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theres this boy and I love him a lot and he said he loved me and he wanted to be with me
Hes 16 and a junior
i'm 14 and he knew that but he didn't think I was freshman and I told him recently and i asked him if it was okay he said of course.
But it seems like he doesn't like me as much and like he ignores me.
I kinda envy his ex girlfriend too.
like I'm not worried and I don't mean jealous.
Its just they still say I love you to eachother and she dumped him for another guy but she is always crying to him for him back.
its just so annoying.
advice?
thanks :] (link)
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um well do you trust him and you said your not jelous but i bothers you maybe your jelous just a little and i would find out why all of a sudden hes ingoring you first and about his ex-gurlfriend currently friend now do they act like friends or something more and when they say they love you is it friendly or does it sound like more than just a friend meaning i think you need to get some answers
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my boyfriend always checks other girls out on the street, it really bugs me and am scared its cuz he's lookin for someone better? should i be worried? please let me know and do all guys do this , he tells me he loves me but im not so sure cuz it bothers me :( help~ (link)
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well most guys do it your jeleous and its totally normal and tell him that if hes gonna check other gurls out have the deceny to do it when your not around because not only dont you like it but its completely insulting and you dont apprecate it and if he doesnt like it do the same you can find better two remeber 2 can play at that game good luck hope i helped
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i dont know how to start conversaitions,get into them, and even just talk to people with out feeling nervous. i can talk with like 4 people,but 3 or under and its just hard to start convos. it seems like people dont find me interesting. and i have no idea how to open up and become more interesting.im soo lost. i dont even know what i like!how can i open up and start convos. also become interesting? (link)
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i have the same problem i mean im so undesive i never no what i want and im always lost just try not to be nervous and think of something funny or say something really stupid and make a joke out of it or just voice your opion you know and people who dont think there intersting could be the most fun you know just be yourself confident and once you learn that im sure your have no problem starting a convo
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I broke up with myboyfriend of 6 months after things were getting really serious and I felt I just couldn't cope with it all.Even after he cheated on me after a week going out. I have never been scared of commitment in my entire life and thought this guy was the one. But it freaked me out so much, and i couldnt forget the fact that he cheated on me with the same girl that i warned him bout that I hated because the same girl did it to me before. So i decided to break up with him. I really hurt him as he felt the same way and he had just broken up with his gurl for me again.. I dont know if i did the right thing?? Help me please (link)
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ok i know sometimes you think that you made a mistake but in this case you didnt you really didnt feel that comferable with him and plus he cheated on you yea sure it was a mistake but what makes you think he wont make that same mistake again you know temptations always there and if you only broke up with him because you were getting to close and you were scared and not because he cheated on you, than your not going to get anywhere and your always be thinking about what if hope i helped you can ask me a question anytime
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I have a serious problem, I always get boners in the middle of class and i have to get up alot and i dont want people to see me. I am not getting hard because the teacher is hot either because, beleve me, she is NOT! Does any else have this proble, how can I fix it???? Any bit of info will help!!! (link)
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yeah do you think about anything that can make you get hard its a known study that men think about sex every 2 seconds and if your not thinking about anything that gets you up i dont know why its a problem let that sit hang out shake what god gave you lol j/k
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me and this guy have been talking for a long time and we're kinda friends with benifits but we're not the all the way benifits like i'm still a virgin and i mean i love him and sometimes i think he loves me but theres times when i think he's just after you know what how can i tell if a guy is true to me or not and how do i find out if he wants to be with me or not and not by just asking him becasue he says he wants to keep movin at the pase we're moving at now and see what happens......
signed dazed and confused (link)
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let me guess he sort of plays mind games i hate those kind of people ok well first you gotta think you guys have been talking for a long time and he doesnt what to take the next in the relationship but hes willing to be friends with benifits but nothing more is there a difference expect the title if you to were to go out, i think that you need to get some answers before you fall any deeper and ask why do you to only have to be friends with beneifits you know usally people who only want to be friends with benifits usally only want to keep there options open you know
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I'm a sixteen year old female. I have dark, thick hairs down the middle of my stomach below my bellybutton. I'm really self-conscious of it - I can't wear a swimsuit or anything. I've heard that shaving it just makes it darker and thicker (plus, I've shaved it before and it just comes back all stubbly). I've also heard that waxing does the same thing.
Is there any way to get rid of this hair or make it lighter? Is it unhealthy to bleach the hair there (like some people do to upperlip hair)?
Thanks for your advice! (link)
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as far as i know its not unhealthy to bleach your hair and theres products that remove hair with no stuble or anything that can be found in rite aid and other drug stores like nair and they have other creams to good luck
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i dno what to do .. i like to girls one i have liked on and off and dated a couple times since elementry school, the other one i have liked one and off since gr 8 i like them both right now they both mean alot to me and i know that the one i have liked since gr 8 dosnt like me back and the one from elementry school might but im not sure.. what should i do i want to hint that i like her ( elementry one ) because the (gr 8 one ) knows i like her and dosnt like me back.. i dno i have to find a way to tell the (elementry one ) that i like her but i dont know how ... and som tips on how i can make her fall for me.. it would help lots..thanks
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ok well you said that you still talk to her and that you guys dated a few times so you obviouly hinted to her than so what i would do is flirt like always look at her and wink or you know say hey sexy and come up with some lines that'll make her laugh pay attention to her but not stalker kind you know make her want you again make her think but dont always go for the friend flirt be a charmer you know and about the other gurl if you know she doesnt like you try to let her go because heartbreak is a bitch good luck hope i helped
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my name is katie. i am writing for advice because i found a glass pipe with weed in it in my moms purse about 6 months ago. we got into a huge fight about it and she promised me she would get rid of it.; i never saw after that. but the other day i was looking in my moms purse for my library card and it was in there. i am so sick of smelling that smell on her clothes. it makes me really depressed and today i couldnt take the pain anymore and i cut my arm with a pair of scissors. i am so sad. i am lost and confused as to why she lied to me and about something so horrible to lie about. she could get in huge trouble for this. and i dont want to lose her over something like drugs. i am just really depressed and i havent talked since i cut myself. my arm is still bleeding and i did it in the early afternoon. i dont want my special ed teachers or therapist to find out. i am terrified of going back to the hospital because last time i went there i was put in restraints for trying to hurt myself. please help me. i am so scared. (link)
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wow first of all you shouldnt cut beleive me ive been there done that and maybe your mom didnt tell you and she lied to you because shes ashamed of herself and she doesnt know how to tell you and she can get in really big trouble i know and my dad does the same thing its very addicting probly even more so than ciggerettes i think maybe you should def confront her again and tell her that your help her if she wants it tell her how you feel good luck hope i helped
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