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okay so i like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me too, but the problem is my friend used to like him. she is now involved with another guy and she told me before that she didn't like him anymore. would it be wrong if i started to go out with him?

i had this same problem. the girl said she didnt like him and she was with someone else. well guess wut she ruined it for me too :-/ she started a whole lotta stuff and we broke up. but if yu think yu 2 could stick it out if something like that happened go for it girl dont even wait

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i need some ways of making new friends and fast. i dont have many (i have a couple)- not because im wierd or anything, but i really cant hold a conversation, like theres an awkward pause. and im shy too. not ONLY that but i act diff. in school then i do when im with my good friends like outside of school. in school im shy and dont really say all that much. outside of school im like loud crazy and wild &funny. i need some help on ways to make new friends fast (ones that i can hang with outside of school and stuff) and ways to be myself in school so people will like me. my one friend follows me around like crazy and gets jelous when i talk to other people. im like her only friend. its anyoying and i kinda wanna pool away from her because its stopping me from meeting new people. I CANT BE JUST HER FRIEND. =]
thanksss.

a good way to make new friends would be to go out where yu know theres gonna be people. just hang out . if yu know one person there soon yu'll pretty much know everybody and it would be like a big circle . its just a tip but idk .

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this may be long but i need your helpp please!!
my friend of one year, we became really close and we became a group with 3 other girls. so anyway, this year shes starting to be really rude to me, ignoring me, and treating me different than my other friends. i have talked to her about it at least 7 times and she does not listen. if i had the choice, i wouldnt be friends with her.. but we're in a group. AND shes in my lunch, and my only friend there and she totally ignores me. what can i do, or what can i do to not make me so upset?!!

ok if she treats yu that bad why be friends with her? is it really that important. and im pretty sure yu would have other friends in that lunch if yu just looked around. and i had that group . the certain group with like 3-5 of yu and yu give yurselves a cool name blah blah friends forever. it doesnt always work . girls become bitches (( as usual )) but yu gotta let her know make her listen if she doesnt let it go then yu know its not worth it . and she doesnt respect yu as a friend. move on and make new friends

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is there anything i can do or get so my eyeliner stays on all day without reapplying it constantly? btw no liquid eyeliner.

any tips?..
thanks in advance!

they have really good eyeliner at victorias secret really it stays on all day all their make up does but its 20 bucks if yur willin to spend that much money then its for yu

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i REALLY need advice and I don't know who to talk to about it. please givelike really good answers. Okay this might be long but please. So, I need advice on a couple things, one of which is like at school, people call me a lezbo- WHICH I AM TOTALLY NOT. Like people (even popular but not at much) say it sometimes to my face, behind my back, or like say something kinda like "So make out with any hot girls lately" or something like "Yeah, you would look really good with all your hair chopped off- like a dyke", pretty much something like that in a really wise ass way. mostly guys say it to my face and girls just talk shit about it. And I know from reading this you probably think I'm a total nerd, but I'm actually average. People are usually nice to my face but still, it really bugs me thats everyone once in a while people I don't even know, or do, talk about me and say stuff that they don't even know is true. I really would like for someone to help me GET OVER THIS and GET THIS TO STOP. It started last year so I really really want this to stop. I mean I would rather be known as a slut then a lezbo (no offense to anyone). I know I shouldn't care, but it's not something you can really not care about. I don't know maybe its because I never had a boyfriend (not like i don't want one, but that anyone who ever asks me out I don't want to go out with because either i don't know them, or they are one of my best friends) PLEASE! I really need advice, I get so upset about it. One more is, I really need help making new friends. Like I have about only three friends that I actually hang out with outside of school and act like myself around and then the other people are either from other towns or we only hang out once. I have like friends in school, but not the kind that you want to talk to on the computer or call or hang out with. I know its kind of pathetic, but I really do need to make new friends. I'm kid of shy at school and I know if I just acted like how I do around my normal friends (funny and like loud and around guys a total flirt) that I most likely could be in with the "popular kids". ha. yeah so all I want to do is have those rumors stop, and make a WHOLE new bunch of friends. One of my best friends,Casey, ALWAYS hangs out with me and kinda sorta follows me. Im pretty much her only friend because she NEVER talks in school. I really need to kinda of pull away from here because I'm spending all my time with her and not focusing on meeting new people&makin new friends. she isnt really into making new friends and kind of wants me and expects me to spend all my time with her. i need to make new friends and fast -serouisly.
Please help.!!!!

ok people are always gonna say things about you. behind yur back or joke about it to yur face. its just how people are. and trust me you wouldnt wanna be called a slut. but i know being called a lezbo doesnt really sound good either. but another thing is yu dont wanna change who yu r to fit in with the "popular kids" just be who yu are and if people dont like it and they're still saying things let them . act like yu dont care even if yu know yu really do just play it off. try yur best. and a good way to make friends is go out to sport events where people hang out. everyone has those. yu meet new people and of course the known FACEBOOk yu can meet a whole bunch of new people on there make plans to hang out and then make new friends everyoen does it so can yu just focus on having fun . dont waste yur time thinkin about wut people are gonna say.

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Lately, I kinda have been wanting a thong or like something pretty much like it. Just the thing is im kinda too embarrassed to get one. and if my parents ever saw it (mostly my dad) would like make jokes about it or pick on me about it (really embarrassing). anther thing is if i were to get one, id prob. want it from a&e or victoria secrets or something but im like really small. for my pants im a 14 slim (thats in abercrombie) && in pac sun im a 00.i dont know if victoria secrets would fit me or what. and then even if they did i find it embarressing just to go shopping for underwear/thongs!

you shoudldn't be embarassed seriously its normal every girl goes through that and if you want one then go get it lol

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