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Member Since: August 10, 2004
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Last Update: August 12, 2004
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i want to be an advice columnist for something more than this, any ideas? (link)
look in tha paper for kids advice colums or online..good luck..sry i dunt kno rly wat to do..good luck


Ok. Im fat is there neway i can get skinner by tha time skool starts on Sep.7 and i need to work on my stomach area. (link)
do crunches while ur watchin tv..or listen to music nd do it..run around tha block or jus walk around tha block wit frends...if u have a pool do a few laps in there..or if u dunt go to a public pool..eat healthier if u do that u shud loss a few pounds by skool..xO
hope i helped..nd GOOD LUCK!


This question is gonna be long so moderators, please don't delete this question. I need to explain myself a little bit before I can explain my question. I'm a 14 year old girl, I'm 5'6, and I weigh 113 pounds. For all my life, I thought I was ugly or below average looking. I have never had a boyfriend but now I think guys are gonna start liking me and then I might get a boyfriend. Well lately, I've been getting great comments like I'm hot or really pretty. Today, I went to the beach with my mom and my sister because we had "to bond more" lol yeah right. When I was walking to the car to go home, a few African Americans and white guys hit on me lol. They said "Damn girl you're fine and you gots a nice ass and legs". After what happened today, I'm feeling more confident about what I look like. I'm going into the 8th grade soon and I think I might get a few boyfriends during the school year. I am done growing in height wise and I think my beauty phase is coming in lol because now people think I'm hot and stuff. Ok for my question, do you think I might get my first boyfriend this year because of what has and is happening to me? If this question isn't too difficult for you, I would really appreciate it if you can answer it. Thanks (link)
i thnk you will..but make sure they dunt like u for tha rong reasons..like they llike u not ur body..good luck


My friend always says that i am acting differently around these other girls that i act around her. but she cant give me ANY examples of how i am being like that! i just dont understand! she gives me this whole speech about how i should be the same around everyone and be yourself...but i have no clue what she is talkin about! (link)
well if u think ur not cool enuff for some ppl nd u change ur self to fit in wit them..then dunt hang around them ne more bc they dunt like u for who u r..they like u for who ur tryin 2 b.. nd thats not good..its better to b hated for who u r then to b loved for wat ur not..


okay..i have a friend and she wont let me hang around any of the other friends i have made this year or she gets mad and thinks im ignoring her! i really like her and i dont like it when she is mad! but i also like the new friends i have made! i dont JUST want to hang around her! how do i get her to understand that i want to be her friend and the others friend too?! (link)
she hud understand u nd if she doesnt shes not ur tru frend she jus jealous of you!


I recently got my tongue pierced. I love it, but the thing is, my church and friends don't approve of it. How do I deal with those opposed to the piercing? (link)
i want one soo bad..but its not their body dunt worry wut they think of it..


i have a real big problem.. my best friend cuts herself.. she doesnt seem to think that theres anything wrong with it. but there deff. is. and the reason she does it is bcuz the kid she likes isnt going out with her but he likes her. and i keep talking to her telling her that she needs to stop bcuz shes gona end up killing herself one day. and she keeps saying i know i know im gona stop. but she never does. and she told me not to tell her mom or any guidence counclers or anyone. how i can help her stop hurting herslef without telling anyone about it?? (link)
my frendz used to do tha same thing...one of them stopped but another one didnt...i tell her its rong to..jus show her how much u care about her nd if she ever did kill herself show her how much u wud care..b a good frend nd show her she means tha world to you


I might be suicidal. i dont know but i do think about killling myself a lot
so i guess i am... so someone help... and actually help! (link)
If its bc of wut ppl think about you...u shudnt..i have frends that tryed to kill themselves nd if u have tru best frends they will care if sumthin happened to you..jus wait ur life will get better...everyone at some point thinks of suicide but dunt take it to far..


I haven't had my first kiss yet. Everyone makes a big deal about it, but whatever. I know that it will suck because I don't know what the hell i'd do with my lips or anything, but uhhh, like what would I say after were done if I was horrible and he knew it? I know i'd be embarassed and I dont know what I would say? (link)
heyy dont worry about it...theres a first time for everyone...tha older u get tha better it will b bc it will mean more..dunt worry wut other ppl thik..i didnt get mine either..they jus want a reason to make fun of you..but ur time will come!!




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