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hey im Jourdan.im like this. ppl say im gothic others say im punk. i dont know what i am but i dress goth but im too happy to be one. i always look at the bright side of things. AIM me anytime u need to talk to me. im always willing to help. im a good friend so anytime u need to talk just talk to me and ill try to help what ever is bothering you. if you have a question put something in my inbox anytime you want to talk to me :) and jonny the homicidal maniac is my hero!!!!!!
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i have this friend i like.. hes like my best guy friend but i want to be more than just a friend to him.. how can i tell him how i feel? (link)
tell him you like him more than a friend. tell him how you feel. email him call him something just random ask him if he likes you more than a friend or something, say that you like him more than a friend. it may be hard to say but youll feel relived later, maybe. hope i helped


Does anyone know where I can find a pen pal at?
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you can find one on here, people on here live all over the usa. i live in colorado, i can be your pen pal if youd like to. just ask for one on here in a question and someone will reply on it or lots of people will saying theyd love to be one


I hate my brother! He acts like he's such a good kid but when my dad leaves me alone with him, he never stops pestering me. I need help and fast, my dad's leaving me again! Help! (link)
hahaha. i have the same problem when my mom or step dad leave hes a little brat and thinks he can do what he wants. you need to talk to your dad and tell him, that or talk to your brother and tell him to stop it. if you need anymore help ask me cause i understand and ill try to help you more


ok so i have this friend, brittany, and we just became friends like over the summer. we were really really good friends and we did a lot stuff together until one month ago. she started blowin me off at skool and not invitin me to her house but other ppl. so i got mad and she did too so we were mad for a while until i decided that our friendship is too good for us to be mad at each other. so i apologized. and i told her that i was only mad cuz i felt left out and stuff like that. well when i told her that she got mad at me!! but then a week later i just said srry and nothin else. so now she doesnt talk to me as much and she still invites friends over but not me. oo yea and i cant just not b friends with her cuz she is on my soccer team and her dads tha coach(i no im screwed) so please help me fix this!!!! 13/f (link)
tell her how you feel, tell her how you felt when you got mad and tell her your sorry for getting mad at her, id suck up to her right now cause of her dad so id just say im sorry for getting mad at you for no reason, i know that sounds pathetic but do everything you can to get her to not be mad at you.


okay the guy i liked just asked me 2 do somthing with him(go 2 the like the movies) and i am SO nervous!!!
HELP!! (link)
well think, do you want to go with him? its a good time to go and get to know each other and have fun getting out of the house and being with him. id say yes. have fun, decide what you want to do


ok im working on a chart for science... and its one of those things that teachers assign you because they have nothing better to do. We have to find 7 kinds kinds of plastic and list 3 "uses" and 3 "can be recylced as". it sounds easy but its kinda confusing because i don't know if what im saying for "uses" is right. i found a type of plastic that used to make pop bottles and peanut butter jars, etc. is that a use? i mean it sounds like it is, im probably just being parranoid.. could i use pop bottle, and peanut butter jar as uses? for the "can be recycled as" could i use the same thing? like, pop bottles can be recycled so could i use that?
Thanx!! (link)
well it can be a use, i dont know if you can use it agan for can be recycled as. but you can walk around you house and find lots of stuff that you can recycled. like maybe (im not sure im just guessing) straws, plastic bags, plastic plates, plastic cups forks spoons knifes, things like those, i dont know what your really looking for so just look around the house and find things that can be used again


Okay, my ex best friend Lana betrayed me. How? Well, she went and slept with this boy that I had a MAJOR crush on! And not once, but twice! I can't believe she would ever do that to me. And to make it worst, she told me she might be pregnant!! So you could imagine how much I hated her at this point. Anyway, to get her back, I told the boy (Clad) that she WAS pregnant, and that he was the father. So she was really pissed at me. But can you blame me? Now she's saying that what I did was 10 times worse then what she did to me. But I dont think so. What's your opinion? (Thanx for helping me out) (link)
HA what you did is suppose to be 10 times worse? ok no its not. what she did is far worse. its as bad as she could ever do to you. besides if she thinks she prygnet hed have to know about it sooner or later so you were doing her a fav over what she did and the conseqence. and friends dont do that to friends. its pretty bad that she slept with him even more worse when its twice and more when she might have his baby. she doesnt sound like a good friend to me, i would never do that to someone i care about


i am beginning to do crazy with all of this rain i have gotten in my area.

i need ideas on things to do at home by myself. i have gone through every board game, read every book, and am out of ideas. any websites i can go to? any other ideas? because with every drop of rain the runs off of my window, a piece of my sanity goes with it! (link)
well you can draw something. listen to music on a cd player. play on a game boy. write poetry. clean the house. organise your school work and notes. there are so many things you can do


please suggest good rock groups/bands.. punk is ok too.. thats.. aren't that well known.. thx everybody (link)
green day, sum 41, blink 182, thats all i know


well me and my friend went to wall mart and stole...and got caught but she blamed it on me and made my poarents pay for the shit she did and i dontr wnat ot tell my mom nor dad cause it will get her in trouble and i dont want to and she says that she will always be there for me....is she telling the truth or is she useing me
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p.s
shes spoiled and boses me around liek im her slave...
help me please!!! (link)
i think shes using you. you dont do that to your friends, never.


Im extremely tan just because of where i live. Is anybody else like that? But my face isnt as dark as my arms and legs and stomach and ect. its like it fades when it gets to my neck/face.. is it because i have my hair down so its harder for the sun? (link)
probly. maybe the sun doesnt get to your neck as much as it can to your face


I have been having this problem for quite sometime. I am a cutter. And i can't really stop. I have been going to counseling and I had been taken off antidepressants. My mood hasnt gotten any better, it feels alittle worse. Parents are no help, my dad thinks that I am doing this for attention and he yelled and screamed at me saying that I am faking everything and its just a waste of money to keep the counseling going. So now, I am not in that anymore. I feel terrible, worse possibly. And my freind who I have known since the second grade is going through problems, she is cutting herself and trying to kill herself. I have been trying to give her advice but, how do I give advice to someone who is doing the same things as me? I need some major help and someone to talk to. (link)
you need to tell her theres more in life then this. when shes 18 she can get out of hte house and start over, get better live better, you need to tell her shell find someone and shell live a great life, cutting i had a friend who did that, she stoped because theres no point in it, hope i helped


My parents are always smoking and i hate the small of smoke!! They are always smoking and I don't know how to stop them!! I have tryed talking to them and it doesn't help!!! Please help me!!! (link)
id get them some gum. tell them to smoke outside or something like that and not in the car. you could get lung cancer or something because they smoke and thats not good. just tell them i dont like it, if they dont stop id take the packets of ciggerets and through them away every time you see it, but thats just me.


its been 8 months for me and my bf.. he said he would call yesterday before he left for outta town.. he never did.. now today he hasnt called yet.. and he is suppose to be in town like a hour ago.. (link)
well id call his house and if no one answers id leave a message. id check the news now and then to see if the roads are ok and if there are any car accedents to make sure hes fine.


okay my boyfriend didnt get me ne thing for christmas and i feel kinda guilty for getting him something...and now i got a ring in the mail from someone and i dont kno who it was from...what should i tell my boyfriend when he asks...that is if he asks? (link)
well dont feel guilty. you were just doing something good. wow you got a ring? just say i got it in the mail and i dont know who its from. ask him about it first, when you can just ask him if he sent you anything in the mail.
hope i helped


Im 13 years old and I just started jr. high. I'm in the 7th grade. The problem is that I have no friends and I don't know how to make any. I've tried to be social, but no one seems to want to talk to me. I'm in all honors classes, and the girls in the honors classes are all rich and white and popular. I don't really like them anyway, but i have every class with them. Thankfully, i have 1 really good friend I met this year. She dosnt have friends, either. How can I make friends? I want to be the popular girl i was in elementary. (link)
ok well, for me i just talk to people and if they seem to enjoy listening and talking back then youve got a new friend. otherwise id just go around and see whos friendly and talk to them and be like hi my name is....... whats yours. something like that. going to a new school is hard. in 8th i had so many friends and i knew people in highschool. when i got to highschool its so diff all of them changed and i have like one or 2 friends now but i dont care, i stay with the few friends i have and make more. hope i helped, itll get better for you


Where do u get a background and pictures? mine is plane unlike urs!!! help please? (link)
ok for the pictures. you must go down to profile settings under welcome and then the name you have. its above logout and column settings. and when you get to that page it takes you to. it will say upload a pic of you and browse next to it so you can find a pic. for the back ground you have to go to column settings abouve logout. and then at the bottom it will have some #s and stuff. well i dont know what the colors codes are so i cant help you there. but i know that black is #000000 and you have to have the number sign. red is #FF3300 thats all i know for that. sorry i cant hlep you more


okay.. me and this guy have been "talking.." like.. we like each other.. and me and his ex girlfriend DONT like each other.. well.. she IMed me last night.. and she was like.. " i just wanted to tell you im sorry and i dont hate you.. im just jelous of you because you have the one thing i want.. " and then she was being super nice.. well.. today.. he came over to my house.. and she called his cell and was telling him all these lies about me... ( she didnt know he was at my house ) okay.. so i got on the phone and i was like.. "um.. hes busy.. bye!" and then she wrote my advice column saying all this stuff about me.. and i dont know what should i do? should i end things with him? (link)
dont end things with him because of her. tell her to stop. if she goes to your school tell them because theyll take it so serious. its like and is harrasment. tell him he needs to get to her to stop.


I've known renee since the 5th grade we became best friends in the 6th grade she never really got any guys because she just wasnt liked by guys and i was usually the one getting the guys now we go to different schools and were in the 8th now its the other way around but she brags in my face about it and rubs it in my face which i never did to her she thinks shes all that and pretty now our relationship is totally crushed and i wanna hit her what do i do? (link)
tell her to stop. you didnt do it to her so why is she doing it. tell her thats great and all but she needs to stop. she might be mad but its not cool to do that to you when you didnt do anything.


Hi i have this friend and she lied to me and it realy hurts well this is how it goes, i have this friend who will belive any thing i or my friends say anything so i was gonna tell her something just to see if she would believe me. Well it got out to a friend and i told her i wasn't gonna do it, so wat does she do, she goes off and tells her that she was gonna get hurt by me even though i told her i wouldn't. So we start talk'n and they say there is someone who likes this guy so i beg them to tell me but they wouldn't, so insted of tell'n me to stop they make up a lie to teach me a lesson amd to get me to shut up!!! Well one of my friends told me that she lied to me and i can't get over it. She was wat i would of called a true friend. So i asked her about it and she lies and said she didn't! Finally she tells me the truth and i so mad i cant even think! We were talk'n earlyr and we couldn't stop fight'n! She says i shouldn't be mad at her i should be mad at my other friend but she went along with it and still lied!!! wat should i do!!!
Your Truly,
ShrtJumpr123 (link)
alright, for one yeah it was mean. but you did the same thing right? or somewhat so they did the same thing, not to sound mean, but you need to get over it pass that and look over that whole thing, pretend it didnt happen, i do that to my sissy shes my best friend like my sister and yeah we get over it. you cant stay mad forever




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