Hey, My name is Laura! I'm a sophmore in high school. I blow out my 16 candles on December 22. I don't really know what to say on here, but I love to help anyone!
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I'm finally in a serious relationship again, and I've been spending a lot of time with my boyfriend. We appear to be getting closer to sex, and I thought I'd buy some condoms myself. You know, just in case...but not in a "suggestive" way.I know that he has them, we were talking about it a few weeks back, but then I thought that if he sleeps over at my place...it might be reasonable that I have some in my night stand, seeing as he keeps most of his in his night stand. What do you think? And how judgemental are people about females buying condoms? I'm planning to go to a drug store or maybe at the supermarket. If any of you work in a shop, what do you think?
Thanks, much appreciated.
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I never get judged when i buy condoms, they usually smile because their happy your having protected sex instead of unprotected sex :)
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how does girl on top feel good for the guy if she goes back and forth? doesn't the guy need up and down? (link)
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well. it feels greaaaat for the guy because he isnt doing any work, hes kinda just chilling while your doing your thing.
the guy CAN go up and down but really the whole point of "the girl on top" position is for him to take a break and for her to do something :)
good luckk
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how to do a split for the first time and im not really flexible or take gymnastics ...PLEASE HELP (link)
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you can't really force yourself to do a split if you havent practiced. you slowly have to strech your legs out. you really got to practice a split! you kinda just ... split your legs apart.
take this slow so you dont hurt anything in your legs.
good luck!
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What to wear to an interview at hooters? What would YOU wear? (link)
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something that reveals my boobs big time :) and some nice tight jeans. but make sure the shirt is nice!! go to like victorias secret or something.
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Im 14 and a guy, i have had 1 gf but i didn't kiss her or anything but hug and i was wondering if first kisses are suppose to be awkwardish?
And is it normal to not kno what to do? (link)
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first kisses can be awkward depending on the moment, usually if the moment is right it wont be awkward. itll feel right.
it is normal to not know what to do, because its something new to you. but dont worry, its like playing with a new videogame, you dont know what to do untill the moment comes.
good luck!
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This is the second month of taking yasmin birth control...but today is Wednesday i just took the Wednesday pill.
I'm not using it as birth control but more like irregular periods and mild acne.
I quickly checked the color of the pills and they seem to be the same so I was wondering if I should go back and start taking from Sunday's pill or continue tomorrow from Thursday? (link)
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their all the same =] just make sure by the end of the month you have all the yellow pills done before you start taking the white ones. im on yasmin too! i skip pills accidentally, but i called my doctor and its fine it doesnt matter what order you take them in, as long as if its a yellow one youll be good!
=] good luckkk!
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i got my tongue pierced near the middle/end of july. it's healed up now and has been perfectly fine without any troubles. however for about the past month or so, every so often my tongue will get sore around the ring and if i touch it, it feels like there's a hard ball inside my tongue either right in front of or to the side of the barbell. i usually just mouthwash it really well for a few days and it goes away, but does anyone know what this is and how i can prevent it? (link)
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my friend has her tongue pierced, she got it around the same time as you.... she has a similar problem, some days its a bit sore and others its completely fine.
she went to a legit clean high end piercing place to get it checked out and ask whats going on and they said shes fine, but that may just be her. you should probably go back to the place that you got it pierced at (if it wasnt a legit place go to a better one) and ask whats going on and if your situation is bad or not.
best of luck!
- laura
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ok so when i leave video comments and music is playing you cannot hear the music when you play the video back it's like this screeching sound so how do i put it that you can hear the music from the computer? (link)
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it is probablly how your laptop is set up, i have no problem doing it with my macbook, but if you have a different brand the microphone might be a little bit too close to the speaker.
maybe turning your music down to really low may help and not having it all the way up? :)
if thats not the case, then maybe play music on your ihome or something if you must have music in the backround.
:)
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so we have been dating for about a week and i'm the kiss and hug type. the problem is that i'm not sure if i should make the first move n kiss him(which the thought nTerrifies me)or let him kiss me?
*female age 13* (link)
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It depends on the moment, if you guys are sitting on your bed looking into eachothers eyes for a long period of time, you should kiss him. you're young and he may feel pressured if you make the move.
if you wait for it it might be one of the best kisses ever :) everything is better (the good things) when their unexpected! same goes for him too.
good luck!
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so i've been wanting to get my nipple pierced for a long time now, and i've done quite alot of research but lots of people keep saying different things, i know it's going to hurt a lot and im prepared for that. i'm just worried about the risks that could come after, like is it possible to get breast cancer from it? and if taking care of properly could it damage anything inside?! please let me know! i keep going back and forth on deciding whether i'll get it or not! (link)
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nipple piercings do hurt from what i hear, my friend has one and she said her boobs hurt for a while. but it was worth the pain.
if you follow the instructions on how to care for your piercing, like any other body piercing (like your ears, belly button, tounge, nose) you should be fine! i DIDNT care for my belly piercing for a while, it became slightly infected and hurt whenever my boyfriend played with it and it pussed alot. now he can play with it and i wont even notice :).
healing does take time though, about 2 months it took my friends nipples to be healed and not hurt.
and i havent herd of anyone getting breast cancer from a piercing, so i think youll be fine! =]
good luck!
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hi im from pakistan
im 18 years girl..
i was in relationship with a boy who was very mean nd insecure about me and tease me a lot . . he alwys black mail me emotionally thus driving me mad...
sumhow we brok up but i m facing lots of problems in my life after it so i need ur help !!!
my problems are :
1) major problems is that i have become lazy nd absent minded
2)i feel like dumbest girl in world
3) i m losing my beauty ,wit, senses nd efficiency
4)i respond to others late bcoz my mind take lot ov time to think an answer
i hv lots of goals nd i need to study nd socialize bt i cant there is no wayi ll call him back so i need ur advice to become better
plz i need long and sincere answers
THANKS IN ADVANCE (link)
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i've been in a similiar situation :/ men who abuse woman deserve to go to hell, its so wrong. he wasnt right for you, or anyone i suppose. i bet you're a beautiful intelligent girl, every girl deserves a man who will treat her right and with respect. not pain and putting her down all the time.
you need to erase this guy from your life immediately. he wants to see you lost and upset and be a mess. thats what he was basically there for... sorry to say.
you need to search for a man who will treat you right, and you should do that soon. having a boyfriend is very uprising and makes you feel wonderful. you deserve that NOW.
i sat there in disbelief for too long after i broke up with the guy who abused me. i moved on and i found an amazing boyfriend that ive had for a year now
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I always lived in the south until now. I am in a northern state now that gets A LOT of snow during the winter months. I think the most snow I have EVER seen was like 2 inches? I think last year this state got something like 100 inches at one time? Wow, huge difference, right?
Well, I know it's going to be a lot colder here but I KNOW that I won't really understand that until it's in the middle of winter probably. I want to be prepared though because I don't want to end up freezing all of the time and unhappy.
What are some ways to prepare for winter? Get a heavy jacket? What would I look for then? Should I get snow boots? Should I get gloves and stuff or would I be okay without? How do I keep my house warm on the cheap? I really am lost...what do I need for winter? :\ (link)
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Hey! I live in NY, ughh i hate the winter sooo much i wish i could move south or west!
You deffinately want a winter jacket, its gunna be like less then 30 degrese in the winter up around here it sucks. ahah, and i heard this winter is gunna be a reallly cold one sooo i need to stock up on warm stuff also :/
gloves are a reallly good idea, like the poster below me said, once you step outside for a couple minutes and its five below, you'll regret it.
I suggest a down jacket by north face - those are reallly good. dont get it to be too tight because youll want to wear a sweater under it. i love the sweaters by north face, their pretty legit haha. i actually got through 1/2 the winter by wearing just a sweater by north face http://www.thenorthface.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?productId=46865&storeId=207&catalogId=10201&langId=-1&from=subCat&parent_category_rn=11719&variationId=H45
and the other half i got by with wearing just a pea coat from abercrombie and fitch. :)
i really suggest uggs for the winter. their reallllly warm they like saved my life. i have about three pairs. laced up ones and talls and mediums. you def. want water proof boots if your going to have to shovel/plow your driveway.
for heating efficency- i dont really know, im pretty young so my parents take care of that. just sleep with alot of blankets and turn your heat down at night! thats what my parents do it saves a ton.
good luck! and happy winter lol :)
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This guy I'd been dating had a birthday party on Saturday. I got wasted and made out with his roommate for 3 hours. My best friend had a crush on his roommate. Now pretty much everyone hates me. Any ideas for damage control on this one? (link)
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Well, cheating is never good. You had poor judgement and i know you were wasted, but it was a huge mistake. You need to explain to your friends that you were completely wasted and you had absolutely no control over yourself, you already hurt your boyfriend when he found out you cheated, and you hurt her for cheating on your boyfriends with a guy she likes. you simply just need to make a really formal apology and hope for the best. maybe take your friend out to lunch and explain yourself a little, and your boyfriend out to lunch the day after. and if they still hate you after you apologized, atleast you clarified stuff with them right?
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What're the pros of waking up early on weekends ?
today I had the day off from school, and since I'm so used to the schedule of school, I usually wake up at 9. my boyfriend told me to wake up him when I did, so I kept calling him, but he didn't wake up until 12.
we got into an argument and he said "oh, you're not doing anything today as it is, why wake up early?"
so, although you're not doing much that day, what're the pros of waking up early despite plans or not? (link)
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Well, it makes you not so tired for when school comes around on monday morning! I don't know why your boyfriend is mad that you wake up early on the weekends, I wish I could wake up early just so I can enjoy my day off and do what I need and have free time at night to go party and see friends!
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this is my second month of taking yaz. i was wondering if i am supposed to start my period when i get to teh white pills or after all of the pills in teh pack are gone? (link)
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I take ocella, but it is common to yaz.
usually the 4th week is the white pills, that have no hormones in them, you get your period sometime during that week, i get mine like the 2nd day into the 4th week. your body needs to get used to the birth control.
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15/f k so i have 'hormonal acne' meaning the kind of acne thats like tiny little bumps all over your face, not big enough to pop or anything and the only way to get rid of it is through using birth control. the problem is, my doctor and parents dont particularly want me to be on birth control. i dont have that bad of periods, i mean they normaly last the full 7 days and there kinda heavy but my doctor said 'unless you have to go to the hospital because your periods are so bad than your fine' so i guess that doesnt count...and im not 'sexually active' so he wont give them to me for that either. but i could be soon so who knows. i just dont know how to get on it because every time i go i always ask to be on it and they always say no :( even though my sister got on it when she was even younger than me! so what should i do?! please help! (link)
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16/f
i'm on birth control and i bullshitted the reasons why i should be on it, i told my doctor my periods were really bad..to the point that i couldnt get out of bed (well, it is like that sometimes but not all the time), i had bad skin, and i was sexually active (last two are true).
but before i told her i was sexually active my doctor suggested birth control for my skin, and my periods. just one tiny pill every day.
my mom was not sure about the whole birth control thing, but its true i guess, if you have bad skin and semi bad periods ... narrow it down to one pill. which would be birth control.
since then, my skin has gotten better, ive been protected, and my periods have been wayyy shorter and lesss.
you just need to tell your doctor that you WANT birth control, he cant say no... and if he says no, say your planning on being sexually active soon.. then hell have to do it :P (and he cant tell your parents!)
If he says no.. then i guess youll have to go to a dermatologist to get prescribed to something. good luck!
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My highschool has done a lot wrong for me. I left school because my insomnia is terrible causing me to leave school. I had documents stating I needed to be home schooled. For months my school ignored me and my mom about a tutor. We finally got one but then the school failed to give me ANY WORK! My tutor had to make up lesson plans for me. Then the school ignored that work! But yet they have the time to send me a letter to attend summer school. I got my tutor and had to pay her out of my own pocket! I took the MCAS with her and did pretty good since it was in biology and I hadn't had any kind of biology in 8 months due to my school. They keep ignoring me and I'm sick and tired of it. They're just going to keep me back a year but that's not fair! They deff aren't giving me my rights. Who can I call to get my school in some sort of trouble like some education department for the state or something? I live in massachusetts.
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Okay, i got suspended from school for 4 months and my mom had to CALL to get work, they never just did it on their own, so if your mother is not calling the school for work, then that might be the problem, if she is, i suggest you call your lawyer. make a court case and get alot of media attention, and you could even get some money out of it if you sue them... you deserve much better.
good luck! let me know how it goes.
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16/f im two months pregnant and i have a belly ring. when should i take it out ? (link)
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I would say take it out sooner then later, but, if you dont want it to close up.. i have heard of "pregnancy belly button rings"
http://www.bodycandy.com/cgi-bin/item/HC-1338
something like that =]
if you're interested go on that site and just search pregnant and all these belly rings will come up!
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Me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 weeks ago..When I say this I mean it I'm not nieve by any means..and he is the type of person who doesn't put feelings before the truth. We sat and talked for hours about why we were breaking up..finally he admitted to falling in love with me being the reason. He said he wasn't ready to give himself fully to a person and wasn't ready to have a serious relationship, and have those types of feelings in this stage of his life, he thought he was ready but he wasn't. I miss him a lot, i havn't called him, i havn't texted him..hes texted me once to try to keep up with "being friends"..and i told him im not ready for all that..he told me i was the best girlfriend hes ever had and it sucks because if he was ready..this is exactly the type of relationship he'd want. I guess i just really wanna know if this has happened to anyone and their story and if you think he'll come back and some advice what to do. (link)
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Hey! my names lauraa.
I had a similar problem, but my boyfriend (about 4 months or more at the time, took my virginity..etc) broke up with me because he wasnt happy. I wasnt doing anything wrong, neither was he. Something was mentally wrong with his mind (because his ADD medicine made him go insane if he took it too often), I took it so offensively, i cried and cried for hours. He broke up with me on a sunday, we had school the next day. I put on a front that i was the happiest person ever, with or without him. I was full out in love with him. As i was walking to math, he was in the same hallway as my math classroom. He was waiting for his friend, I just walked right past him, laughing, smiling, and i didnt even acknowledge him. Just doing that made him feel like complete shit. We were apart for about two weeks, then he came running back to me, realizing i was the best thing that has ever happened to him, and he doesnt want it to end. We stayed together for about 3 or 4 more months. He cheated on me wayy back in the beginning of our relationship with a girl from upstate. That girl came down and i was faking to be her best friend so i could plan to hang out with her and "beat the shit out of her". Well, apparently he knew about the plan all long and the day she was going to hang out with my friends and i, he was all mad, yelling at me and stuff. So i didnt talk to him for the rest of the night and went to go hang out with her with a couple of friends. I did not beat the shit out of her, she ended up being really nice and funny and i knew them hooking up when my bf and i started going out was a mistake. He again, was unhappy, broke up with me. I was devistated for about 45 minutes.. Then my dad came up to me and told me how i was an amazing daughter and he is so happy with the person i become, and that i was beautiful and that theres so many other guys out there and he's not the only one. After that advice.. i was strong. I went out, went to my friend jakes house, had dinner with his family, hooked up with jake ;), got picked up, went shopping with my dad, then i went out to dinner with him. it was really nice! i had alot of fun, and my ex bf didnt cross my mind once.
What im telling you to do is: act happy, if you see him out in public, smile, dont make alot of eye contact with him, just glare at him (in a nice way) and walk, smile, laugh, act like your happy self.
I don't know how long you and your boyfriend went out for, but whatever happens..just happens for a reason. It may hurt, it may even make you reallly upset. But you gotta move on and just wait for the best.
Oh, and again, my boyfriend came running back to me, because i didnt look all upset and mopey in school haha :)
good luck! remember: SMILE!!!!!
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soo.. i just got in a load of shit for drugs. (please dont tell me how stupid i am, i know i am)
i havent smoked in about 3 weeks. but 3 weeks ago i smoked a shitload of weed...
so for my drug test which is on thursday at 4:30 at the doctors office. i want to know if drinking a crapload of water will help me.
also, if its possiable.. how much water would i have to drink?
im going to start drinking a crapload of waterbottles tonight. all day wednesday. and all day thursday.
i read that drinking about a gallon of water will help.
and running. so, how many waterbottles a day should i drink?
please and thank you for the help=] (link)
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I was in the movies and i found a blackberry curve phone, and i took it. I want to activate it in a few weeks. I dont want the internet plan though, do you HAVE to have a internet plan to have a blackberry? or can you get it removed.
i don't want to have to spend an extra $30 a month for internet and data when i have a comptuer, and when i can be away from it when i decide to go out.
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