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I like dancing, music, Jake Gyllenhaal, t-shirts, comedy, summer nights, funny movies, and photography.
I hate perfectionists, although I can be one, people who edit their pictures with peace signs and dumb quotes, and flies.

I like giving advice. I don't know if I'm any good at it. Nobody has told me either way.
Ask me whatever, I'll do what I can to help you out.

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15/f

okayy so im redoing my room and i was wondering if anyone has any cute ideas? i want to get like everything redone so any cute desks, beds, bedspreads, wall colors, pictures, bulletin boards,lamps, whatever. or any ideas for stuff to put on my walls

all suggestions welcome!

thanks soo much :]

go to pbteen.com
they have a bunch of cute things!

xxtiffany

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I've never gotten high. I've been offered many things, but I declined it. But since I'm getting out of high school soon, I would like to get high once. Just a experience, nothing more as a habit. Since my boyfriend was really hooked to getting high. He quit for a long time. So he's happy that we are getting high together, for my 'first time' ha. I just .. don't know what to expect and how it effects you. What are all the names of the pills? I get so lost when he speaks of them. It's just named for it's color and size.. or for the effect? How long are you high? How do you act? I've never interacted with my high friends.. so i'm completely lost. I don't want to freak out. Please no "don't get high, it's stupid" it's just one try. i know i won't get hooked over it because of a personal reason /that doesn't concern health/.

Any details and stuff.. email at vegancon@gmail.com

thanks!

dont do it. EVER
you do it once you cant stop

xxtiffany

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ok so im 13...im 115 lbs. and 5'1 .... is that a normal weight for someone like me???? and if not can you please tell me some exercises i can do???
thanx :)

http://toneteen.com/tools/bmi.htm
youre fine

xxtiffany

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16/f

This is a general question for any type of relationship..

No matter the guys age, if he teases you in a friendly kinda way(like, not mean) does that mean he likes you?

Because, there's this guy that I work with and he was teasing me tonight at work saying I was annoying, but then after he'd smile. Lets not forget to mention that he's gorgeous. He looks like Jesse from the Free Willy movies. And, I'm not that bad myself but whatever.

Could this be a slight sign that he sees something? Like, he asked me to check out his band and when I said I would he was like.. no you won't. And seemed a bit upset.

Thanks. All my love. :)

Its hard to tell
It sounds like hes flirting with you, so just keep flirting and see where you end up :)

xxtiffany

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well i really like this guy and he really likes me b ack but i cant date him till next year. He has a girlfriend who he is always around so i can never talk to him. Plus, on myspace and msn his name is like I love her so much talking about his girlfriend and it says like i really hope we stay together for a long time, so what is up with him? what do i do?

he has a girlfriend, hes off limits
the best thing to to is FORGET HIM.
maybe, if he breaks up with his girlfriend, you can date him.
but for now, leave him alone ( you can still be friends, but noting more than that)

xxtiffany

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ok sublime is like one of my FAVORITE bands. what are some relaxing like lower songs by them though?
i listened to one last night with my friend but i dont know what the real song is becuase on his ipod it was seed but i know the song seed and its not that. its a slow song and they have the dogs barking in the begining if that helps. but if you could help me think of the song, or just name song slower, relaxing songs by them i would really appreciate it :) thanks!

i dont know, but maybe this will help you:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/62594/top_ten_songs_by_sublime.html

xxtiffany

EDIT:
is this it?
http://www.lyricsfreak.com/s/sublime/waiting+for+my+ruca_20133028.html

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I really really like this guy. I thought he liked me too, but just recently he got a new gf... How do you go after someone who has a gf? do you just wait to see how their relationship goes, move on... what? please help

move on
you dont want to screw up someones relationship, then both of the people will end up hating you

xxtiffany

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okay so i didnt know what category this would fall under so i guess here is good. =]

I live with my nana and she has back neck and knee problems. so i wanted to get her a tempurpedic (spelling) pillow for x-mas and the website asks for shoulder measurements...it also says if you do it wrong then it could be bad for you so should i just get a reagular tempurpedic pillow that says it could help for the neck with out haveing to take measurements? or is there anything anyone else knows of that might help?


thanks a lot

Aww thats really sweet of you.
You can talk to her doctor and ask what they recommend, or you can buy her a gift card specifically for the tempurpedic pillow

xxtiffany

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my bf wants to try anal. i thought he was kidding because he always said no, it's gross. i guess not this time. i really don't want to. for so many years of being anemic and constipated from my diet, the idea of a penis being shoved up there.. is not appealing. i've had friends say it's not pleasurable and everything. that it's only good for the guy because it's tight. he 'missed' once and that was a bitch.

so what's your anal experiences? horrible, good? :/

ive never done it, it seems gross and weird to me
if you dont feel comfortable doing it, tell your boyfriend. he has to respect that

xxtiffany

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I live in lansdowne my boyfriend live's like 15min away we barely see eachother its not effecting the relationship i just miss him and I REALLY REALLY like him please help we want to be with eachother badly HELP

theres nothing you can do.
hang out with him on weekends, after school, during school.

xxtiffany

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i'm on my period, obviously, and i'm starting to get really bad cramps. i wake up because it really hurts. what are some ways to make it stop hurting? or help ease the pain?

midol works really well
or put a hot compress or whatever they are called on your tummy
feel better :)
xxtiffnay

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Ive seen him in school. His name is Christian. I dont have him in any of my classes, except SAI which i only have every 3 weeks. We talk on myspace alot. He told me to talk to him FACE TO FACE at school. Is it still to early to tell????

theres next to nothing to get that he does like you out of this
if he wants to talk to you in person, it could mean a few things:
1. hes just being nice
2. you are friends, and he wants to hang out and get to know you
3. he might like you, but its hard to tell now.

xxtiffany

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alrite so i have this really close group of friends,its pretty much the 4 of us all the time. over the summer we got close with this group of guys, my 3 friends all had their flings but i never was interested in any of them. untill the end of the summer and i started crushing on this one boy, mike. we were friends awhile back but once i started haveing feelings with him it was always very akward. on day we hooked up and then didnt talk again for a while. we both know that the cheimstry is there, alot of ppl tell me he likes me but he wont call me or come up to me in school. it bothers me because we would be hanging out a lot more if it wasnt for his friends that ended the "flings" with my friend. ugh its soo frusterating! sometimes he flirts with me and then he doesnt talk with me for a week.=\ should i say something to him of should i just forget about it

if i were you, i wouldnt just give up.
talk to him. if you go to the same school, itll be easier cause you see him like everyday.
if not, talk to him online (AIM, MSN, whatever you have) or call him
Tell him you like him, or hint at it anyways. Flirt with him a little

good luck, let me know if you need more help

xxtiffany

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im not so outgoing around some people so what are some ways that i can talk more?

http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Outgoing
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Outgoing-in-Highschool
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Outgoing-Outside-of-School
http://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-Shyness

xxtiffany

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what are some ways to make my eyes look sharp ..not all smudgey?

Hmm, try dark eyeliner, probably liquid.
Put a bit of white eyeshadow on the corner of your eye (the side closest to your nose)
I dont know if thats what you want..
try this:
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Beautiful-Eyes%21

xxtiffany

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ok. i play club volleyball all year around ... but at m school basketball tryouts i flew into the wall to get the ball and hurt my hand real bad. now the bottome of my hand is swollen adn bruised and you can feel something is worng. what should i do. i don't mind missing basktball but my voleyball ...i can't mis... i mean i want to go to college.... =(

go to the hospital!
if you dont get this looked at now, it will just get worse. get it checked out NOW!

xxtiffany

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on hollister/abercrombie/aero jeans, is there any step by step directions on how to do that to your jeans, esp. adding white paint drips on your jeans.

http://www.wikihow.com/Rip-Your-Own-Jeans

xxtiffany

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13/F

There's a ghost in my house. I know because first, my sister saw it. And when I was home ALONE I tripped over nothing on a flat surface. It felt like someone stuck their foot out and tripepd me. I'm not klutzy or anything. Then, as I was stepping out of the shower, I hit my head on nothing. I am not feeling things either, cuz It gave me a headache! And then, as I sat down on a chair, It felt like someone pushed me off. I fell off and I was not faking or anything. I have good balance. Then, when I was home ALONE, i heard foosteps in my kitchen. They sounded like a man's. So, if that enough proof? And, if I do have a ghost in my house? Thank you.

call GHOST BUSTERS :)

tell your parents. they'll have the BEST solution

xxtiffany

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ohk, well theres this banging kid who sits infront of me in my one class. he always use to talk to me, but i didnt know what to say so i would like hardly talk back, and like i guess be mean (sorta). well now he thinks i like dont like him and i always seem in a bad mood. how do i get a conversation starter? haha and be nicer?

You can always do the old "drop your pencil" trick and say hey can you get that?
however, its likely that a conversation wont flourish after this.
after class, ask him for the homework, or if he thought the test was hard. try little conversation starters like that. if hes interested, he should try to carry it out.
also, ask him things about himself, and no yes or no questions!

xxtiffany

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so im planning on dying my hair.
black with purple in it.

but im not sure what i want to do with the colors yet, i was thinking either purple streaks, or purple underneath. i was considering tips, but that will not put that much purple in my hair, so yeah. like would tips and streaks look dumb?

btw, now my hair is brown with light brown/blonde in it and they are highlights. so yeah.

what do you think is a better style?

i think you should pick whichever you like best
i like the idea of purple underneath though, i think it would look really cool.

xxtiffany

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