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I am 14. Im going to be a Freshman this year. But just becuase im younger doesnt mean im not super helpful. I am. Ive been through alot with my friends. More things then any one would ever know. I SPEICIALIZE IN: Self help like; Self esteem, Cutting, Suicidalness, and coping with a loss: Relationships: Boyfriend/Girlfriend problems, friendship problems, Family issues: People problems: Ideas for revenge, bullies, steriotypical people, and how to get more friends: AND ACUAL HELP; For Drugs, sex, and everything in between. Ive been through it all. I can really turn your life around. *I PROMISE* Ive "saved" 3 ppl from suicides, Ive helped someone get off drugs because her life was going down fast, ive made thee most depressed people happy for the first tim in years. If you ever want to talk like one on one my email is: Chicka376@aol.com.

I want to help you..

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I am very into photography and looking for some legitimate contests to enter.
I also do some with photoshop.
My two favorite websites are:
www.photoshoptalent.com and www.pxlshots.com

Does anyone know of other sites that offer free contests like these do?

Thank you.

i dont know about "contest" but im very interested in photography too. I use picnik.com for photo shop. Its AWSOME.. just sayin... ;] not reallly helpin but.... just sayin.. :D

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i just wanna know how many of you believe in mythological creatures like

-unicorns
-mermaids
-werewolves
-vampires
-dragons

things like that! i don't wanna hear something like..." we all would like to believe in such things for the joy of it...." blah blah blah
yes or no only please and why you think so , i would like facts to support your answer please!!!

thank you to all who answer my random question!

no i really dont beleive in things like that.. all tho i kinda do with mermaids.. ive seen pics.. but there not like an ariel mermaid.. and ive seen fairies before.. my friend swares shes related to vampires and thats why her grandmas a looon but idk if any of them are acually "Real"
im nore of a i kinda beleive but you have to show me to be a 100% beleiver so yah ;]

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Dr. Suess's mother used to chant them to him when he was a kid. This is where he got inspiration. Anyone know a good place to find them?

i tryed searching everywhere for it but i dont think youll ever find the words for it srry

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OK, what excatly is a douche bag? my sister says it all the time and my friends and i even heard my sisters boys friend say it.
I have heard many, many defitions but which one is the right, acutal meaning?

thanks.

A bag that cleans your downstairs but its usually just a word that people use when there like mad at some one like your such a douche bag and you can also say it in a joking way just like how you say your such a nerd to someone it can be thee same.

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I went to project dance NYC 2008 this past april. and when we went to take classes i had a Choreography class, and the song was really awesome i just can not figure out the name of it.

it had like some BANG sounds in the beginning with some ticking inbetween them, and the bangs get faster and then the words start. i cant really recall any words at all except it said "ooohhh" a couple times lol. so, i know this is probably going to be a no-answer question but if anyone has any idea just go with it. THANKS

if you describe that in thee google box it could pull something up lyrics help the best but just describe it as you said




-Chicka376

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i would like to go to a boarding school. i am in 7th grade, going into 8th. i am really unhappy at my current school and want to leave. nyc would be a preferable location, but anywhere is fine. and im not that smart so i dont want one of those schools for the gifted geniuses. also, i would consider going to a school in or near boston or weymouth, were i live

you can google it! find schools near by and go from there

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Hello, I am a 23-year-old female and I am having trouble regulating my sleep schedule.
My body clock has become backwards and it's been like this for months now. I can't sleep at night and I feel awake and then I fall asleep at the latest 7am and wake up at 4pm. These are the days where I don't have to get up for work at my part time job and it's hard to function with such lack of sleep. I've tried going to bed regular time between 10pm-1am but I just toss and turn or get no more then 2-3 hours sleep. On my days off I seem to sleep solid in the day time. I've tried everything to turn it around: pulling all nighters and forcing myself through the day in hopes that my body will just collapse from exhaustion and I've also tried just laying there in bed in attempts to fall asleep.
I've suffered from depression for years and I find it's affecting that as well as every aspect of my life.
What should I do? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you.

-Emily

i think you should go to the doctors. I think they could solve your problem.

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Okay, well you know how some people's eyebrows have those really nice, high arches?! well no matter how hard i try, i can never seem to make one that looks completely natural and normal. Does it have to be like,just the way your eyebrow grows? Or can you make them? If so, would it be best to go to a place were they wax them? Thanks haha ;D

Yah they have to naturally grow like that. I get mine waxed. Its acually not a bad thing. It doesnt hurt that much and it acually does look natural afterwards so go for thee wax! ;]



-Chicka376

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So, I have average nail length. The "white part of the nail" just reaches the end of my finger. But most of them are still more "in". I want the skin coloured part of the nail to be passed my finger. Whenever my nail grows, only the white part goes longer and the skin coloured part doesnt. (Sorry I don't know what their called :P ) Any advice? Thanks :)

Oh, and I have Sally Hansen Maximum Growth nail polish and that doesnt work. Only the white part goes longer once again .

its supposed to do that and if you dont like thee huge whiteness you can alwayz use finger nail polish there are some colors that blend into your natural nail color. I use it all the time when i want to french tip i just put it underneath.



-Chicka376

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well i know this is a typical everyday question that girls think about, and ask a lot but here is my story.
so ive liked this guy for a veryy long time and recently, ive gotten to know him a whole lot better. he's hilarious, sweet, and knows how to treat a girl. not to mention hottt :) its getting so annoying just thinking about him everyday and not have the confidence to do anything about it. ive been trying to invite him and his friends to movies and stuff too. but sometimes i get shy. its not like this with all of my other guy friends though! i really need to work on being shy around him, im really crazy and outgoing most of the time. so what im asking is what should i do to get him to notice me? how do i know if he likes me? and any tips on not being shy would help too :) thanks a ton!

Reall be you around him as much as you can. Then have a friend "ask you" and this guy and his friends er what ever to the movies so it wouldnt be so akward then insist on sitting by him with your friend on thee other side so it doesnt look so obvious and just bee yoouuu!!!! and you can tell if a guy likes you he flirst hes alwayz around you can tell hes thinking about you when hes staring across the room at you and you can tell at of the corner of your eye but when you turn to look at him hes quickly looks at something else and hes just awsome to you and if he doesnt ask you out soon ASK HIM!!!!!
and remember* your best girlfriend is your SECRET WEAPON*!!!!!!! if you know that you can do what evverr you want ;D


-Chicka376

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Hey I'm looking for a song that i can sing for my audition for the school musical. The musical is the Robber Bridegroom. Most the time when I sing I sing a little flat, so I really just want a song that can make me sound decent enough to at least get a part in the chorus. I'm defiantly an alto, and the director likes it better when people audition with songs that aren't like super popular. Any suggestions on an alto song that will make me sound decent enough to at least get in the chorus???

If you really want to blow her away sinf once upon a december..its from anastaria its not that high and you cant sound flat and to reeeally blow her away sing it really strong and loud in parts its supposed to and really soft when it supposed to itll sound super great!!! and if you dont like it just google it as audition songs for alto.



Chicka376

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14/f (sorry this is long!)
okay. normally i'm really good with relationship advice, but apparently i can't help myself with this one. so, there's this guy at my school-we'll call him 'trevor.' so, i have liked trevor since the beginning of the school year. he had a girlfriend-let's call her 'jenny.' jenny is really nice and we talked a little bit. but anyway, i liked trevor but trevor was going out with jenny. well, we flirted a little bit and trevor and i became friends. then, we had a sadie hawkins dance at our school. i went with a guy friend. trevor went with his other friend that's a girl (she couldn't find a date, they're like bro + sis), and jenny went with one of her friends that's a guy. well, trevor had absolutely no fun with his date, while jenny flirted it up with her date. trevor breaks up with jenny. jenny comes to me and tells me everything. she says she's over him. he now flirts with me nonstop. it's just funny little things, sports things, or me making jokes (i'm the funny one =]) and him saying that i'm really funny/cute/cool. i want to go out with trevor more than any other guy. EVER. but still, i have this weird feeling that i would be betraying jenny. help ! what do i do ?

If you tell her how you liked him and he likes you that maybe shell understand... Id ask the guy out seriously girl drama can be over the next day... Do want your heart tells you... But I think you should ask him out cuz its sounds suuper obvious that he likes you so just go for it and "Jenny" should understand or shes not a real friend to you


-Chicka376

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ok so i really really really like this guy its been for a bout a yr now.... we are just friends right now but hes so cute and i want to be his girlfriend... but like he wont ask me out so like what are the signs that i can give him to show him i like himm. my friend told him i liked him allready but should i go tell him? any advice would be helpful thanks i will rate

You could flirt with him alot and give him a gift for the holidays but i think you should definatly just go up to him and ask him out when the time is rite (youll know- its when you both are having fun together and you just know...)Most people know if you like them or not its just that hes not saying anything so it should be you that does.
GO FOR IT :] ASK HIM!!!!!


-Chicka376

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I am 16/f. I feel like every datable guy already has a girlfriend, and I'm the odd one out. Every time I really like somone, they are already dating somone or are "talking" to another girl. Like yesterday I was sitting next to this boy I really kinda like on a bus ride to a feildtrip. He was talking to one of my girlfriends who was sitting in the seat in front of ours, and since she knows I like him she said, "Hey David, when are you going to get a girlfriend?" and he said "Well, I'm working on it." and she said "Oh who is it?" and he wouldn't say, so she said, "Is it one of the other basketball team managers?" (because he is a team manager) and he like blushed and got akward and shook his head yes. So the point of that story is he is not referring to me. (I am not a team manager). It is not like I'm upset about this newfound information, more like frustrated. I mean, I thought I seriously had a chance with this kid, because even though he is really nice and he's cute, he is just not really popular or anything... he is just normal. But even HE is already going for somone else. And really, Im not sad, just frustrated! It is not like I am ugly, mean, or anything, its just that everyone else is alreay paired up! No nice guys are single! And all the single guys I know or even am friends with... well, they are single for a reason. They have just got some trait or another that makes them undatable in my mind. (And please dont say consider them... trust me, I've been there- on instances when I needed a date for a dance or somthing, and I am not doing that again!) Im lonely, and my frinds keep going on group dates and stuff and I am left out. Why are the guys I like always taken? What should I do? I want a boyfriend but they are all taken!

YOU KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD DO?!?
just go fer him!
when the time is rite...(you'll know when)
ASK HIM OUT!!!
just take a chance
what if he says no?
WHO CARES?!?
go fer a diffrent guy i doubt allll
the guyz are paired
try outside of your skewl
the mall... local hang out...
i dont know i just know you should deffinatly ask him even tho hes thinking about someone else
JUST GO FER IT!!!!
:D

-Chicka376

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