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for prom i heard you have to sign up.. or something? when is the dead line exactly for that? (link)
Im not exactly sure. With my school you had to buy tickets by a certin time.
With your school there may be a deadline. If you have to sign up and not pay then awesome!

Just ask a teacher when you have to sign up till. Im sure you can find out.

Good luck on prom, enjoy it.. It only happens once maybe twice if you're lucky!



What kind of bra should I wear underneath a slik/lace tank top (specific brand would be helpful)? I see girls wearing them all the time and you can't tell they're wearing a bra! Everytime I try, my bra shows. Please help me out :) (link)
I am a guy yes, but I do believe they are transparent straps. Or you could wear one of those bras that goes around your back. .. Maybe I am not the biggest of help on this one :)

No bra? Let the strap show? Im sure you will look good anyway you go about it :)


I don't know anymore what to do. Yesterday I posted a question here but I'm still confused. I met this guy in school. (You won't believe this) Last Grade 2, I started to have crush on this guy and It continued until now. I have not seen him for 1 year now but I still kept thinking about him. I know where his school is but I can't go there since I have a scholarship in my school. I think he likes me but is too shy to really tell me directly. He tried to talk to me last time and often smiled at me but I didn't talk back and smiled back at him :(. I regret that fact and I really wanted to show to him that I care. He even walked with me to my classroom last time but I still didn't talk to him. It was because I was nervous. Now, I didn't see him anymore. Sometimes I cry often because of him. It's really different with him and I am also worried because he has a personality problem last time. What if he would be led the wrong way? Please help me. What should I do? Age: 16 Gender: Female (link)
Sometimes you make those mistakes but you learn from them. Thats why I am not afraid to talk to a girl anymore. If you wait in life things won't happen. You need to act apon them. Don't transfer schools because some guy smiled at you. Talk to him next time you see him and if you can.

Don't be afraid, he sounds like a decent guy, go for it. Ask him for his number! Its 2005 :)


For all of those on advicenators who know a thing or two about car mods; What are some cheap things I could add or install in my Honda Civic that could add 50+ horsepower for less than 200 bucks? (link)
Honestly dude.. 200$ there is nothing you can get except a little more air into your engine. You could get a short throw shifter which will allow you to shift faster :)


Okay my boyfriend(Steve) means alot to me and i mean alot to him. I care about him so much w/ like everything i've got, i am so afraid of losing him, me and him have been thru way too much for us to break up now. We've been together for like 9 months now and he has become the love of my life, the person i wanna be with forever, he has this friend(Shana) and they've been freinds for like mad long before i ever came in the picture and i dont want them to stop talkin but at the same time its like i am VERY VERY jealous of the girl, i dont know why i am but i am. Its really weird cause theres other girls he talk to and i really dont care about them, but her i do, and he's going into the air force in 75 days and i know for a fact that i wont do nothin wrong while hes gone , and i trust him but what if something happens and he finds someone else and doesnt come back for me.. In the past i have done shit that maybe gives him a reason to not trust me like i cheated on him ONCE and never again and i lied to him about cigarettes, but after all that and we talked about it i dont think i could lie or cheat on him again, the reason why i know why i wouldnt cheat is because that was like at the beginning of the relationship and all the shit we've been thru after that happened i dont think i could do that to him, hes the reasom why i made it thru all of it(it was a big mother-daughter-moms bf thing).. i love him alot, i dont even think LOVE is the exact word but its the closest. He is the best tbig thats stepped into my life and i am afraid of losing him, we also argue alot too, and we both accuse each other of things but then we talk it out. please what do u think is the future for us?
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The Air Force.. wow. Somehow I get the impression that he is older then you. You seem to be the one who is jealous of her and does he know this? If not maybe you should talk to him about it and hear his side of the story. Honestly you aren't going to see him all that much if he is going into the Air Force.. Boot Camp, Training, and serving if he does.. A friend of mine was dating a guy and she had been with im 4 years on and off and when he went to the Navy .. It only lasted a few months and that was it. They still talk but it was hard with her going to college and him going to the Navy. Love is a funny thing, but if its real you won't loose him.


im a guy who is shy and i like this girl who is like my best friend and i want to have a bigger relationship with her, what should i do to get her attention? please help!! thanks (link)
Thats always a real tricky one. With this one I personally would give it time. Depending on how old you are its a big thing. I was 17 and told my best friend of 2 years that I basically was in love with her. She felt weird and didn't talk to me for 2 months. We are fine now, I realized it was some silly feeling I had. Sometimes in the long run its the best thing but.. I dono dude hint at her. Give her smiles maybe tell her shes very pretty one day. When a dance comes ask her to go with you and maybe make a move there.


OK ive been on a diet for about 5 days and i have been really goo about eating no junk. I even lost 2 pounds when i went on the scale today...roblem is..im a typical overweight american : I love my junkfood..Its getting so0o hard to turn down the junk..im afraid im going to give in and ruin my diet. My weight has been fluctuating..i might be 2 lbs lighter, then maybe 1, then back to my beginning weight.
How can i keep my weight from fluctuating and how can i deal with my cravings for food?? please dont say just tough it out..because its way to hard. :/
Any other losing weight tips most appreciated...5's for helpful answers. (link)
I don't know how to stress this enough.
EXERCISE! Its fun, gives you more energy and you loose weight.

Try making it so that there isn't any junk food in your house. Stock it full of fruit and maybe those health bars you have twice a day or something.

WATER! Drink water, I know that it may sound stupid but I drink so much water its insane, I am peeing all day long and it gives me so much energy and I can't get enough of it.. Now that I think of it I am going to get some now

Stay motivated, buy a REALLY NICE pair of pants that you LOVE a few sizes smaller then what you are. And it will be an incentive for you to loose weight.


Ok...my boyfriend broke up with my like.. 4months ago..so like in january.. the end of december.. and like i really really like him... and i want him to kno that i like him without like... tell him.. i mean i pretty much spelled it out for him..but hhe is like blind... well anywayz, i just need help!
DeSpErAtE! (link)
I was hanging out with an amazing friend of mine and she had broken up with her BF and I had broken up with my GF.. She said to me because we were both upset.. EX's are EX's for a reason!!

If you have spelled it out for him and he still doesn't seem to see it. I don't know how to say this but maybe he is ignoring it and isn't interested? Sometimes you just need to move on as easy as it is to say.

If you REALLY decide you like him the best way IS to tell him in person by yourself but its not that easy. Have a friend tell him or write him a note.


Ok well there is this girl that i go to gymnastics with and she has been coming to gym with bruises and marks all over her legs. I've asked her many times to tell me what happend and she told me 'nothing!' and i keep asking her the same question and even the coaches ask her and one time the coach asked her if she fell and she said 'yes' but then she told me she lied to him! I think her parents might have abused her because shes very quiet and timid and if u tell her not 2 tell anyone, SHE WONT!(even my dad thinks so) I'm really scared for her so please help! How can i make her tell me the truth? (link)
The best thing to do would be to inform a social worker at the school. Its good to keep your friends secrets but when their health is on the line you need to be there for them and speak out to someone who can do something about the situation.

The social worker/guidance counselor/or a teacher you get along with well .... Will most likely confront her and hopefully get her help.

I can speak from experience, being abused isn't something that is fun. It needs to stop. Be the friend she will love forever even if she hates you in the begining.


if i put all my pics on photobucket and then delete them off my comp will they still be there? (link)
Yes.. And you can even make multiple accounts .. EX:

Imextracool
Imextracool2
Imextracool3

Because they can only hold so many pictures. But you may need seperate e-mail accounts for each account.

CD's would work better but yes if you delete them from your computer they will still be on the site. Just don't forget your password :)


i'm 14 and a female. Last year, i went out with my friend. We broke up over the summer, but i knew he still liked me and i kinda still liked him.
this year, i started liking a new guy (one of my friends), and (stupidly) told him that i liked him. nothing really bad came of that but he told me he was happier being friends with me. so, we stayed friends. He says cute and romantic things to me and tells me he loves me and stuff, but still claims hes "not sure" how he feels about me.
now, i know my "ex" boyfriend from last year still likes me, and now i'm beginning to have feels for him again. I also still like my other friend. so should i wait for a guy that might never like me like i like him? or should i try to "rekindle" the relationship i had before? (link)
Wait around results in missing out on golden oppertunities. But in this case I would wait it out and try something new. Rekindleing... *shudders*


It is almost the anniversary of the night that I met my first love. I met him @ a school dance and there is a school dance the day b4 the anniversary of the night that I met him and I want to remind him of how it use to be, just for old times sake. What should I do? just 2 give u an idea:
"ribbon in the sky" by stevie wonder was kinda like our song. he likes the ocean. we met that night and were attracted to eachother and fell in love this summer. any ideas of what i can do???
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Request the song, possibly if there is any form of water in the area go there. Not sure if you drive or not but after the dance going to the water would be very nice.


I know this is probly a question you get every now n then.. but I think I like thsi kid.. but we have only talked a couple times.. but each time we were kinda like... yah know flirtyishh and we don't talk a whole bunch.. but I think he might like me too.. but Ionoo is it too early to like him? and what should I do to figure out if I really do? (link)
People can like someone just by watching how they act towards other people or based on looks (Which I don't recomend)

But if you like him you will look foward to seeing him throughout the day.
Possibly find yourself dressing up and making yourself pretty to impress him.


ok well something happened to our comp and my dad has to uninstall and reinstall and i have all these pics on my comp and i want to save them but i dont know how. i have too many for floppy disks because it would be using way to many of them. i have cd-r and dvd-r disk and i was wondering if i could save pics on them and if i can how? if i cant use that kind what should i use? i have a cd burner but i am not sure how to get the pics on the disk.. plz help i have less than a week to do this! (link)
www.photobucket.com
Also you can download a CD-R Burning program from www.download.com but I would recomend www.nero.com as someone did before.
Nero is a very simple program


For anyone that has been to prom, or is attending prom, or even knows about prom, what do you do? from beginning of all it until the end? I heard something about the grand march.. whats that? and what do you do? (link)
Prom is all about taking pictures in the begining, hanging out with your friends infront of the limo if you are taking one. Dancing, having a good time, take a limo ride around town or the city with your friends. After party then there is the prom king and queen which I never paid much attention to myself :)




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