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i have alot of friends and stuff, but iv just started to realize that they might not be as true as i thought. i love them but i hate them, they just seem not to care anymore. i also have people calling me a whore and a slut and stuff like that wenever i walk by because my "friends" tell them stuff thats not true. how do i avoid something like that..and how do i know if my friends are true?

If your friends were true then they wouldnt say that stuff about you. Maybe they are jealous about something. you should tlak to them and if it keeps happening then forget about them and make new friends maybe you out grown them.

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Ok there is this guy and he is 25 and i am 14 we were together for a while but then we had to break up because my mom called the police on him.. we still talk but last weekend I lied to him and he started yelling at me about how I can't stop lying to him... I have written him emails saying I am sorry.. But in an email he sent back to me he said he didnt want ne thing to do with me.. he wrote me back saying that maybe he would be with me.. but not for a while.. should I just give up on him or should I still be friends????

ok think about it your 14 hes 25. He is not worth your time he just wants a piece of ass. he has gone through everything that you havnt yet. Wouldnt you want a guy that is atleast you age and someone who your parents can trust. Give up on him but still talk once someone is in your life you shouldnt bud them out.

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omg.. ok there was this whole rumor going around at school that all of me and my friends are lesbians... well they only think that because a couple of my friends told them what we did at partys.. Its true what we did but its not true we are lesbians.. what should I do?????

If you look back on how many rumors have gone around you will see that they only last a couple of weeks. But it all depends on how you act about it. If you care to much then people will see that and they will keep spreading rumors because they see that it bothers you and they may think its true becuase you can act insecure. But if you let it go and just let the rumor go around then it will stop in a couple of days and people would think that who ever spreaded it is really pathetic. Just live the life you did when the rumor didnt go around. And next time watch for what you say it could get around what a small world.

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Well out of the blue, starting after winter vacation, my old best friend is coming back to my school. We were best friends growing up till third grade when she lefty for a Catholic school well now she's comign to my public school and she was nervous and called me up for the first time in 4 years. NOw that I am the only one she knows it means that sjhe gets to "shadow" me for her first week till she learnes where everything is. I kinda don't want her around anynmore though, she immature and I have outgrown her and made new friends. Yet i feel stuck becuase her mom called my mom and said how excited she was and stuff and i can't just bum her off on someone.... What can i DO?

Maybe your old best friend really needs you. What would you do if you were going to a school where you only know one person that you were best friends with a while ago. Would you call that person to help you or would you sit at home being really nevous and having no one to tlak to about it? You should let her shadow you and see if you want to be friends with her and if you dont then just help her out with finding her own friends and just live the life that you did before you herd about her coming back. Make sure you dont ditch her becuase you could need her in the future. "what goes around comes around"

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