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i dont feel comfortable telling my mom i got my period...how do I tell her? what do i say so i dont feel so embarassed? (link)
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it is nothing to be embarassed about. you are a grown woman now! and you will have big boobs, haha. just tell her one time that ya'll are out and about.. and be like "mom please dont embarsse me .. but i got my period" and thats no big deal.
if you have a older sister you could tell your sister and have her tell your mother.. that would be okay too. that is what i did.
but this is nothing to worrie about .. we all go through with it. and its fine.
hope i helped. please rate me.
xox justine
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When I wake up and I take my first steps out of bed sometimes my feet crack. it hurts really bad and I feel the bones in my feet moving around. What is this and why does it happen when I am sitting for a while? (link)
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this isnt something that you should be majorly worried about .. its just because you havent been using them for a while. just move them around before you get up .. to like alert them.
but if the pain gets to the point were you cant stand it .. then go see your doctor and tell him/her.
hope i helped.. please rate me.
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umm i have to go somewhere important in about 4 days and my face doesnt look that good and i was wondering what is the fastest working stuff to make my skin look a little better by that time? b/c i cant go there looking like i do! its an emergency!!!! (link)
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whats wrong with it? are you like broken out?
if so clean and clear works good.. http://www.cleanandclear.com/products/new/acne_spottreat.shtml that one does magic. .. that whole line works well for fast acting stuff.
you just need to wash your face 2 times a day. and go light on the make up until that big day. and if its still not looking to good, get some concealer. concealer has some good ones.
i kind of need to know whats wrong with your face to help you out more.
but i hope i helped a little.. you can write back and tell me whats wrong.
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I lately just started my period. My friend hasn't gotten hers yet. She doesn't have very big boobs. That doesn't matter, but she thinks somethings wrong with her. She cries to me all the time and I don't know what to do. Have any advice on what to say to her? (link)
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she cries to you saying "i dont have big boobs?" tell her there are other people out there too that dont have big ones. and she is lucky.. that she hasnt gotten her period yet. because she doesnt want it. and her boobs will grow sooner or later.
good things come to people who wait. hahaha.
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the guy that i use to like found out that i like him and now i feel wierd to talk to him or to see him b/c i feel like he's gonna act wierd and he's gonna think about the fact that i use to like him and it's gonna make it uncomfortable and i no that he doesnt like me, what should i do to make me feel better? (link)
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why are you ashamed of who you liked? you shouldn't be. i mean.. you cant help who you like .. and thats that. so what if you liked him .. that was in your past.. and thats that.. you cant change what you did then .. so why bother about it now? im sure he wont be weird around you or anything .. and if he does be weird. .just tell him .. hey, i saw something in you .. and now i just want to be friends.
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If a guy likes u what are some signs that i should be looking out for?
this guy that i like is sort of shy but not too much just sometimes! i only said that b/c i no that different guys have different signs so what would be the signs of this type of guy? (link)
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well if ya'll talked a lot before .. i think i big sign would be that he isnt talking to you much anymore. because he is shy .. or he'll think you'll find out .. or something like that. but then again .. if he isnt talking to you he could also not like you anymore; but that's probably not the chance. but shy guys are harder then boys that speak their mind. your best thought would be to tell him .. or make a move.
xox
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ok so this is really driving me crazy i have a friend and i love him to death as a friend and i like him a lot and he knows how i feel and all and he doenst like me back or nothing and its getting really hard to be friends i mean we r like best friends so i told him yesterday that i need to take a break because its too hard well one of my other guy friends was talking to him because he knew i was freeking out about it! so he said that he was talking to him and he says he cares about me alot and stuff and that hes confused about he respects me and i said to him well then helcome he isnt showing me this stuff and helcome he doesnt tell me he cares about me and stuff and i wanna be friends but its so hard and there is so many problems like about how he doesnt care and stuff what do i do??? (link)
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well .. you should have stayed his friend first off . because if you say " i need a break" he might think .. oh she's over me .. and you wont be in the picture anymore.
guys have a problem showing their emotions .. i mean the way some guys flirt is by calling the girl they are in love with fatt and ugly.. so just give him a break.. he will come around.
yes, you might like him a lot .. but you cant make him feel the same way .
you say you guys are really good friends.. well maybe ya'll are better off just as friends?
but what ever you do .. just hang in there. become his friend again .. and wish for the best. you've done your part.. now it's his turn.
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this is no guy for me again i do flirt with them i mean like how i hang with them around my other friends and talk to the guy a little more and we talk about stuff we have in comman and stuff like that but somehow it doesnt work for me (link)
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well . dont give up hope .. because that guy will come around soon enough. good things come to those who wait .. so just wait .. and be happy single .. make the guys want you . and make them see what they are missing.
xox
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I'm so confused right now. I had this friend, and she and i got into a humungo(sp) fight. We are not friends anymore. I dunno. I want us to be ok. Lik i don't know if i wanna be BFF w/ her but i just want us to be ok with eachother. maybe even friends. but i don't know if she wants to. And my other friend hates her. And i dont wanna lose her! What should I do?! (link)
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talk to the friend you are in a fight with and tell her .. hey, your a really great friend.. i dont want to lose you.. and little by little start talking more. then you'll be come friends. tell her that you want to start out as friends and re gain the friend ship you guys once had.
best of luck. xox
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i dont no wht is wrong with me i can never get the guy i want everytime i try to flirt with them of do something they think i am stalking them or something andi i have never done that beofre i am not that obessed with them but it bugs me i wish i could be in a younger or older grade cause everyone in my grade is so ugly and when i go for younger guys everyone makes fun of me i just need help wat should i do to find a good guy and dont say flirt cause i already do that
thanks
no guys for me (link)
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well.. you say you flirt.. how do you flirt.. do you call them a lot? do you like try to plan dates .. do you i/m them first.. because if you do those.. that is kind of creepy..
the next guy you find.. just talk with them . just they they are your normal friend.. and find things you have in common. because if you both like something.. then you can do it together. like maybe you both like the same kind of movies.. and so ya'll could go out to the movies together.
if you like some one.. dont just go up to them a say "i like you" .. thats kind of stalker'ish too.
hm. this is a hard question to answer.. because i really dont know how you have tryed to flirt.. maybe you can write back and tell me? that would be a big help.
but if you dont want to.. i would recomend just finding things in common .. and talking about those, let him call you some times.. let him i/m you some time.. dont do all the work your self
so write back? justine xoxo
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Hi umm i need a little advice i like these to boys but they r best friends ther names r Jimmie and Elijah. Jimmie is cuter but Elijah is more my type which one should i go wit hwhen school starts because they both like me. what should i do
Signed Beautifulmamii05 (link)
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Elijah .. number one .he's more your type .. and two he'll be safer
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Hey, it's the Sally and Lily person. Sally is my bff... like litterally best friend. I know it's not time to grow apart.. cause we are exactly the same.. and we are still great friends. I just hate the thought of her getting more friends and just leaving me there. Is that natural? (link)
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yepp .. sadly enough most of all go through this .. just make sure you keep in tact w/ her .. and hang out and stuff .. and you'll be fine. if ya'll are ment to be .. then you will be best friends for ever.
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I have a friend name "Sally." There's this girl named "Lily." that we are friends with, but not that good. She just became such good friends with her lately.. and it feels like she's leaving me. What should I do?? (link)
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talk to her .. and if that doesnt work try a little harder to be her friend. friends grow apart some times.. maybe its your time.
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i am a very unhappy person.. i mean, extremely unhappy. some people tell me i am pretty and not fat.. but i just assume that they are lying to me just because they refuse to admit they feel bad for me. all my friends are soooo tiny and pretty, and i and like, 40 lbs more than all of them, and they are so skinny but i am loaded with fat. i have an ugly face that is messed up and gross, and then my hair, well i dont even know what color it is! i seriously my life. last night i was over at my friends house and she was like, you need help, your self esteem is very low. its like negative 1000. i me and my body and my choices and everything about me. sometimes i even my friends because they are so beautiful and skinny, i am fat and ugly. sometimes i even wonder why they like me. they can get so much more better than me.. and i am poor so why am i even here? why do they like me? (link)
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true friends dont like you because of what you look like. they like you because of you. you are here because every person should get a chance to live .. and they like you because you are probabaly a awesome person. we all have flaws. but we all have good things about us to. stop looking at all the bad stuff. and look at your good stuff. believe when people say you are pretty. it makes you feel better.
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ok. so i have this friend "jamie" and jamie is always saying she wants to hurt/kill herself. Now, im normally worried and she tells me not to tell anyone but I really want to tell someone. She really needs help. Like really!!!! And please don't say let her do what she wants b/c i've tried that and it didn't work out (link)
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well remember this is "jamies" life.
talk to her about all of her problems and see why she is doing this.
dont go to a adult, that makes it worse.
just talk to her, let her know how many people care about her. and w/e else
tell her you are here to help her.
and lets hope she makes the right choice and doesnt do anything. but this is jamie's life, and she can do what she wants.
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can you swim when you're on your period? (link)
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yes. tampons.
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I have this friend and she is awesome! Me and her have a lot in common and i kind of want to be bfs with her but she`s bfs with my other friend and i dont no what to do. I think that her bf is not good enough for her and i just dont get it. I mean she`s nice and everything but sometimes she treats her like shit and like i no that i dont do that. I dont want to talk to her about it and it makes me really mad b/c sometimes she gets fed up w/ her and says that she`s not a good bf but then later something happens and she`s back to being bfs w/ her. WTF! What should i do b/c im tired of being pushed out of the picture everytime she wants to be her bf again? (link)
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talk to her about
say "yo, i think that your b.f is being rude to you .. be mine"
and if she doesnt understand. explain it to her.
yeah .. have fun
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I have this friend and she is awesome! Me and her have a lot in common and i kind of want to be bfs with her but she`s bfs with my other friend and i dont no what to do. I think that her bf is not good enough for her and i just dont get it. I mean she`s nice and everything but sometimes she treats her like shit and like i no that i dont do that. I dont want to talk to her about it and it makes me really mad b/c sometimes she gets fed up w/ her and says that she`s not a good bf but then later something happens and she`s back to being bfs w/ her. WTF! What should i do b/c im tired of being pushed out of the picture everytime she wants to be her bf again? (link)
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talk to her about
say "yo, i think that your b.f is being rude to you .. be mine"
and if she doesnt understand. explain it to her.
yeah .. have fun
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okay so, i weigh from 115-120 ish, and that's not alot for a thirteen year old girl, but in a swim suit, my stomach looks huge. and i mean huge. i try to work out and stuff, but it doesnt seem to be working.
signed,
not-skinny (link)
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so .. your question is how can you get skinnyer?eat right. now im sure you have heard this before but what you eat as a BIG part of getting smaller. but you just cant eat right, and expect to get skinny. you also have to keep on working out. im not telling you to stop eatting everything w. fat in it. but instead just watch your intake. i mean, you can eat lets say french fries, but a small - not large. you can have a soda, a cup -not 3 or 4. you can eat what you want just as long as it is proportioned. because if you eat what you want until you are filled then stop eatting you will be fine. also work out some too.
dairy is also a good thing to help you lose some weight. veggies and fruits too. i would cut back on the meat, still eat it.. but not alot.
pasta and breads you could cut back a little too.
hope i helped, justine
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i just asked sammy this question but i'd like to get some more opinions on it. okay well i really like this guy, and it seems as if it's easy for my best friends to get guy. they're gorgeous and i know i'm not unattractive either. i'm very comfortable with myself and i give myself respect. it's just that idk what to do. i really really like him. and we talk all the time it's just that im' not great friends with him. he's friends with my friends and i've asked them to help; he knows i like him.. but i jsut dont want him to fall for my friends. i want him to like me for me, you know what i mean? idk what to do because it's summer! if you could get back to this by tuesday that would be awesome thanks!!!!!!! (link)
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so .. you like a guy? and you dont want him to fall for your friends.. right? then you talk to him. dont do all that silly stuff like ask your friend to talk to his friend and him talk to the crush. you go up to him and talk to him, and you talk to him about going out places. and you ask him out.
if he knows you like him, ask him what he thinks about you. do you know what he thinks?
maybe you should ask him out for a movie; or ask him to go w/ you to a up coming party.
and the whole i want him to like me for me, dont give him the wrong impression. dont be shy if your not, dont do things you wouldnt, and dont say stuff you wouldnt.
i hope i helped. i really didnt understand what you were asking. if you want to you could ask me a question?
Justine
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