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whats goodd everyonee? let me tell you a little about myself. im 16 i live in newjersey, most of my freinds come to me for advice and i love it. i plan on being a psychologist so this is good practice for me :) dont be scared on asking me anything, i will try my best on helping youu.

-xoxo, Juju

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Ok so basically me and my friends were talking and i think this totally makes sense..right? I need your help aha...so my friend was basically like i feel like weve gotten to physical stage more then the emotional phase ...do you get what i mean like Oh he fingered me blah blah or head or whatever...i'm having a hard time explaining this but it makes sence right? like ok so basically the stages like one kissing 2 feeling up 3 below the waist and 4 all the way...how do you know you have gotten to the stage emotionally ( for the steps) where you can do it physically? Does anyone get what I mean or am i crazy? ahaha thanks

hey girlyy, well emotion stages are different for everyone. for example with my boyfriend we've gotten through all of the emotional stages because we know everything about eachother, we cry infront of eachother, we can basically do anyhting around eachother and thats when i think being comfortable with him comes in. if your not comfortable to do anything around him then you arent really past the emotional level.


hope i helped!
if you have anymore questions just ask.

-xoxo Juju

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Ohkay , I think I am becoming very depress lately.
Where I live there is lots of killing and suicude and its to much for any human to bare .
I was thinking to myself if any of my friends or even family died I wouldnt even know what to do nomore I would paneic !
I think I've been thinking to much any advice .

hey, if it makes you feel any better i have the same phobia and i live in a nice area. I always have those thoughts in the back of my head and if i keep thinking about it i start crying and worrying. What i think you should do is not let it get to that point and spend as much time with your loved ones as possible because sooner or later its everyones turn to go someday...


hope i helped!
if you have any questions just ask!

-xoxo Juju

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Im currently taken by a girl ,. and which I am a girl also . We would be going out a month on Feb . 12th you may say that not even long . This is also our 2nd time going out . This realtionship just doesnt seem right to me nomore. My feelings for her are not even like they use to be, and I'm not happy like I use to. ADVICE PLEASE .

hey, well personally happiness means more to me than anything and before she starts to develop more and more feelings for you i honestly think you should break up with her since you are not happy anymore.

hope i helped!
if you have anymore questions just ask.


-xoxo Juju

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I have really really bad cramps, and i just took an advil and its not helping. I cant sleep it hurts too much, and i cant eat it feels like im gonna throw up. Please please please help

hi! tell me about it...what i did was take midol which is ment for cramps and bloating, etc. and then i take a really hot shower for like 30 min. (put the shower head on your tummy) and when you come out of the shower put on warm clothes and drink so hot tea :D


hope i helped!
if you have anymore questions just ask.

-xoxo Juju

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I am 15 years old and when i was in 6th grade i fell in love with my bestfriends cousin. and he fell inlove with me. We have been on and off since 6th grade. and last time we dated was in august-6 months ago. yesturday i went to his house with my bestfriend and her boyfriend and we all hungout lots of awkwardness. but it decreased as the time passed. He put on a necklace i gave him saying nina + allen than the date. when i say we fell in love i mean in love-like the teenage love. first loves. you know what i mean? so when i left his house my bffl and her bf were trying to get us to kiss and i really didnt want to. but then he kissed me and i relized that i miss him ...again..still.. and this weekend we are all supposed to chill and drink and they are planning on us having sex again. (i lost my virginity to him months back)i know how bad this is but i dont completely mind having sex with him again- but i would really rather not at all. but in the end i do not want to date him, but i do want to hangout with all of them this weekend. just, what should i do? about telling him i am not ready for a relationship yet, and the sex thing. etc.. i know i dont have a straight out question but if anyone can find anything to say please helpp.

hey girlyy,
well i honestly dont think you guys should have sex unless you are in a relationship. and the more u have sex with him the more you and him will get attached to eachother and you dont want to be in that place so what i think you should do is call him up and just tell him that you dont feel like really doing anything, all you wanna really do is be bestfriends and if he actually still cared about you he will understand but if he doesnt, then forget him.

hope i helped!
if u have any questions just ask me.

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