ask JustHere_Waiting



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators




Member Since: January 15, 2009
Answers: 37
Last Update: February 7, 2009
Visitors: 1732


Hello. I'm in need of much help. My boyfriend and I have never had sex but we do fool around. My period is extremely light, like less than a drop if that, and both of us are really worried that some sperm may have been transferred from him to me down there somehow. Maybe through a hj and then me putting my hand down my pants for some reason? Is there any chance that I could be pregnant? It's tearing him and I apart, and I love him. Please help me, please. I'm 15 if that helps any. (link)
actually it is possible to tell you the truth..any transfer of sperm to a womans opening can lead to pregnancy..thats why a gil has to b careful when a guy fingers her because he could be carrying sperm on him. but if your period is normally this light than its okay your not pregnat. but if your still worried take a test


how do i upload a photo? i did and it sayed "You tried to upload a picture, but it was greater than 15K in filesize so it wasn't uploaded." and its Annoy!!! (link)
depends where you want to upload the picture to


Female.i am very big boned, muscular, 6 feet tall and 15 years old. other than the fact that i am larger than most guys at school, one of the things i hate are my boobs. they have always been saggy, thats even how they grew. i refrain from wearing low cut shirts because if anyone even sees my clevage, ...it just doesn't look nice. I am a 40B and those bras don't even fit right. I have never actually had a bra that fits me right, do to the fact that my boobs are about 2 inches apart from eachother and they sag so much that a bra wont even make them perky. A professional measured "special" bra is not an option for me.what the hell am I supposed to do?!?My grandma had perkier boobs than I do. Even though nobody knows they are like that, it is still so humiliating. i don't think i could ever let a guy see them . What can i do? Does anyone else have this problem?!? (link)
what can help is wearing push up bras. also wearing a bra to bed prevents the sag.to bring your boobs closer together to form a cleavege and potential lift...try uppeer body work outs like push ups and using weights


I got my ears pierced about a year ago and that was the 3rd or 4th time they've been pierced. They're now only about halfway closed. I don't want to waste the money getting them done again. So I was wondering how I could do it myself. And on a scale of one to ten(1 being like pinching your ear the hardest you can. 10 being the worst pain you could imagine) I don't have the highest pain tolerance in the world. But its not the lowest either. The last time I got them pierced w/ a gun I shed one tear (although this time I'm doing it with a needle) and that was a year ago. I could probably stand a 2 or 3. (link)
well since its only half closed then it wont hurt as much as it being all the way closed..but to get minimum pain, try numbing up the peircing area by using an ice cube or what i think works better; heating the area of the peircing so its so hot you wont feel the needle gonig through


ok well i might be giving my bf a hj this friday and if i do i was wondering a couple things. mainly what do i do when he cums? and is it hard to clean up? it'll be at my house. please help. i need to know how this works lol (link)
well when a guy coms he doesnt like make a mess and overflow unless he doesnt know how to control (if u know what i mean. usuaqly when guys masterbate they use a sock or a towel to prevent making a mess.


Hey!:) I need songs about a misunderstood girl for our school project: a music video. We're gonna be basing it on Shakespeare's Much Ado About Nothing Act 4 wherein Hero is being accused of things she didn't even do. Any songs that could relate to that situation will do. THANKS & ILY! (link)
ive read shakespeare...but not that certain act. i not sure about the music video part, but i know songs about a missunderstood girl:

no one's home-avril lavigne
beautiful-christina agulara
misunderstood-pink
dont let me be misunderstood-the animals
give me one good reason- blink 182
maybe ...
no one-alicia keyes
fatlip-sum 41


me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year now. and i know i love him. but i guess im bored. im not atracted to him anymore, i think bout other guys all day expect for him. i dont know why i feel this way. i dont know what i want to do and i dont want to do anything drastic before i know what i really want. can anyone helppp (link)
my friend had this same problem with herboyfriend of 2 years. why dont you try doing something exciting and not something you two would normally do. like instead of dinner and movies, try go karting and mini golf or try kissing him iin public instead of in private, anything differant from what you guys had before, just something to spice up your relationship so you wont have that feeling of boredom with him. but if your still thinking about other guys even after trying out new dates with him, sit down and talk with him about how he feels things are going between you two


thanks for the suggestion...

lot of salon jus fret if i ask them to trim my chest hairs n lower back, they ask me get it waxed, i think waxin is painful...require ur suggestions....it would be great if you can provide me ur email id so that i can be more open with questions.... (link)
sorry yahoo wont let me into my account, so to help you more, just send questions to my inbox


I have this big problem, that whenever I really need to have a very strong orgasm, I need to wear lipstick, my lady partner does not like this though. Which is very difficult for me because I want to have an orgasm, I dont know how I can convince her, to let it go, and let me enjoy myself. Could someone please help? (link)
wear a neutral lipstick color. then she wont know your wearing any, but youll still get to wear lipstick


Hi, i am a 26 yr old guy seeking advice from you all.

I am quite hairy on my bums and my abdoment part and also all over body. do girls like it, is it a turn on or turn off, am quite concerned about this. (link)
sorry to sound rude...but personally i dont like hairy men. its all about who the girl is, girls have differant likes. if your worried and dont know, jus shave your armpits and maybe tone down the chest hair(some girls like chest hair but not alot of it) tame the hair on your stomach(its called the happy trail for a reason. and for the rest, just trim down


Hi im 17/f. I recently had unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I forgot to take my birth control for two days when we did it. I have no appetite, really bad headache, and whenever i eat i get sick to my stomach. Could i be pregnant??? (link)
only if you miss your period can you assume the worst. if your too shy to talk to your doctor about it, just take a trustworthy pregnancy test and see the results


i don't think he's prude ... because he has no problem with kissing me, but i'm curious because whenever i joke around about perverted things [nothing too intense lol... just the normal jokes] he always just says 'lol' but never really talks about anything like that. i'm not asking him to be PERVERTED, but maybe it's that i need to unprude him? i don't really know, i don't want to scare him away by taking things to the next level. [i hope most of you know what i'm trying to say.]
what should i do to make him unshy but ... not scare him too much? (link)
try making him feel more comfortable around you so he can open up more. like asking his opinion on something ud usually ask someone else about. take a drive with him and just talk about nothing, invite him over to your house and just watch movies. anything involving low pressure. it may take a while, but he will open up to you. just lay low on any sexual motions(if you know what i mean)


i want to make my boyfriend cookies for valentines day. what else can i do for him? nothing sexual please. by then itll barely be almost 2 months. and i want to make valentines special for the both of us. please and thankyou! in advance (link)
cookies is a great idea, since you guys are almost at two months, you want something simple and nothing over the top. try inviting him over to watch some movies..you could eat popcrn and watch maybe a mushy love movie to set the mood of valentines day


I would most likely want to know what a guy thinks...So I have this best guy friend, and we are always together and we talk about everything. Sometimes he flirts with me, he also asked me out but i said no...He also knows I like him and stuff..My friend says that he is always staring at me but...I don't know if he really likes me I think he just says he does because I like him.. So what do you think? Sorry it was soo long. (link)
did he ask you out before he knew you liked him?

my friend had the same problem, but if you like him, i think you should try going on a few dates with him, if thinks dont work out with him, then you guys can try being friends again and not to the boyfriend/girlfriend extreme


there is this kid on my bus who is really annoying but he thinks we are best friends. in the classes i have with him he always follows me around and it gets kind of embarrassing. he also tells me and the other girl on my bus how we are ugly and why. he always tries to make my life seem terrible. he has no friends and i dont want to hurt his feelings, but how do i get rid of him? (link)
well u dont want to hurt him. just give him subtle hints like take a new route to classes so he cant find you, or when he talks to u.. answer with few words and act like ur busy talking to someone else. but if that doesnt work out and he cant take the hint, confront him and tell him that it hurts when he calls you and your friends ugly and it doesnt seem like something a friend would say and you think he should change his attitude. maybe he will and he can be less annoyi ng


est ce que je me marierai avec oumar patrice ou non (link)
je ne comprend pas. je suis desole, je parle un petite le francais...est ce que tu te connais?


Does anyone know a song about a girl who really likes a boy and he likes her too but neither of them will say anything?

Thanks. (link)
it might be an old one...but "skater boi" by avril lavigne




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop

eXTReMe Tracker