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Last night my step-dad beat me. He's done it before, but last night was the worst it has ever been. I called the police and they came to examine me, but they didn't find any marks. But TODAY my face is REALLY swollen and bruised up. What should I do to make him get in the trouble that he deserves? I can't call CPS because I've already had three cases with all of them with the same problem, but they have all been dropped. I'm tired of being hit and I want him in jail.

god bless you, im sorry this had to happen to you


call the police, or talk the the couselor at school...no offense, but ur dad does need to be in jail, even though i dont know you, u dont deserve it

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13/f
After the break up he seems to look at me alot.. and then ignores me, and then the 3rd day after the breakup he seems happier than i am. Alot of people says that he regrets it, and even my ex said he probably does cause its a guy thing. He aimed me and said that we can still be friends, but when i aimed him back he ignores me. AGAIN. i just found out today that hes 2 faced, and why he broke up wit me..
why?
okay.. well he thought that i was flirting w/ another guy.. when my sister says that shes sorry if i do cause i got it from her.. and thenn i just found out today by his friend.. he could of told me to stop so i could change instead of saying "its over." and he leaves me there wondering why and i try to be friends wit' him but he pushes me away.
i hope he regrets breaking up wit' me.. does he regret it?? if he doesn't, how can you tell.. that he regrets it. Aim:
: what happened?
him: mary
: ?
him: STFU!
: .............
: wthhhh?
PLEASE HELP ME.. ive never been this sad before, and its making me more sad.

hmmm this is a hard one...even though he ignores you, doesnt mean he's not listening to what your saying, just get real serious and ask him what happened and why cant yall be just friends instead of fighting. and straight up ask HIM the real reason he broke up with you. good luck :] if u need anymore help you can always come here

~~~ Jenna

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seriosuly i like to people both the same and i dont no who to pick and they both like me back im sorta getting depressed about it i need adivice

well just kind of think how they would be as a boyfriend like if he would hang out with u? does he make you laugh? is he prude? will u get to see him much? does he lie to his friends about liking you? is he sweet and thoughtful? and all those types of things....im sure itz hard but good luck! hope i helped

~~ Jenna

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What is a program like photoshop that you can download that is free?

you can download a free trial at http://www.adobe.com/downloads/ and there is many many different kinds of photoshops so you can keep a free trial of them for a few months!

~~~ Jenna

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okay i reallylike this guy and he likes me too.thats what hes told me but i dont know what to do because he says he doesnt like me to his friendsw but when hes with me he says he"loves me" and im the "perfect girl for him" and i beloive him but he hasnt asked me out and his not that differnt but hes kinda differnt around his friends...what do i do to get him to ask me out cause he likes me

thanks baby
ily

i think i know hoo this is ;] well if he's like that now, no offense but he might be a real jerk if yall ever go out. i think you just need to ask him why he acts like that because he should be able to tell his friends who he likes. but you have got nothing to lose, i think you need to talk to him and ask him what is going on because you like him...he likes you....whats the hold up?! well i hope yall work things out!

~~~ Jenna

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my dad won't lemme were flip flops 2 school but i really wanna he says i could break my toes what should i do

just tell him that the teachers wouldnt allow flip flops if there was any risk of that and that you will be very careful and if that doesnt work, wear tennis shoes and change into flips flops wen u get there! aha i hope i helped

~~~ Jenna

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there's this really hot football player in my class this year and he looks at me in class alot but there's also this really pretty girl in my class 2 and i think he like her and i really likes him but im really shy and i don't wanna tell him i like him..

ahh oh my gosh same here! right now i am kind of trying to low level flirt with him but not make is too obvious and i would keep stepping up the level of flrting every once in a while and if he give syou any hints back..if u are soo shy then get one of your friends to tell him and what i usually do is get one of my friends to say something like

"heyy you know that ((whatever your name is)) girl in your class? well im her friend, ((whatever her name is)) and i was talking on the phone last night and she told me she liked you but PLEASE dont tell her i said that or she will kill me."

haha and you could also get your friend to add something on like asking him if he likes you. but i am extremely shy wen it comes to telling guys you like them but if u arent very shy, you could always slip a note in his binder of locker, etc. and tell him instead of doing it face to face...im or myspace messaging works too! i hope i helped :]

~~~Jenna

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i don't know how to stick a tapon in and im afraid 2 ask my mom or friends cause i don't wanna look like a loser.

aww you wont look like a loser! my friend called me the night she had to put one in and wasnt embarrased at all. there should be some directions inside or out side the box of tampons that will really help. you could also go to beinggirl.com and that gives you alot of tips but from what my sister has told me it that you can put your leg up on the counter or you can sit on the toilet and stick it in ((all the way or she said it hurts like crap)) and if you have trouble, try using k-y jelly. even though i havent had to do this yet, my friends and my sister has so im pretty educated on this. my sister also said that you should still wear a pantiliner just in case because you never know how heavy your period could be. i hope i helped :]

~~~Jenna

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where could i find very very cheap water bras? i know victoria's secret has them but theyre expensive..

and one more question, do push up bras or water bras make your boobs look bigger?

i went to walmart with my sister like a week ago and she was looking for a bra and they have tons of water bras that were pretty good brands but it was pretty cheap too :] i think i push-up just makes more cleavage and makes "the gurls" perkier and water bras do make your boobs bigger because of the more padding

i hope i helped

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Hello.
My boyfriend recently graduated so I'm going to strip for him when we go on vacation to the beach.
The thing is I don't know which song to stripdance to!
We both like alternative and rock but pop is okay.
I need a song that I can dance to in stilettos, seductive/sultry songs are preferred, but with enough of an update beat to dance to

Thanks!!!

london bridge by fergie or some britney spears song of course!

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well im 13 and wanted to know what are good jobs that higher at that age if any.

wen you turn 14, you can work at chick-fil-a....and of course there is always intern jobs and babysitting :] i hope i helped

~~~ Jenna

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