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i love helping people out.
when i grow up i want to go into the medical field, preferably a dietitian/nutritionist or veterinary medicine. so bring on the diet/food questions! i try to get on here as much as i can. & i H@Te Wh3N Pe0pLe TyP3 LyK3 d1s. or don't use proper grammar and spell simple stuff wrong. but i don't always either, so I'll forgive you & still answer your Q =]
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2 weeks ago i picked up a box of 7 kittens and a mama cat that were on the side of the road. 4 of them looked to be about 5 weeks old and the other 3 looked like they were from an earlier litter of kittens theyre about 3 months. they were fine just a little scared and malnourished and they're coming along great now.
im worried about the mama kitty. she is nursing the younger kittens and i think she was pregnant when i brought them home but im not sure. maybe shes just getting fatter now that shes being fed?
how do you tell is shes pregnant and what do i feed her and how do i take care of her if she is?
shes a tiny cat but its her stomach thats getting bigger it seems to me.
any help would be great
thankyou! (link)
http://petcaretips.net/pregnant_cat.html


and i HIGHLY recommend that if she is not pregnant right now get her spayed after the kittens stop feeding from her.
if you don't have that kind of money laying around you can take her to a clinic to do it for less. you just have to search around your area.

hope i helped =]
Jess


why do dogs, especially large dogs, always stick their penises out? i find it very gross. (link)
because they are "happy". =]


Uh, okay... My iPod nano is broken or something. Last time I turned it on, it was really low on battery and it shut off, so I plugged it into my computer, iTunes came up and everything and I left it plugged in all day. When I unplugged it, it was still extremely low on battery. ...?

kay, so now when I tried to charge it again, my iPod turned on and shut off after like 5 seconds and now it won't turn on at all.

So now I can't charge it. Is there anything I can do? Or any ideas of what I could try? (link)
make sure you have the most updated software for your itunes AND ipod.

www.apple.com


and also i know if you turn/trade in your ipod you get 10% off your next one.

sorry i cant help with much more than that.

hope i helped =] good luck.
Jess


okay, so this 14 year old kid died in a car/scooter accident. I didn't really know him to well, but i knew his younger brother.

i'm planning on going to the viewing with my 3 friends. i don't know what to wear. i was either thinking a skirt, with some top; but i don't know what kind of shoes. or maybe some khaki pants with a nice top, but what shoes?

theres a justice; justforgirls store right down the road next to payless shoes. Anything I could get there?

Please, help. i'm going shopping tonight. (link)
this might be kind of late.
but i think a black skirt with black heels and a cute shirt from charlotte russe, rue 21, or one of those kind of stores.

i cant see any of the clothes at justice
but i think these are really cute shoes


http://www.payless.com/Catalog/ProductDetail.aspx?&TLC=Womens&SLC=WomensDress&BLC=WomensDressTrendy&Width=Regular&ItemCode=56610&LotNumber=056856&Type=Adult&Popularity=779&DescriptiveColor=Black

or these.

http://www.payless.com/Catalog/ProductDetail.aspx?&TLC=Womens&SLC=WomensDress&BLC=WomensDressSandals&Width=Regular&ItemCode=56457&LotNumber=056718&Type=Adult&Popularity=352&DescriptiveColor=Black

hope i helped =]


If you have zits on your body or just face, what should I use instead of proative, that is too expensive and actually works. ooh and something that doesn't dry out your face. Thanks!!!! (link)
find a knock off version of proactive.
i have proactive and it works really good.
but the main ingredient in it is benzoyle peroxide so make sure it has that in it.

hope i helped =]
Jess


Hey. On the episode "Come out, Come out where you are" of south of nowhere, where spencer decides to come out to her parents. this song plays in the backround singing "i could die of wanting you"
what song is that and who sings it? thank you! (link)
www.letssingit.com
search for lyrics.

or

www.songtapper.com
that site is really cool =]

i saw that episode today! i just started watching that show today and i love it.

hope i helped =]
Jess


okay so, i am in baltimore for a few days to nsee some sox games :D i'm staying in this hotel, that has absolutely NOTHING to do. i have my phone &stuff. so it's not like i can't talk to my freinds. but i can't even get on myspace!!! haha. any suggestions to keep me from going insane from now till monday?! :D thanks (link)
www.bored.com
the first time i went on there i was deff entertained.
go there and write down some ideas of what to do.
like they have sites to go on but some of the sites have stuff to do off the computer.

buy a book to read or a puzzle book.
or make a sign to bring to the sox game.
play ding dong ditch at the hotel. =D

watch tv.

hope i helped =]
Jess


i subscribed to verizon ringback tones.. and i bought one, but it wont play when people call! it like.. wont work.i tried to purchase it multipal times but i didnt work... whats wrong? (link)
did you go into your settings and apply it to your phone as a default ringback tone?
sometimes you have to go in and mess with your phone settings.


my parents wont let me get my cartilage pierced cuz they say it will cave in if u do it wrong is that true? just one more ? is it safe to pierce my cartilage myself? if it is how do i do it without it gettin infected? (link)
i don't know if that is true or not but you deffinatley don't want to do it yourself.
1. it will probably look crappy
2. your parents don't want you to. you can wait until you are 18
3. there is a VERY high rick of it getting infected.

hope i helped =]
Jess


my boyfriend and I fooled around last week
and we didnt have sex but he fingered me and we had oral sex.. my question is.. could i be pregnant? we thought his hands were clean and we were careful but lately this past week or so i have been feeling really tired and i have been waking up in the middle of the night and i have been feeling like eating everything and i know im not coming up on my period because i just had it like 2 weeks ago. I'm getting really scared and i cant buy a home pregnancy test because my town is really small and everyone knows my family and i would have no privacy to take it because i have 7 other brothers and sisters.. what are some sure ways to tell if i am? and what are the chances of getting pregnant from fingering?

i rate high. (link)
to get pregnant sperm has to enter your vagina. not a finger.

so your chance of being pregnant is like .0000001%

though you are at risk of std's


Okay so I have really curly hair (15/m). But like only on the sides.
But I straighten it using a flat iron.
So it looks right (i have it emo-ish).
BUt yesterday I started summer band.
And we march outside for 4 hours a day in 100 degree heat.
And when I sweat my hair gets damp,
and it curls.


Is there anyway I can stop that?

Thanks (link)
you can put certain-dri on your head so your head doesnt sweat =] you can find it in a local drugstore.

do you think hairspray would work? you could try that.

haha sorry if these are really dumb answers.
im not sure whatelse you could do =]

Jess




so im going on a cruise in september and there is going to be a formal dinner the first night. i don't know how i should wear my hair. my dress is strapless so i want to keep atleast half of my hair down. my hair is really light brown or super dirty blonde. its almost below my boobs. so how should i wear it?


thnx :) (link)
loosley pull back your hair on the sides so its half up. and pin it with two clips. then curl the rest of your hair.


and you can get bobby pins with faux diamonds on it. or the little twisty hair diamonds. you could probably find them at claires.
www.claires.com

hope i helped =]
Jess


ok. i'm 13, almost fourteen, and i NO boobs, whatsoever. i have to wear a padded bra that's too big for me, but they STILL are small like that. i'm petite, only 4'10 or 11 and about 80 lbs. my mom has a very little A cup, but on my dad's side, his sister and his mom have either a big C or a little D. i was just wondering if there was any way my boobs might get big, or since they've been not growing for so long, are they pretty much gonna be small like my mom's no matter what??


oh and also, i play softball and am a pitcher, so i guess my muscles under there are worked a lot, so that might be a reason....? (link)
your boobs aren't fully developed untill your about 18, give them some time.

hope i helped =]
Jess


if u no any web sites like myspace or anything else can u tell me ..thanx ! (link)
facebook.
xanga.
whateverlife.com has a build your own website thing. i havent tried it out but it looks cool.
zwinky.com

sorry if this is so generic.
hope i helped =]
Jess


Does anyone know the name of this song from an episode of neds declassified

I don't wanna be a loser

I just wanna be a rockstar like those guys on the M tv (link)
rockstar by everclear

=]
hope i helped
Jess



how do you put in a picture caption
like on mysspace?? (link)
go to "edit/add pictures" then click on the picture you want and then click "edit"
there should be a feild where you put captions in.
if you want a picture upload it on tinypic.com and get the url and put it in this code .
thats it =]
hope i helped!
Jess


im so scared i might be pregnant. i had sex with this guy on may 18th. he didn't come in me, he had a condom on, but then he took it off, n he came in my underwear, which i put on like right after. that day was a friday. on saturday night, like at 11 or 12 at night i felt kinda nauseas. i dunno why. then i felt nauseas monday morning till like wednesday morning, but it might have been because we were disecting pigs in first period every morning. after that, i didn't get nauseas or anything anymore. i got my period regularly three times. i just finished my third time. i noticed it was kinda light. it ended maybe a day or two sooner than usual. last night in the shower, i noticed my stomach got a LOT bigger. not like super huge, but i'm a skinny girl, &it got bigger. could i be pregnant ? (link)
i suggest taking a home pregnancy test

hope i helped =]
Jess


he said "we need to take a break" but i asked his friend and he really broke up with me because he met another girl. so was saying "we need to take a break" just a nice way of breaking up, or could he be serious? (link)
he probably was just trying to say it nicely.

sorry :[


Sometimes I don't understand or hear what people have said to me. What could I say besides "Pardon" because that's a bit old fashioned? I also don't like the phrase "Excuse me" because it sounds as if I have been offended. Thanks for the help! (link)
"what did you say? sorry i didnt understand you"
"huh?"
"come again?"

can't think of anything else.
hope i helped :]
Jess


i really like brittney's earrings that she's wearing when her hair is french braided and she's getting into her car. they're kinda like studs but not really. does anyone know where i can find them or something similar to them? (link)
it would help if you had a picture up of her with the earrings :]




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