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ill try to give good answers.. unless you piss me off.
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Ok, both me and my boyfriend prefer..having it shaved "down there". The only thing whe I try to shave i still have littel studs that don't totally go away. I want it to be completley smooth there. Can I use nair down then? Or what can I use beside waxing it..thnx
nair is not good for the vaginal area. not only does it sting, but it smells bad afterward. Dont shave for a few more days, because it starts bleeding from the current shaved area. anyway, you're hair down there will not completley go away, some hairs are too small to remove. waxing hurts, but it works.
i didn't know what topic this would fall under, so i just guessed.
ok, here i go. i hear and read about "first base" , "second base" , and "third base" dealing with relationships a lot. i have never been quite sure what these terms mean. could someone clear this up for me?
thanks in advance! i'll rate!
just remember the three F's in order.
french
feel
finger
fu**
french first
feel second
finger third
fuc* home
What is the best cell phone plan you can get.. I want to get pay as you go but where? Verizon, T-mobile..etc? thnxs
def. verizon
it works like anywhere[ so if you go out of state], and its really cheap with a family plan
i am 13/f, 8th grade, virgin, flat, has not yet had my period, don't masterbate, etc etc. I havent even had my first kiss yet, which totally sucks. but i always have this gross white goopy stuff in my vagina or my underwear. its really gross. it doesnt smell or anything, its just.. gross. what is it????
i rate 5
you're gonna get your period soon.
just put it that way.
alright, so my friend was about to makeout with this guy, but then she froze and had NO clue what to do and just stood there while he started moving his lips. and she's saying how it's not fun andit's probably just gross and stuff. -time for the question- do some people just really stop and have no clue what to do right before a makeout? any sites to help please?? and is it really gross, or fun?
Some people, do but its pretty self explantory. umm.. i guess its gross if he is slobbering all over your face, but no its not gross.
http://www.virtualkiss.com/
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Of course, I have been asking myself over and over what I should do about this situation. It's my lack of experience that keeps me from coming to any concrete conclusion. Do I love him? Yes...I think. Or do I? You tell me: What is love? I care about him. I have fun with him, but when we fight (which is frequently when we are separated) I immediately feel like leaving him. Sometimes I fantasize about being with other people, but then I have always had a tendency to fantasize about being with people whom I don't have any chance with. My real fear (and probably the question I should have asked) is that one day I will find someone who wants to be with me who is someone I wouldn't mind getting to know better, and if I wait until then to decide to leave my current boyfriend, then was I just using him this whole time? How can I hurt him when I care about him? But if staying with him is depriving myself, then isn't that hurting people too?
love. love is something that you cant answer.
its a feeling.
but the best way i can describe is it is when you see something you automatically think of him. you smile when you hear his name you get goosebumps when your near him. you smile at him knowing that your going to be there for him for as long as you can. thats love, well in my dictionary it is. now tell me. what do YOU think you should do. deep down in your heart. what do you think you should do
I'm about to turn 21, and I've been with my first and only boyfriend for about a year and a half. He adores me and I believe that if we were to stay together he would love me until he dies. Unfortunately, I am not so secure in my feelings.
There are some down sides to the relationship:
A) I am a dedicated student while he seems to have little ambition. He dropped out of college and works at a fast food place.
B)Because I'm in college we are living in two different cities.
C) He is extremely insecure. He gets unreasonably angry with me when he knows I've spoken to another guy. He has also told me that if we ever break up he would be too upset to want to get back together.
D) Because I haven't had a previous relationship, I often have doubts. I'm not unhappy in the relationship, but sometimes I wonder if there is a better match for me.
Should I end a relationship I am comfortable with for the possibility of one that is 'ideal' for me?
i personally think you shouldnt be asking us.
you should be asking yourself.
but, since you are ,why dont you answer the following questions:
1) do you truley love him?
2) can you see you guys together in the next 10 years?
3) if so, do you see him as a good father or a good husband?
4) do you feel like you "you deserve better"?
and last
5) would you end this relationship for another guy.
i would definatly like to hear the answers.
if you want, leave one in my inbox.
I met this guy, and I had a one night stand with him. I am 19 and he is 23. The problem is, I did not want to have sex at all. I just wanted to kiss, but he kept pressuring me to go further and further, and I eventually gave in to everything.
While we were having sex, it hurt so much. I was crying and telling him to stop but he kept going. I tried shoving him away but he didn't stop. I could have probably easily punched him in the face and made him stop, but for some reason, I didn't. I lied and told him it was hurting because I had been raped as a last attempt to get him to stop. He still didn't, and I eventually just sucked it up and let him finish.
Throughout the whole ordeal, he said some pretty mean things to me, the worse being that he had to pretend like the sex we just had was the best he'd ever experienced, just so he'd be able to finish himself off. And you know what I said? NOTHING. After I laid on the bathroom floor crying for awhile, I laid in bed with him, staring at the ceiling for 3 hours while he slept.
I do not have the slightest idea why I let him use me. I usually am smarter than this, love myself more than this, have more integrity than this. I am numb all over and wonder what the heck happened, how did I let it happen. Please, any insight would be appreciated.
Maybe you were scared.
Maybe you just didnt know what was going on.
If you need to talk to anyone. you should go to a therapist. im sure they can proffesionaly help you. but the best advice i can give you right now is to just calm down and think it all through. i would say talk to him, but that would NOT be a good idea.
Have you ever thought that you had a true best friend??? And then one day you guys are both hanging out and she/he sees there other friends and then diss you???? Dont you think thats really FUCKED UP???? Well that happened to my other friend and she got really mad. {her and another girl were hanging out and then others came and she left}
yeah that is fucked up.
i would be like "that was a bitchy thing to do"
but thats just me.
lately i have been extremely unhappy, between my friends not talking to me alot anymore and them ditching me, i sit home alot on weekends when all my friends go out and have fun, also theres thisguy i like but i think he only wants to hook up. im just simply unhappy, also i think i am fat and i want to loose weight, lately i have been turnign to alcohol when im home alone so i dont have to be in this world. im always so bored and i just want to get away. i want my friends, i want to go out and party like my friends do, i want a boyfriend, and i want to loose weight. is there something wrong with me.
no theres nothing wrong with you, your just stressed. 1 im sure your gorgeous. so you dont have to do anything to your apperance 2 please dont drink alcohol! just go to someone you really trust and talk to them about it!! You should make plans with your friends just be like "hey, you wanna do something this weekend?" anything if they invite you go. talk to them more!
my crush asked me to the halloween dance today. I accepted, but now im petrified. Im just really scared. WHAT IF EVERYTHING GOES WRONG... i dont know... what if ... geez, right now im freaked enough to believe that aliens can ruin this dance. i want everything to be perfect, but even still, in the mean time, how can i get rid of this... dance phobia thing ;)
what if..
dont say that!
everything will go fine!
just go with the flow.
talk to your friends
just focus on what you want.
13/m I experienced love this summer and I hate it! No, it wasn't infatuation! I know infatuation, this is true love! Maybe I should start from the beginning:
It all started in science class. Or teacher was getting pissed so he decided to assign our seats boy/girl/boy/girl. Of course, I was paired up with the hyperactive freak, because that's just my luck. Immediately, I think to myself, "It's going to be a loooong year."
But she wasn't so bad after all. Time passed, we became friends. The teacher let us change seats, but the people in the front had to sit in the back and vice versa, and it still had to be boy/girl. For simplicity, we just sat next to each other all 3 times that happened.
Everyone made fun of me for it. I'm a geek and proud, and so obviously none of my friends had girlfriends yet either. Actually, only the jocks that girlfriends, and that was because of popularity and "Is she hot?". My parents and sisters were always having fun teasing me. One opf my best friends just liked embarassing me just for being friends with a girl: "Hey, (her name), you know what? You look like (my name)'s girlfriend!" Immediately, we both denied that and walked away. He just grinned. Immature!
As time passed, I learned to love her without knowing it. I didn't know what was happening---I was hoping really hard that I would be placed in a group with her, I was really depressed whenever she had to go... and over the summer I ultimately realized what life was like without her, and I realized that I needed her and that I loved her. So I told her how I felt.
She had recently gone through a painful breakup (I was jealous, she had already gotten a first kiss) with someone who had been one of her best friends, and didn't want to repeat that. Also, she got into a big fight with the popular kids and jocks and they'll do anything to get revenge on her or anyone close to her. And... she's still not quite sure how she feels about me. She said she was thinking about me when she was on vacation for 2 weeks... that's a good sign...
Asking her out really didn't work to well... and now not only have I been tormented by jealousy, rejection, love, and sadness, everything has started to remind me of her. It's been like that for weeks. The carnival? I took her there once. Billy Joel? His "The Longest Time" perfectly describes how I feel. Homestarrunner.com or even Monty Python? They remind me of her. I can't go through life just remembering her everything I do...
Last night I was at a friend's Bar Mitzvah party and I only knew two people there: my sister and the guy who was having the Bar Mitzvah with his brother. The guys who were having the Bar Mitzvah were surrounded by girls during the dances... from The Twist to One-Two Step, there were two girls for every guy, except for me. I wound up dragging my sister onto the dance floor for one of the slow dances... I was thinking the whole time, "Why can't this be the one I'm in love with? Why am I stuck slowdancing with my sister and doing that old making-out-with-yourself routine?" And furthermore, at one point the DJ had us play Musical Guys, where the guys were the chairs and to settle a tie on a guy, the first one to kiss the guy on the cheek gets to stay in. Two people sat on my leg. One of them just voluntarily got out because she didn't want to kiss me. Neither of them did. I can't blame them. But then I'm looking around the room, and some guys are literally smothered! Am I just doomed to be a hopeless single freak? Help me... please!
you sound like a great guy.
you should love me instead.
Whats the point of a homecoming? Is it just a dance? What would I wear? Is it something really special?
For some people its a time for people to dress up formal and have sex.
not really but for most people it is.
does anyone know any very funny movies for teens? thanks i rate.
chick movies are good for teen GIRLS
the breakfast club
16 candles
mean girls
the sweetest thing
lol dirty dancing
others..
scary movie 1,2 blah blah
all of the american pies
euro trip
dodgeball
so on..
alright well like any typical teenager i go to the highschool football games, 1 to hang out with my friends and 2 because i know alot of people that play including my brother.. and like my 2 friends are always fighting at the games for something the boy(i call him e) and so last night they once again started fighting so i wasnt hanging out with them i was ssitting and watching the game and the girl(de) can online and told me to remind her to never talk to e again and i was like yeah whatever and then e told me not to get into it because im always in the middle and i dont deserve that and all this and like i told himi had to get involved and then we were talking about something else and i told him i was sorry i didnt come talk to him but all the drama is the reason why and hes like I would've talked to you but de pisses me off and i was like yeah i know and yeah
1) Can you help me with this drama and how to solve it? I had some pretty good points but I wanna make sure it never happens again because it happens at every home game
2) Does it seem like E likes me? because like, before the game i said how my mom said i looked like i was going to a dance and he said good? and yeah i dont think he does but yeah
3) football kinda confuses me. can you guys explain some of the positions for me?
1)you should talk to your friends. E is right you dont deserve to be in the middle of your friends problems.
2) No, I dont think he likes you. Maybe as a friend but no.
&
3)lol, i dont know anything either except one thing interceptions are when a person from the other team catches a pass. haha, thats all i know sorry.
HOPE I HELPED!
my best friend and i have been friends for four years now. she started dating this one guy, and they have been dating for over 5 months. at first, i was fine with it because she never really had a boyfriend who treated her so well, but lately she has been choosing him over me, a lot. but not only that, i'll ask if she wants to hang out, and she'll invite him to places with us without even asking me. and then they'll do there little couplely thing and im standing there like a retard. i get sick of being the 3rd wheel sometimes. i always picked her over my boyfriends, and i dont expect her to never spend time with her boyfriend but i do think it is okay to leave some time for a friend?! personally, i think she needs to choose: boyfriend or best friend.
you are SUUUUCHHHH a great friend. ya know, making your best friend choose over you or her boyfriend. nice. your going to hell defiantly.
she shouldnt have to choose. if YOU were a true friend you wouldnt try to make her.
can someboday plz rite somethin so dat i can start to have a orgasim. cuz when i read things that are really sexy and stuff, it helps me ta start. thanks-im goin outta mi mind
llllick meee
if someone u know has diabeties and u accidently/purposly drink out of their cup that they drank out of, what could happen if anything?no smartass answers nd btw, this aint for me
im pretty sure that you cant get diabeties after that....i think that you have to have it in your blood to get it......but maybe you should do some research..im not sure that you could get it by saliva....but i would DEFFINETLY check it out before i assumed anything...hope i helped!!
okay. i want to start a band. i'm punk..but i'm afraid no one will take us seriuosly because we're girls....will we b taken seriously? and MAYBE be able to become famous....
yeah you will. theres alot of punk bands out there that our girls. do you know who kitty is. they are like hardcore.
Hi. I have a slight problem. There is this guy, his name is Steven. He is my sisters-bestfriend's-brother. My sister said that him and I would look cute together because we have the same type of personality. I've only talked to him online, never in person and he has a wonderful personality! What really turns me on about him is he is friendly, loves God and doesn't smoke, drink nor do drugs. I started talking to him like three days ago, and from the conversations we've had, he's called me georgeous and said I was awesome several times. (He's seen pictures of me.) I really want to meet him, and we're planning on going on like a little group date thing with two of his friends, and two of mine. (My sister and My sister's best friend.) But I'm really nervous and I'm not sure when it's going to be. I really like him and I think he likes me but I'm not sure. He lets me call him Stevie and is just a really sweet guy to me. I don't know what to do about it. I always anticipate talking to him and am really happy when I do. But, what if he thinks I'm ugly in person or have a horrid personality or something? I'm just kind of scared and don't know what to do about it! Can you please just overall assist me in my situation? Thank you very much,
MKS
dont be scared! if your sister is gonna be there then its all gonna be good. if he thinks your pretty online then hes gonna think your pretty in person! dont be scared im sure you'll have a GREAT time.