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Q: Okay.. well there's this girl at school.. and she told EVERYONE i have herpes and that i masterbated in front of everyone and that my boyfriend is only going out with me because i pay for his weed and alcohol *WHICH ISNT TRUE* HE PAYS FOR ME! And NON of this is true.. she is saying all of this stuff because MY boyfriend was her best friends X boyfriend.. and like my bfs X hasn't said ONE word to me about me and my bf going out.. it's just her best friend is sticking her nose into my business and this should be between me and courtney *his ex* The funny thing is.. is that.. my bf.. has been in love with me for like ever.. and we dated before him and courtney got together but i STOPPED talking to him for multiple reasons *mainly all because of me* but like.. he didn't even ask courtney out.. his friend asked her out for him.. and he didn't wanna say like.. no i didn't want him to ask you out.. because that would of hurt her feelings.. so.. he NEVER EVER called her and they only went out for two weeks.. but they never spoke once throughout this whole two weeks.. well.. one night i spent the night with him.. and i didn't even sleep in the same bedroom as him.. i slept out in the living room with his mom watching movies all night.. *my family knows his whole family* and my mom KNEW i stayed there.. so then those 2 girls automatically ASSUME that i slept with him.. and HES A VIRGIN! ugh.. i hate school drama.. well yeah.. i have no clue what to do.. this is the stupidest situation in the world *i think* but it's not cool of those two girls to start rumors about me just because i got my man back! Dumb whores!!! *sorry this was really long lol*

the whole thing is just immature and stupid. who cares what other people think seriously. it doesnt matter. tell them to fu** off. they're just jealous...

Q: okay so heres the thing.....i am really depressed, and i know it and so i cut myself....but not my wrists or anything just my legs and my ankles.......and i think about death alot, but not ohters just myself....what do you think i shuld do

go to a psychiatrist

Q: I have an oral presentation to give on monday (it's powerpoint) and i'm terrified... like this is one of my biggest fears ever. Whenever i go to give a speech or something my voice starts really quivering and shaking and it sounds like i'm crying. Is there any way to stop this from happening? also... any other advice on giving speeches would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!!

Just relax...if its powerpoint people aren't even going to be looking at you they'll be looking at the slides. pretend liek your reading something aloud in your room by yourself

Q: i have these pimples around my nose, like everywhere on the sides of my nose, so it make my nose look really red and all that and the pimples WONT go away! i have tried sooo much stuff and it DOESNT work! its really pissing me off and they have been there for like ever! i cant even remember my nose being pimple free! do you know any good pimple creams or something that will help me! PLEASE!

I would go to the Dermatologist. They'll probobly give you a antibiotic to take away the reddness and a stronger cream. Whatever you do don't mash them or touch the area it will just make it like 10 million times worse!! Try Clean and Clear Oil Free Deep Action Cream Cleanser. It works really well for me and it makes your face all tingly :) Clean and Clear also has medicated concealer that helps clear up your acne while your wearing it.