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CALL ME ESTY'
IM IN LOVE WITH MY BF;
I LISTEN TO TUPAC. ALL DAY EVERYDAY;
I LOVE GIVING ADVICE
& THATS ALL YOU NEEDA KNOW,
Location: Canada
Age: 13
Member Since: July 3, 2006
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Last Update: July 28, 2007
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i live a generally good, happy life. i have a supportive family, good friends, amazing boyfriend, good grades, etc. but whenever i get upset or mad over stupid little stuff [mostly when i argue with my mom or boyfriend], lately ive been thinking about cutting myself. i am NOT suicidal i never ever have been not EVEN close i can not even begin to imagine cutting to try to kill myself i have my future planned out and want to live a full happy life, so id never cut my wrist or anything. if anything id more than likely cut like the top of my forearm or my thigh, jus so i could feel it but not have any serious risks. i dont what the heck brought this on because its only lately ive been thinking about it. im not one of these who looks happy on the outside but on the inside has problems and is depressed i am honestly a happy person but its just when little things get me down i have that crazy thought. should i be worried? id be scared to death to try to cut my wrists honestly id never ever do it so even if i did start i wouldnt get to that point. but i just dont get why im thinking like this?? please dont say therapy. (link)
ok, i cut myself long ago and i stopped i did it 4 times when my life was running in opposite directions! But, i have to say it changes your life, becuase it is so addicting!. What I suggest you to do, becuase i am now a happy person inside and out but when i get mad, i let it out by crying, eating candy lo land listening to music. plz dont think of cutting, when ur mad think of the situation and how you can fix it.


Ok, currently i'm 13 and i'm wearing a 30 A (i know thats small dont make fun of me haha)...anyways. It was getting too tight, so my mom took me to the mall and told me i should get fitted. I got fitted twice and both places said was a 28 B. Ok, now we looked at almost EVERY store in the whole mall, and NO WHERE had a 28 B!!! The kids section didnt even have B's, and the womens section started at 32 and i needed a 28. So to end my question, does ANYONE know where to find a 28 B?? i've looked everywhere over the internet!!! (link)
my friend found b38 at winners, you gota search though
sometimes they have it and sometims they dont.
xoox Esty


Ok so i wanted to know if anyone knows any good techno/electronic music if so please and thankyou (link)
ok well they answered the question,.
but there is a really good band called..
infected mushroom
&
benny Benassi, a good song love is gonna save us & satisfaction


is it normal and stuff nowadays for teens to drink and do drugs...
ages starting at 13-14? (link)
yes,
most of my frineds tried it.
I didnt try it & im not going to bother trying it.
So most likely, yeah now inthese days.


this mostly goes out to the guys..

do they notice underwear lines? is it a turnoff if there underwere is accidentally sticking out
or do you prefer g-strings and such? (link)
the guys i know.
turn on .


what are some really awesome kinda unknown bands that are like panic at the disco, mcr, the red jumpsuits,fall out boy, stuff in that catagory. also some other unique bands like the dresdon dolls (i doubt anyone really knows them though,there from MA) or any underground band. or also some more popular bands that are like that? i really like the music,its interesting. thanks (link)
underoath
from first to last
the used.


i saw an answer to a question about how to treat zits, and one person said to put honey on them for 15 minutes, then rinse it off.

umm... this sounds kinda silly to me.

what do you guys think? (link)
well who told you?
did this person try it?
tel the person to give more information lol .
search up in the interent,
but maybe it does work!


Do girl prefer it when a guy doesn't show his boxers..or does (but not in that oh-my-god-half my-arse-is-hanging-out way). and do girls prefer designer or not *-).
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yeh i like when guys show boxers; very sexi. but i dont like it when its too much 2-3 inches is finee -=] oh i usually like it when u wear jeans with itt, GGANGgStta*


ok, so here is the question. but im just wondering.
my friend said if you give a blow to a guy and u dont spit out the sperm you can get pregnet.
is that true? how do you play anywyas:S (link)
sorry, this me asking the question i didnt mean to say hot do u play i meant to say ho do u blow lmfao,


My friend and I went to the movies the other day and the whole movie she was making out with her boyfriend.

I found this weird because no one in my grade really does this. But I kept seeing her like rub his private parts over his pants.. and I know this sounds weird but I could hear him like moaning.

But question is, is this normal? Is this just like giving a hand job?

I know this question seems stupid, I'm just really uneducated.

Thanks in advance. (link)
he was moaning because he was enjoyin,
what grade are you in thou? cuz it might be his first time gettin a dryy hand and he was just enjoyin himself


As far as myspace goes, does anyone know where in the music section I can find songs that have been converted to techno. Not songs that were originally in that format, but some pretty well known songs. Simply, a song I can place in my profile. A URL, please? (link)
go too www.imeem.com & search up a techno song,
hope this helped.
xox, Esty


does anyone have any tips for making out? like fun places to be or maybe new positions to be in? the same old same old is getting pretty boring (link)
well, touch fool go deep with tongue, go on top of a guy, take of a shirt haha, try on diff lipstic for funn ( i did that with flavor & it was good ) basically, just enjoy urself and some places like where u guys can be alone. Try like on a bed, on a chairr on the floor! but all ican really say, is just enjoy the kissinn


when a guy is kinda always asking you who you like and then you ask him back and he says " i like three people" and only names two of them, and won't tell me the third. does that mean he likes you or does he just want to know who you like. (link)
some reason why he didnt mention the third,
okaii here r some reasons;
1) its you
2) ur friendd
3) too shy cuz it might be the girl he likes the most
4) just playin aroundd with youu.

hope i hlped xo esty


Guys how much do you think about having sex on a scale of 1-10 everday
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guys think of this all the time, everyday they tell me something that has to do with sex, soo prob 8-9

xoxox,esty


ok there is this boy talon and i still like him but i dumped him because he lied about dancing with 2 girls it was 4 and he never asked his own gf to dance but they asked him and they he lied about flirting he flirted with 2 girls and he talks to them more them me but he loves me alot and i love him but he keeps on saying sorry for everything he does what should i do ask him back out or stay single (link)
dancing is not a big deal, if he loves you and says sorry all the time than he probably still wants to be with you. If i was you, than I would still stay with him noones perfect we all screw up in dating but most of us still get chances=]. give ur guy a chance maybe now he noticed what could have happend and wont do this again, & have a talk to him that it bothered you that he lied (if uwant to )

hope ihekped,
Xoxox Esty


I know its bad to take diet pills, but which ones really do work? (link)
dont take pills my frined she lost weight & this is what she did,
eat healthy food & go to the gym & drink alot of water,
this is the healthy kind of weight loss & it worked for her hope it works for oyu too if u take me advice
xox, Esty


Sorry. I googled it and can't find it. What does this mean?

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its a heartt means love.



Hey, after you find the song how do you add it to your myspace? Do you have to create an account, or how does it work? (link)
creat an account on imeem add songs & han theres a code that says; put it on myspace,
something like that.


Do guys hate kissing girls who have on lip gloss?
cause thats what my one friend said, but i was just wondering..thanks! (link)
most guys i made out with like lip gloss, but i suggest the lip gloss would smell really good & not as sticky;)


hey guys..13/f..this is for anyone who has read the book "The Outsiders". For my class i have to do a dramtic reading of one of the scenes in the book. My partner and I have decided to act out the part where Cherry talks to Ponyboy before the rumble begins. We have to pick props and proper background music to put in the background. Does anyone have any ideas about any props/music i should add in my scene?
Any advice will be greatly appreciated!
Thanks (link)
I read it last year, i sort of forgot, But you are reading the book shoulnt you know? Maybe you can watch the movie or like at immages like at google.




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