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hi i'm lauren. um you can pretty much ask me about anything. i have a lot of experience with LOTS of different stuff so i can answer questions from pretty much any category. =]

advice

what is LOVE?

there isnt really a definition. all i can say is that if youre in love with someone.. you'll definetly know it.

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Does anyone have a video or list of steps to the dance to "Crank That" by Soulja Boy?

http://youtube.com/watch?v=sLGLum5SyKQ

hope i helped!

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Does everyone have some people that hate them?I was just wondering.

yeah..i cant think of one person in my grade that isnt hated by at least one person

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What are some cute names that end in Y?
(girls and boys)

Thanks!

girlz:

amy. courtney. jessy. bailey. hayley. kailey. keely. kelly. ashley. emily. daisy. brittany. shelby. shelly. bethany. colby. jenny. riley. kenzy. marley. stacey. abby. gracey. abby. jamey. lindsay. lissy. missy. brandy. marney. kiley. tracey. gabby. lory. vicky. katy. brandy. sally. patty. mary. cassidy. mallory. mindy. cambry. mandy. lucy. darcy. cory. melody. holly. ally. polly. molly. chrissy. cindy. lilly. becky. josey. cary. casey. lacy. sunny. libby. lesly. shayley. tory. ruby.

boyz:
ty. corey. riley. jimmy. sonny. tommy. timmy.

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okay let's say you were in this situation: You're a SMART student...and you always read everything on time and complete work. but one one certain night, you can't finish a book because it makes you fall asleep [there are like 3 chapters remaining]. would you use sparknotes? would you feel guilty about it? do you think it's acceptable once in a while?

whatever just do it. everyone uses it at some point. just make sure if you have to write a paper about it or something not to take words directly from sparknotes. some english teachers are like really familiar with sparknotes and they will notice if you have similar wording.

good luck

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15\f

okay, so whats FOREPLAY?
and whats INTERCOURSE?

thanks :)

foreplay is like messing around before you have sex. pretty much everything except sex.

intercourse is sex.

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if you think about it, how does kissing make any sense? its like two people swapping spit. i guess its more intimate than holding hands or whatever but you know what i mean?

yeah it sounds stupid. but i guess its just human instinct. when you really like/love someone you enjoy kissing someone.

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Okay so I've read that the guy MUST wear a condom while receiving a blow job... WHY??
aRnt condoms to prevent pregnancy??

f\15

they are to prevent STDs. but if the guy hasnt had sex or gotten blow jobs from other girls then you are probably fine.

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do animals enjoy sex like humans enjoy sex? do they always do it for reproduction or do they just do it sometimes? just curious

all animals do it for reproduction purposes.

with the exception of dolphins.

pretty sad i know.

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so me and this boy were really getting into our makeout session, and he like undid my shirt and started kissing and sucking my boobs. i just closed my eyes cuz i didn't know what else to do, is that right?

yeah thats right. do whatever feels right.
you can also like wrap your arms around his neck, play with his hair, or whatever else you want.

theres no wrong way to react!

and when he sees you closing your eyes he will know that what he is doing makes you feel good and that will make him happy.

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do guys like sex better if the girl is 'tighter' down there? i mean i know they wont care as long as theyre getting some lol... but if they had to choose... would they prefer it?

most guys prefer 'tight' girl to a loose girl. im guessing its bc when a girl is 'tighter' theres more like pressure on the guys dick which probably feels better for them.

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is there any way of telling a guys penis by his height n wieght?

cus i might be having sex with my boyfriend, n hes tall n skinny n i wanted to know if there is anyway i would be able to know how big?

(if it helps hes caucasion)

no you cant tell how big his penis is by his height and weight. IM JUST GONNA CLARIFY RIGHT NOW THAT MOST PEOPLE THINK THIS IS A MYTH BUT GO OUT AND TRY IT AND YOU WILL SEE THAT MOST OF THE TIME IT WORKS. (i got banned last time i answered this question). from MY experience i have found that if you take the guys shoe size, divide it by two and add one it is usually pretty accurate to how big his penis is. (answers have varied about 1/2 inch but no more). this is when they have a boner btw. all of the guys ive talked to about this have been caucasion i dont know if it works with other races or whatever. for example, i know a guy who wears an 11 and if you divide 11 by two and add one it equals 6 1/2 which is exactly what he was.

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this is weird-
but do boys get orgasims?
cuz i knoww like for a girl you like
shake a little and like it feels amazing
but like guys do that too rite? and if they
do, how and when do they get them?
thanks

yes they do.
they get them from sex, hjs, bjs, jacking off, etc.

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does figering hurt? it seems like it would hurt a lot the first time. or just in general? i know weird question but im really curious

no it doesnt hurt unless you like scratch yourself.. then it hurts.

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okay me and my friends were playing truth or dare i dare my friend to kiss my guy friend and they did but everything was going good but i had to kiss this guy named james, he always flirt with me and stuff and my friends thinks he likes me and we were good friends too and we kissed and after that dont talk to eachother anymore after the kiss what do you think whats happening? we just look at eachother when we see eachother

he was probably really embarrassed by the kiss and now hes scared to talk to you. im guessing he likes you or it probably wouldnt have been THAT big of a deal to him where he would stop talking to you. he just needs you to break the ice. go up to him next time you see him and say hi.

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hey, im going into ninth grade and i need a new backpack or something to carry my stuff in, my old one is lost. so i was wondering what are like the styles. is it messenger bags or backpacks or what. so if you could give me some ideas or links of cute bags that would be GREATLY appreciated. thanks!

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_358956_-1_12624_12552

http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_351287_-1_12624_12552

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=3C-214777&cgname=OSKEYPNKZZZ&rfnbr=3657


these are all cute.

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Hi i saw some pictures of girls rubbing "theirselves" together.(like the below the waste area) why do they do that? does it feel good or something?

uhm.. it depends on where you saw that
but if you mean you saw it on like myspace or something like that then theyre probably either:

-being funny
-theyre lesbo
-they think it will give them attention
-they want guys to see it

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I am VERY self-conscious. For example, I don't like to eat infront of anybody(except my family). I don't eat lunch at school, because I don't like people around me watching me eat.

I'm a chunky kid, and I don't eat very much. But I know when i eat i can just mentally picture everyone saying, "Omg, ew, she's so fat. She should be eating those chips!" And the reality is, I KNOW that the people i sit with wouldn't say that. But at that moment, I still feel like they are.

Is there anything I can do to overcome my self esteem problem?

And don't say, "Just get over it." Because that won't work.

well you could try eating healthier stuff at lunch. like some fruit or a sandwich or a yogurt. try to stay away from the chips and desserts. nobody will make fun of you if they see you making an effort.

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My best friend, lets call her... Emily is going out with one of my good guy friends.. lets call him Nigel. Well they have been going out for a few motnhs now and they are really cute. But Nigels best friend is telling him to break up with her because they live 20minutes away so they dont go to the same school. She is really upset and doesnt want him to. He says he isnt but we know that he has been thinking ab0out it. She really wants to stay with him but now hes trying to make her break up with him as well. He says shes just going to regret going out with him because of the distance. She doesnt know what to do. Any ideas? Shes sitting here beside me...

ok honestly, 20 minutes isnt THAT far away. i went out with a guy for almost a year that lived like 20 minutes away from me and went to a different school. if you have a ride from your parents or you can drive its not that hard to see them. (you could meet at a place thats 10 minutes away from each of you). even though you dont do to the same school.. you can see eachother on the weekends. you can talk on the phone, text, talk on online, etc. seeing him less will also make her more excited to see him when she actually does see him. talk to him about all of this and see what he has to say. good luck :)

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