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Hey everyone my name is Kayla. I'm very good at giving advice, i have been almost all of my life. I'm the person my friends and even people im not friends with would come to for help. /Knowing that ill be there for them. Ask me about anything and im sure i can help you with it! If you need advice and i am not available on advicenators my aim screen name is.. CutUpAngelz013 and my E*mail HAS BEEN F*d up so E*mail me @ my cousin's E*mail ~>Sharada31cent@yahoo.com... i would be happy to help you...!
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Occupation: MODLING FOR HOPPS CUSTOMIZING
Age: 14
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Member Since: November 23, 2005
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Cristmas is coming up soon and i have no clue what to get my gf so i was wondering if anyone had any ideas? (link)
Hun theres sooo many things you could give her... come simple .. some complicated...
you could give her anything from a burned CD with her favorite songs ... to concert tickets to one of her favorite bands... you could even make her something.. if you play and instrument liek the guitar or drums or something then write her a song.. if you write them write her a poem... take her out to the movies... and even if it gets to the point where you have NO money what so ever... write her a ltter telling her how much you care about her and that your sorry that u cant buy her anything but you can at leats have a good time together... and at least then shell know how much you love her ... but sometimes more than words count to... be very loving towards her and never let her doubt your feelings about her for a second... shell love that more than anything...


***Kayla...


It all started when I put on my away message “ YOUR DUCH A DUMB FUC* HAPPY ONE YEAR” and my ex-boyfriends girlfriend saw it. That away message was to my ex boyfriend lets call him *jack” jack and I went out for 7months and it was our one year anniversary 11.06.05 so that’s why I put an away message like that.


His girlfriend lets call her “Jane” she saw my away message and got really pissed and sent me an email on my space. It was saying that if I don’t get over jack that I’m going to get jumped pretty much so I thought we settled everything but I thought wrong. My friend lets call her “Jen” she rides the bus with me and she has been telling me that Jane is getting a petition going around and seeing who hates me. This is really true she’s not lying I over heard Jane talking about it.

Jane now has 40 people on the petition so 40 people so far hate me. How do I handle her? Should I fight her, leave it alone, talk to her, or make a petition of who hates Jane? But I think its immature she’s doing this so I don’t want to be immature. She’s 16 by the way and I’m 14.
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ok first off i say talk to her... tell her that u didnt mean it in ne way to make her or "jack" madd... and that u cant help the way you feel.. tell her you are trying to get over "jack" and that nothing comes easily.. but your trying ...

and if all else fails id hall off and kick her a$$ but then again i dont know how big she is or your body frame or nething but i know to me it wouldnt matter .. id make sure that i won.. and by then her digninty would be soo hurt... shed never mess with you again ...

***Kayla...


ok there was this guy i met shopping.
and then i found him like 3 monthes later on myspace.
and now i like him and i dont no if he likes me.
but he has me on 2 on his top 8.
and he said
do you still like me?
and i was like
YES.
and he goes.
do you wanna hang out sometime.
then i said.
definently.
and yeah
he never replied.
i need help!!
please!
i rate 5s for trying! (link)
Try messaging him back.. i knwo my space and it definetly f*s up sometimes and messes up messages... either that or he hasnt been on and hasnt gotton it yet.. but if he has been on send him a message and ask him when he has the time to hang out with you... if he has aim trying i*ming him on there ... u gotta be agressive sometimes to get what you want..


simple question, long story behind it, but i want to know, what do girls want in guys? (link)
ok dont listen to that i am crying guy... hun not ALL girls are back stabbing b!tches...

i cant tell you what ALL girls would want in a guys but someone like me would want a guy that..

1) Listens and doesnt just let it go in one ear and out the other...
2) Never lies... i hate it when people lie to me.. it hurts worse than ne thing and im sure alotta other girls would say the same..
3) When u say you care about them.. MEAN IT!
4) Doesnt let their friends influence how they feel about that person but then again respects their friend when their friend tells them their g/f was caught doing something wrong (like cheating*which I'D never do at leats..)
5) A guy who can hang out w/ his g/f and his friends at the same time.. i hate guys who would diss their friends for their g/f.. thats just wrong ..
6) a guy that can be honest and tell you the truth about how your acting or if you look bad w/o thinking youll get mad at him...(i wouldnt)
7) A guy that can make a girl laugh ...love that the most...!
8) A GUY THAT WILL DEFEND THEM..

I cant say these things would go for all girls but they would for a person like me.. im not high maintanance or anything like that... i just want someone whos honest for the most part.. to bad around elmira u cant find ne of them.. :-/ but i prolly didnt help you much .. haha i guess it all depends on how the girls act in your area babe... but if you ever need someone to talk to my screen name is... CutUpAngelz013

***Kayla...


Everyone tells me that glow in the dark tampons are a bad idea. Am I the only one that thinks I could make millions off of it? (link)
ok... well ud never LOSE your tampon... you could just shut off the lights and find it... and i guess some people would buy it i mean if people can buy the grow your own plant in a can thing (which surprisingly works) then theyd prolly go for your idea too.. but i can imagine how many lawsuits youd have for people gettin infections or havin allergic reactions to it hahaha knowing me id buy them and hang them from my ceiling or something haha .. its better then having a glowing vagina... :-o haha


hey um, i dont know what to do anymore because there is this girl that i have liked since like pretty much an exact year ago, and well after the summer i realized i liked her even more, and well everyday that i see her, (every other day not including weekends) i tell her that she looks beautiful and how was her day and what did she do, and she gets all mad and tells me to stop. it hurts me alot when she tells me stuff like that, and on top of that almost everyday in class, she talks about alot of other guys in class even though she knows i like her and i sit by her, she is always after seniors when she is a freshman, and she thinks shes mature enough to be dating one. anyways she is always getting her heart broken when guys tell her that she isnt mature or has low self-confidence. one day since were in band drum line, she got on the bus after a game crying and that was the worst thing i have ever seen and i asked her if she wanted to sit next to me and talk about it and she said whatever and sat next to me and told me someone said she was annoying, then her friend got on and asked her if she wanted to sit with her and she just got up and walked off leaving me alone. well anyways in class she tells this guy she loves him and all of this nice stuff even though shes joking around but sometimes i wish i could get that much, and it seems like every guy she meets that isnt a freshman is her next crush i dont know what to do anymore its been a whole year and she still doesnt care i need help. (link)
***Well this may not seem like good advice but hunny i say Screw Her... if youve tried to tell her how you feel and tried making a break through to her and shes still just completely blowing you off when your being as sweet to her as you are... then i just say drop her... one day shes gunna realize she could have had something so great .. and someone that truly cared for her and you'll be moving on with your life without her.. babe youll find so much more happiness with out her dragging you down...

***Kayla*Marie aka CutUpAngelz013


okay my bf is normally this great guy that lives by so many morals.. i know.. hes told them so many times.. but recently hes been acting totally different.. and couldnt give the time of day.. me n his best friend (carrie-a girl) are friends too. but not as close ahve noticed tthat hes acting different.. and not himself.. hes been very mad and just closed in.. hedoesnt talk to her as much.. and normally gets mad when i try to fix things that i think are going wrong.. hes not very fun ne more.. and seems more like a hassell and i have more weight on my shoulders to carry in this relationship.. he doesnt really act liek were bf/gf.. he doesnt hold my hand or put his arm around me.. like he could care less.. idk waht to do.. should i stay together with him or break up with him>? help! (link)
***Hunny the best advice i can give you is just to talk to him about it... sit down with him and run through everything thats been on your mind.. and maybe you can even get your friend carrie involved with it too... because it seems to me that somethings going on with him that hes not sharing with you and i think you both need to find out what it is... and try to help him through it and/or sort it out with him... it always helps to get inside someones head and try to see things through their perspective..maybe he just needs someone he trusts to listen... you could be that person hes waiting for to help him make the break through he needs...


***Kayla...


my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year, i thought we were happy until a couple of days ago he said hes not in it and hes afraid of commitment. so he broke up with me. well today i finally convinced him to give us another shot because i love him with all my heart, and i was crying so he said ok. he claims its because he wants to but i cant help but think maybe he just felt bad. what should i do?? (link)
***This is a tough one... but hey all i can tell you is to confront him face to face about it ... look him in his eyes (and make sure he maintains eye contact as well) and ask him if he truly does love you and make SURE that he isnt doing it just because he made you cryy... and if you are still doubting him or he admits that he doesnt feel the same... look into it .. ya know ask his friends or if your close to his family and still talk to them ask them if they know whats going on or if theres someone else ... cause hes got to have feeling for you hun theres no wayy 1 whole year meant nothing... just keep your head up and have faith in yourself ...

***Kayla...


well i havent had my first kiss yet... but i really want it! uh how do i let my boyfriend no that i want to kiss him or him to kiss me without telling him? (link)
ok Heres what ya gotta do... somehow find your wayy onto a romantic subject.. like idk talk about how much you like him or how your having a great time with him... and just have EXTREMELY good eye contact... almost as if your gazing at him (lol)... and just kind of inch closer too him... if he is smart enough to realize it then the kiss should come naturally... but if hes not just be honest and say that ud like to kiss him .. or maybe even start off with something simple such as a good night kiss on the cheek.. or peck on the lips... either way youll eventually get what you want...


*Kayla...




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