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okay, my boyfriend is in JROTC, and he invited me to the military ball, but i'm not really comfy wearing like the dressydresses you have to wear to go to those, im VERY modest, and also, hes shorter than me, so i wouldnt be able to wear heels, what should i wear? any ideas? i cant tell him i dont want to go because i dont want to dress up because he's really excited that i'm going and i couldnt do that to him. i need HELPPPPPPPP!


greattlyyy appriciatedddd (link)
if you dont feel comfortable wearing dressydresses then just find a cute skirt with a nice shirt or nice pants like black pants or really nice jeans(no holes or grundgy looking) with a nice shirt and jewerly. and forget the heels just wear nice sandals or shoes. trust me he will just be glad your going with him. and if he really cares about you and likes you for who you are he wont care what you wear.


GOODLUCK!!!!


I got my bellybutton pierced almost 2 months ago (i got the banana barbell!) and i was wondering how long after you get it done can you change it?
after how long did you change it?


thanks in advanced =) (link)
i just got mine done yesterday and he told me to wait 2-3 months but longer is always better. i would wait another month or so...


So I love my boyfriend very much but sometimes he's just always there. Latched on to me like a leech. Don't get me wrong.. I do love it that he pays attention to me soo much, but I do want to have some space sometime. But he seems to always be there all the time trying to pull me so close that our skin could be melted together. Please help me. I don't know how to tell him that I want space, without hurting his feelings.Btw we've been going out for almost 11 months. (link)
i know just what you mean. my bf drives here everyday to see me weve been going out for almost 10 months. sometimes i kinda dont want to make it obv that i want time for myself so i ask him "if you dont want to come over its alright ill understand if you just want time to yourself" haha but most of the time hes just like no no its alright haha so if that happens just talk to him.. be like hey im a girl and sometimes i just need some time for myself. im sure he will understand.

goodluck!


ok so here's the deal me and muh ex have been dating for 5 years on and off and we really love each other but the problem is we are broken up right now and well 2 of muh best friends like him but i know he likes me and wants to be with me but right now he's into football and i don't want to be in the middle of that cuz football season really sucks with him. anyways i want to be with him so bad but i don't know how to tell him. i mean it's never been hard to tell him how i feel but with these other girls it seems really weird. well...ya i love him and i need him back bad but i'm not sure wat to say. and how do i handle muh friends? thanx!!! (link)
WELL one. dont worry about the frineds that like him fiveee years.. hes yours haha. two.if he cant make time for you because of football maybe you should just let one of your friends have him if hes not willing to give up a few hours for you and 3. you should be telling him all this stuff about how you need him back! tell him how much you care about him and you love him from the bottom of your heart. tell him how you cant stand being without him. TELL HIM ALL THISSS!! hope i helped.. Go get him tiger!


I really want to go to my absolute favorite bands concert this year. However, my parents refuse to let me go. Ive already approached them very maturly about it, offered to pay for myself, said i can go with my 17 year old friend (im 15) and what not. They say there is drinking and drugs done at concerts. They say even if you dont take any drugs, if someone near you has them, then you are associated with them, so you can get in just as much trouble. Does anyone have any ideas on how to convince them? Thanks in advance =] (link)
make sure they know your mature enough to handle a situation where there will be drugs and drinking. tell them they are going to have to let you go out sooner or later and why not now! they will never learn to trust you if they dont give you a chance to prove it. i have gone through this problem myself and my parents have found that im mature enough and now i can pretty much do anything .. almost.haha hope this helped!! and i hope you get to go! and if you do HAVEEEEE FUNNNN!


how do u add buddies when u have aim triton? thanks (link)
if the last persons advice didnt help i have aim triton and at the bottom where it says actions you click it and something should come up that says add buddy..

Hope that helped..


does anybody know any sites that i could find music for an xanga ? ... i rate high ! and answer this a.s.a.p thanks ! ... (link)
ok well i have a myspace but this website works with all types i think im not sure but you can check it out for yourself its :

http://chasebadkids.net/main.htm


hope it helps!


I know this is a weird question, but this is killing me.
Somewhere on the internet there is a hilarious article making fun of myspace, can anyone help me find this article or something very similar.

Vague, i know, but any help would definetly be appreciated. (link)
haha an article? im not sure where you could find that.. but i know there are like song that kinda make fun of myspace just look up myspace under w/e music download thing you have..


can someone give me a site that provides music codes? (link)
hotcodez.com


does high school really suck? Should I be freaking out about it, or am I just overreacting? (link)
OMG!! there is no need to worry at all... im going into my junior year and ive switched schools every year. i know your worried about getting lost or not having someone to sit with at lunch and all that jazz haha i was in your shoes but its not bad AT ALL its actually a blast! being as its school haha you'll make good friends.. and your high school year will be the best experience of your life.. it was for me!! well just dont worry about it youll be fine!!!

good luck!!

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I love this boy John were going out but he lives in NY we went out last year for 9months. Now im falling for this other boy Mark... I went out with him before and dumped him cause we never got to see each other. He was great though. He told people he loved me and wanted to try it again. But then three days later he told me that he liked some other girl so i didnt even bother bringing the whole me and him up. Should i tell him i feel and dump John? Or stay with John and never tell Mark that i still care about him so much?

John cheated on me last time. Well we kinda both cheated (link)
wow its weird because im in the same situation. me and my bf are in a long distance thing and we went on a break and we both messed around and all that jazz anyway i think you should tell mark you still care about him. do you really feel that you should dump john tho.like care you really live without him? well i know i didnt really give any good advice but if you ever need to ask about anything else my email address is sourpatchkids@emailservice.com GOOD LUCK!


I want to make a collage of all the pictures of my friends and set it as the background on my desktop. the problem is, i dont know how. i do have a photo-enhance program, but like the ditz i am, i dont know how to use it can anyone tell me how and what program to use? thank you (link)
who the hell doesnt know how to make a collage LMAO


i've been kinda cutting myself...it was kinda stupid at first but now it's serious. my life is kinda like crap rite now. grades, family, friends, and love...all that jazz. sometimes i feel like i just randomly wann cutt myself. i hate it. i know there is other ways to work it put but i don't wanna talk to my family and i've already talked to my friends. please help me and don't just pick on or make fun of me...really answer this question.

signed,
confused and lost (link)
ok this might really sound stupid but anyway yeah i use to cut myself too it felt like when i got mad thats what i could rely on to make me feel better then i started going to see someone to talk about it like a doctor person and after a few months of that i didnt want to go anymore but still wanted to cut myself my bf started getting pissed and saying that me doing that would be like cheating on him and not to do it (he just said that so i wouldnt) so after that i could do it anymore so i got this paper back book and completly wrapped it with ductape and now when i need to take my anger out i just cut the book up like i would do with my wrist doing that has stoped me from cutting myself. i really hope i helped.

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ok my bf and i hav been going out for out for 8 days and we went to the movies he didnt act like he was going to break up with me but he has not called me today and he calls me everyday so what do i do i have tried calling him and he didnt anwser on either his cell or home phone and i dont want to seem like an obesive gf so i dont want to call again what do i do and how do you think i should wait b4 calling again plz help i rate!!!! (link)
its only 8 days give him time im sure hes not use to being there for someone all the time.


I like this guy and i thought he liked he but yester day he called me and he said'' I need advice, i like this girl and i think she likes me ... but do you think i should ask her out?'' well i thought he was talking about me, but then i found out it was this other girl. i dont know if he acutually likes her or not because she is not his type at all. Should I just let it go or should i say something? (link)
say something maybe then he will realize your right and like you instead.


I've been going out with this guy for about 1 month and a half. He cusses me out every once in a while for stupid reasons. 3 of my friends say I should break up with him, but I love him a lot. Today, when school was out, he seen me and stayed like 50 feet from me and wouldn't even come over and talk to me. It's like he always trys to ignore me. What should I do? Should I listen to my friends? Or stay with him?? I really love this guy though!! 14/f/tn (link)
ok i just read the first sentence and dont need to read any farther you need to dump him. im sure your an awesome person who should be treated awesome find someone that will actually respect you and not yell at you. good luck!

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theres this guy that im kinda friends with (im a grl) and on the way back from one of our classes i could walk with him n stuff cuz he walks alone and so do i but i dont know what to say to him because i dont realy know anything about him besides that he goes to my hebrew school. what could i say to him? ill rate! thanx (link)
well whatever you talk to him about just be yourself dont try to be someone your not. just ask him questions about himself who knows maybe you guys will have something in common that you can have a conversation about. i know this isnt the greatest advice but i hope i helped a little. GOOD LUCK!

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ok so not to confuse, let's give names:
my friend: sara
her best friend: liz
liz's boyfriend: bob

bob is trying cheat on liz with sara. he's asked sara to have sex with him, take pictures of herself and give them to him, etc. sara refuses and has put up with this for a while, and then finally told liz. liz believed her at first and then i don't know what happened. sara tried calling liz and liz's mom answered saying that liz wasn't available. sara asked when she would be and she said, for you, never. sara is devastated and can't understand why liz would do this to her. (liz and bob are still together, btw). what can i say to comfort sara? is there any way i can help the situation? (link)
just be a good friend to here im sure thats what she needs right now if liz cant see that saras a good friend for not doing that stuff with bob maybe liz just doesnt deserve a friend at all. just forget liz if she wants to be stuck with a cheater then thats her problem maybe someday she will catch him and wake up and understand that friends come before cheating boyfriends. hope i helped and good luck to you and sara.

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I've been getting depressed lately...like people make me feel stupid. Sometimes, they roll their eyes at things I say, especially when we're around guys. I wanna ask them to stop, but IDK how, and you see, I CANT, becus they would just deny it and not understand. What should I do? (link)
start hanging out with new people because being depressed isnt good at all ive been through that it seems like your friends like to be cool around guys i know how it is its like they are like really cool when its just you and them then when it comes to hanging out with guys they just like to put you down and make you look like a retard my advice is just to get new friends you dont need that.and if there is no one else to hang with just be solo at least you wont let yourself down. hope i helped and good luck!

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im 13-f i have a bf and i luv him its just we've been going out since summer and i know i shouldn't have done this but i've gone really far with him but my friend likes me soooooooooooo much and i sorta like him to. the thing is he has a gf but he said he'll break up with her for me! but i dont want him to because i dont want to break up with my bf. i cant decide who i like better but i've known my bf for 2 years now and i went out with him in 6th grade and in 7th but now since im in 8th grade i sort of want a knew bf because i've known him so long........im really confused about what to do....help please! thnx (link)
ok well what i would do if i were you is to just stay with the guy you have now becauce yeah youve know him and you want something new but since youve know him so long you know alot about him and you have gone far with him dont let some other guy tear that apart because you never know the guy your with now may be the better guy for you just give it time im sure youll realize you made the right decision. hope i helped. and good luck!

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