My name is sarah im 13 and have 2bothers and 4sisters 3 are older than me so I know what its like to be 19, 16 and 14. Lets face it I have probally have ben through alot! so you can trust me to give great advice.I have benn through alot of hard times in my life that alot of people might have I know im very blessed and some people might think im really lucky and others might not think the same way. I can help anyone with tenn crushes, sports , school and other things. You name it I can help you dont be shy to tell me embarrisng things that might of happend to you I can help you fix them. Im not saying everything I say is going to perfect Im just giving you the best advice I can and if you want to say something mean to me I dont care just be perpared that im going to say something back I respect everything you say so just go out and say it. I stick to my word no matter what so if I say that I was going to give anyone a 5 than I will even if you say somthing men or lets face it really bad advice. I dont mean to hurt your feelings I just saying the facts.
E-mail: charmedp3@yahoo.com
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Location: NewHartford New York
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wow guys, im madly in love. theres this boy at my school this year and the second i saw him i was in love.. i just dunno what to do! like at this activity night thing we had at school.. all i was thinking was "wheres robby.. is he here?" and my friends were like whats up with you?? the problem is he would never ever ever like me. he is in my math class and he jokes around with girls and stuff but he acts like if he even said something to me it would be embarrsesing to be seen talking to me! well i admit once when he made a joke (not talking to me) i giggled and he looked at me and said something else funny. oh wow he acknolwedged me once. ok back to activity nioght... i finally saw him, and he saaw me but he didnt say anything he looked away...my heart broke all i wanted to do was say "hey robby" and smile but you know.. hes one of those "tough guys" who doesnt do that kind of stuff in front of everyone.. hes so funny though!!!! oh yeah by the way he has a gf but you know its one of those relationships that last like a 2 or 3 weeks. they dont even talk to each othher. HOW CAN I FIND OUT WHAT HE FEEL ABOUT ME OR HOW CAN I TELL HIM!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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well there is online like AIM or tell a friend and ask them if you would ask him if he liked you or how you like him and im not saying your a geek but i have glasses and i really look like a geek and if you have glasses take them off see what you look kike without them and if you like wht you see get contacts like i did it works trust me and if you never wore makeup put on a lilttle like eyeliner and macarea and lipgloss not ahole lot but like cleare one and no lipstick and dont where your hair up just looks like you didnt fell like lokking pretty and dont where sweats all the time you can show a little skin clevage maybe and flurt and smile around the guy you like just like smile and talk dirty I know you might not want to do this but trust me guys like girls who do that and play with them they dont like boring girls who stay home and watvh tv or read books and if he prtends to make fun of you you make fun of him right back but in a funny kind of way not mean and if he says he is still embaresesed to hang around you then you tell him that you are embaressed to be around him and he is over.
hoped i helped and good luck!
P.S write back if it works out all write!
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oh k well..i never kissed a guy before and im in 9th(i know) and like this kid it 11th and he always wants me to go over and i wanna go im just a little nervous cause i dont wanna mess up with him tho.. ya know?
~confuesd (link)
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well its ok that you never kissed a guy im in the 7th grade and still havent kissed a guy so yea im scared too and if he wants you to came over just go over or ask him to go to the movieds dont be nervous it will tske a while untill you get really used to him but it wont take forever you know .
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Ok So here is the deal I sorta like this guy and he defiently likes me right!So I know your like then go out with him but ...........NO! Hes a "gangsta" and thats kinda weird i jist dont like him that way and by the way im not allowed to go out wit anyone but i still go out wit people but mah parents getr suspicious! and anyways i really wanna make out with him but i never have time at school and whenever i see him after school i jist dont like him (i get all jelyish)! Please help Me IM beggin yall!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
P.S. as Fast as u can! (link)
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if you dont like him dont go out with him but when you are allowed to go out woith someone go out with someone your parents will approve first then go out with someone you know your parents wont approve like the person you like now and so your parents ae not all up your but about everything go some where everyone is going to be and you v=can make ou there.
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I am having friends for dinner this weekend, and one women is not allowed ANY dairy in her diet. (She is a new mom and is breastfeeding-and for some reason can't have dairy). I can not figure out what kind of dessert to serve. It can't contain butter, chocolate, or milk. Any ideas? (link)
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you can find cookies that dont caontain any of those or make a cake that doesnt trust me my aunt made this really good cake that dint have butter or eggs.
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Track season starts in Jan., there is something called "conditioning" where they help you get ready. Should I try running on my own warmin' up for the "conditioning". Has anyone juped hurdles? That is intersting, is there anything that I should know about that one? (link)
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no you dont have to jump hurderlards in track you just run everyday and yea you should get readdy a head of time you want to get into shape before you get into shape doing track I wouldnt really know but I did do cross country and that was fun and im going to do track this year too.
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Me and my bf were out on the town the other night. We met up with some other of our friends. Well my bf left for a couple minutes to pay for our drinks. This other friend of ours who is married came up to me. He said " you are the most beautiful woman I've ever seen". Well I looked at him with my eyes wide and then he said "as a friend", but I know he was seriously attracted to me by the look in his eyes.
I didnt really know what to say. I was flattered but felt guilty because his wife was sitting at another table. I know she couldnt hear and I think he waited on purpose to get me alone.
Now I don't know how to act around this guy. I told my bf and he was really pissed off. I told him not to say anything because i was worried this other guy and his wife might have a fight.
What should i do? (link)
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well the best thing to do is to tell the guy swife you never know he could go out and cheat on her and have a kid if this is happening now they would probally were going to get adivorce any way.
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i didnt know what category this would go in so i just put it here
ok well im 13/f and when i try to remember happy times in my life, like family vacations and stuff all i remember is bad times i can remember every bad thing that has ever happened to me but i cant remember the good things.. does any one know why (link)
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well im not sure , but try on looking at happy pictures or home videos of you having fun and only look at those you probally were not in a good mood I went through al most the same thing last year I didnt have the holiday spirt lets say and didnt have agood time I was just miserable.
I hoped I hellped sarah!
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We used to have more money, but ever since my dad got hurt- we don't have much money. I know my parents are trying to hide it from me and my older brother. But, it's obvious. They barely had enough money to buy christmas presents and food this month. If you offer them money, they turn it down. Any ideas on how I can help? My parents each work 2 jobs.
I rate 5's for any help at ALL. (link)
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well i can tell you this alot of people are going through this same problem just have them sit down with you and start talking that shows that you care and they will apprechiate it!
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I work at a large department store. I usually work the night shift, from 5 until 10. Well there is this girl that I have been working with. She's normally really nice, but tonight she called me a fucking bitch because I got to leave an hour before she did.
I would NEVER call one of my coworkers what she said. She wasnt joking about it either.
Should I say anything or just try to let it go? (link)
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well I would let it go for mow but if she says it again ask what her problem is.
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After you put toothpaste on a pimple, is it supposed to tingle? Does that mean its working? (link)
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well I never knew that you can do that you dont have to rank me but can you tell me if it does work! that would help alot!
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Is it weird that im in 7th grade and havnt had my first kiss yet?? i mean, so many people in my grade have been kissed. Am im like, a freak or something? (link)
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no your not b/c I am in 7 th grade and havent had mine yet so dont worry !
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I have been dating my boyfriend now for 1year, and our relashionship is just getting worse. First of all, all we do is fight and they aren't just small fights they are HUGE! We always end up breaking up. Second of all, he's VERY controlling picks my friends, checks my phone bills and is VERY jealous! Here is the problem... I have tryed to break up with him, but when i do he gets all emotional and says he doesn't wanna live, that i am the only thing he has ever loved! And that scares me so i always just go right back!Im 21 im not happy at all and wanna move on and get a real life! Can you HELP ME PLEASE?! (link)
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just dump him dont have your life messed up b/c of him.
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Hey. I just got the guts today to tell my mom & sister that I think I may have a bacterial infection down below. They made me an appointment to see a regular doctor (not gynaeocologist) on Wednesday. I was wondering, it won't be awkward, I shave completely down there. Like do you think they'll think I'm weird? Because I shave down there? I don't know, it just seems sorta creepy seen as I don't do anything with guys yet! I'm 15/f! :) Thanks. (link)
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well your really not suposed to do that b/c thats probally why you have bacterria going down there for a reason and you know how you shave your legs and they get prickerly when it grows back, well thats going to happen to you when it grows back and when you know go to do it for a guy he will think you are not mormal or something.
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14/f. my friends and i are throwing a party for a few friends. we wanna play truth or dare. our dares used to be the hottest dares ever, but now they're old and played out.
so are there any good ideas for dares, or even truths?
thanks. (link)
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you can always look up dares or truths on line you can do that or you cna all sit there and write ten truth or dares on a piece of paper and see the top ten best out of all you guys.
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im asian and i curl my eyelashes and put mascara on so they look longer and curled ..what are some other tips i can do so they look longer and thicker? (link)
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there is this new mascarea and I guess you can use that
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can you give blood if you have cancer? (link)
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no i dont think you can SRY!
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I have a problem with bad breath...i always brush my teeth, i chew mint gum CONSTANTLY and i eat mints all the time, and yet my breath still stinks, what can i do to make it fresh?!?!?! (link)
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if you dont already use mouth wash or brushing your tonge and flossing everyday do all that and never miss a day of brushing your teeth and brush your teeth 3 times a day doing the same thing mouthwash floss tonge, and brush them for 2minutes each time yo brush your teeth, trust me it works my aunt is a dentist and my older sister had the same problem.
HOPE IT WORKS
P.S DO EXACTLY WHAT I TOLD YOU AND IT WILL DEFINTATELY WORK!
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I moved here 3 years ago and im still not very good frineds with the people I always wanted to be good frinds with. I talk to them and everything but only in school. How can i become best frineds and included in everything they do? (link)
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well first of all trust me ive been through the same thing, just sit next to someone at lunch and start talking to them.
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Ok well my dad and my mom got a divorce right so my dad started dating this girl with a son to who is divoriced ok her son the second i saw him i new i was in love with him and i m crazy about him already he feels the same way his mom told me and im not going to go out w/ him because thats really wired but besides that i really really like him and id really like to go out but that just be wired because our parents our hooking up. but he is all i can think about what should i DO ILL RATE 5'S FOR ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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well if your dad starts going out with her more than a year then you will find out how he really is, NOW TRUST ME ON THIS MY DAD DID THE SAME THING BUT I DIDNT LIKE HER SON so any way he will get to used to you and then all will be forgoton if your dad breaks up with her than you can start going out but remember it will probally be wiered fo the parents. but if they dont break up and you gus start kissing like in the living room or something and they catch you well you will probally get a long disturbing talk. So the rest is up to you. Sorry thats all I could tell you.
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So I (female and 14)absolutely luv this kid (male and 14). He flirts with me all the time. We go skating every Friday together. He kind of plays hard to get (he goes off and skates with other girls every now and then) but when he isn't he's all over me. We don't kiss or whatever, he just tries to grind w/me and he hugs me a lot. I steal his hat and he lets me wear it every now and then. Everyone says he likes me, but I dont know.
So here's the question:
I'm inviting him to my xmas party. Guys and girls in my friends basement. I want to get him something. Not something big or something that's too forward. I just want to know....what should I get him to hint that I want him to be exclusive with me?????
as much advice as possible. rate 5s!!!! (link)
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well if you definatally know he likes you then what you should do is dress up really pretty and sexy alittle bit and bring him in another room alone like halfway during the party DONT TELL ANYONE WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO DO and kiss him and if he kisses bak then start going to the movies and then you have a boyfriend
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