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Hey whats up im Jessica! if your having some problem and just need some advice just ask. ill be glad to help you -MUCH LOVE- &hearts
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Age: 13
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The boy I have a crush on has been leaving me out of everything and likes someone else. One of my best friends is ignoring and avoiding me because another one of my "so called" friends told him I liked him. I look like a nerd, my grades are going down, and I've been down lately. To make it short, I hate my life. Its miserable right now. What do I do to cheer myself up or solve one or more of my problems??

-THIS.SUX- (link)
find anothre guy to like that likes you back. dont think about it just focus on your grades


Well, recently, My best friend told me what happened at a party when i was 14,i am now 16. As it turns out, at that party, there was some extesy going around. Someone snuck it into my drink. I was lead away from the party,to the basement. When i woke up from the extisy, A guy was inside of me. I was sexually assaulted. I tried to get away, but he hit me again to knock me out. I had a mental block of this night, and when my friend told me of what might of happened at that party, it all came falling down. I have horrible flashbacks. She is the only one who knows. I am having some weird pains in my stomache that started at age 15, i thought it was nothing, but as it turns out, i went to the doctor. When i went to the doctor, he revealed that i had aids. What do i do? He video taped it. one of my guy friends was looking at a porno site, and said they saw someone who looked extremely like me on a video. I asked for the site, and went to it. It was the man. The tape is on a porno site. I do not want people thinking i am that way, a porno star. What do i do about this whole horrible weekend?

I thought at that party i was just going to have fun.

Please help me.


I am sorry this is long. (link)
dont hang out with kids like tht if they are goin to sexually asult you and put drugs in your drink


Ok... I was in a porno Video cause i needed money to go to a school trip in France..! But now All of the guys at my school .. Are porno freaks.!! and all they want is sex from me..! i dont want to give sex to them cause i only did that 1 time to get money for a trip and all the girls think im a slutty ass bitch.. and im not i was always the nice girl and now after one mistake i am called a slut! All the guys try to talk me into sex but i dont want to.. when i go on a date i always get forced to hhave sex. its really annoying and bad.. I hate it and i dont even think i want to go on this trip. after all thats happening.. One of my friends told me that She over heard her boyfriend and his friend saying that this kid that goes to our school may rape me.. Im scared and i dont want to start more drama .. Not only that but the tape was sold on the internet. Im doomed for life. What do i do to repair my reputaion and stay away from getting raped..

any advice is apperciated..

Ps- IM NOT A SLUT! (link)
just let it go... carry a kinfe with you make sure it is under 5 1/2 inches. if someone tries to get itno you just jab in itno thier leg and twist it so the wound doesn't heal propely


ok so i like this guy from work...and he obviously lieks me back...he flirts all the time and he asked for my number.is it bad to date someone from work...i mean i dont even know if it would get that far...im just asking for furture referense...i read the code of conduct or whatever for my job..and they say you can date ppl from work but you have to tell the "big boss man" whoever the hell that is..and he has to give you persmission or sumthing weird liek that. But just in general is it wrong to date someone from work?? (link)
not really but dont go cheating on him cause work would be hell


Well, my boyfriend has been away on spring break for the past week and a half and I miss him a lot. He told me to call him during the day, and nights to talk to him.(As I usually do) So, I tried calling the first night and his phone was off, the second night it was still off. Well, last night I finally got to talk to him on AIM, and he said he missed me & missed talking with me. I really miss him, too. And it made me real happy that he said that. Anyway, does anyone know anything I could say to him to make him feel like I really missed him? Because I dunno, he's always first to say those types of things, and I don't want him to feel like I don't like him. Thaaanks.

Ariel (link)
just tell him that you love him and how much he means to you


i never do anything on the weekends except hang out at home... and with only one frined...i dont know what to do i want to start hanging out with more people but they always have plans (link)
make plans with them ahead of time befor they make plans with other people


i have these jeans that i want to put rinestones on. what kind of glue should i use??? (link)
try goin to like a seamstress or ask some1 at a craft store


i am going to be 14 on monday. i'm not going to celebrate it, i'm not goin to do anything special. i'm goin to skool and coming home. i am no longer with my loved one, my best friends on earth. we have moved to another country across the atlantic. i tell them how alone i am and how immature the people around me are. they always tell me to look at the brighter things when they themselves are the brightest things i see. when they tell me god has a plan for me, all i know is that god hasn't done anything good yet, and that he doesnt even exsist! i want to know of anyways for me to stop the torture that is the atlantic ocean and my moving. i wish to lie wit the ones i love, not with the ones that ruined my life! help me (link)
keep in contact with your love one. and try to make some new friends


today i was at my boyfriends house. ive known him for 2 years but weve only been going out for a month. we were at his house home alone today and he kept asking what did i want to do. then he started being like oh well your boring you dont want to do anything. (he ment like i didnt want to do IT) and i jsut said...weve only been together for a month! and then he was like...well thats not what you said to that guy that you had sex with!!! (im not a virgin and it was the biggest mistake of my life) and then i just got up and walked away. and he came after me and he was like babe im really sorry and he just kept hugging me and saying he didnt mean to say that and how sorry he is. it just really hurt my feelings. and i know hes not just using me for sex. hes an awesome bf. we hangout all the time and i tell him almost everything. our parents even like eachother. i duno he just really made me mad today. what do i do? do i just let it go? or next time he asks me to come over do i say something and bring up how rude it was of him to say that? i duno im confused..

ps..that wasnt the first time i been to his house..we hangout all the time.. (link)
just talk to him if he want to have sex tell him your not ready yet and that u dont wanna do that again


I am 15 I had my 1st love and after we broke up I was down all the time and i cud never have a boyfriend cause they always reminded me of Joey then after 9 months of being single i got back with my ex CJ and we were happy i forgot all about joey then we broke up and he is with my bestfriend..I try to have a boyfriend to forget about Joey and CJ but it dont work..I cant find a guy 4 me...Whats wrong with me?? Please help!!!!!!! (link)
maybe u just havent found the right guy for u... he will come around sonner or later... just keep lookin and if some1 asked u out go for it maybe it will work out


can the foods you eat affect your skin(acne)? does eating chocolate or greasy foods make you break out? and does makeup make you break out? i heard these were a myth but i think this is true.. well in my case.
THANKS!! (link)
they might make u break out i dont really have that problem... try getting a acne face wash or got to the dermatologist.. my sister used to have bad acne but she got some medicine and that cleared it up... i use a acne cream when i get pimples and it wrks really well... clean and clear maxium strength acne medication


Oh god, help! My friend Michelle is getting raped as we speak. I already called the cops. The worst to know if that the person raping her is Danny and she's lettting herself! Rada and I heard it while we were talking to her on the cell phone. Oh god, Rada is bleeding and I'm afraid that he might commit suicide because he told me never to forget this day. I was like ok. I'm crying right now and my arm is bleeding loads and so is Rada's. Oh god, help...please...what can I do to make her stop everything?! (link)
im not really sure how to help but get defentaly get the cops involved.


i am a 6 ft 15 yr old female and i was just wondering, is being tall a turn off? i have a thin frame and get called 'hot' sometimes, so excluding looks is being tall a bad thing? through a mutual friend i have with my brother i found out what my brothers mates were saying about me 'imagine having sex with bozzas sister what a tall freak forget that I'd rather have sex with bozza' (LOL, note: that was the cleaned up version) (link)
nooo beinbg tall is definatly not a turn off. if people make fun of ur hight then forget them. they arent worth it


every time i try to burn my music onto a blank cd-r cd using windows media player, when i click copy it says "insert blank cd-r" and i DID insert a BLANK CD-R, and it IS in the right drive, but it still doesnt recognize it. why, and what can i do? (link)
try putting in a different black cd and if that doesnt work try putting it in the different drive




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