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ahh ok so where is every gurl gettin those shirts that are like long sleeve, but theyre off the shoulder and the top like folds over.. so it basically looks like its rolled over to be off the shoulder. i absolutely love them but havent seen any anywhere! (link)
i think this is wat your looking for: http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Sweaters&product%5Fid=2030115060&Page=all

hope i helped:)

ps i mite find more so dont abandon all hope ;)


for school, i had to do this whole project on a character in this book we read. I had to do an encyclopedia entry, a letter from my character to another, a myspace, AND an obituary. I need a good idea of how i can bind these things altogether and also how can i make it look better. i just dont wanna print it out and hand in 4 pieces of paper stapled together. any ideas? thanks so much!! (link)
you culd make a powerpoint. and put all the stuff together on it and hand in the CD with it all on it. or you culd make a scrapbook (like you wuld make one of yourself) and put in little factual captions and stuff.




hope i helped:)


hey guyss(: does anyone know any REALLY adorable make your heart skip a beat cute punk rock love songs? like hey there delilah - plain white T's. Emily - from first to last (especially like this one.) stuff like that(o:? (link)
Modern Swinger by : The Pink Spiders or Little Razorblade by: the pink spiders


i love those songs

hope i helped:)


I am almost positive that one of my professors is changing our answers on tests so that we get better grades. Let me start from the beginning....

After the class took the midterm exam, I was looking over my answers and I noticed that some of the writing was kind of funny. I thought, geez I must have been really tired when I took this test, and I let it go. Then, some of the other people in the class started whispering about it. Apparently someone had changed some of our answers to the correct answers before the tests had been graded! We all assumed that a student aid or graduate student had done it.

What's the problem then you might ask. I got a better grade so I shouldn't complain, right? Well, I try my best to be a good person and the fact that that had happened made me feel sooo guilty. It stressed me out to no end. I don't need to get a great grade in the class. With the corrections my score had been boosed from about a 70 to a 90. I didn't need the extra points. All I have to do is pass the course.

I didn't want to be the tattle tale and ruin everyone's day by possibly making the entire class take the midterm over again, but I couldn't deal with the dishonesty I was feeling. Later in that day I went to talk to the professor about what had happened. I liked her and I thought that telling her was the right thing to do. She seemed very understanding and told me to just keep working hard and that she would take care of it. I felt so good after I did it and knew that it had been the right choice. Well, nothing was done about it and I began to wonder.

We took another test and when I was handed my test back I got a "Great job!". When I noticed that the same thing had happened I almost cried. Nobody else in the class seems to mind, but it is tearing me apart. Now everyone is almost positive that it is the professor that is doing it. It's almost the end of the semester and I worry now that we'll all have to take the whole course over again. I can't afford to do that! I have just enough time to fit all the classes in that I need to graduate.

I think I know the reason why she does it (if she does). She isn't allowed to make her own tests or assignments for us. It has to be the same for everyone that is taking the class. The head of her department makes everything and she is often confused on what to teach us and what to tell us to study. I think that this is terrible and that a professor should be able to teach the way they want. Boosting our grades like she does (or allowing it to happen) is her way of giving us a curve.

It makes sense and it seems like a good thing, but if it's supposed to be the same for everyone taking the class, then my class is getting a very unfair advantage! Yeah, there needs to be some change, but it should be done in an honest way! There are so many better ways to have handled that. I believe that the professor is retiring after this semester so I don't think it would affect much in her life if she was found out.

Should I tell? I think I probably will anyway. I don't want to have to live with this for the rest of my life. If I do, who should I go through? The head of the department or someone higher in the college? She doesn't let us keep the tests and I have a feeling that if she were being investigaed for this that they would mysteriously go missing. With no proof, can anything really be done?

I give a lot of advice, but now I need some myself. I have no idea how I would answer this question if it were asked by someone else. Am I doing the right thing? I doubt anyone has gone through something similar to this and can offer an experience based answer. I shouldn't have to deal with this, I'm a student! I should be the one that's cheating if anybody! HELP!!

~sizzlinmandolin, (20/f) (link)
wow thats a toughie. try to get your mind off it. think its not my problem you have too much other stress to stress about that. and i wuldnt say anything. ppl will be really mad if you do and youll prob hav to take the course ALL OVER agin. and they mit even fire the professor!




hope i helped :)


Ok so I got the Depo shot about exactly a week ago and I am supposed to have my period now[7 days later].We took a pregnancy test at the health place before I took the shot so i dunno. And it's still not here.Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex the day after I got the shot but he didn't cum in me. Why am I not getting my period, please help? (link)
you dont get your period on Depo. and next time have protected sex! it makes a lot less worry and stress having to think"OMG am i pregnant? am i not pregnant? etc... so just use protection!


i was wondering the difficulties of taking care of a yorke are. i'm 14 years old and i live with my 12 year old brother and parents, and i was wondering if this would be a good enviornment for a yorke. i was also wondering about any cute orginal names for a little yorke thats male, thank you in advance.
xo (link)
o those are sooo cute!yorkies do pretty well in about any setting. it sounds like yours is perfect! heres a good website that mite help with the name:http://www.pet-net.net/namethatpet.htm


hope i helped:)


Okay, so I have a good amount of friends. They're pretty awesome friends but to a point. I'm from South Korea and I've been living in the US for almost 6 years now and I'm the usual Asian person that studies her ass off with strict parents. The thing is that some people from my lunch table say hurtful remarks like "Are you teaching her Chinese" or some say some Japanese words or someone says "Go back to North Korea to your dicatator" or "Chinese girl" I know that they're saying thi sjokingly and many might not get why it's hurtful but the thing is that South Korea, China, and Japan are different countries with different cultures and own identity and when they decide to ignore the fact (that I've told them about a million times that I'm Korean) and decide to clump my nationality with another one just is so rude to me and that's considered like the same things as people calling African Americans Niggros [sp?] and Calling everyone from South American Mexicans or something like that. My other friend was like "Oh my god, when you didn't come out of class I was like 'The immagration people took her away!'" and someone else was like "I know what I'll get you for your birthday..a Green card!!!" and another friend of mine yanked my sleeve down and was like "Oh wow, you're not cutting under that Asian strict pressure" or something like that and he went on nonstop. And I get really amd at them but I let it go because I don't want to start any fights or drama or anything and I've told them that they're being really mean and rude and I've threatened them saying that I won't talk to them anymore and such but they seem to ignore that and make racist remarks against me right in front of me. I know that they're just joking and I shouldn't take it seriously but I can't help it. They are going on and on and on and it hurts. So how do I tell them that they're really hurting me and that I am serious when I say enough is enough without it being all dramatic and stuff. (link)
ok tell them: "guys stop i no your joking but just stop its getting old and annoying" or spmthing like that. or i shuldnt really giv this to u as advice but you culd give them a taste of their own medicine. say stuff like "at least in korea we dont...." (sry i dont no wat they do in korea but you fill in the blank!)


hope i helped :)


ok so. im looking for a christmas song that deals with a girl wanting a guy or somewhere alogn the sorts of that. i kno that theres alli want for xmas is you so dont say that one and only taht one. much is appreciated. i jsut need a song for my myspace and just to sing along to because every xmas i just have a song thats myne. like we do this wierd things with my friends. so like yeah anything to do with a girl really wanting this guy. like dear santa i want this guy for example or w.e lol thanks =] (link)
haha this is gonna sound stupid but: i saw mommy kissing santa clause. lol i no. brittney spears released an x mas album a wile ago look it up im sure she has a love song on it. lol im sry if this is bad advice!


hope i somewat helped ;)


Okay, i am in a giving mood. I have dated this guy for a month, but in the past we have dated before. and i want to get him something little and special for no reason..

dont ask me why lol


any ideas??

Thankss


NOTE:Im not that artsy (link)
sry but i wuldnt give him anything. he'll freak out thinking its some anniversary or he was supposed to give you somthing. (lol thats how guys r) but if u REALLY want to get him a picture of you and him together in a cute frame. (that doesnt take much artistic ability lol)


hope i helped :)


I'll assume some people know how to play secret santa here, so I'm going to get straight to the question. I have to buy a gift for somebody I barely know. Shes short and asian, shes smart and that's all I know. What could I get her that's beetween 10-15 dollars? Thank you (link)
get an in expensive purse and fill it with a candy bar, lip gloss, finger nail polish, bracelets etc... i love to open those and every girl loves:hocolate,lip gloss, and accessories! lol im sure she'll love it.



hope i helped :)


There is this girl at school.Today she showed me a piece of paper with "Do you think Linda is too loud?Do you want her to control her voice?"I wrote no.Most people wrote yes.I think that this happened because they just want to rebel against something.I doubt any one actually has a probblem with the loud girl.If you have any ideas about what I can get this girl to rebel against.She will also forget about the loud girl. So, it works out for everyone. (link)
shes not rebeling shes a normal bitch. she has low self esteem and is trying to put other people down. and you shouldnt try to give her somrthing new to rebel against cuz thats like in her eyes giving her the ok to spread rumors and all the other bitchy stuff she does. just dont fall into her lies and pathetic attempts to raise herself up.





:)


ok so those mysapce users out there who have or are a myspace layout site. if you can help em find one that has army layouts like camo or something thats really cute can you give it to me? cuz liek i cant find any. lol =D (link)
heres a couple:

.code { Layout Copyright Freeweblayouts.net - No Redistributing }



.r{}
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border-width:2px;
border-color:000000;
border-style:dashed;
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.table, tr, td, li, p, div { font-family:helvetica; color:FFFFFF; font-size:12px; }
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a.navbar:active, a.navbar:visited, a.navbar:link { font-family:helvetica; color:ffffff; font-size:12px; }
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.contactTable
{width:300px !important; height:150px !important;
padding:0px !important;
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hope i helped:)


I am going to break up with my boyfriend soon. We havent gone on a date yet and we've been dating for over 2 weeks. I want to go out with him this weekend and get a date and kiss out of him before I break up with him (he's my first boyfriend.) He isnt really into the relationship either, but I want to make him into it for this date. How can I do this? (link)
just say: hey do you wanna go out to the movies or somthing on friday? its much easier to ak som1 on a date if your already going out with him lol!

hope i helped:)


For our school we have to do a science fair project. I don't know what topic i should do so does anyone have any suggestions? I need to know asap. Thank you thank you thank you!
(link)
lol i just did one. i did: what is the effect of bacterial growth on an object dropped on a surface for different amounts of time?


i took grapes dropped them on the floor for 4 sec, 20 sec, 1 min and swabbed them and plated them and put them in an incubator to see hwat grew. i had realy trouble picking out a topic.


hope i helped :)

psheres some websites:scienceclub.org/kidproj1.html, www.all-science-fair-projects.com


I just got my period today. It sucks because these cramps are killing me and I feel like I want to die. What can I do so the cramps don't hurt as much? I know they sell pills or medicines or something but I don't know where they sell them or what they are called. Any excersizes or something I can eat? The only thing I know about is a heating pad, which I'm already using and it's helping a little bit, but not much. Any help would be appreciated. (link)
midol is a good 1 for cramps. they sell it about anywhere. heating pads wrk great 2!


me and my 2 best firends are doing this thing for christmas where we make a gift and also get a real gift. i know what i am getting them as a real gift but i dont no what to make. i have alot of pictures of the 3 of us so i wanted to do something with them. any one have any good and creative ideas? thanks (link)
buy a plain old non-expensive picture frame and buy the fabric paint that you wuld use for writng on fabric like puff paint. and jewels and other fun stuff like that and decorate them like write BFF'S Forever and stuff like that


hope i helped:)


i am a f/13 well i was just wondering what kind of soap do you use to clean "down there" like regular pink bar soap, or what??
i cant buy that special soap thats made for the vaginal area, but what can i use??? (link)
the 1st person is wrong. you do have to wah down there. just wash the outside not the inside. regular bar soap wrks fine.


:)


I've had the same old style for a good amount of time.
Do you know any stores with good style so i dont look dull and boring like usual? (link)
forever 21 is agood store they have cute clothes for pretty cheap too! thats always a +!!!


hope i helped! :)


ok well this is really random, but i can remember reading this book, or maybe it was a movie, idk, but it was about a girl who lived in an apartment but she wanted to live in the apartment across the street because it had shiny windows but when she went there she saw that her apartment had shiny windows. lol does anyone know what book or movie or whatever is ?
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oooo i remember that book!sry i cnat remember either thx for reminding me tho i'll look!


I have always had a problem trusting people. I always think people are talking about me behind my back and it upsets me alot. If someone gives me a compliment i get mad at them becuase i always think there lieing. When a guy tells me he likes me i dont beleive him I always seem to think its just a joke and that he get dared to tell me that and is trying to embarass me. This problem is really effecting my love life and making friends. How can i become more confident and be comfterable with who i am? PLEASE help . I need some realy good advice. I want to change so bad. (link)
you sound cynical and paranoid. you should learn how to trust people. (i kind of have the same problem) but just trust your friends unless they have a history of lying and being "stabberbackers" (lol) then you should just trust them and i doubt the guys that say they like you are lying.


hope i helped ;)




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