Hi! I'm a 21 year old college student.
I currently have my AA in psychology and continuing my studies as a psychology major/human development minor. I've been giving advice to my friends for years. I consider advicenators as a way of using my schooling for the real world. So ask away!
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Location: California
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Age: 21
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i'm in 8th grade, and i'm going into highschool next year.
i know it probably seems kinda early to start thinking about college. but i know you have to have certain requirements for certain schools, and it would be a good idea if i started preparing now.
i know i want to study something with maybe advertising, or video editing, or graphic designing.
what would be some good college choices to look into?
even ivy league ones? (link)
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That's great that you know what you want to do so early! Well to answer this question you have to consider about what your preference is and what you want to get out of college. Big university or small collge? Location: Far away from home or close by. Cost: usually private schools and tech schools are expensive. CC and state schools are the cheapest. In my area Devry or ITT Tech are good colleges for graphic designing. I haven't heard of any ivy league schools for that particular major. Usually ivy league schools are for prestigious majors like premed and law. I hope I helped.
Good Luck ^_^
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Well lately I've had this crush(the whole year) and had finally gotten up the courage to tell him how I feel. But the exact same day I was about to tell him, he asked out another girl. I was really pissed because their personalities don't match whatsoever and they barely talk at all. Anyway, about a week after this happens I keep thinking they're not gonna last long. Then, on that saturday we were at BRH(baton rouge high) taking a placement test for next year an I meet this guy.
He is my friend's friend and she introduced us.
He was super sweet and mistaked me for someone else at first.( he asked if I was still datig someone... Which is kinda weird to ask someone of u haven't seen them in a while) but we talked for atleast 30 mind and I love him!
He talked to me more in those 30 mind than Kyle ever did (my other crush)
So I find myself day dreaming about him ( he kinda looks like Fred from YouTube) and I barely know him! So then realized that I won't see him until next fall!
My friend told emily(his friend) that I liked Him....but I didn't at the time an she comes up to me and starts calling me bitch an hoe (kinda Playfully) a she says he's off limits and now I probably have no chance of being his friend atmost gf. She prolly told him.
Well I need to know if I should tell Kyle now (even though he has a gf) or wait until I see James this fall.
It's really bugging me now.
Also how can I tell if Kyle likes me or is trying to make me jealous? And how can I get him to notice me more( and how to talk to him)
Sorry for the longness ( I'll rate high for whoever just reads this LOL)
All help will be greatly appreciated!!!
Thanks =] (link)
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Whoa! Do not tell Kyle your feelings just for the fact that as your friend you should respect his decision even if you don't approve of his gf and don't wait for him to break up either. My guy friend has been waiting for me to break up with my BF and it's been 4 years! LOL! So yeah! No sense in waiting. As for James. The reason that emily came at you like that is because she most likely likes him too and once she goes out with him you can't. Friends ex-boyfriends are off limits. So wait for James because he'll be available to flirt with and be friends with. If he talked to you for 30 mins then that means you're either cool or he's interested. He wouldn't have wasted his time if he wasn't.
Good Luck! ^_^
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18, female.
sooo i've been in a messed up situation for about three years now. i have a good guy friend, known him for years now and have always had a crush on him but he's been going out with his girlfriend who i dislike of three years now. within the past few months they have taken a break, got back together and then broke up and after a month are now back together. i hate how he puts me through this though because he always say "wanna fuck" and hes being serious. he knows im a virgin, he's only had sex with his girlfriend yet he still wants to get with me. i have NOT done anything with him. but im done putting up with his crap, i'm not doing this anymore. i'm not getting hurt, i'm not waiting for him to be done with her. how can i let him know i DONT care anymore, how can i show him he wont always have me there when he cant be with her 24/7 or when they're fighting, or when they're on a break? i mean yeah i still want to be FRIENDS with him but i'm done with wanting to be more. next time he asks if i want to have sex im just thinking about saying, sorry i dont have sex with people who have GIRLFRIENDS, but i'll let you know how it is when i have sex with someone else ;) just to piss him off. i want to say something like that to get back at him for all the stupid stuff he's done to me. but i can just see him acting like he doesnt care and be like "ok" or just not say anything back. how can i get to him? soon i'm getting my hair dyed, i'm going to dress REALLY cute whenever i'm going to see him just to make him mad and realize that theres more out there than his annoying girlfriend. any other suggestions? (link)
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Good for you that you realize that he just wants you as a rebound girl/ friends with benefits. Plus he's not a good friend if he asks you for sex! Just distance yourself from him that way hopefully he'll get the hint. But don't do it to make him mad because frankly I don't think he'll care. As the saying goes "he's just not that into you!" Dress super cute and do your hair to attract another guy; don't worry about that guy he has let you down enough times. Be with someone that will care enough for your feelings!
Good Luck ^_^
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so i was at this MASC(missouri asociation of student councils) thing...and i met this girl, and shes really cool and we spent like the whole day together. but the thing is, she lives in southern missouri, and i live in northern missouri...about 6-4 hours apart. so my question is should i even try to get a relationship going or should i try, but never see her...but shes really cool and idk if i can just forget her... (link)
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Instead of a relationship, how about a friendship? You can get to know her a little better and see if a LDR is worth the effort and $$. If she's into a friendship, she will most likely be all for a relationship later on. LDR's are really tough, but it if you put time and effort then it'll definitely work.
Good Luck ^_^
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