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hey, well im thinking about starting to wear eyeliner. so i have a few questions about it. the first one is when you apply eyeliner do you apply it on both the top and the bottom? what looks btter? another question i have is when you apply eyeliner do you apply it above or below your eyelashes. also what color eyeliner is best? black or brown? last thing is should i use liquid eyeliner or the regular kind? thanks in advance.

-caitt

Dear caitt,
usally people apply it on the bottom
but either way works.I personally like bottom better,below the eye lashes and the color
black looks so much better.
hope i was a help
-Alex

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okay so this is my story i have liked this kid for about a few months now and i dont really know if he likes me back i really do like him and i would like to get to know him a little better...we do hang out but i dont really know him that well what do you think i should do??

hey,i think you should get to know him.
Get his aim,msn,yahoo messager ect.
And just talk.
after that if you stil like him
tell him how you feel.
hope i helped
if anymore questions just ask
- Alex

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yes um i dnt like chexmix
and i want to eat sumtin i havent ate forlike 1 day cuz i dnt like chexmix so pick something

thanks

um sushi.

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i know this is a stupid question but where can i find Essie nail polish? i tried looking on google but it brought me to all of these random sites, i want something like cvs or a pharmacy like that. does anyone know where i can get it and also how much do they cost

hey,
essie nail polish is great lol!

http://www.essie.com/
http://www.beautyrealm.com/essie_some_like_it_hot_nail_polish.htm

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how do u make the little hearts thing where you can actually see the heart???

thanks in advance

hey,


&-hearts-;

lol

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Okay, so for the past year and a half maybe I've been insanly self-concious. I always think I'm fat and that if I lose just one more pound I'll be happier. I'm not technically over-weight but I'm 5 foot 6 and 114 pounds.I was diagnosed with bulimia and I was sent to therapy and counselers and nutritionist. I was given anti-depressants and it was horrible. After I recovered I got to an all time high of 139 pounds for me. I don't want attention and I don't want to go back to counseling, but lately I've been going back to my old ways, this time, a lot of less eating to lose my extra weight. I've been lieing more to my friends and family about it because I dont want to go back. No way will I go back. I just don't know what to do. I feel helpless and I'm sick of it.


Love,
Tired Of This

Okay, You should have nothing to be worried about. 5'6 and 139 is absolutely perfect!
But you should deffinetly not , hide things from your friends and family and the worst thing for your metabolism is to eat alot less. You must eat to live a healthy lifestyle. Eating a healthy lifestyle will not only help you manage your weight, but also help prevent your body from getting sick! But , on the other hand your not helpless. Take it step by step and you'll be fine,if you do want to loose some extra pounds , have your friends and family help you but tell them you dont want to go back to a counsler.
If you need some more help, We will be very happy to answer them!


---Kendra

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ok so i liked this kid for about a month or two && he also liked me but he had a girlfriend that he supposably liked a lot....we went to a party && hooked-up while he was still dating this girl i really wanna tell her because i feel bad but i dont know how to and also what can i do with him like i still kinda like him but we barely talk after that idkk if he used me or what to think anymore im so stressed about it help please!

Hmmm , stressing out is the worst thing you can do!
Take everything step by step.
First , you gotta decide if you wanna tell her or not , once you decide then make your move.
If you do decide to tell her , the best thing you should say is " Okay, I messed up alot, me and your boyfriend hooked up at a party,and if you get mad at me , ill understand , once again im really sorry, but id rather tell you then keep it a secret" or something like that.Now about the boy, some boys cheat and dont care about it, if he barely talks to you , then hes not worth it! BUt if you really want him, maybe go on a group outting and talk to him some more.


Good luck!

---Kendra

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OK...I know I have a crappy sense of stlye for a middle school girl but one of my friends is always saying how she hates what i wear and commenting if i wear a neclace with shorts or sumptin like that. and then when i wear clothes from like american eagle and abercrombie she says that i shouldnt wear that kind of clothing and when hollister was mentioned one time i said id never been there and she told me that i wouldnt fit in there. another one of my friends calls me a boy when i wear soccer shorts but when i wear anything more 'stylish' she calls me a slut. I dont understand why they cant let me just where watever i want. why should it matter to them? There not wearing it.

Hmm, well Im sure you dont have a crappy sense of style. American Eagle and Abercrombie are stylish and so is Hollister. The best thing you should do , is give them a taste of their own medicine. If they ask you what you think of their outfit, say something like "its not that great looking " or " you could wear something better" but dont be mean , becuase being mean wont solve your problem.If you dont like what you wear, then maybe you could have one of your friends give you a good makeover and a new clothes , and then show the other girls an all new you!

Tell me how it works out and good luck!

---Kendra

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hi im a 13 year old and basically every guy i like finds out and then as if i had scared them away ignores me or just pretends i don't exist. And even when they dont find out they still are far away from intrested. what can i do?

hey,well maybe your coming on to strong.
Lighten up when they find out that you like them
dont just expect that there gunna run.You might not get the same reaction.A way to get closer to this guy maybe by having one of your friends inviting him to a group outting.
if anymore questions about this
dont hesitate to ask
-Alex and kendra

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how can i get a date with kendra?

well she has a screen name?
kendra exoh
hope i was help!

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Hello im a boy and since you are 2 girls i was wondering " what do u like guys to dress in?"
im wearing things like hollister and abercrombie
do you find that attractive, if not what do u find most attractive? i wont be offended!
-Thanks

ey,we both wear hollister and abercrombie.
And YES we do find that that very attractive
a guy who dresses nice is always on our list.
hope we've helped
-Alex and kendra.

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Well about a month a go i met a girl named Kate on a dating hotline. Were both 22 and are very much alike. We dicided we would meet today.
I was so excited until i saw her, it was very disapointing. I was laughing with my friends. And we said "we met some big fat girly, and her pussy hair was curly." She knows i dont like her much anymore. but i noticed looks dont reallt matter. i want to make it up to her so what should i do?
P.S: I met this big fat girly, her pussy hair was curly!

hey well that was a pretty shitty thing for you to do. but if you really want to try get her flowers (NOT CHOCOLATE) a maybe write her a nice note saying how sorry you are and point out all the beautiful qulaties about her.
-Alex

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k i was wondering if any of these things counted as cardio and helped to lose fat,cause these are things i could do like, before bed..

: lemon squeezes(like a crunch but you bring your knees up to your chest so you move your whole body)
: bicycles(lay on the floor and bring your right leg up and touch it to your left elbow,etc.)
: jumping jacks
: continuous backbends and handstands and cartwheels and stuff

i figured if i did that for like, a half hour/45 minutes every night (or morning, or wtv) i could get into better shape my say, next month.

thanks

Hey well im glad you have the desire to get fit. One thing you should deffinetly work on is abs, that shapes your stomach , the biking thing burns less calories but its still a great workout .Jumping jacks are also good for a cardio vasular workout but you might get tired after a while. One other thing you should do is walking and mild jogging , thats a great way to build strength and burn fat . Good luck!
-Alex and kendra

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When I talk and flirt with a boy, he usually flirts back. Then I jump on the fact that he likes me just as much as I like him. How do I chill out, and idk, "play that game" where it doesn't seem like I'm desperate to be with him. Sometimes I can scare guys away like that, what should I do?

Ah ! I know what you mean, but these days guys flirt and have NO IDEA they are flirting and giving an impression and dont take it as seriously us girls do. The key here is control, know your limits such as only talk to him when he talks to you first , then get into the juicy detail stuff. And go on group outtings with him and do some flirting but dont make yourself seem desperate. Good luck!


_kendra

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okay so i kinda like this kid from one of my curicular (sp?) activites and but hes 16 and im 13 i really do like him and have feelings for him he liked me too but ever since he went away for the summer to some camp he met this other girl n now all he does is talk about her what do u think i should do or tell him?

hey,tell him that you like him still and you wanna know if he feels the same way also tell him that you are sorta jelous when he tells you about this girl from his summer camp.
anymore questions about this
dont be afaird to ask
-Alex

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my foot itches but my shoe is on and i dont wanna take it off what should i do?

well hannah i think you should go find a stick or somthing lolz i dontknow

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okay so i talked to you about this before when i went out with some kid and then we broke up because one of my friends so yeahh i told him i fucked up and i really want him back and i want to be with him but he wont answer me i think he likes me a little because one of his best friends told me that he kinda liked me

ummmmmmmm
try this;get one of your friends to talk to him
about it and then have her tell you everything he says .
tell me what eles happens if you want
and ill help you more
- Alex

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what should i eat?

i am hungry.

hhahahhahaha
FOOOD.!
um well maybe chexmix lmao
idk whatever you wanna eat

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would it be wrong to date a guy a year younger than me. the thing is he lives in my neighborhood and me and his sister and others all hang out. would that be wrong.

Hey,no i dont think it would be wrong at all.
Its only a year,and besides i think his sister might even be happy about the situation.
ive hoped i helped
- Alex

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okay so i kind of like one of my brothers friends he is 18 though and is going into college i am only 14 he has a girlfriend and i know its an age diffrence but like what do you think i can do?

Hey,i'm gunna be honest
the age difference is a little to much
its illegal for you guys to be toghther.
He has a girlfiend and hes going into college.
But if you want him bad enough you can have the courage to tell hom how you feel;and hope for the best.ive hoped i helped
-Alex

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