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So far you have only answered ?s from the pool, but I will ask you sense I came across your helppage when searching random columnists, you were the first one to show.
My best friend asked my boyfriend out a day after we broke up. I would've been okay with it a week later, but a day? That made me mad. I'm starting to resent (spelling?)her. Should I be angry or should I just put my feelings aside and let them be happy? thanks lol (link)
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You have no idea how much like me you sound. It's just like if I would have written that question. My advice to you is to get mad at your friend. Not like scream at her and stuff, but just sit down and talk to her. Tell her how you feel. Be honest. Tell her that you are angry with her for doing that.
Seriously, that was pretty bitchy of your friend to do that. And believe me, I know how hard it is to tell anyone that you are mad at them. I have this problem that I never tell people my feelings and never let them know that I am angry with them. But they should know. They need to know. I really think you should talk to your friend about it to sort it out. Let your feeling out in the open.
Good luck now!
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Every guy I've gone out with only goes out with me because of my chest. At first I think these guys are nice and sweet, but then I find this out and my whole opinion changes. Please help! (link)
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oh my gosh! Thoose guys are jekrs!! If they don't like you for you then they don't deserve you! But are you sure they are all of them only goes out with you because of your chest? There could be one out of ten that like your personality and see your chest just a part of you. Be a little more "picky" when going out with guys. Belive me I know it's hard to pick ou the good guys from the bad ones. I have a loong history of just assholes. But I still believe that there are a dew good out there. One can only hope rigt? If we lost all hope then what the hell are we doing with all this dating? So my advice to you is keep you chin up, be strong and don't be afraid to ask a guy if he likes you or just sees you as a hot piece of ass.
Godd luck hun!
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My butt is so flat! Is there any excersizes or foods or anything I can do to make it bigger? Help. (link)
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Horse back riding!! That is total booty making!
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I get angry a lot now...for many reasons...I scream at my dad. Like today, just now, I woke up late, which puts me off schedule, which made me mad, so I started screaming, then I cut myself on my wooden drawer, and I slammed my foot down so hard, that I now have a bruise on my heel. I am afraid I'll go off like this on my friends, and they'll all leave me. What I need is someone to love me unconditionally, and someone to help me stop getting angry; At least that's what I think. Please help! I feel embarrassed about this, and am afraid I embarrass my dad and maybe will embarrass my friends... (link)
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I admire you! I can never scream at people! When evr I'm mad, I mean really mad, sad, angry, dissapopinted or whatever I keep it inside and put o a fake smile! Every one says I am amazing for awlays smiling and being happy but the truth is that I am only darkness inside. I want to be more like you! Serioulsy, it's not a bad thing! I ssat it's for the good to scream and let you emotions out!
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okay. im 16/f
MR.X
this guy, [this started back in october] MR.X [22at the time, 23/m now + he has a 3year old daughter] stayed at his house whilst i was dating my ex bf and slept with MR.X once. then the next day broke up with my ex bf cos my ex was a virgin and i didnt feel i was the right person. then 2 months later i stayed there again and we slept with MR.X again. i developed feelings for MR.X and now he's got a girlfriend.
MR.Y
so this guy MR.Y [18 at the time, 19/m yrs old now] met him seemed like a nice guy. alredy knew one of his mates. he came over mine 2 nights later whilst parents were out. i slept with him. then i started to develop feelings for him only to find out he's got a gf of 3 years. was pretty upset. ive got his house number and pretty sure his gf lives with him. kinda thinking about giving her a call and blurting it all out.
MR.Z
and MR.Z [one of MR.Y's friends, he's 18/m almost 19] got with him a month later only to find out he was using me.
Problem is now, i miss MR.X. I cant stop thinking about him. when i go to sleep at night i hug my pillow thinking about him and nothing will erase him from my memory. i know the age difference sucks. but i really like him.
ive been used quite alot over the last 8 months and im sick of it. but nothing can equal up to MR.X. recently one of my close friends has shown an interest in me telling me im cute and all that. but i know if anything was to happen, i would just be converting him into a MR.X clone.
please help. im so confused :<
confUSEDgirl_ (link)
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Hey!
I know it's really hard getting over a guy you really like (mr.X). Had have had the same problem, it took me like a year to get over my ex bf. (and during that year I had some realapses). What I think you should do is totally forget about Mr.Y and Mr.Z. They are bad news. And as for Mr.X...you need to get over him! There are plent of other fish in the sea. Chocolate and a night with the girls usually helps. It will be hard to forget about him but you deserve better. Sounds like you have no problem with finding a bf, so go for a new MR.! Like a Mr.L (L for LOVE =P )!!
It also sounds like thoose guys are just using you for sex. I've had that problmen too...didn't end up good..
So in conclusion, dump them all. Forget everyone and have a freah new start! That's what you need!
Good luck hun!
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Yet, I still find myself caring.
I used to go to language school early last year with this guy I met there and we spoke a bit then I left and we spoke sometimes on MSN. Well tonight we were talking and he basically joked "What's a hot sexy girl like you doing alone" and I asked if he really meant that, and he said then I wasn't hot and sexy at all, and I would be if I wore a bit more makeup. I felt very upset by this comment and got mad at him and called him a whole lot of names, and said I was only nice to him because I felt sorry for him, blah blah blah. I didn't mean a word I said.
Well he just emailed me, not apologizing or anything, but saying he was upset by what I said, and that its true i wasn't the most attractive girl there, everyone else was prettier but he doesn't try and sugarcoat things. Then he went on to say he feels horrible he wasted effort and breath on me when i was only being nice to him because i felt sorry. He said this cut him pretty badly because he thought we could've been friends.
Should I apologize to him? I have absolutely zero interest in him, but I feel guilty now. He did hurt me pretty badly though. I don't take comments about my appearance too well. Then again two wrongs don't make a right. I did insult him pretty badly. So what do I do? Sorry this is so long. (link)
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Do not apogogize to that shallow jerk! how dare he tell you that you need more makeup! Yeah, sure you might have made him feel bad too, but come on. That was like selfdefense. He hade the first shot!
Hun, if you have no intrest in him, and he is shallow and a jerk. Stop caring about him.
You deserve much better! You should be with a guy that says "you don't need makeup to look pretty" and say "What's a hot sexy girl like you doing alone" and really mean it! That's the guy you really deserve!
So if this guy is mean to you, there is no reason for you to apologze to him!
Good luck!
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I am very pale and I get very self concious when Im wearing shorts or skirts. The problem is I want to wear skirts and stuff because I think they are cute.
I guess my question is, is there any way to take peoples eyes off how pale I am or to make me look darker without tanning? (link)
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Hey =)
There is always that lotion that gives a tan look with out tanning. I think it's something like tan without sun lotion.
Good luck!
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