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I really like this guy but hes 11 years older than me. yes i know its illegal but we really like each other. he said he would wait till im 18 to go out but if we like made out or anything would it be bad? i dont know what to do. i cant get over him....

Lil' Girl

In my opinion, if a guy that much older than you has feelings for you, there's something wrong with the guy.

Take a minute and think about it, why can't he get a girl his own age? There's obviously a reason. Just try and be careful, this is a dangerous situation.

But, to answer your question, if you make out with him it isn't bad (legally), it's bad in many other reasons, but that's beside the point. The only way you will get into trouble with legal reasons is if you have sex.

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ok hey. so, i'm in highschool (i'm a sophomore.). i'm a female (pretty obvious?) and i need advice. duh. i haven't dated/liked ANYONE since llllaaaasssssttttt year. i really want to find someone that i can like and will like me. all my friends have boyfriends, and they are neglecting our friendship to hang out with their stupid boys. this isn't just about them, though. i really want someone who i can be with romantically. do you have any advice to help me when i don't have a boy, or to help me get one?

Join the school's academic clubs and meet some guys there!

Just kidding.

When your friends and their boyfriends hang out, tag along and meet some of the guys' friends. If you don't see anyone you're interested at school, go to the mall, movies, local concerts, etc. and see if you can meet new people.

You can't just make the perfect boyfriend appear, you've gotta go looking!

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Alright there's this guy in my French class (he was in a few of my classes last year too). He;s kinda popular and well, I don't know what I am. I'm not exactly unpopular or popular. Like I have alot of friends and I get along with alot of people, but I'm not like a prep. Well, anyway. Theguy is kinda hot, but sorta like a jerk sometimes. He'll boss this one kid around and tell him what to do and he does it. And sometimes I can't help but laugh because of the idiocy of it. And then he (the guy I was talking about)will like catch my eye and smile. He also acts like an ego-maniac when he knows it gets on my nerves. It's like he's trying to get attention or something. I usually just ignore him (we sit at the same table).

I don't necessarily think he likes me, but I don't know what it is. It's not like I did anything to annoy him, so there's no reason for him to try and annoy me to get back at me or anything. If you have any idea of why he does it or how to get him to STOP please tell me.

There are only two answers to this question, he either likes you, or he doesn't like you.

It sounds like this situation could be his attempt to flirt with you, but if he's sending mixed signals, you really don't know. Personally, I just think he's trying to get your attention and start conversation with you. When he bosses the other kid around, he's probably doing it to try and make you laugh.

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Ok so i was wondering is it better to eat/drink dairy products when you're on a diet or not?

Also, im somewhat large chested, and i was wondering what can i do to keep from hurting when i run. I wear a sports bra sometimes but that doesn't help. Ive also tried it with a regular bra. But that doesnt help either..so does anyone know of anything i can do? its alwasy miserable the day after i run.

thanks, 5s to all who answer seriously

Yes! It's actually really important to have dairy products if you plan on dieting healthy. There's no reason to use whole milk, try a 2% or skim. Yogurt is also a good thing to eat while you're on a diet.

As for your chest problems, if sports bras don't work, i'm not exactly sure what will. Try going to a sports retail store (like sports authority, if you have one of those near you), and see if they have a better sports bra brand there. If not, you could just tape them, but that's kind of weird.

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