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I'm Samantha, 17, and I love to help others. If I'm not sure about something, I will tell you, but I will tell you all that I do know. =D

advice

ok
its beens a month since my last pd. well a month and 4 days
i'm hurtin bad (down south). and i'm only 16.
But i thought i started like 2 days ago but i didnt. but i can see blood when i pee. and i wipe myself i see blood but i put a pad on for 2 days and didnt have no blood on it what so ever.
I don't know what to do. i want a kid but ill get killed

am i preg.
or is it to short to tell

help!!

wow, so you might be. when was the last time you had sex?.. if it was about 2 weeks ago, go get a test, maybe get three of them, so youll know for sure.. hope everything is fine.. hope i helped

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I've been counting down the days for this summer to come since summer 2004 - a long tiiime ago! Because this is the summer I'd finally get to see my crush again! But now I'M SO NERVOUS! I got so much more unattractive then I used to be, im not cute anymore, but HE on the other hand got HOTTTTER! I'm so nervous he wont like me this year! I'm secretly hoping something will ruin our plans so i dont see him! even though i really want to! just because im so nervous! help me people! thanks :D hahah

well, you still have some time.. right?.. so start running, if your really that scared, im sure youll start running if you wanna look better, try differnt make up styles, get a hair cut maybe?.. new cloths always makes people feel better!.. hope i helped

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I think my cousin and boyfriend are falling in love right in front of my eyes, and I can't do anything to stop it!

SHould I let love/destiny take its coarse, and let it pair them up, I mean if they're meant to be together, who am I to stop them?

Or do I fight for someone who appearantly doesn't even want to be with me?

Help!

break up with him before you get hurt worse, and just see what happens, if he's upset that you broke up with him, then maybe he likes you more, but if hes like okay.. and still talks to your cousin, then screw him.. hope i helped

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New York University, people! I've googled my butt off today and know as much as possible through that about the school, but I need more! Does anyone go there, know anyone who does? This is my future we're talking about so don't kid around please! What kinda grades do you need? How do you apply (if you dont live in the states) is it a good school? Do you have to know what kinda thing you want to get into before applying (since there are so many different schools in one) like do I have to know what I'll be majoring in? What kidna things are important to look into about the school? Is it hard getting good grades? Lots of different cultures? Do you live co-ed? ANYTHING YOU CAN TELL ME - PLEASE!

thanks! ps. checked out their website, it sucks though, doesn't really give any valuble info.

go to this site...
http://www.act.org/college_search/fset_col_search.html
AND
http://www.act.org/college_search/fset_col_search.html


i'm sure it will help you. im not in college, but we had to go to ACTstudent.org to practice and we just messed around on that site and was looking up college's.. haha, hope i helped

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my boyfriend has been acting weird. so i told him to tell me. and he said he saw the devil the other night. (we're both christians.)

then he told me this:

i saw him and he saw me and it scaire the life out of me then i went to the bathroom and i saw the same eyes that the devil had in my eyes and i dont know what the hell that mean and no one else dose eather and this isnt the first time this has happened

what exactly. am i supposed to do. he's acting weird and I want to help, but I don't quite understand either. someone please help.

well, unlike the other people, i believe he might have the devil in him. i'm a Christian, so maybe talking to someone that will give him an exorcist.. if you have him go to a doctor, they will claim he has somethign else wrong with him like in the exorcist of emily rose. they said she had a mental problem, when she really really didnt. and i believe it. so maybe talk to someone that is the head of your church, someone you trust, and ask them if they know any one that can do an exorcist. Your boyfriend might not want to do this, but to me it sounds like he might have to do this. i dont think hes on drugs or anything, just that the Devil wants him.. hope i helped

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17/f

does anyone have an idea of a well paying job? and what the typical daily routine is of that job thanks!

tanning bed place?.. cleaning the beds, answering the phone, making appointments. and you tan for free most places.. lol. ice cream place, taking orders, cleaning out things, cleaning tables.. clothing store.. just walk around, fold things that get unfolded, ringing up tings. hope i helped

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Um..well, sometimes i watch Hannah Montana, and i lovee miley stewart's clothes.

like..
-http://www.discoverygirls.com/images/celeb/0809_montana.jpg

-http://www.blog-city.info/en/img2/213_7341_4918_normal_004.jpg

-http://msnbcmedia2.msn.com/j/msnbc/Components/Photos/060525/060525_hannahMontana_hmed_12p.widec.jpg

and if you hhave seen it, and it's like the one where her dad buys her a present, when she shows lily the presents her dad bought her before, do you know how to do that hairstyle? i loved it!!


Please, don't say..oh, she has a proffesional designer. Do you have the website for where you can buy those clothes? please, and thank u



srry it's long!

for the cloths try going to Rue 21 Wetseal, stores like that. The hairstyle, i know what show your talking about, but i cant remember what her hair looks like. sorry, hope i helped

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15/f okay a lil while ago(about 2.5 months)my dads friend came to my house with his son.i had never met either of them before and i was happy because the guy was hot.
we got along great and it wasnt awkward at all until his dad started asking m and him what we thought of eachother.i didnt answer and pretended i didnt hear(i was afraid he wouldnt say it bak)
we were even talking alone for a lil bit and he was being so sweet helping me study because i had exams in two days.his dad and him stayed the whole weekend and at the end when he was just about to leave he asked 4 my number when noone was around!!!i was so happy.(hes two grades ahead of me but hes not pushy and i dont see it as a problem)

anyway i told him to txt me his number as he had to go..i went up to get ready for bed and i got a txt message frm him....weve been txtin on and off since and weve sent kisses after he asked if i had a boyf.he hasnt txted me in 3 weeks but when he did he was calling me babe nd stuff so i no hes into me and im quite smart and people say im pretty but why hasnt he txted in a while?cud it be another girl?please help!

ps i dont live near him..its about 30min drive away so i havent seen him since april.wat shud i do??hes not the cheating type but were not exactly going out.has he lost intrest coz i live too far away?

that could be it. or maybe hes waiting for you to text him. Text him!!.. dont wait for him, like i said he could be waiting for you to text him.. or better yet, call!.. that would be a lot better. hope i helped

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my periods like a week and a half late and i've been discharging like ALOT. about a month from now im going on a trip to florida with my soccer team and i really dont want to get it then because i hate tampons. what should i do?? how can i make it not come or come? is that possible?? sorry im asking so many questions any advice on this would be really appreciated!

14/f - got my period when i was 11 if you need to know that.

stop worrying about it. dont think about it, really, and it will come... hope i helped

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my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and about two weeks ago i started smoking after my cousin let me try it for the first time when i was 17 but the only reason she let me try it was to see what a horrible habit it was and she told me to promise her never to do it again so i promised her i wouldn't smoke another ciggerate again but 2 weeks ago i broke that promise and smoked a ciggerate and now i can't stop for some reason and my cousin is really mad at me and she dosn't trust me i told her i'll try to quit but she dosn't belive me how do i earn my trust back?
How do i stop smoking?It's just it's hard to quit when i see my cousin smoking so how am i suppose to keep that promise?

wear a rubber band on your wrist, and everytime you get the feeling to smoke, take the rubber band back as far as it can go and snap your self with it. you have to really snap yourself, bc after a month or so, when your not wearing it, and get that feeling, youll remeber the bad stinging from wanting to smoke and you wont,.. Hope i helped

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i just got my belly piecred and im in cheerleading. for competitions we can't have them in of course and i might need to take it out other times too. when is it okay to switch it with another one and to take it out? if and when i do take it out it won't be for very long

i totally agree with the person below me. but i had this same problem. i have mine done twice top and bottom, and i got the bottom done around the end of may. i chaned the ring on like june 4th. it was fine, then i had a basketball game june 5-6-7-8 and i only took it out on the 8th, and it was fine, everytime i was out i would put it in and before i went bakcin a took it back out. this did fine, but from doing that, it got infected, from playing with it to much. so if your competion is coming up soon, do what i did if you have too, take it out before you go on, and right after put it back in. if it gets infected dont use rubbing alcohle, it will eat the skin. hope i helped

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I've been like a jinx, curse, and bad luck to me and everyone else ever since I was born and i feel so bad about it! I

'm the most smartest and best student in my class everyone says and I'm the most careful but at home it jsut doens't seem that way.

Like I try to be careful and I just amke stuff worse! Liek today for fun I was just going to shock my grandma like a surprise but I forgot that she's really old and when i did she looked liek she was about to have a seizure!

And I was just playing with my sister, jsut for fun. And when she played with me she ran into a tree and now she has a terrible scar liek across her head to remind everyone about it! And it came form an inacent game of tag!

I don't know what to do any more. What's your advice i should do? Should i try to move to some where else to prevent even more worse stuff?

you cant really move, if you did it will more then likely still happen. your not cursed, you do somethings without thinking, like with the grandma, your little sister's scar isnt bc of you, SHE ran into the tree, you didnt push her or say "hey go run into the tree" no she did it herself. im sure the rest of the stuff is from you not thinking it all out, or its other people that do it to themself's, and you just happen to be there or be playing with them.. so just think everything out before doing it..hope i helped

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http://www.wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1600&style=37388294&size=&color=100&token=

can someone find the EXACT same thing for a 1" ? i found other ones on the site, but i just want that one headband, not like a set.

PLEASE give SPECIFIC links, not just "www.target.com" i want to see the actual product.

xo

if you have one, go to Clairs in the mall, they have so many of them..

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Okay, so my mom had to go for two months somewhere because my grandma is like, dying.. =/ which is making me incredibly depressed.. & I of course can't go with her because I have school.

So, I'm staying with my dad who lives like an hour away.. & will be for two months. My parents are separated because he cheated on her.. anyway, he WON'T let me stay at home with my mom's boyfriend even though he's trustable & much better of a father than he is & he doesn't want me to be alone either

So this means, I have to wake up at 5 in the morning everyday (i usually wake up at 6:30 - 7)just so he can drive me to school. not to mention that his son cries the whole night (i sleep in the same room) so it's not like i sleep anyway. there's nothing to do here either & he is nice and all, but i just want to go home

the other thing i could do is stay with people around my house, which is this lady i don't know, but she is my moms friend.. no thanks.. or stay with my uncle or cousin, but my uncle has no tv or computer so definitely not & he is just really boring and my cousin has a kid who i think is super annoying & will probably cry all night as well & in both places i would have to sleep on an uncomfortable couch..

now those are not my idea of places to stay at for 2 months. i really don't like my family.. so i don't even know what to do.. =[ helppp.. & plz don't say just deal with it, because i absolutely can't..

& i don't really have any best friends who's houses i could stay at either :[ only my boyfriend but yeah right..

well i dont nkow about you, but my school is out in like 12 days, so if yours is somewhere around then, just stay with your dad untill school is out, then go with your mom. but if it doesnt end untill like forever, and you havent missed that many days, say your going on vaca. get all your work, (you might need to have your mom or someone write a note to say your going out vaca) and just go with your mom for a week or two.. hope i helped and good luck

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well for my project we're doing the 5 senses and I was wondering if anyone knows of any websites where they have free images of moving eyes that I can put onto my powerpoint.

thanks!

well im not a computer person, but i looked on youtube, and this is the only thing i got, i dont know if you can copy this or what, but i tryed..
http://youtube.com/watch?v=jpQfrOTThb0
the girl seems to be moving her contact, but it shows her eye.. sorry, i tryed

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My dad died in febuary and he was a drug addict but really trying to quit before he died, he never wanted me to turn to drugs but I did
And I did before he passed.

and one time I was about to do drugs and I was walking down the hall to the bathroom and my dads ghost appeared and started walking towards me and he gave me this face like kinda sad because he didn't want me to do those things.
I fell on the floor crying my eyes out and I feel so bad about everything and how I still didn't stop after that happened.
Maybe I just didn't know exactly what it meant at the time
Because me and my dad were so close some lady said if he would appear to anyone it would be me and he did.
I've been thinking about this a lot and I just really don't want to disappoint him.
I don't really know what to ask but what do you think of this?

i thinky your right. i strongly believe in ghost and everything. i think that he is sad that you are doing drugs, and that you didnt learn through his mistake. Try to stop, if your dad died from drugs, then i strongly believe that is why he gave you a sad look.. well no i take that back, i think thats all why he gave that look.
so do this, if you have the guts.
get a tape recorder, and ask a question, like dad, are you sad b/c im still doing drugs, wait a little bit, then go back and play the tape again. and most likely you WILL hear a response. i really hope you stop and that i helped you

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okay so me and my friend bth like guys that are in the same group.and today at brunch we actually both talked to them at the same time. so we hang out at the same spot at lunch which is in a classroom. but the teacher told me and my friend that only me and her could be in there. so we couldnt let anyone else in :( (meaning the guys) so they came up to the door and were joking around a bit like normal guys do(kicking the door, yelling etc...) but after awhile it looked like it was starting to become serious they looked really mad and all and called my friend a bitch. i dont know what to do at this point. doicall him and try to talk or let him bloww off some steam???pleeze answer soon since whatever the choice is i have to do tonight!!!!thanx

call and ask him why he freaked out when the teacher is the one who said that and be like " you KNOW if it was up to me, YOU would be in there" and say it in like a sexy playful voice.. lol.. hope i helped

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my sister is 8 and reall annoying!
she is always over my shoulder reading everything on the internet that comes up.

as a matter of fact, she is reading this right now.

she is also always stuck up my ass when i have friends over and im am deff. 7 years older then her.

tell me what to do , please.

she wants to be like you. she looks up to you, i was like that with my sister, shes only 3 1/2 years older then me, but i was the same way. and since your so much older, she really wants to be like you. so just maybe ask her to stop, and maybe have a one day a week thing, when you play a game with her or something.. make a deal with her. try not be mean, and yell at her, my sister was/is like that to me and we dont like each other bc of it.. so just try to make a deal with her and ask her nicely to leave you alone and promise youll do something with her((and coming of a younger sister, she will love it)).. hope i helped

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what is some new things i can say to my boyfriend that are hott. like i wanna say something thats dirty but i cant think of anything else

hmm. to say, i cant really think of anything, but maybe push him down on the bed and get on him and just start making out, then slowly reach for his pants and yeah.. lol.. hope i helped

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there is this guy that i met this year. we started talking on instant messenger about a month ago. and he told me he liked me.

well that was fine. except, now he's getting really obsessive? annoying? stalkerish? he is just bothering me. and i feel bad that he likes me, but i just don't really want to talk to him anymore.

well, lately i've been sort of ignoring him, like i don't go on that instant messenger much anymore and try to avoid his eye contact as much as possible (same with talking.)

well he sent me an email about a half hour ago asking if i would like to go to the 8th grade dance with him. i am not sexually interested in this guy at ALL and i REALLY do not want to go with him.

the weird thing is, he KNEW i liked someone else before he even told me he liked me! why would anyone on earth tell their crush that they like them when they KNOW that, not only do they not like them, but they like someone else?!

anyway, do you think i should ignore the e-mail? or should i say "no" ? there are backfires to both. if i ignore the email, he will never know why i didn't respond. and if i say "no" he will be heartbroken.

in addition, he also even said once that i wouldn't go with him because i like someone else... i guess he was asking to make sure?

i really need help.

just be like im sorry but im waiting for this guy(dont say a name) to ask me.. and be like if he doesnt in the next week or so, tell him youll go, but dont really go, tell him you got asked by this guy and that your sorry.. hope i helped

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