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My name is Bree and I looooove to give people adivce lol. I'd say I'm pretty mature for my age but of course, I do have my immature moments (who doesn't?). I have NO life whatsoever ;D.

I have flaws just like anyone else and I've been through a lot of things in my short life to know what I'm talking about. I'm blunt and I'm honest. If you can't handle my answers or my attitude, sorry! Hmm...I'm bisexual, a gamer, and I love Spider Man ;3.

Feel free to ask me anything! I can never turn down someone in need of help (:!

If you need to contact me in any other way, my email is on the side and you can also add me on Skype: breezy_bunny

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I am 16 and I was just wondering if my dick was to small for my age its about 8 or 9 in

It depends on your race, mostly. But it's hard to say. I'd say that's good for your age.

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ok so I'm going to a party tomorrow and I have no IDEA what to wear! I wanna look sexy, but not slutty. Please, I really need help! I'm a 13 year pld female.

You're 13. There's no need to be dressing sexy at your age. lol

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im 15/f
my friend lets call her britney liked this guy lets call him mitchell. she used to like him but she doesnt know i liked him before she did. she now likes this other guy and its a different guy. i like mitchell again and told her but she got annoyed? i also really like mitchell and i want him to know but also dont want him to know because i dont think he likes me. what do i do?

Well, Britney has no right to get upset about it. She USED to like him and has moved on obviously. It would be understandable if she dated Mitchell, but she didn't so you can like him all you want.
You can do one of two things. You can tell him you like him OR just wait it out a little longer and see if he shows any signs of liking you as well.
If your friend gets mad about it, too bad. She's not your friend if she wants to control who you like when she's the one that moved on from him.
Good luck! (:

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Hey, I have a compaq laptop. Just today my videos on it will not play unless i move my mouse around. When my mouse is still, the video freezes but the audio still goes. So, video only plays when I violently run my finger over the mouse pad. PLEASE HELP! I love youtube and watching videos. If this ever happened to you, or you know how to fix it anyway, what did you do. Thanks!

What browser are you using? If not Firefox, then use Firefox. If you ARE using Firefox, update your flash and that should help!

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I have been hanging out with this guy for the past few months. He is very friendly and flirty with all of his friends that are girls. One night, he got my number from somebody and started asking me if I like him. I can't take him seriously, but I felt kind of bad for him so I told him kind of. For the next few days, he kept bringing it up. He would stop replying right after I answered the question and tried to make the conversation less awkward. I finally got fed up with it when he asked me if I had a boyfriend, so I told him that I didn't like him. I go back to school the next day to find out that he told my friend about it. She told me that he did the same thing to her and to another one of my friends. The sad thing is that we think he's in a relationship with another girl. Am I wrong to be mad at him for doing this to me and my friends?

You're not wrong at all. He shouldn't be playing around with girls' emotions and feelings like that. No guy should treat a female like that and he's in the wrong for possibly having a girlfriend and acting that way.

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I'm a christiam, and I am pretty good. Like, I've NEVER smoked or drank, neeever had sex, or even dated/kissed a guy yet! And of course I'm straight. I'm known as the inocent one in my group of friends, the one everyone knows to shut up about that type of stuff around.

Okies so, I like to read some manga. (Japanese comics) I go to this website oniline and it's a place where you can read free manga scans. Of course there's some adult/mature manga on thissite. Sometimes I get some...Urges... (I think you know what I mean.) Sooo, I look up some of that adult stuff. Like, I love romantic stories. So whn I get those... Urges... I look up adult romance stories. So it's love-dovey love story, but it shows some nudity and, there are some sex scenes. But, and I am ashaamed to admit this, I look up yaoi sometimes when the... urges..., get really bad. (Yaoi is'guy on guy') There are some pretty hard core sex scenes and sometimes I can't help myself... Is this wrong? I feel so guilty afterwards. I don't masterbate or anything, I just look that stuff up every ONCE in a WHILE. So, am I being wrong?

It's not wrong at all to have sexual urges or want to look up these things.
I for one have had many of these cases where I just wanted to watch porn but not do anything about it lol. You are in no shape or form wrong for having these urges. You're just being you! (:

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there is a guy at my school who wont quit annoying me. Does he LIKE like me, or is he just bored and making a sport out of it?

Easiest thing to do would be to ask him, but he may not be honest. So get someone else he knows (or you both know) to ask.

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i am 5'2 and roughly 135 pounds. I wear a size 2 in jeans sometimes a 1 and a size 4 in dresses because of my breasts, which are a 36c. I am a mix between an athletic build and curvy. I wanted to know if I am overweight because I always think I am. So am I fat?

No, you're not fat. From what you've described, you seem pretty normal. No girl should ever be TOO skinny and curves are always a great thing! (:

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13, girl
ok is it normal to get this liquid in your panties when you run like as if your private is "sweating"? im really worried. its alot like smooth its not lumpy and it doesnt have a smell but alot comes out. what is this called? please help
thanks to all that answer in advance really!

I'm pretty sure it's just sweat. If it doesn't have a bad odor, you shouldn't worry about it. If it does eventually change to a different texture and starts to smell weird, tell your doctor.

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if i dont answer his phone calls would my boyfriend get mad at me or would he want me more?

Uhh it could go either way. Everybody's different and have different reactions to certain things. Also, if you have to fight for his attention, he's not worth it.

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ok so i am a 13 year old girl, i have been told that i am really pretty before and sometimes, I'll just walk by a group of guys and they all get these goofy smiles on their faces and they wave and all say "Hi Cheyenne!" i don't get why they do this. i don't think it's just to be polite because they like single me out and smile and say hi and wave. i haven't really seen them do this to any other girls. why do they do this? be honest about what you think. thank you. kisses!

Well it's obvious they think you're pretty lol, and knowing guys, they're looking for one of two things.
Also, you're at the stage where puberty is just now coming into play and guys'/girls' hormones are going wild. I'd be careful as to who you talk to and don't do anything "dodgy". (:

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hi ya, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and we live together. he used to be very touchy-feely with me when we first started to going out. he says he loves me 2 or 3 times a day and he kisses me like every other day but just not touchy-feely anymore like he used to. is he loosing interest? when we argue, i said, don't you love me and he goes and say, 'if he wouldn't love me, he wouldn't be with me,' what does he mean by that? he a taurus single father and i'm a scorpio, never been married. thanks you all for answering.

I would have a sit down and a long talk with him about his attitude. He *could* be losing interest but no one wants to jump into those horrible conclusions!
Try to have a civil conversation and both of you can put your feelings out on the table.
With the "if he wouldn't love me" thing, he means if he truly didn't care about you, he would've left a long time ago. Trust me on that one.
Good luck! (:

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ok so i have my ex best friends and ex boyfriend saying crap about me and spreading it around. im 15 and i feel like people are starting to talk about me behind my back? i dont think my current friends are but i definitely know that my ex best friends are because they keep giving me really bad looks. i dont care what people think about me i never did and never will because i always know the truth but still i dont want this getting out of control because it's starting to a bit. what can i do about it?

Talk to them about it or just ignore it. Either one works fine...Unless talking to them makes things worse, then ignoring it would work best. I always ignored people talking about me and giving me dirty looks when I knew they were talking crap, but everyone is different. :S

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i just broke up with my boyfriend last week and he's going around to all of my ex best friends that he broke up with me? im really confused and apparently he is making things up about me? does anyone have an idea of why hes doing this?

Could be an ego thing. Guys like to make it seem like they were the ones to end things because they don't want to feel or seem like the weaker one in the relationship. Tell him to stop if it continues or just ignore it because you know the truth and it doesn't really matter what others say/think about you.

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18/f
my past relationships have ended suddenly because i have a nasty habit when it comes to getting close to someone. i'm very depression-prone. and usually when i'm with someone for awhile and i get depressed (for one reason or another) i start to push them away. press the right buttons, don't care about their feelings, act extremely distant and obviously sad, etc. i don't know why i do it, but i do. and i don't want to anymore. i'm with someone now and i really really love her. this is my first girlfriend. she's been my friend for years and so theres a lot of history there. anyways, lately i've been really down because of stress at work and with my friends. i took it out on her today and she started crying in front of me, and i immediately snapped out of my "fuck everything" mood and felt horrible. now, i know how girls work. i know you're not supposed to shut them out because they obviously think they did something wrong. she hasn't done anything wrong and it took me forever to explain that to her. i ended up buying her a balloon saying "i love you" along with a stuffed animal.
i don't want to make her cry anymore. she doesn't deserve that. we both have decent amounts of stress in our life and i don't want to add to hers. how can i fix the way i act in relationships? i don't want to chase her away like i did everyone else, since she's still my best friend and the only person i don't want to lose.

I've done this in every single one of my relationships and I even do it now. The thing that seems to help me out is talking to someone (friend, family, bf/gf) about my issues and having them understand why I snap, if I do.
So, if you're stressed and depressed, tell your girlfriend about it and talk it out before acting out on your feelings.
Good luck with everything, hun. (:

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I really need help finding a gradeuation dress!! My teacher is kinda stridc about what we waer. I am kinda short. What im looking for is pinks, yellows, purples, oranges, and whites. With starps and doesn`t show a lot. If you find anything with ruffles i`d be thankful. So yeah that is what im looking for. NO SHORT DRESSES ABOVE THE KNEES PLEASE AND IT WOULD HAVE TO LOOK LIKE SOMETHING A NUN WOULD APPROVE OF.

You should look up dress shops on the internet in your area or where you can go.
Not too sure we can help you if we don't know where you live.

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its been a month now i didnt get my periods after my boyfriend fingered me he fingered me last month on 2nd of august and as soon as he fingered me igot my periods tha day itself because my date was 5th of august...n this month i still didnt get it ...wats the problem 'm worried m 18 yrs old...plzzz let me know...

If you're sexually active, you could be pregnant if he didn't wear a condom or if it broke during intercourse.
If that's not the case, it could just be late. Every girl's body is different and it should come later than it should.
Another solution, take a pregnancy test to be doubly sure it's not at that point.
Good luck! (:

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my son increased in shoe size by 2.5 sizes in less than 1 year !!!

his less than 1 year old 900$ skates now dont fit :-(

is it possible to get hockey skates strecthed or enlargened, i ask because i know that you can do it with most leather dress shoes at shoe repair places

You could go and ask the place you bought them from if they could enlarge them for a fee (I doubt they'd do it for free). Or, if you still have the receipt, I know everyone doesn't keep those, you could just return them and get a bigger pair.
Also, every store is different and has their policies and what they can or cannot do. Good luck though! (:

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14/f
Hey thar everybody! Ever since I was little I've always been confused about gender, and I think I've always been kind of androgynous. I have always had kind of a mannish body, I prefer men's clothing to women's, and it recently occurred to me that I might be bisexual. I don't know how to react to my sudden realizations. Do I go on and let loose the androgyny? I never cared what peers think of my looks and I know my family won't care. I'm so bloody confused! Please halp!

Side note- I also have a thing for androgynous/cross-dressing men.
Thank you to people who answer.

I say go for it! I realized I was bisexual when I was about 11. I always had the urge to be with women and a few years later, I tried it out.
Do what you want and just embrace the urges and feelings.
It doesn't hurt to try things out! (;

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I really like my brother's best friend. It seems like he likes me, too. Other people have told me the same thing. What I'm wondering is...should I say anything to anybody or leave it alone? Since he's my brother's best friend, he's around a lot. I've considered talking to my brother about it, as we're really close. And when he was drunk a few nights ago he told me that if I dated (his friend) he'd love me. That was the same night said friend drunkenly asked for my number and to take me on a date and never went through with any of that.
I really don't know, but I'm making myself sick at missing a chance with him...even if I'm not positive I have one.
Any input is greatly appreciated.
I'm 20/f.

If he's just showing feelings while he's drunk, then I'd say don't bother. It doesn't seem like he really wants to pursue anything while he's sober because I'm pretty sure he would've if he wanted to.
Plus, in my honest opinion, dating friends of siblings makes it more hectic just in case anything bad happens. Good luck on any decision you make though! (:

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