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okay since the last person i gave head to.. i have been getting bumps in my mouth.. like one bump a day and it would go away.. and a few days later another bump would come but at another spot.. i am really scared! the bumps hurt also.. and please dont tell me to go to the doctors because i will someday but i just need help NOW ..okay thanks (link)
mayb at night you chew on the places where you are getting these bumps


I can never make up my mind about things. Like once I was asked to make out with someone but I couldnt decide. Does any one know a good way to make up your mind? (link)
think of the negatives and positives of the activity that someone is asking you to do...if there are more negatives thn don't do it...if there are more positves thn do it...hope i helped



I'm a 15 years old girl, and have had 1 boyfriend, which was a joke. I have been asked out numerous times, but each time I deny them. I allways find something about the guy that doesnt work. I have just come to conclusion that I'm afriad. I'm afraid to fall for someone, that might actually feel the same. I'm afriad to get my heartbroken.

I have helped many of my friends battle through heartbreaks, and from hearing and learning from this makes me wonder why even bother dating if they are just going to end tradgicly? I feel like i'm holding back, and I dont want to hold back anymore.

Can you give me advice on getting over this feeling?

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everyone goes through things like that...thats apart of life...experiencing love n getting hearbroken...it teaches you the mistakes you have learned....and thn when you meet someone else you won't make the same mistake...you just have to trust the person your with...and if they hurt you...thn its ok...everyone gets hurt in their life...hope i helped


OK, i went out with my boyfriend for 3 months...i know not a very long time, but we were best friends b4 we went out and i really love/loved him, so when he broke up with me abotu 2 weeks ago i was really sad/depressed...it sucked....btu i still havent totally gotten over him...anyoen have any tips on how to? (link)
its hard trying to get over someone you really like...what i would do if i were you is talk to my friends...friends are always there to help you and they know how to make you feel better...just hang out with your friends and try to forget about him for one night...i'm not saying forget about him forever...still be friends with him...even though it might still feel a little strange...in time you will see you two were meant to be best friends...hope i helped


Me & my guyfriend are going to the movies. We've never hung out one-on-one out of school so this is a big deal since I like him. I'm not sure if it's going to be uncomfortable for us. He likes some other girl (& she knows that) but people keep saying he likes me. Do you think that it'll be weird hanging out alone? (link)
it might be weird...but give it some time and it will start to feel less weird...all you have to do is be yourself...and then maybe later on tell him how you feel...n see if he feels the same way about you...if not then thats ok...you'll still be the great person i know you are...(even though i don't know you but thats ok...lol) hope i helped


My friend told me today that she is pregnant because she was raped. she won't talk to the police or anything and her mother doesn't know. what should i do? (link)
talk to her...tell her that she needs to tell someone about it that can help her..thats where you come in...if she won't tell the polive or her mom about it...thn you have to tell her that you will talk to her mom and the police about it if she doesn't do anything...cause she can get in a lot of trouble if she doesn't do anything soon...hope i helped


I was just watching the Britney & Kevin: Chaotic series and I saw that while they were doing Britney's makeup, they used some kind of concealer stick pencil thing to cover up her mole...I was wondering if anyone knew what it was called and where I can get it? -thanks (link)
any make up store


ive been dating this guy for 5 months&we really got to know eachother before we even started dating. he ended up getting grounded over the summer for failing spanish&we havent gotten to see eachother since then. we decided it was pointless to date over the summer if we never got to see eachother, so we went on a "break". i think he might be interested in this other girl he just met. she plays basketball with him&his friends all the time. i dont know if he just thinks of her as a friend or more. he said he wants to start dating again as soon as he's allowed to see me again, but i don't know if i should or not. what if he has or had feelings for the other girl? should i trust that he really does care about me&want to stay with me? (link)
the only way you can find out if he really does care about you or not is to ask him...or have one of his friends ask him for you if you are 2 shy...hope i helped


one of my best friends is fading from me. you see,theres this girl. i hate her. shes so mean to me. and one of my best friends, lets call her hannah, anyway, 'hannah' is turning into such a little slut because of this girl. hannahs 12 years old and shes already been to 1st 2nd and 3rd base! this is all because of the girl that i hate. about her, she called me a fuckin bitch and 'hannah' was on the girl that i hate's side because i stood up for myself. and today she was talking to another girl that i really dont like and she told her all the things that she didnt tell me. she used to be one of my best friends. now she likes people who ditch her for more popular friends better. what should i do?thanks. (link)
tell your friend how you feels...n if she doesn't listen thn mayb you 2 shouldn't b friends because if she let that mean gurl call you a fuckin bitch thn she isn't a very good friend...but jus talk to her n tell how you feel...if that doesn't work thn mayb you should find another friend that won't ditch you like 'hannah' did


Hi, I have been talking to this guy online.....I really like him..he asked me out and I said yes. DOnt worry I have no intentions on meeting him anytime soon.But i dont know if I should tell my friends about him because they think talking to people online that you dont know is wrong..and i know they will probably get mad at me and think I am crazy. He has sent me a picture...but should I trust him that its actually him? And whats your opinion on online dating?
What should I do??
Thanks

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break up with him...you don't know if he is some crazy physco who rapes little girls...so jus dump him n find someone you know n that u like...don't trust online dating cuz it can screw up your life...hope i helped


I am not fat at all.but i want to go on a diet becasue my borther acts hard in front of his friends and says fat cow and stuff liek that.I hate it when hes like this. What can i do? (link)
don't listen to what your brother says to his friends about you...jus ignore him...who cares wut he thinks...you are a great person and you don't need your brother bringing you down like that...hope i helped


Ok well I have this really really hott boyfriend, and my friend really really likes him I mean alot! And just to be nice I invite her to go bowling, movies, dinner with us! And recently she's been like sitting by him, and on her web site she said that they kissed and held hands (but she wont say his name) I have discovered that the only reason she's really hanging out with me is to get closer to him and go out. Now i've asked my boyfriend about the haolding hands and kissing but he said nothing ever went on their just friends! And he wouldnt lie to me! So now she's lieing (sp) and trying to take him away from me. If you have any good advice can you please help! Thank you so much!
~Ashley~ (link)
jus talk to your friend...n if she is trying to steal ur b/f thn mayb she isn't a good friend...jus talk to her about it tho...tell her how you are feeling...hope i helped


Tomarrow there is a feild trip! To Canobie Lake Park!! Im afraid of going on the rides!! but i really want to! im only 4"6 would i be tall enough? [please dont make fun of me because im short ]] (link)
ok...well it depends on wut ride your want to ride...n its ok to be afraid of going on tha rides...don't think negative jus think positive...hope i helped




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