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Q: 17/f
I met my current boyfriend two months ago but we have only been dating for a few days now. I am a virgin (prior to meeting my boyfriend I was too busy to care about serious relationships and didn't want to have sex with someone I was casually dating). My boyfriend is not a virgin.
We have been teasing each other since the moment we met so the sexual tension is hardly bearable. I feel obligated to wait until we take things to the next level. On the other hand, I had been hoping to be single when I start university in the fall (I could change my mind) - regardless, I want us both to enjoy however long we get to spend together.
What wins out? Feeling obligated to wait or enjoying the potentially short time we have?
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Right now, you need to evaluate the situation. Sex is fun, healthy, and very enjoyable. It is ohkay to do it if and ONLY IF you do not get attatched. I think that you should explain your desire of wanting to be single for when you go off to University. If he understands and still wants to have sex with you, then great ! If not, then you just saved both of you a heartbreak.
But before you worry about breaknig his heart, you need to focus on yourself. Since you are a virgin, your first time and the first partner that you haev is always going to be special to you. You need to make sure that you are an emotionally strong enough person to be able to let go of the memory if things turn our sour between you.
There is always another solution besides sex. There are other ways that you could fool around. Oral sex is a great alternative to intercourse. It's not as emotionally connecting and it'll relieve the "need" you both have.
Take care and I wish you the best of luck!
Please drop me something ni my inbox if you'd like further help!
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Q: hi i'm around your age well i am your age and is your job hiring caue it is really hard for me without any exp. so do you guys have any openings?
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Well I currently have 3 jobs.
1. Dunkin Donuts - they definately hire young. I began working for Dunkin when I was 14yrs old.
2. Hip Hop Teacher - a local dance studio hired me to teach classes
3. Babysitter- Best job everrrr. Amazing pay, no taxes taken out, and its easyyyy.
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Q: this is for dancers:
i have a lot of questions, so i'll just say them all and hopefully someone can answer all of them.
i can't seem to keep my left leg straight when i do left pique turns on pointe,what should ? i can do them fine slow, but when i have to go fast i get all messed up. any tips on getting better turning leaps? because i'm not very good at them. also, tips on having higher attitudes in front and back and tips on getting better switch leaps, because i couldn't do switch leaps if my life depended on it. also, how do you torres? my last question is, what are brushaes? i don't know how to spell them, but they are pronounced like broo-shays. i couldn't do them in ballet and i want to practice them but i forget how to do them. thanks!
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Do me a favor? IM me.
My screen name is "Alison Paige x"
I will answer all of your questions to the best of my ability.
I'd like to get to know your style and experience before I answer =]
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Q: What are some good songs about a best friends, who like each other, and they want it to be more?
I really like any type of music. But acoustic or anything soft is preferable.
Thanks!
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Homeboy by Jojo is the only thing I can think of. If I think of more I will let you know!
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Q: ok, so i know im not the only one, but i cant seem to bring myself to walk out of my house without eyeliner on. thing is, i wish/want to go without makeup since i am young (16) and i know i look good without it except for some pimples but i am working on clearing up my face completely, anyway thats besides the point. my question is how do you look amazing without makeup because i see girls doing it and i want to too! its healthier for skin and keeps you younger longer. also I tried not wearing any eyeliner once before and everyone commented on how tired i looked! so i need tips on looking good without makeup...thanks!!! =)
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I'm not quite sure what you mean about looking tired. But I do have an idea. Neutrogena and Aveeno have all these creams that rejuvinate your skin. If I were you, I'd use an exfoliator and some rejuvinating/repairing cream. It will give your face a brighter/healthier appearance.
If you still feel the need to wear make up, wear natural stuff. Use products with a lot of minerals. EX. Mineral Makeup.
If you need more help let me know!
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Q: so lonely
i want a boyfriend i want someone to hold me and kiss me. take care of me. talk to me and all of that.
but it seems that they dont exist or im invisible. all of my mates are loved up so i guess im not pretty enough or invisible or both.
thats a depressing thought
just so lonely
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I completely understand where you are coming from. But you need to think about it: You're probably young. You have a lot of time ahead of you to be loved by a boy. Take the time now to sort through your life and find what you want. Once you know who you are, you will know the exact kind of boy you need to complement your preference.
Believe me, it is not that you are invisible or not pretty enough. And please don't be depressed.
If you are looking to put yourself out there, I suggest you gain some self confidence, first of all. Then, you should go out with a bunch of your single mates. The perfect places to meet guys are dances, clubs, the beach, bars, school.
Please, if you need any more help, let me know!
Take care!
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Q: Okay, I'm kinda in the phase of my life where I'd like a boyfriend (:
I'm not totally desperate, and I'm 'taking life as it comes' however that doesn't really land you one.
Where are places I should go to at least FLIRT with guys.
Places guys would go if they don't have girlfriends would help heaps, the most nerve wracking thing about flirting in my opinion is the fact they might have girlfriends. I know it's a common thing, but since I've never really done it before it would really discourage me. Haha.
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Oh Girl, I totally hear ya!
I'm single at the moment. I go to a Catholic school. The way that I meet guys is either through my other friends or I go to Mixers. A Mixer is a dance that guys from private schools go to and any other girls can go to. Its a great place to meet guys. Besides mixers .. I'd go to a lot of parties and just present yourself in an open manner.
Good luck and let me know how things work out!
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Q: Are there any available job opportunities that would hire a 16-year-old such as restaurants (Olive Garden, etc.), shops, etc...?
Thanks.
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I'm 16. I currently work at Dunkin Donuts. I make minimum wage +tips. For example, I made $22 yesterday in tips. Good job for teens and its really easy!
Doing dishes at a restaurant is a good idea. My friend did that and made $9 an hour.
Good luck
if you need more ideas let me know
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Q: im 21 :) and i have a live-in bf. we been together for 2yrs,i also have 2 kids....i have dreams and fantasies about having sex with women..n feel as i am more attracted to women then men...wtf do i do??
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Well, I don't believe that claiming bisexuality or homosexuality is a bad thing. If you are attracted to women, then by all means, go for them. But don't lead that man on into thinking that you want a relationship with him if you aren't really attracted to him. If you are bisexual, you can always have a threesome. I'm sure he'd love that!
Good luck!
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Q: Im a soccer player and i sweat alot on and off the the feild. like when im at school i sweat alot. i also sweat lot on my back, my legs, and the inside of my thighs. and its becomeing a problem because i can wear some colors that show sweat stains. and people are starting to think im emo cause i wear alot of black now. Iv tryed sports deorderant and the sweat-protection. and nothing works. any help?
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Been there! You MIGHT have what I have. It is called hyperhydrosis. Hyperhydrosis means that you have overactive sweatglands. Go to your dermatologist and s/he might prescribe you something called Aluminum Chloride. It's awesome. I used to use but I moved onto a type of pill. Its a pill that dries out your whole body. It doesnt hurt or anything. Your mouth just gets dry in the morning. After a while, my body got used to the pills. Now, every 3-4 months, I go to the dermotologist and he gives me shots of botox for under my arms. It prevents sweating. But if it's not that, Ban and Certain Dry work good for most.
*P.S. Hyperhydrosis doesn't mean you have sweat stains to your waist. It just means you have over-active sweat glands. You aren't necessarily drowning in sweat.
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Q: it goes:
we could do it in the bathroom;
baby we can do it anywhere.
turn around- grab the sink; let me pull yur hair.
or maybe even on the kitchen floor.
baby girl i know you want some more;
now we headed to the back seat,
windows all fogged up...
thanks
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Sounds like "What's your fantasy" by Ludacris
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Q: so my boyfriend is like a reeally good kisser. and i no im not a good kisser. how can i be a really good kisser? what should i do with my tongue? how do you suck on someones lip and how do you nibble on their lip? please tell me everything you no. thanks! =}
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Well, to be a good kisser, you have to be confident.
Your tounge should be darting in and out of his mouth. Don't keep it there too long or things will get sloppy. Get a rythm going with him.
Sucking on a lip while making out is actually a specialty of mine. When you kiss, let it linger and as you pull away, just close your lips on his bottom lip. Just tug it a bit. Don't suck on it too long or he'll get a fat lip.
As for nibbling on it .. do the same thing as sucking it but just nibble it a bit. Again, don't bite it too hard or he'll get a fat lip.
One thing I noticed that you left out here .. is what to do with your hands. Run your hands through his hair, put your hands around his neck or waist, or, if you are willing to go further with him, guide his hands else where on your body.
If that didn't help, check out this site: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/sex/put-bliss-in-kiss
Good luck!
If you need more help let me know.
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Q: how do you scrunch hair? i have this Garnier Fructis curl construct mousse, the only problem is i dont know how to scrunch my hair lol.. help?!
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This site is perfect!
http://www.wikihow.com/Scrunch-Hair
Take care & Good Luck!
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Q: ok so i just found out im pregnant. and im only 15. DONT JUDGE ME I JUST NEED ADVICE.
i have to tell my parents. but i dunno how. any help on that?
also, the father doesnt know im pregnant, either. how can i tell him and my parents?
and please please please dont tell me to get an abortion cause im so against that.
so yeah just gimme advice on how to tell my parents and the father.
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I read this question, and I just have one question: Have you ever seen the movie Juno?
You should DEFINATELY watch it. It's about a girl in your position and how she deals with it. She is really mature about it and she ends up making a really good choice about what to do with the baby.
If you don't want to watch the movie, here are some good websites:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/81869/young_and_pregnant_how_to_tell_your.html
http://www.pregnancy-info.net/teenage_breakingthenews.html
http://www.girl-mom.com/node/122
Good luck!
Congratulations =]
Let me know how things work out!
take care
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Q: okay so for school our dance is coming up. my boyfriend isnt inmy school so he cant go with me. but than again he told me he didnt care if i went. even if i went with another date. so he was like so who r u going with? and like i wasnt even planning on going cause i didnt think it was right if i would go when i had a boyfriend. but he kept saying he didnt care and i should go. he even told me he didnt care if i went to the other gr level dances as well. to me it seems weird that he doesnt care ? what do u think
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If he says that he doesnt care, and you can really sense that he doesnt care.. then you should go! You should go and have fun with your friends. Or maybe you could ask your dean/principal if they allow guests. If they dont, maybe you could bring that up as an idea to your school. But if you go, make SURE that he doesnt care. Because if he cares, and you go, it'll come back to bite you in the ass. =[
Good luck and let me know how things work out!
Take care =]
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Q: 14/F
I get really horny really fast. I've fingered myself, but thats not warking anymore. I dont want 2 go out and just have sex witha guy. Any advice?
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While researching your question, I came across this website: http://www.masterbationlounge.com/masterbation-techniques.html
Scroll down for the women section.
Good luck & let me know if you need more help!
Take care =]
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Q: 15/f
This is really weird, but down there there is some whiteish clearish stuff coming out. like randomly throughout the days. I don't know what it is and if its normal.
If someone could please help it would be nice.
Thanks alot.
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While researching your quesetion, I found this website: http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/women/reproductive/vaginal/194.html
I think it should really help you!
If you need more help just leave me a messege =]
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Q: i think im confidant n have quite high self estem bt im not sur so i want 2 know wat u guys think is confident+high self estem.
thnks xxx
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Confidence and self esteem are your belief in yourself. To function as a human being you need to believe in yourself and to believe that you can acheive whatever you want to. I'm sure that you are confident in yourself and that your self esteem is in tact because by having the confidence to ask this question, you demonstrate that you are very self aware.
Take care!
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Q: I'm making a big valentine's day card out of posterboard for my boyfriend. I just dont exactly know what to put on it. I have what i want to write on the inside, i just dont know what to do on the front.....any ideas?
also any ideas of what else to get for him for my boyfreind? we've been dating for a little under a year
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You could include some pictures, some ticket stubs from going to the movies or a concert rr song lyrics from his favorite song.
You could also get him:
- Scrapbook of pictures of you two.
- Make him dinner and watch a movie.
- A chip to put on his wallet and keys that he can use to locate them when they are missing
- Go to dinner and a movie
- If he is into sports, buy tickets so a game
- Make a cake together =]
Good luck!
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Q: I've been trying to help reduce global warming by doing saving a lot of energy around my house. However, i am unsure of what actually really causes global warming. All i know is one cause, carbon dioxide. So what really causes global warming?
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The is no one cause of global warming. There are MANY different things that contribute to a big problem. While researching your question .. I came across this site that has many of the causes: http://www.ecobridge.org/content/g_cse.htm
It's great that you're concerned about Global Warming!
Take care!
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Member Since: November 27, 2004 Answers: 667 Last Update: October 1, 2012 Visitors: 44395
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