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my name is kameron. i am from greenville north carolina. i have awesome friends and i give awesome advice. let me know if you need anything.
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Hey theres a guy i really like. Hes in my pe class how do i get his attention? (link)
haha shake your butt in front of him. no im just kidding. haha .. but for real .. all you gotta do is talk to him. guys will think you have high self esteem when you talk to them.


hey my name is mitch heaps and im wonderin wat its like to make out wit ppl...lol (link)
mitchell colton heaps .. how does it feel to be a little queer? just wondering. =P


i just got my period and i am using tampons cas the pads feel like diaper's : ) and it said something about only using they when your flow is moderate what does that mean? and how many times a day do you get your period??

thanks ill rate 5's ♥ (link)
okay first off you get your period once a month .. and it lasts for about a week. people vary. it all depends on your size. moderaate flows means that it are not to heavy and not to light. but when you have your peiod you have it all day.


I really like this boy I'm dating and i wanna show him how much I love him. Do you have any ideas that can make him just be so amazed? PLease help me. I'm really counting on you to help me.
Kthanks (link)
hmm lets see right off hand .. little things mean the most. and the best way to get a guys attention is to invite him over for an afternoon movie and just spend some time together. just you and him when hes not around all his friends. sometimes just a phone call or a sweet text message that says i love you means a lot to a guy. see hun .. guys ACTUALLY do have a sweet side. they just choose not to show it alot. but when a guy is around a girl he loves everything changes. and you can always tell if a guy is in love with you just by the way he looks at you. it really is the little things and simple things that matter. =)


hey im a 14 year old girl and i ahve a huge problem. See there is this guy who i've known since like i was 8 or 9 and we have been friends forever. Well the other day he accused me of somthing and hasn't talked to me since. He has completely ignored me and it really hurts. Well i kid of like him and have for a lilttle while but obviously he doesn't know that but anyway what can i do to atleast become friends with him again?
please help me (link)
its always good to talk it out with your friends. i know how it feels to loose a best friend and it is the WORST feeling. it really all depends on if you did the thing he accused you of. if so .. then tell him you made a mistake and one little mistake is not worth loosing a friendship over. trust me. and if you didint just tell him that it really hurts that he cant trust you because yall have been friends for so long. whatever you do dont lie. bring everything out into the open. i had a friend that liked me.. his name is ben. and i lied to him about something and now we dont really talk that much anymore and it hurts so bad. so yeah. and about the whole liking him thing .. its good if he likes you too .. but keep in mind that if you two ever break up that you wont be friends anymore. hope i helped ..


WHOS YO DADDy? (link)
umm mike adams ... dipshit. dont ask me anything again. kay. thanks. bye


Hey.
Alittle over a month ago, I lost a friend to suicide.
It was terrible when I first found out, because I mean, I was talking to him the day before he did that.
He told me everything, and I tried to do everything to help. Could I have done more?
Its not really my fault, right?
-Erin (link)
its not your fault. everybody has reasons for soing what they do. i realize its hard to loose a friend like that, but dont beat yourself up about it.


One of my closest friends just recently admitted to me something that I found quite disturbing.

She told me a couple days ago " no offense, but my cats are more important to me than any of my friends or family.

She said if her house were on fire the first thing she would grad were her cats, and not her parents or friends!!

I didn't say anything but I was quite upset. I would always pick my friends and family over my pets.

Am i overreacting to being upset? (link)
your friend is psycho. thats all there is to it.


last week me and the i was dating broke he said he doesnt love me anymore but i still love him and iwant him but we were in a long distance relationship and it made things hard for us i want to move on,but i also want him back should i tell him how i feel or should we just be friends like we said we would be? (link)
oh gosh .. i have been in a long distance relationship before. me and the guy broke up. but we are still really good friends. he is like my best friend. but everyday when i was going out with him i always thought he was cheating on me .. how was i to know if it was true or not? i never saw him. you need a guy you can see often and be with atleast once a week. and he obviously dosent care about your feelings, or he would have never said he didint love you anymore. those are the worst 5 words a girl can hear in her whole life. its heart shattering. i know its hard to let go. but start hanging out with some guy friends .. it helps alot.


Okay heres my story. I need the best advice you ever gave anyone. I'm 14 and I like this guy and were going out but he doesn't always seem to like me like he's an ass to me and he only seems like hes dating me for sex. What should I do? I really need help. (link)
hmm i was in the same situation last year. this guy kept calling me fat and for some unapparant reason i was still completely in love with him. if the guy is just going out with you for sex .. then dump his ass right now. hah. i know its hard to move on .. but there is someone out there for everybody. i let go of the guy i was telling you about last year. and you know what hun? he had sex with another girl because he sweet talked her and got her pregnant and now hes going to be a daddy in october. and all i can ever think about is .. "that could have been me" .. life is so full of tough decisions essp. for a girl. but sweetheart .. if a guy is going out with you just for that he dont care about you and he aint even worth it. let me know if i helped.


ok well see i have liked this guy for ever and he never noticed me for as long as i can remeber.untill one week and we went out for a lil while and then he just ended it for my best friend.wich really hurt btw...so now i have no boyfrined and no one ven likes me but i just want some one to call and talk to to hold hands with to kiss and tell them hes the best thing that i've ever had .please help me tell me how to find a really good b/f that i can have fun with.

im 14/f (link)
this may sound old school. but you are young! have fun girl! i have a boyfriend that i have been dating for .. well thursday will be 7 months. i love the boy with all of my heart. and to tell you the truth i wasnt even looking for him .. he just kinda came up. so i really think thats what you gotta do. my best advice to you is this... wait on the right guy but meanwhile have fun with all the wrong ones. it is always fun to have a boyfriend that holds your hand and always tells you you are beautiful. but hunny .. you dont need a guy to tell you you are beautiful. every girl is in some way or sort. any "friend" that will date one of your ex boyfriends that you were in love with .. is not a true friend. obviously she dosent care about your feelings or emotions. but seriously .. take my advice. trust me i know what im talking about. let me know if you need anything else darlin!


Here's the story... Well my boyfriend used to always call me and talk to me for like hours.. And he stayed hours on the computer just to talk to me... Now, he like never calls and when he does (which is very rare) its only 5 minutes long.. And plus on the comp... he like talks to me for like 15-20 minutes and he keeps making up those lame excuses that he has to go... I don't what to do... Is there something wrong?? I rate high

btw...im a 14 /f and hes 15/ m (link)
my boyfriend use to do the same thing. we broke up and then got back together. if he usually tells you he loves you and he dosent do that anymore.. i hate to break it to you but more than likely hes cheating on you. guys are just like that. its like in their blood or something. dont be mad at me for telling you this.. it may not be true but i mean .. talk to him and see what the deal is. chances are he wont lie to you if he thinks you already know something.


okay so like my boyfriend wantsta make out with me... and i really wanta make out with him too! but i havent really made out with anybody before so im scared because im scared if i make out with him im not gonna know how and hes gonna think im dumb or something... i really wanta makeout with him but im not really sure how to do it... lol!!! what should i do!?!? (link)
making out comes as an natural instinct. everybody is a good kisser just as long as you feel comfortable with what you are doing. remember to relax so you dont bite his tounge off.. lol. just kidding. but guys can tell when you are tense. so loosen up and just go with it. and take it only as far as you want it to go. usually when girls makeout with a guy they have their hand on the side of their face. the notebook has alot of kissing scenes. maybe you should just watch a "chick flick" with your boyfriend and just lean in slowly .. just start kissing him.


i love my boyfriend sooo much and i wanna show him how much i love him, id do anything so please tell me what i could do


i rates 5's for any answers (link)
write your boyfriend a little love letter. it seems a little niave but trust me .. any guy would love it. they just try not to show their sweet side. give him hersheys kisses and lay on the couch with him and watch a movie. dont do anything you arent comfortable doing. and he should not try to force you. if a guy cant wait .. he isnt worth it. but seriously .. give him a night in with candy and a love letter. it would be straight from your heart. hope i helped.


ok well me and my friend were in this fight thing and it wasnt even my fault but whatever i always have to appoligize and i called her and shes like well its about time you called to appoligize and its like wtf it wasnt even my fault to begin with so should i be mad at her for sayingthat now or should i just ignore it ? (link)
you should talk to your friend and explain to her how you feel. i understand you .. trust me. i had a friend last year that was the same way. just tell her that everything always gets blamed on you and you are completely tired of because you dont feel you ever do anything wrong. sometimes its good to be away from your friends for a couple of days and calm down. im not saying to fuss at her but still.. get your point across.


what are some harmful, long-term effects that alcohol can have on an adolecent who drinks regularly?
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it can destroy your liver and mess with your mind. alcohol can do so much to damage your body and without your liver your body wont fight off sickness or dieseases and you will eventually die from it. its not just for teens but for adults too.


Hey I had my period for the past 2-3 years now. Now that I'm getting oldr and going out with more people I have started to use tampons. Thats not the problem, I get them to go in, but it hurts like an ubbearable pain. When I get it all the way up it feels like it is rubbing against something, like it is trying to break threw it. (it can't be my cherry I'm not a virign) My friend said to make it hurt less she put vasaline on the of the tampon and it went in fine. So my question is should I try the vasaline thing, or is there something wrong?

Thanks (link)
hmm yeah sometimes to make it go in easier i have heard of people using vaseline .. but thats not really good for you. you should try like KY jelly. that should help you out alot. sometimes after having sex you get kind of sore. so just try that and see how it works. my mom is a nurse. lol. so i know all this stuff.


Ok theres this girl who lives in north carolina and i live in pa. i miss her a lot and i dont know what to do. I have asked my parents several times to take me down to north carolina. so i can see her but they wont. And she only comes up to pa. in the summer. She is so amazing. she is basicly my best friend. Although i just met her i feel like i can talk to her about anything, its weird. But just talking sometime can make my day a lot better. What should i do? (link)
well im sure this girl loves you alot amd she cares about you more than you could possibly know. she probably wishes she would have made out with you when she had the chance. but just keep talking to her. and she loves you a BUNCH. trust me i think i know the girl you are talking about. you are considered on of her best friends. she will see you very soon. december maybe?? hmm who knows.


Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while..and sure i have kissed him and stuff but i think he is getting bored of always doing the same things with me. i really want to make-out with him but i never have before but i think he wants to make-out with me too. if there anything that guys like? and would he still be interested in me if we did make-out? please help me!! thanks in advance. (link)
NEVER do anything you arent ready for. all guys want to makeout with their girlfriends. its just an instinct for them. i dont know. most guys want to go farther than makingout if you know what i mean. and once you get started i hear its hard to stop. so just explore your options and talk to your boyfriend about it. if he loves you he wont laugh or get mad at you or anything like that. you dont have anything to loose so give it a try. and i hope everything goes okay.


First off, I'd like to state that both me and my cousin are 13 years of age.


Okay, here's the deal.. In the past I've had a lot of prolems with depression and low self esteem. My cousin and I were VERY close, and I loved always helping him with his problem. But one night when he came over my house to spend the night.. I got in a fight with him and my brother. Now I'd seen him like fourty times over the summer, so we were bound to get into a fight sometime.

But this time I finally broke down.. It was way to much, living with a pompous brother, a dad who's always right, and a mom who I can't tell when she'll be happy or right on the edge of blowing up. So over the course of two days, it went from I'm just a happy-go-lucky little cousin, to a emotionally unstable family member.

It had been planned that the three of us go over to my cousin's house the next day. Of course everything was a little tense between us the next morning, but we all went on about our business as if nothing had ever happened.

I stayed the night at his house that night, but brother decided he was ready to go home. For about three or four hours that day we just talked, and I cried most of the time, silent tears.

Now before I go on I'd just like to say I love my aunt more than anyone in the world at that point. She takes me in her arms and just holds me, telling that everything will be fine and that I'm pretty and smart and how she knows what it's like living with who I was living with..

The rest is history. But now my cousin feels like he can't talk to me anymore, and that kills me inside.. Talking to him about my own problems is hard enough, so talking to him about that is pretty much out of the question. I don't want to risk our relationship any further..

I'd love for some advice, but please don't be harsh. (link)
hmm. thats a tough one. family always comes first. and of course its even harder when someone in your family is also your best friend. you just have to go to your cousin and tell him you are sorry .. and that you miss the days where you two were best friends and could tell eachother everything. if you dont want to talk to him about it .. just give him sometime. sweetheart he cant stay mad at you forever. but next time you see him just go up to him and give him a hug and tell him you love him.




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