Hi my name is Jessica. Even though im only 13 I have been through so much and have some great advice to share. I have learned that there will be many choices to make as you go through life and thouse choices could affect you forever. I have learned that love is a battlefield and not everything has a silver linning. (sorry if i spell words wrong, im not the best at spelling) I have had to grow up very fast and have had to mature a lot faster then most kids. One of the main things that I have learned and stressed about is that for every bad thought that you have or think of think of a good thought to go along with it. I will try to answer everyone's questions honestly and to the best of my ability. Please dont be afraid to ask questions. :)
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ok so i really really really like this guy its been for a bout a yr now.... we are just friends right now but hes so cute and i want to be his girlfriend... but like he wont ask me out so like what are the signs that i can give him to show him i like himm. my friend told him i liked him allready but should i go tell him? any advice would be helpful thanks i will rate (link)
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Dear I love him,
I think its great that you feel this way about this guy. love can be a very exciting happy thing but it can also be very complex. he may not have asked you out yet because he may think that you dont like him and he is afraid that it would ruin the great friendship u 2 have. (though we dont see it guys feel the same way and dont want to get their hearts broken either.) he may be to nevours to ask you because he is afraid he will get his heart broken. some signs you could give him is send him flirty text messages and be like what are you doing this weekend o i no you gonna hang with me. or make him a bet on who will win a basketball game between the two of you and whoever loses buys the other person a soda. the best thing i can say though is go ahead and ask him out. if you dont he might lose intrest and move on because he thinks that you dont like him. you will never no until you try. the worst thing he can say is no and if so hes not the right guy for you. hope i could help. good luck.
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gggrrrr!!!! i dont know if i like him because i thought i did but now im thinking diffrent and urg!!
begining we started talking over myspace and he goes to my school hes a grade lower than me.. we talk on im alot and we talk occasionaly at skewl. i see him all the time and i think about him because hes awsome and funny -but- i dont know if i acually like him... its just weird because i have mixed emotions about this i could like him one minute then not the next... i am looking for a guy who loves me unconditionably and who loves me crazily but i dont know if hes that guy at all but idont really know...
im kinda mad at him right now because i dont know why but i think he was mad at me first because i always want to talk to him on im but hes like never on then he tells me at school one day that hes gonna get on after his haircut but i totally fergot to tell him that i was bizzy so i get on later and hes on and i think he was mad...
is it because he was really wanting to talk to me or if it was because i always tell him to get on and when he is on that im not and i think he was acually think he was mad before that... like he was like \"cranky\" one day i was talking to him and i dont know if it was becuase OK- hes akwayz talking about he needs to find a girlfriend and hes all lonely and such- and i dont know if hes mad at me for not saying anything yet or something becuz somethings really not rite any more.... i dont know wat he thinks and i deffinatly dont know what i think.. i dont even think i like him...
but asking for advice on him.....
urrrggg!!!! so confusing!!!!
*do i like him?
* does he like me?
*why isnt all diffrent now?
* is he like mad er something
*what is he thinking?
*does he think of me when i think of him?
ok i knew he liked me at one point just the way he would just talk to me triend to be funny and what not... but now... im confussedd....
i dont know how many questions this is and i know its long but i acually dont know what i want answered.... i amm sooo connfuzzled!!!!
i just need answers on thee whole story!!!! (link)
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Dear Longstory but im so comfusedd,
when you think about this boy do you get this weird fluttery feeling inside your stomach? Do you get all smiley and happy when someone says his name or brings him up in a conversation? When your with him is he the only person you see and do you feel nevours or completely safe and happy when your with him? Do you dream about him? If you answer yes to these things then you do or might like him. You just might be scared to ask him because you dont want to get your heart broken or get made fun of. you might be afraid of what your friends, parents, or just people in general think about him or you to together. you might also be afraid of taking such a big risk. but thats one of the most important things in life is taking risks. you will never no until you try. the worst thing he can say is no. and if he does say no or the relationship soesnt work out then hes not the right guy for you. it does seem that he likes you if he was upset that he didnt get to talk to you. ask him if he wants to go to a movie or get a slice of pizza after school and if he says no then say ok and make a joke of it by saying ooo i no i have bad breath but i didnt no it was that bad. make him laugh so it isint awkard. hope i could help.
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