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Hi, my name is emily and i'm 12, and my gender is female. My best friends are all in cheerleading, and I'm not. It doesnt bother me that they are, but everytime we all get together, they talk about cheerleading and stuff. I dont mind it, but I dont really like cheerleading. Its like everytime, thats all they talk about, cheerleading. Its like their favorite sport, and mine is football, which is totally different. I dont know wat to do. Should i ask them if they would want to like talk about football, or even play it? i dont want them to get the idea that i dont want them to do cheerleading, its just that i would like them to do like play football wit me, instead of talking about cheerleading all day. i dont mind them talking about it, its fine, i just dont want them to do it all day. what should i do about this?
just talk to them about it. even if you don't have an interest in cheerleading, that's fine. just talk about it sometimes with them and then if it starts getting boring say "oh hey you guys wanna go play football or something?" just share each others interests. that's what best friends are for!! it's ok if you don't have ALL the same interests. hope i helped!!
ok i used to have a best friend for 9 years and the this other girl got in the way and was alwayz in our buisness and and those to hang out way more than we did and then i told her that we must no b best friends ne more cuz u spend way more time wit her than u do wit me then ever since then we haven't be friends for like 3 months now and she has been like mentally abusing me when we were friends and i couldn't take it so that is one reason i said that we must no b bfs ne more and she took some of my friends away from me and she trys to find out wat i am doin and stuff and she wont stop talkin about me and spread rumors and say false stuff about me and wat should i do?
try talking to her. it's hard when other people start becoming friends with other people and people feel like their frienships are breaking apart. i used to have a friend just like that for around 9 or 10 years. we were best friends. but then when we got into middle school everything started to change. talk to her before it's to late. i know i lost my chance talking to my old friend about it and now we aren't even friends anymore. you don't want to lose a good friendship like that. 9 years is a long time to be friends and you must have been pretty close. just talk to her and work things out. let me know how it goes!!!
Okay I'm 14 and a girl and this guy friend of mine that i liked told me he thinks im hot and i told him hes hot and then later that week i told him i liked him... he didnt say anything... so am i just supposed to forget it or what... would appreciate guys advice on this one too!!!
he might have just been shocked at you telling him that. maybe he feels the same way. just ask him what's up and going through his head right now.
*Jess*
if you have like one meal and a gadorade or something a day after a month or two is that considered an eating disorder like anorexia? also if you do that does anyone no about how much weight will b lost after a month?
you can't be sure unless you go see a doctor just to make sure it's not an eating disorder. but you may want to start eating more a day so you don't get anorexia!!
*Jess*
Hey I was just wondering what kind of shampoo's work the best, I wanna have a nice, straight look with not that many frizzy's if its possible.. lol thanks!
garnier fructis
i got this huge pimple that just showed up overnight, does anyone know how to get rid of it fast?
put toothpaste on it overnight.
why does everybody have popularity it sux ppl think i am popular well go to hell
be happy your popular!!! it's a good thing! it means more people like you and want to hang around you more.
i got a gurl iv known for awhile and i like her alot and i kno she knos but like she trusts me alot and like she tells me everything...and i guess thats goos but , she tells me who she likes and everything and asks for my advice and i just wanna b like forget them come with me but i try to give her advice from a friend type i jus want her to be happy. but it hurts alot listenin her talk bout all these guys but i dont want her to stop talkin to me wat should i do?
tell her you like her! maybe she feels the same way!
*Jess*
Okay..I like this kid and lets call him tony...lol and he is my age and he is really nice and he likes me too..he just broke up w/ his gf like 2 days ago and my friend ash has been talking to him a lot...he says he broke up w/ her to go out w/ me.the problem is he's sooo shy.Everything I find out is over the phone.And I don't think he's gonna ask me out himself.I think he mite ask my friend ashley too.And I don't want ashley in on all my business..no offense to her ya kno?So should I talk to him or should I go for it and ask him out or what??? *he's told me that he likes me in person but thats about it* thx..bye
i think you should ask this guy out. there's no harm in a girl asking a guy out. take control!! and if you don't want your friend in your business, then this is the best way to handle it. tell me how it goes!!!
*Jess*
what are some good ways to get my muscles bigger? like in my stomache and arms n' stuff.
you could try doing sit-ups and crunches and for your arms do some push-ups. hope i helped!!! good luck!
*Jessica*
hey i have a friend who is sooooooo obsessed with her boyfriend and she is on the phone with him all the time and it gets sooo annoying but i love her too much to tell her that! and like what should i say to her and plus he is pretty ugly!! ick he is gross!
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maybe your friend likes him for more than his looks. looks aren't everything. if she's always on the phone with him while your there, just ask her to call him when your not there because you came there to spend time with her not listen to her phone conversations. just talk to her. i'm sure she'll understand.
*Jessica*
what is the normal/ideal weight for a girl that is 5'8 and is 14 years old?
probably around 130-140. you're really tall!
*Jessica*
Hi, I'm 14 years old. And I weigh around 115 pounds. I don't exactly have a flat stomach but I'm not fat at the same time. I'm 5'2 and I think that I should loose some weight. I've been trying not to eat so much (I don't anyway) But I get light headed when I don't eat. What I'm asking is, is 115 pounds for a 5'2" 14 year old too much to weigh? I also don't feel good about myself because I don't have a flat stomach. Is there anyway I can get a flat stomach? I used to have one when I danced and did gymnastics, but I've quit those so I don't do any excersie anymore and It's hard to keep in shape that way. Also my parent's don't own any excersie equitment and I don't go to the gym. Thanks..*Love Annoyomous*
of course your not fat!!! just because you don't have a flat stomache doesn't mean you're fat! don't think that! but if you're trying to get a flatter stomache try doing crunches everyday and go for a run in the morning. If you have any more questions, just drop on in my inbox!
*Jessica*
most days i am all home alone by myself bcuz my mom and dad are at work...what are somethings i can do so that im not so bored?
You could work out or call some friends and go do something. Be active!!
*Jessica*
i have this friend who always makes these really unessessary comments about things i say, and it gets on my nerves real bad, i wanna talk to her, but every time i talk to her about anything we get into a fight, so what do i do?
it depends on the type of things you say...they might just be annoying to her...or getting on her nerves...or somethin' so i don't know talk to her about it and if she says it's annoying then try your hardest to stop the habit and if not just talk it out.
*Jessica*
whats the best way to get a babysitting job?
You should make flyers and post them around in the windows of a resturant or a store. hand them out in people's paperbox's. make sure you put anything about any experience, your phone #, how many years you've been babysitting, things like that. Good luck!
*Jessica*
alright me and my so called bestest friend for life are fighting..and its because i was supposed to go to her house after school but i get in trouble all the time there so i wanted a change..so instead i went over to Courtneys and she got all mad sayin how could u go around ditchin me..and then she claims i stole stuff from her that i later found in her bookbag and she was going around calling me a slut...so i am just wondering if i made the right chioce by "ditching" her..x0 MaNdiE 0x
oOoO....i'm sorry! She should be able to handle you hanging out with your other friends. But you should have told her that you were going somewhere else ahead of time. It's ok though. Everyone makes a mistake or 2 along the way. But she shouldn't have blown up in your face. she's just mad right now so all she wants to do right now is make fun of you or be mean to you that's what happens when people are in fights. talk to her. clear things up. let me know how it goes!
*Jessica*
im so confused. i like this kid alot and everytime we go to a party together we hang around eachother and if i sit by him he will pull me on his lap and things that that...flirting wit me and i flirt back. then his friend asked him if he liked me and he said no. maybe he was embarressed? but then later he asked me for my number and he called me twice and we talked for about 2 hours each time. we flirt and everything and weve become friends. shud i say nething to him about it? or just let it be? cuz i wanna be more then just friends...and i htink he does too.
You could try bringing it up in one of your conversations. Make sure he knows that you like him and you want to be more than just friends. He was probably embarassed when his friend asked him. Guys don't like to be asked those kind of questions. When a guy asks for your number, most of the time it means he likes you. Good luck!! Let me know how it goes!!
*Jessica*
theres this guy ive litterally LOVED him for 3 years... and he keeps going out or likeing my friends .. well not this time .. this time he told me ahed of time that he liked this gurl and i HATE her and he sez ( u no im going out with her cuz u told me not to ) and i was like .. uh ok .. wow .. and so he goes out with her and erri thing and idk wat to do i dont like him ne more .. im always gonna love him tho i cant get my mind offa him what do i do to get ihm offa mi mind
you gotta try and let this guy go. obviously he's being a jerk by going out with the people you don't like and you don't want a bf like that. good luck!
*Jessica*
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there is this guy who i really like but he doesnt even know i exsist what should i do to have him notice me
try flirting. works everytime!
*Jessica*
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