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i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
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I was 16 when i lost my virginity. Now when i look back at it i think i was too young, but i don't regret it because i was ready. I'm still with my boyfriend now, 3 years later and we're in love. I think it's crazy that 14 year olds are having sex...you aren't even fully aware of the full consequences sex can have at that age. You don't know everything implied.

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I'm not sure if anyone will remember this, but I had asked a question as to whether or not it would be the right thing to want to go to the same college as my boyfriend just to be together. Well, he decided he wanted to go to Arizona. To be exact, The Art Institute of Arizona and I was going to go to The Bryman School of Phoenix to study massage therapy. I was looking at houses online in Arizona and I noticed that they were dirt cheap (as in price) so we decided to buy a little house out there (There are 3-4 bedroom houses for 95,300 out there!) My only concern, it's the desert and I'm PETRIFIED of snakes. I know there are many many many snakes there. Does anyone live in Arizona that is scared of snakes? What do you do about it? Is there anything you can put around your house to prevent the snakes from going into your yard? I really have my heart set on moving there, but the only downside is the snakes. Any knowledge of this subject would be so very much appreciated!

See i'd have almost the exact same problem as you...i'd be really scared of moving to Arizona because i'm afraid of cacti. Yes it doesn't make any sense but it's my phobia. i'm not sure how to keep snakes away from your house but you'll probably get used to it after awhile...good luck with everything! Sorry this isn't really advice, i just wanted to share!

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I have this boyfriend and I need some serious advice. I love him do not get me wrong on what i am about to say. He is an alcoholic. It didn't bother me at first. He used to let me do what i wanted when i wanted and now it's like i have to beg and plead with him to do what i want to do. He expects me to be at his house as soon as i get off work. If i'm not he's mad and we fight. Not all the time but..the majority. He gives me a time to be home and i am . When i tell him a time he says he will do as he pleases.
sometimes he is real mean to me. I cry cause it hurts me. somdays it's like he doesn't want to be together anymore. So then i told him if you want me to leave i will leave. I will get my shit and never come back. Then he pleaded with me . he said no. I love you please don't leave. We play around and sometimes he plays to rough. It's like he doesn't care. I let him go to girls house or even be alone with a girl. But..if i do the same he accuses me of cheating.
He has only hitt me twice out of anger. I buy his cigs,his beer and any thing else he wants.Sometimes he calls me mean names and I've asked him not to. It feels somtimes like he wants hiss cake and he wants to eat it to. Please help me. I don't know what to do anymore.

wow this is tough. even tho you love the guy you should really consider breaking up with him. he's making your life a living hell and you deserve to be treated better than that. you really HAVE to do something about it and soon. you should NOT tolerate being abused this way.

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hi, it may seem a little early to be talking about swimming but can you people pretend it is summer?! okay i cant purchase regular bikini bottom because of the hair..down there. i have to wear shorts and i really dont want to! every time i shave it gets bloody and itchy and burny. ive tried using a fresh razor and waxing, and using baby oil...lots of shaving cream..stuff for sensitive skin, conditioner, stuff for bikini area...etc and they all seem to irritate it. and i have really sensitive skin and that makes it worse. someone said to use bikini touch but i used the other one that is not for bikini area but just like it and it hurt! someone help please!

i think waxing is your only hope. it hurts like hell but it'll irritate less and it'll be really smooth

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Hey. Cute site. I was just wondering what swim suits were in this summer. What do you recommend?

I just bought 2 new bathing suits last week and this summer has really cute styles. Bikinis are a must. Tropical prints are always hot but this year they're less colorful. More beiges, dark greens and whites. There are also some cute new styles for tops...some are really criss-crossy and some have some wooden hoops that hold the two top parts together. Those are the styles i think are hottest. But i still like the classic, simple hot pink bikini.

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What hair products [ shampoo, conditioner, straightening balm, etc ] do you recommend that will make your hair STAY straight and shiny and smooth throughout the day ?? ♥

I use Pantene Pro-V shampoo and conditioner which i find makes my hair really smooth and shiny. I also use Brilliant Brunette straightening balm and use a flat iron to make it straight. Flat irons are a definite MUST if you want straight hair all day long!

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