
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well if you want to know what he would like ask him, and try lub as well that helps move things better. I give them to my boyfriend all the time is comes in handy when i'm on that time of month cuz its too messy to do anything. Try stuff or looking on google for stuff to try.
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